Sometimes I cannot believe the sheer quantity of Tori Spelling news that continues to spill forth about her mess of a marriage to Dean McDermott. A lot of these stories are coming from Star, which makes me wonder if Tori is the sole source on everything that’s been reported. Including the entire cheating scandal.

We last talked about big bad Dean and his sex rehab with the added detail that he pestered Tori for sex all the time and accused her of caring about their kids more. Dean has reportedly been cheating with tons of ladies and dudes. Tori would love to divorce him but can’t afford it. She’s so surprised he cheated on her when they both broke up their previous marriages to be together. And so on.

Here’s the latest from Star, which writes that Tori has considered her situation and wants Dean out of her life. She’s willing to think about reconciliation if Dean gets off his butt and finds a real job, but she would rather puke than have sex with him again. Now that’s more like it:

Tori Spelling’s cheating husband is about to learn the true meaning of the saying, “You can’t go home again.” Since Jan. 23, Dean McDermott has been getting treatment for “health and personal issues.” But while Dean claims, “I’m getting the help I need so I can be the husband and father my family deserves,” Tori has decided that, as far as she’s concerned, Dean’s rehab stay is too little, too late.

After learning the true extent of Dean’s bad behavior, Tori has decided not to let him back into their Encino, Calif., home once he completes his treatment. “She told him that he had better not try to set foot in their house,” says a source close tot he couple.

It may seem like a drastic move, but as Star readers know, Tori has been coping with Dean’s bad behavior for years. While reports of his affair with a 28-year-old woman shocked and humiliated Tori, it wasn’t the first — or the last — time he’s cheated on her. In fact, as Star recently reported, Tori’s deep distrust of Dean prompted her to hire a private investigator, whose findings shocked her even more.

When Dean, 47, entered rehab, Tori was facing fears that he had not only cheated on her many times — with both women and men — but had also been secretly draining their bank accounts in order to pay for his hard-partying lifestyle. “She realizes what a slime ball he truly is,” the source says, adding that while Tori had initially agreed to take him back after rehab, time and distance have given her perspective. “She doesn’t think she’ll ever be able to forgive him,” the source says. “To be honest, she’s also disgusted by the idea of ever having sex with him again.”

According tot he source, Tori would have filed for divorce already if it weren’t for the couple’s four young dhildren: Liam, 6, Stella, 5, Hattie, 2, and Finn, 17 months. For their sake, she’s willing to concider a possible reconcilation — but only if Dean follows her carefully laid-out rules. “Tori has told Dean tha the must stay sober — no alcohol or drugs. And he must join a 12-step program. She’s also told him that he has to go to individual counseling twice a week and they will attend couple’s therapy once a week.”

On a more practical note, Tori has insisted that Dean “get a real job and make a steady income,” the insider says. “She’s tired of him living off her name. Tori “wants him to act like a responsible parent,” the source adds. “She says he needs to be a role model for the kids.”

Tori is also determined to protect her assets in the future. Though Tori ignored friends and family seven years ago when they begged her to get a prenup, Dean’s irresponsible behavior has opened her eyes. “If they do reconcile, Tori plans to make Dean sign a postnuptual agreement,” says another insider. “It wills tate that, if their marriage does end, he won’t get any of her potential inheritance from her mom, Candy.” For now though, a reconcilation is on hold, as Tori gets used to life as a single mom: “It would be hard for her to ever trust Dean again.”

[From Star, print edition, February 24, 2014]

That last paragraph is kind of silly. Why would Dean ever agree to a postnuptual agreement when he could divorce Tori and make some nice money, right? Of course Tori is supposed to be so broke (not), so there might not be much for the taking.

* This weeks’ issue of Life & Style says Tori is shelling out $70,000 per month for Dean’s rehab. Because he can’t keep his pants up, and she’s paying to “fix” that?

* People has a new story from a Tori source who says that she and Dean are “communicating,” and “It seems like she’ll be able to forgive him but I don’t think she will ever forget.” I’ll tell you what. I bet if Tori divorced Dean, Candy Spelling would welcome Tori and the kids with open arms.

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