Gwyneth Paltrow’s ‘quietly converting to Judaism after years following Kabbalah’

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A large part of Gwyneth Paltrow’s appeal, back when she was first becoming “a thing” in the 1990s, was that she seemed like a throwback to the icy blonde WASPs of yesteryear. You could picture her in a wealthy suburban enclave in Connecticut in the 1950s. Or the 1970s. Or the 1990s. Goop has always come across that way – icy, moneyed, not particularly religious. But she’s always talked about how both of her parents affected her – her Jewish father and her Christian mother. Goop has even experimented with Kabbalah on-and-off throughout the years. And now Page Six says that following her split with Chris Martin, Gwyneth is ready to commit herself fully to the Judaism. Mazel tov!

Gwyneth Paltrow is converting to Judaism after her conscious uncoupling with husband Chris Martin, sources tell Page Six. The actress is quietly converting after years following Kabbalah, which originated in Judaism, and being friends with Michael Berg, the co-director of the Kabbalah Centre.

While Paltrow’s rep didn’t respond to numerous requests for comment, her late father was film producer Bruce Paltrow, a Jew, while her mother, Blythe Danner, is a Christian. The “Iron Man” star has previously revealed that she was raised both Jewish and Christian, which “was such a nice way to grow up.”

In 2011, she appeared on NBC’s “Who Do You Think You Are?” which described how her family came from a long line of influential East European rabbis. She had said in a 2006 Guardian interview that her father descended from a Russian rabbinical dynasty. She was quoted as saying, “Like, 17 generations of rabbis — you see, I really am a Jewish princess!”

After appearing on the ancestry show, Paltrow had said that she wants to raise her daughter Apple, 10, and son Moses, 8, in a Jewish environment, even though their father Martin is Christian. She reportedly made the comment to guests of a London event that was hosted by Community Security Trust, a charity that represents Jewish interests.

Last year, while promoting her cookbook “It’s All Good,” she declared herself “the original Jewish mother,” because of how she enjoys cooking for people.

Paltrow told You magazine, “Creating a meal for my family and friends, sitting together, eating, laughing and talking, that’s when I’m happy. Oh my God, if you saw the amount of food that I do. I am the original Jewish mother. I make meals from these new recipes that look, smell and taste like the food I always cooked, but are also super healthy. That is an additional joy.”

[From Page Six]

If that’s what she wants to do, good for her. I’m sure she realizes that there’s more to being Jewish than just feeding people, right? I’m sure she knows. I wonder what the rabbis will think about giving a bar mitzvah to a “Moses Martin” and a bat mitzvah to an “Apple Martin.”

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  1. Kiddo says:

    Pfft. Don’t believe it; the part about her doing some spiritual thing ‘quietly’. Wouldn’t this require an announcement and blog post about her infinite wisdom and blah blah blah?

    • mimif says:

      Ha, good point. And when is she going to quietly convert that brassy blonde hair to a color better suited for her skin tone? That is the real esoteric mystery at hand.

    • mia girl says:

      Yup. And she’d title her blog post
      Matzah Ball Goop

    • mystified says:

      @midnight I think if she tried to brush her hair, it would break off.

    • Chris says:

      This thread completely overtook, in my mind, her latest Goop informative missive (on Jezebel I think): how to make your BED. Not the carpentry bit, the ‘putting on sheets’ bit.
      In micro-detail, like David Foster Wallace, we read each inch of progress towards the last blanket (are duvets French/despised?)…..and wonder how even a civilian like me knows that a bed is unacceptably be-sheeted without neat hospital corners. 😉
      But straight face here: how in the name of god can she expose herself to such ridicule? So, regarding her conversion, she’d be well advised to keep schtum, as she lacks a tone-calibrator, not to mention a Sensayuma..

      • OhMyMy says:

        Too bad she can’t curate/design the perfect Sensayuma to sell on her Goop website for a ridiculous amount of money.

    • Bee says:

      How can Gwyneth Paltrow convert to Judaism? Her father was Jewish and her brother had a frickin BAR MITZVAH ceremony. Reform Judaism already considers her Jewish.

      For future reference:
      Actors of fully Jewish background: -Logan Lerman, Natalie Portman, Joseph Gordon-Levitt, Mila Kunis, Bar Refaeli, James Wolk, Julian Morris, Esti Ginzburg, Kat Dennings, Erin Heatherton, Odeya Rush, Anton Yelchin, Paul Rudd, Scott Mechlowicz, Lizzy Caplan, Emmanuelle Chriqui, Gal Gadot, Robert Kazinsky, Melanie Laurent, Marla Sokoloff, Shiri Appleby, Justin Bartha, Adam Brody, Sarah Michelle Gellar, Gabriel Macht, Halston Sage, Seth Gabel.

      Actors with Jewish mothers and non-Jewish fathers -Jake Gyllenhaal, Dave Franco, Scarlett Johansson, Daniel Radcliffe, Alison Brie, Eva Green, Emmy Rossum, Jennifer Connelly, Eric Dane, Jeremy Jordan, Joel Kinnaman.

      Actors with Jewish fathers and non-Jewish mothers, who themselves were either raised as Jews and/or identify as Jews: -Andrew Garfield, Ezra Miller, Gwyneth Paltrow, Alexa Davalos, Nat Wolff, James Maslow, Ben Foster, Josh Bowman, Nikki Reed, Zac Efron.

      Actors with one Jewish-born parent and one parent who converted to Judaism -Dianna Agron, Sara Paxton (whose father converted, not her mother), Alicia Silverstone, Jamie-Lynn Sigler.

      • Musey says:

        Ben Feldman (Ginsberg from Mad Men) is IIRC also one of the actors with a Jewish father and non-Jewish mother who was raised/identifies as Jewish.

      • sdlove says:

        Also, Rashida Jones-her mother is jewish and she identifies as jewish; Father of course is Quincy Jones.

      • epiphany says:

        Jewish law holds that only if the mother is Jewish are the children Jewish. A few ultra progressive Reform branches – of course the ones celebrities favor – will recognize either parent, but again, that’s not the law. I’m sure Goop knows this, and, assuming this story is true, wants to be recognized as a Jew everywhere, not just in a few very liberal Reform congregations.

  2. Ag says:

    does she realize that kabbalah does not = judaism? haha

    “the original jewish mother” – BLERG.

  3. GoodNamesAllTaken says:

    I love to cook and share food with people I love more than anything. So I guess I’ll change my religion. Oy vey.

  4. Christo says:

    I know that one none of us can look our best all the times, but…jeeeez…this grey onesie is so ghastly. I guess she was going for comfort that day.

    • Chris says:

      Yes……the pix bring back shaming memories of wearing such garments in the 80s. Even the neatest arse looks like a map of Yorkshire.

  5. Candy Love says:

    I’m calling BS until Goop says other wise.

  6. Observer says:

    She needs to stop bleaching and straightening her poor hair into submission, her strands look fried and yellow.
    She had beautiful curly/wavy wooly type hair in a mousy brown color when she was younger and it suited her skintone.

  7. BendyWindy says:

    I’m confused as to what the kids’ names have to do with their possible bar/bat mitzvahs? I’m not going to shade her for this. My spirituality and religious path has been evolving over the years and I feel like I’m being pulled closer and closer to Judaism, myself. I imagine it’s not just a whim for her becoming Jewish if you’re not born into it is much more involved than professing Christianity. More power to her.

    • Esmom says:

      I agree, not sure what there is to shade her about here.

    • Josephine says:

      I agree. Are we really going to rip apart people for their decisions about their religion? Granted, some “religions” are more like cults, and I detest when scummy celebs claim to be religious, but jeez, she’s not doing a thing wrong.

    • GoodNamesAllTaken says:

      Actually, I agree that if she is converting to a different religion and finding herself spirituality, good for her. I just think people are reacting to the sort of lame article about it – like, she enjoys cooking, so she must need to be Jewish. I think that’s what they’re joking about. You have to admit it’s sort of fluffy without any substance or comment from her or any reason for it beides she likes to cook.

    • Bob Loblaw says:

      Well, I don’t know, I just took it as a joke on the unusual name Apple, most Jewish people I know have had more traditional names.

  8. bettyrose says:

    Doesn’t reform Judaism accept the children of Jewish fathers without conversion?

    • pamspam says:

      Not that I’m aware of. My conversion was done with a reform Rabbi, and it was my understanding that there are only two ways to Judaism – Jewish mom or conversion.

      • Sumodo1 says:

        YES, however, Brad Falchuck’s mother is the National President of Hadassah, the huge organization of Jewish women and bastion of Conservative Judaism. Conversion is required of half-Jewish children to join that branch. Reform DOES accept the children of Jewish fathers without conversion. BTW, Conservative Judaism has nothing to do with conservative politics.

      • Jadzia says:

        They sure do. I am Catholic and my ex-husband is Jewish. Our son was bar mitzvahed at a Reform synagogue and I was informed about it later. No mom required.

      • Chris says:

        Where do Apple and Moses stand once GP has converted?
        To judge from the strictures applied to claiming Jewishness mentioned in these comments, since neither parent was Jewish when they were born, presumably they too will need to convert, should they wish to be counted as Jewish. (Moses would surely have a view on *that*, ahem.) Or would GP’s conversion work retrospectively?

    • BendyWindy says:

      Reform does accept patrinlineal Jewish-ness. I think I made that word up. Ha. But the other streams of Judaism do not. If she wanted to be a Conservative Jew, she’d need to convert.

  9. Chris says:

    “Gee Mrs Miller, these matzoh balls are delicious……but isn’t there any other part of a matzoh you can eat?”
    M.M. of course (and probably apocryphal)

  10. T.C. says:

    Cynical me sees this as Goop trying to rebrand herself as the WASPY Jew to appeal to a new fanbase and get more roles.

  11. Luciana says:

    Why aren’t we discussing she is going to star a movie along Julia Roberts? Can you imagine the press tour? Epic!

  12. decloo says:

    Why does she have to “convert” to Judaisim when she’s already half Jewish?

    • Chrissy says:

      You read my mind, Decloo. I was under the impression she already was Jewish. Whatever…..

    • Sumodo1 says:

      …and already Jewish in the eyes of Reform. If she wants to be Conservative/Orthodox/Ultra Orthodox, she would convert. But, that is very lengthy. Conversion takes 6-12 months or even longer, depending on the rabbi.

      • Dani says:

        That’s not 100% true. You can’t convert into Reform. At least, not in any Jewish community I’ve ever heard of.

    • BendyWindy says:

      Traditional Judaism is passed through the mother. Since her father is Jewish, she’d have to convert. Unless she wants to follow Reform Judaism, but that wouldn’t be accepted by Conservative or Othodox Jews and/or Israel.

    • Sammi says:

      Children only inherit their Jewishness through the mother.

    • Gg says:

      Methinks this confirms her and Brad Ful(whatever) are serious, and she’s converting for him.
      So annoying when women coincidentally “get into” things that their significant other is into all of a sudden. I know someone who was dead set on moving to another city for a variety of reasons, once she broke up with the guy and found a new guy close by- she’s settled again. (Eye roll!)

    • L says:

      I thought she was actually raised Jewish-she’s talked about her Bat Mitzvah before, and her brother has talked about his bar mitzvah before.

      Plus she’s a decedent from a very long line of prominent rabbis. Wouldn’t that come into play? It was on the genealogy show she did a few years back https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuPPtMbq4NY

  13. Lydia says:

    She wouldn’t really need to convert. True, some very conservative Jews believe that if your mother is a gentile, you are not a Jew. But most people who have Jewish fathers and gentile mothers can reasonably consider themselves Jewish.

  14. Brionne says:

    This outfit does her ass no favors. It looks wide and flat here

  15. Dani says:

    I would really love it, as a Jew, if celebrities would stop treating Judaism like some sort of fad. It’s not just something you wake up with one day and decide, maybe I’ll convert. How offensive. By Jewish law, you’re only considered Jewish if your mother is Jewish. If your father is Jewish and your mother isn’t, you aren’t Jewish. If your father is a convert, and your mother is not Jewish, you’re not Jewish.

    Conversion is not an easy process and a lot of people get rejected. If you’re going to convert, you can’t just follow the parts of the religion that you like. You have to be a practicing Jew, meaning keeping all holidays, shabbat, kosher, marital laws (covering your head, dressing modestly, sexual beliefs etc), and so on. It’s not an easy feat, even to people born Jewish. You can be ‘reform’ but all of these subcategories of the religion (reform, conservative, frum, orthodox etc) are movements that started within the last 100 years or so. No actual rabbi is okay with people driving to temple (that’s what the reform do), it goes against everything in the allacha. If you convert you have to be orthodox, not reform. There are Jewish born people who choose to be reform later on in life, or are raised non-practicing. I live in one of the biggest Jewish communities in New York and no rabbi will allow you to convert into reform. It IS great that people are interested in the religion but it’s disrespectful to treat it as a hobby.

    • Chris says:

      In fairness to GP, she surely isn’t indulging in faddism in this instance.
      I tread warily here, but many of the aspects of Judaism you cite (and those of the other Abrahamic creeds) give me pause, and I would be tremendously interested to read about GP’s feeling of their call to her…..precisely because she is does seem earnest in her enthusiasms, and so embracing Judaism (or being embraced by it) must offer her a special joy, and one that eludes me with organised religion. I’d love to get a glimpse of her thoughts.
      ( Myself, I was raised as a Catholic, ‘but that was long ago, and in another country, and besides, the wench is dead’, as it were)

    • Sumodo1 says:

      SMH. Why the hard line? “If you convert you have to be orthodox, not reform.” Somebody is trolling.

    • EleanorRigby says:

      Is this someone trolling for Orthodox Judaism on Celebitchy? Wow, this must be a first. Mazel Tov.

    • Bob Loblaw says:

      I would not claim conversion is simple or easy but I know more than one convert and they have done none of the extreme things you’re suggesting and yet are somehow still speaking Hebrew and attending temple. Maybe for you there is only one type of conversion and lifestyle but I don’t think that is true of everyone of your faith.

      • Bridget says:

        Hey, they live in the biggest Jewish Community in New York, they must know everything about Judais

  16. Ben Dover says:

    Is Goopy out shopping for moonshine again?
    She looks as rough as guts.

  17. kri says:

    “See, I’m really a Jewish princess”!! Well, well. As long as you are a princess, that’s what counts for you, eh G? Sorry (nope, not sorry) for the cynicism, but she just……ugh!!!!!!!! Next up on GOOP-gluten free matzoh .

  18. Mitch Buchanan Rocks! says:

    Honey Boo Boo’s mom has better hair & wrinkle care – sorry, Gwp, bag balm really does work better than the Merde de la mer creme.

  19. Ham sandwich says:

    I’m not understanding that onesie she’s wearing. It makes her butt look like my grandma’s butt – long and mushy.

  20. JessSaysNo says:

    I love celeb gossip but I cannot stand stories about peoples religion. I dont care, as I’m not religious and I find the idea of converting religions unnecessary and ridiculous. If you are religion and hold yourself to the stand of that religion but are so willing to convert for a romantic relationship, how strong are your convictions even? If I was a practicing catholic (I’m not, but I was baptized and confirmed as a kid) I would never change that for a man, nor would I expect him to change for me. Why would that even matter? So pointless.

  21. Godwina says:

    I seriously doubt any rabbi will have a problem with the name “Moses.”

  22. Katy says:

    I am a Jewish convert. It is not an easy process. And I converted into Reform Judaism, it absolutely is possible, despite what others may say. Since we have moved to a larger town (Houston), we are part of a conservative congregation and although by “conservative law” I am not Jewish, I am part of the community and counted the same as someone born into it. (And for those who are surprised I count. Yes, they know. I felt obliged to tell them.)
    If she is to convert, I am supportive of her and assume that her reasons are valid and real, rather than some passing fancy. It was, for me, one if the best decisions I’ve made, changing both my perspective and my heart.
    And, I have to rant in response to a few prior comments. I absolutely detest when anyone, Jewish or not, makes broad statements about how Jews think, what we hold true and how we live. We are individuals. We are a community. We are not all the same. And finally, to suggest that I, and others, are not Jewish because we did not have orthodox conversions demeans many years of study, struggle and growth.

  23. Triple Cardinal says:

    An acquaintance of mine from high school is a Reform rabbi with a congregation. He gives instruction for conversion into Reform Judaism.

  24. pk says:

    To each their own, but it sure seems like Goop is never content and always searching for something. Maybe I’m off, but aren’t most of us her age more secure and settled?

  25. Santolina says:

    Like most things Goop “discovers” she either gets the details wrong or manages to offend some demographic or cultural group. Here, she’s equating Judaism with feeding people. It’s a reduction, but we’ll let it go because her heart is in the right place, and more power to her if she wants to identify with her father’s side of the family and support a Jewish charity.

  26. Ciria says:

    I thought she was Jewish. She has spoken before about her Jewish grandparents and her Jewish nose.