By now I think everyone understands that Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber are back together. I don’t even think they’re playing a cat-and-mouse game with the press about it, I think there are a lot of unresolved feelings with their families over their reuniting and they are probably trying to smooth that out before they start walking red carpets together. Just last month, Selena’s mom ran to the press airing probably more than she should have about their relationship. The implication was that her mom has issues with Selena being back with Justin, which I understand. What I didn’t note at the time or since is that we had not had any new Jelena sightings. They went from smooching openly to no photographic evidence of their coupling in a month. And when the photos don’t pop up, the breakup rumors do.
Rest easy, my friends, because Jelena was just spotted together this past week, first attending Justin’s hockey game and then his Hillsong Church. I still have questions about Bieber’s pastor at Hillsong but I have to admit, since his regular attendance there, he has been much more centered and focused on his health (mental and physical). Let’s hope that continues as Selena also needs to focus on her health.
In other Jelena news, Charlie Puth is finally confirming he dated Selena, which I didn’t know we were questioning. I guess there was speculation that the two dated while working on We Don’t Talk Anymore, only they never admitted to it. Now Charlie is telling folks that not only did they date, but Bieber broke them up – and it broke his poor Puth heart.
The only song from Nine Track Mind that Puth says makes the album “bearable” for him is “We Don’t Talk Anymore,” a breathy duet with Selena Gomez. “It’s about a particular moment in my life, when someone very close to me wanted the attention of somebody else. When I found that out and we ended it, I might have done some shady things too, and she might have asked me, ‘How long has this been going on?'” Later, he delves a bit deeper. “I don’t kiss and tell, but the only way a song like that can come across as real is if there’s something else going on behind the scenes,” he says. “And that’s what was happening [with Gomez]. Very short-lived, very small, but very impactful. And it really messed me up. I’m trying to put this the best way possible: It wasn’t like I was the only person on her mind. And I think I knew that going in — what I was getting myself into.”
Puth takes a deep breath and slumps down. “You gather up a bunch of emotion with the life shovel, throw it in the life bucket, mix it up,” he says with a shrug. “And she evoked such good emotion on that song, it was a pleasure working with her. That’s why I’m always happy to sing it, even though it came from a dark point in my life.”
[From Billboard]
This might explain why Charlie shouted out “F-k you, Justin Bieber” in the middle of performing that song during a Dallas. Charlie apologized for that, saying it was a joke and that he’s a huge Bieber fan, but then deleted the apology tweets.
Note by Celebitchy: After Hecate wrote this, the news came out that Selena just got out of two weeks of treatment for depression and anxiety. A source tells E!:
“She had a difficult year, especially towards the end, and she decided she wanted to spend some time focusing on herself. It was all about wellness and her health. She wanted to get back to a healthy place. She feels great.”
I hope that Selena is ok. I wonder why they’re releasing this news, but it does seem related to her mother’s public comments about her and the fact that she’s still with Bieber.
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She kind of looks like Courtney Love w the blonde hair
I was just thinking that.
Came here to say Frances Bean Cobain, but close enough! Totally agree.
YES she looks so much like Frances Bean before she changed her face.
I thought it was a known fact that Charlie and Selena dated. I don’t think Justin and Selena will end well. Too much has happened and I think old issues will come back to haunt them.
She doesn’t look right in the blonde picture. Maybe t’s the clothes or hair, but it’s not good
I’m rooting for Jelena but I think they have too many issues. Both collectively and separately, though lately Justin seems more stable.
….and they called it puppy love
I’m 46 I’ve been married but my true love wasn’t to my ex-husband it was and still is with my 1st love at 22yr and my baby daddy and we tried getting back together recently but it just didnt work to much time passed and to much baggage. Feeling were still there just that our lives were different. Sometimes when u give your heart away you don’t get it back and I gave mine away along time ago. I’m routing for Selena and Justin because I can tell they live each other because they keep coming back to one another but sometime in life you can never back track and which I discovered the as well. I just hope they can come back together on a clean slate and start fresh and then just maybe things will work out. Good luck to them both
Ah i hope they make it #Jelena4Evah ..but good for her to for recognizing that she needs ongoing therapy and treatment. I suspect this girl probably has a lot of #MeToo stories from her time on sets during her younger years
As I was scrolling I saw the teaser photo and though, “Oh, fun. A story about Goldie Hawn!”
And then I was mildly disappointed.
I don’t mind Selena but she has insecure written all over her. She just can’t help it, she seems to need her toxic relationship with Justin. Hasn’t grown up a bit.
I’m getting Britney pre-breakdown vibes from her.
I just don’t see this ending well.
It seems to me that, as much of a douche Bieber is, they really do love each other. I just hope she stays healthy, both phisically and mentally.
Yeah, that’s what I think, too. And I think he’s improving. He’s at least settled down a lot more, and I think he genuinely is someone who WANTS to do better. He might not have an easy time turning things around, but the fact that he is at least trying is a good sign.
I also give her credit for seeking help early. I know they’re all incredibly wealthy – but it doesn’t mean life is automatically easy. For all the things they don’t have to worry about, there are plenty of others they do. I can’t imagine it’s easy having everyone watching you – while struggling with a chronic disease – and having your mother talking to the press.
I am rooting for them, I guess. I hope they both are happy and healthy – and that their relationship benefits them both.
The drama never ends with this girl, though she creates most of it herself! No wonder she and T Swift are such good pals.
I went to high school with Carl Lentz, Beiber’s pastor. He wasn’t religious then, so I was surprised to hear he became pastor to the stars. My husband just read his book out of curiosity, and apparently his communication style is appealing for its frankness and self-deprecation. Not sure how to feel about the money thing….I guess someone who leads an organization of 100’s of staff should earn a chunk of money (regardless of the sector).
This poor girl is withering away at not being relevant anymore. I think she’s got Beiber on a string and tugs the string whenever she needs the attention. They’re heading for VH1 Couples Therapy in a few years, alongside Spiedi and Courtney Stodden.
She’s the most followed celeb on instagram…that is HUGE for this generation. I don’t think she’s going anywhere. Her music is better than ever. I know she just got out of rehab for depression and anxiety. I hope her friends and family are there for her. So many people are depressed and suffering from anxiety now a days…a real epidemic.
I think it’s great that Selena’s open to needing and getting help, but I think she’s going about it wrong. This isn’t the first time she’s enrolled in some treatment programme or another that lasted only a couple of weeks- she’s done this a few times. I wish someone close to her would sit her down and point out to her that 2 weeks isn’t long enough to really help anything. I know she did the 90-day rehab stay back in 2016 (I think), but she’s been in and out of shorter programs for a few years now, and she obviously has some pretty big problems. I say this with great sincerity and sympathy- I’ve been in that place myself, and that’s how I KNOW, that two weeks, no matter how intensive, is just not long enough to help with deep-rooted, ongoing problems.
Why is it called “rehab”? In my country, the term is reserved to substance abuse issues. She’s a mess, sick in love. Seems like Whitney Houston levels of bad love. Hope it ends well.
There have lot of rumors about her having substance abuse issues. She says she goes to “rehab” for depression and anxiety, but there are always whispers that she also has a cocaine addiction.