Gillian Anderson splits with her longtime partner, talks about her “fluid sexuality”

I swear that CB & I got a tip about this months ago. Someone wrote in and told us that Gillian Anderson and her longtime partner, Mark Griffiths, had quietly split up. And now here we are – Us Weekly is confirming the news, and they’re making it sound like the split is recent:

Gillian Anderson is sadly adding longtime love Mark Griffiths to her ex files. “Gillian Anderson and her partner Mark Griffiths have amicably separated after six years together,” a rep for the actress, 43, tells Us Weekly exclusively.

The duo, who never wed, share sons Oscar, 5, and Felix, 3.

The X-Files and House of Mirth actress has been married twice before. She and film art director Clyde Kotz, with whom she shares daughter Piper, 17, divorced in 1997; the star and documentarian Julian Ozanne were married for two years before parting ways in 2006.

Following her role as Miss Havisham in a 2011 PBS miniseries adaptation of Great Expectations, Anderson has a full slate of projects in 2012: the films Mr. Morgan’s Last Love, I’ll Follow You Down and The Curse of the Buxom Strumpet, plus BBC miniseries The Fall.

[From Us Weekly]

I always forget that Gillian is a mom to THREE kids. I probably forget about her because it’s not like she lives in LA, getting pap’d on the regular. She lives in London, and these days she works a lot in British television productions. Considering we got a tip about this months ago, I’d say that Gillian and Mark probably didn’t split up recently – this has probably been in the works for at least this year – I can’t even see that they’ve been photographed together since last year. As for any potential scandals… who knows? Gillian is a beautiful woman, and I could totally see her having a jumpoff.

Meanwhile, Gillian recently clarified some comments she made to Out Magazine earlier this year. Gillian had told Out, “I was in a relationship with a girl for a long time when I was in high school… If I had thought I was 100% gay, would it have been a different experience for me? Would it have been a bigger deal if shame had been attached to it and all those things that become huge life-altering issues for youngsters in that situation? It’s possible that my attitude around it came, on some level, from knowing that I still liked boys.” Gillian clarified in a recent interview:

She has spoken openly about having lesbian flings as a teenager – but it seems Gillian Anderson is less willing to put a label on her “fluid” sexuality. The twice-married mother of three has revealed that the death of an ex-girlfriend has convinced her of the need for a “more nuanced conversation about sexuality and its fluidity”. The 43-year-old first confessed to having had relationships with women earlier this year.

In an interview this week, the X Files star explained: “I decided to talk about it now because someone with whom I was in a relationship a couple of decades ago – a woman – passed away about a year ago. I was talking about her and, in the context of the gentle conversation we were having, I thought I would say that I have had a couple of relationships with women.”

But she added: “I always knew I still liked boys. Being gay was never something that I identified with 100 percent, because I knew that for me it wasn’t the only way. There are so many teenagers confused about their sexuality, and I’ve been aware of the need for being open about fluid sexuality.”

[From The Independent]

Basically, she clarified it the same way CB said – that Gillian probably sees her sexuality as fluid on a continuum in which some people are neither “100% gay” or “100% straight”. Maybe the scandal is that Gillian left her partner for a woman? We should be so lucky. There are lots and lots of X-Files fan-girls who still have biscuit tingles for Scully.

Photos courtesy of WENN.

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  1. Aussie girl says:

    She sounds bi to me. Oh & I think she has aged well. Funny though I haven’t heard of her in a loooong time. What Brit gigs has she been in?? The truth is out there. Lol

    • duchessofhazard says:

      A lot of mini series, iirc. I do know she did a turn in a BBC production of Great Expectationss. She’s also done some stage work over here as well.

    • Lilo says:

      She did a lot of work after the X-Files. She was in The last king of Scotland, did several non-blockbusters, some theatre, mini series and was recently in Johnny English II

    • Garrish Utley says:

      It sounds like she’s switching teams.

  2. lucy2 says:

    That’s sad they split, esp. since they have kids, but hopefully it’s amicable. I always liked her so much on X Files, good to hear she’s doing more work. Sounds like she slowed down her career to take the time for her kids. And she looks really good!

  3. yellowshaba says:

    As a once obsessive xfiles watcher, I never thought much of her, very vanilla everything, but I will say she gets lovelier with age!

  4. truthSF says:

    No, it’s always Scully & Moulder for me. But good for her for knowing what/who she wants.

  5. HappyMom says:

    Her boys are named Oscar and Felix?? Hello Odd Couple?!

  6. original kate says:

    she looks great, and i love her in these BBC miniseries (miss havisham, lady dedlock, etc). and scully is still one of my fave TV characters ever.

    yeah…i’m feeling the love.

  7. princesslizabeth says:

    Her ex looks a bit like Tony Blair in that first photo.

  8. RobN says:

    I get the feeling she’s difficult to live with. She seems to run through a lot of significant relationships and there’s something wrong if your definition of longterm is six years.

  9. Dinah says:

    Sigh- she is still sooooo pretty.

  10. PdxBella says:

    Her Lily Bart in House of Mirth still slays me. She was perfect in that role. Lily Bart is one of my all time favorite fiction characters and Gillian pulled it off brilliantly.

  11. Lilo says:

    That’s sad, I really liked her and Mark together. Hope the kids are alright. Must be tough, her brother just died and shortly after her relationship goes south. All the best to her.

    Anywhoodle, I’d date her in a heartbeat. I always had a girl-crush on her. ever since the X-Files. Love that woman.

  12. Edith says:

    Yes to what pdxbella says here. I’m a longtime Wharton fan and she did right by Lily, esp the second half of the film.

  13. werty says:

    Oh. My. God.
    I HAVE A CHANCE OF GETTING SCULLY!!!

  14. Oya says:

    I know this is not Celebitchy’s fault, but I hate when the media uses terms like “confessed” when they talk about people’s same-sex (non-adulterous) histories: ” The 43-year-old first confessed to having had relationships with women earlier this year.”

    You “confess” to a crime or a sin.

  15. cody says:

    Actually, six years is not a long term relationship to me, but maybe it is in Hollywood years. I guess the third time is not the charm. Looks like she dropped some weight since the X-files days.

  16. Rizzo says:

    I have always loved her since the beginning of the X-Files! But she is a little crazy…

    Also, the names Oscar & Felix crack me up but she swore on Lettermen (I think it was) that she had never heard of the Odd Couple. She’s funny.

  17. lila says:

    Lots of chatter on CDAN about her and Duchovny being together. I always loved Mulder and Scully.

  18. X says:

    She should be with David Duchovny. They are soulmates.

  19. Kate says:

    I was going to say the same thing as Lila, check out the comments on CDAN regarding her relationship with David Duchovny. Apparently her last two kids are his and her partner was a beard there’s a source on there saying her and David have been together since 2006 interesting stuff

  20. Kate says:

    Also Felix rearranged is xfile really weird……

  21. Genevieve says:

    She’s 43!?!?!? How does she look so good?

    I can totally relate to her & how she is with her fluidness. It’s about the soul of the person, not the packaging!

  22. apsutter says:

    Holy hell she is one sexy woman!! Just imagine if she found her own Portia de Rossi…that would be one hell of a power couple!

  23. mk yarwood says:

    I’ll put my bets in for David Duchovny. I think his split from Tea is final now, too. She may be babbling about lying down with ladies, but a lot of women are bisexual. Like, really!