Neither Jesse James nor Sandra Bullock has issued a statement in regards to the new In Touch cover story that James cheated on Bullock with a tattoo model while his wife was away filming her Oscar-winning role in The Blind Side. Their actions after the scandal broke may speak volumes, though. As we heard yesterday, Bullock has pulled out a scheduled appearance in London this weekend for the premiere of The Blind Side, which has been canceled since she can’t attend. Now People Magazine is reporting that Bullock moved out of her family’s home on Monday. Bullock cares for her five year-old stepdaughter, Sunny, and if she’s leaving home it must be serious:
The actress left the Southern California house she shares with James just days before a report of infidelity by her husband surfaced, a source tells PEOPLE.
Bullock, 45, left on Monday, the source says. Bullock, who won her first Oscar – a Best Actress award – for The Blind Side on March 7, also abruptly canceled a trip to Europe for the London premiere of the film.
Bullock and James, 40, met in 2004 during a tour of the set of the Discovery Channel’s Monster Garage, which James starred in.
The couple married a year later, in July 2005 in a sunset ceremony at a ranch north of Santa Barbara attended by 300 guests.
[From People]
It looks like this is really happening, and that it’s not a case of some fame-seeking model making up a story to earn headlines. Most of us didn’t want to buy this story – it’s In Touch, after all, and James seems like a decent guy who truly loves his wife. He was dating a porn star before he met Sandra, though. There’s more circumstantial evidence that the story has teeth. James deleted his Twitter account sometime this week. Caches of both James’ twitter account and the account of his self-proclaimed mistress, Michelle ‘Bombshell’ McGee, reveal that they were following each other on twitter. The two met on Facebook, according to McGee.
oh well Sandy deserves better
“Sandy, c´mon, it was your fault because you were too busy filming away and you didn´t pay any attention to me and I felt lonely!” -I suppose he would say.
Why when some women work and do great things their men can´t stand it and cheat on them and blame them?
Poor Sandra, everytime she looks at her Oscar she will remember what this Jesse James did 🙁
how embarrassing for Sandra, especially so soon after she was all smiles with him at the Oscars.
I hope she had him sign a pre-nup.
Am really in tears for Sandra now. OMG, its unfair. I wish all these are lies. She is a bubbling woman, she deserves to be happy.
I must say that I am truly, truly shocked. I was thinking there was no way that this could be true…so sad that I do not even know what to think. Didn’t she just go to court with him and battle to win custody of his daughter? How are you going to sleep with that bag-o-trash after your wife stepped up to the plate and stood by your side in a MAJOR way?
Very sad situation.
Many L.A. celebs must be anxiously awaiting news that their “playmates” have sold them out to the tabs.
This makes me so sad for her! She waited so long to get married, takes in his daughter as her own, helps him fight for custody, shares her wealth, only to be rewarded with betrayal.
I have had this happen to so many of my friends and seen it so many times in the news. I swear if my husband ever does this I am going for the ladies. MEN SUCK!!!!!
It’s sad that the joy and accomplishment she felt winning her Oscar will now be forever tainted by her partner’s humiliating betrayal and probably the subsequent demise of their marriage.
omgosh. i still need photo evidence. All i can think about is that poor kid. Man, she needs some consistency in her life – I really, really hope this is crap – if only for her sake.
“If” this really is true, Sandra must be devastated after she just showed the world how much she cares about him in her Oscar speech. SO sad….
@Dorothy:
It´s so funny that you mentioned it! My husband is the most wonderful man in the entire world, and I always tell him that if he betrays me, no way I can trust any other man, so I would go for the ladies too.
Which I think makes him hot, by the way 😀
Old saying where I come from; “you sleep with dogs, you get fleas”
Why are you acting surprised?
Usually the celebrity scandals don’t faze me, but this one really upsets me. They were such a cute mismatched couple. And then there’s the stepdaughter, who’s basically been raised by Sandy since she was a baby. So sad. Also, Jesse is effed. Bullock is like America’s sweetheart. There aren’t too many people who don’t love her, so this is basically everyone in the world vs. Jesse James.
Malorie – My hubby is pretty great too! But maybe we should exchange numbers LOL! 🙂
On Barbara Walters’ Oscar special she asked Sandra what she hoped she’d be doing in ten years. Her answer was something like “still living with the same people”… and only a couple of weeks later, THIS. What an ass. My heart breaks for her.
And women/girls are the ones they used to make wear chastity belts? I could make a fortune making them for MEN!
Cheating on your wife and destroying your marriage is bad enough but I cannot get over what he has also done to his little daughter. Sandra is the only mother that poor child has known for most of her life and her father robbed her of that for what? A roll in the hay with some tattooed strange. It’s not to say that Sandra can’t still be a part of the child’s life but she will just be another part-time visitor when this little girl needs a full-time mom.
I’m still hoping this is some scheme made up by his ex-wife. I feel so bad for Sandra. And for the children involved. She is such a dedicated step-mom.
Ok, this is sad – if it is true – and seems to be. As stated, they were mismatched and it did seem to work, and we all like to see that. However, I would be leary of marrying someone who dated a porn star – some habits are hard to break, ya know!? Love is blind and believes all things, though! She is alot of woman with alot of class and after this passes, she will recover and find someone who is more suitable for her. As for the child, that is truly the saddest aspect of all. As for this coming on the heels of the Oscars, well, says alot about him! What a jerk.
If we judged everyone’s marriage potential by the people they dated before, no one would get married.
By every indication, the two of them had a healthy relationship and Sandy has to be one of the most grounded celebs out there. What hit me, I guess, is that there were no hints of anything. Usually the Enquirer of all places, has some little tidbit about him being seen with someone, etc. Nothing.
Considering the things Sandy has said about Jesse and her family in the last few weeks, it’s painfully obvious she had no clue either.
Jesse, you scum-sucking piece of crap, way to join the dirtbag cheating mens club.
@Bellaluna: There are already chastity belts for men. And some of them even use them, in BDSM games.
@Dorothy: Ours would be a very difficult relationship, as I live in Seville, Spain! Sooo far away! One of us would cheat on the other…
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O.M.G. they were following eachother on TWITTER! That must mean this story is credible…. or maybe she just decided to set the guy up…
or MAYBE I am still in denial
Jesse’s real F-U goes to his daughter who now not only has no access to her real mother but managed to lose her stepmother to his behavior.
I am more concerned by that 5 years old daughter who would be tore apart by what they are going through.
They actually hooked up too soon as far as i am concern. When you have children you have to take them into account by your choices. You don’t date another woman when you just had a baby. Something really fishy here.
By this time they should have make everything to protect that child who was born a little bit before or a little bit after they hooked up together.
I don’t care if the mother is a p0rn star, you just have to make sure that your wife and your infant are ok and stay at home at least a year before dating someone eles soon before or after your wife give you a child. The environment in which that child was born is already tough
And now that little girl will have her world put outside down again because they didn’t protect her by making sure that she will never have to live that again.
That jesse is a real immature and Sandra was too naive and inconsiderate to hook up with a man who just had a baby. You can divorce a wife, you can never divorce a child and they are the first one to suffer because of your choices.
Sandra is so beautiful and funny and just a sweetheart. I can’t believe that she has to deal with this type of thing.
Jesse is a pig!
Jesse James, what have you done man?! Sandra loved you and your daughter SO MUCH and really put all her love into the relationship, and I can’t believe this has happened. ):
That’s OK, Risa. I’m going to live in denial a bit longer with you.
He is a piece of shute he is.. my husband left me and our 2 kids last year for some whore. After a month of doin his thang.. he came home.. I know what she is going through.. Poor Sandy..
what a douchebag he turned out to be. how humiliating for sandra after she gushed about him in her oscar speech. and she’s so dedicated to his children. what a piece of shit. he’s DONE.
My condolences to Sandra for having to deal with this sh*t. Feel bad for his daughter too. 🙁
Also agree with Dee, I hope she had him sign a prenup. He doesn’t deserve to profit from this.
“Caches of both James’ twitter account and the account of his self-proclaimed mistress, Michelle ‘Bombshell’ McGee, reveal that they were following each other on twitter.”
Being the fact that these, as well as texts *cough Tiger cough* are electronic traces, I would say that there must be something to this. It makes me sad, because I loved these two together. I pray for Sandra as well as Sunny. I really hope they can stay close and that Jesse DEEPLY regrets what he has done.
Why, oh why can’t men get it through their heads (both of them) that if they can’t stay faithful, they shouldn’t get married?
I would LOVE to believe that someone set up a fake twitter account in Jesse’s name, and that his ex put this McGee skank up to saying something happened when it really didn’t. However, I doubt Sandra would move out unless she was sure it was fact.
What a first class A-Hole.
I don’t think she thanked him in her Oscar acceptance speech. I wonder if she knew something already. This sucks
He is the stupidest man walking. Did Sandra run off and mess around when Jesse was filming all over the world for his Jesse James is a Dead Man show? Did she jump into bed with someone else when he was laying in the hospital after he was injured doing one of his stupid stunts? I hope he and his little twit end up with the nastiest VD out there and both of their “organs” wind up USELESS for the rest of their lives!
The *woman wins an Oscar curse* has struck again. Moved hella fast this time. I can’t even believe it. I was like the In Touch story was BS I am not even gonna comment but why in the heck is everything pointing to yes. What a total dog if he cheated on sweet Sandy, he needs to rot in hell if he did.
While I hope it somehow isn’t true (maybe Sandy was just leaving their CA home to head back to Austin?), evidence does seem to be mounting.
I remember they lived right near his 1st (non-porn-star) ex-wife and the 2 older kids, just to be more of a family. If this sordid tale is true, I hope Sandy’s still able to be a part of all 3 kids’ lives.
I really feel badly for Sandra, to have everything going so great and then it all just falls apart. I REALLY feel badly for that 5 year old little girl, who possibly just lost the best parent she had. I too hope Sandra is able to maintain a relationship with her and be there for her, but I’d imagine it will be difficult.
**paying with American Express card to send Lorena Bobbit and her scissors to Jesse James bedroom**
It seems evidence is piling up that this is a true story, unfortunately. Other sites quote the tatoo chick’s boss (at adult website SocalGlamourGirls.com, no less) as saying she knew about the affair as it was going on; it wasn’t a secret. Poor Sandra. But, even more, poor little child with her life f-cked up for her father’s lack of decency. At least Sandra is a grown-up, with the ability to leave him. Little kids get the world we provide them with. Sad.
@Sayrah: I noticed the same thing – when Sandy gave her oscar speech, I didn’t hear her actually thank Jesse. I remember thinking at the time that it was interesting but then I just brushed past it because the speech itself was so charming and sweet.
Michael K nailed it:
“Sandra probably got a “courtesy call” over the weekend letting her know that InTouch was about to claim that her husband did illegal sexy times with the 5th runner-up in a Kat Von D look-alike contest at Senor Frog’s.”
LMAO
I feel so bad for Sandra and her innocent little step-daughter. Now Jesse, how you gonna explain this one to your little girl. And what a lesson for her, huh? Daddy’s just like all the rest…NO GOOD! I hope you can live with the choices you make for not only yourself but for your child as well! Thanks Daddy!
A psychologist on a TV program (a real one) said that when the husband cheats with one woman it is worse than with multiple women because if it’s one woman it means that he has formed an emotional bond or a wife replacement.
whereas with multiple women there is no emotional bond beyond raw sexual gratification, and his wife remains his love “the Madonna” of his life.
Is there a difference?
I’m pretty sure that Sunny’s mom was only away for six months, maybe a year at most, that does not constitute raising her. Yes, sandra may of entered her life when she was an infant, but she did not raise her. And with the custody, if she wasn’t sandra Bullock, with all the $$$$ she has, she wouldn’t of gained sole custody.
She got what she deserved.
OK my sister is going to be ALL OVER THIS because she always said “I love Sandra Bullock but THAT Jessie James is a JERK!” Little Sis was right! She wont let her boys buy anything West Coast Chopper or whatev his stupid business is. Sandra deserves better!
I keep checking back like CB has Kaiser hiding in the bushes. UPDATE
I know Sandy has made a point in the past of saying they won’t comment on a tabloid story but C’MON!
I want it to go away as in, duh, she was leaving Monday anyway because XYZ.
Jesse issues statement: I did not screw a forehead tatted wh0re
This time, I’m really hoping it’s just gossip!
As a famous lines goes…
“Why do men cling to such trash?”
Sigh….
I feel bad for Sandra. It’s a hard thing to go through.
I don’t understand why people say it’s so embarrassing. She wasn’t effing around, nor did she know he was doing it. Why is it embarrassing when she is just a victim of infidelity? She is beautiful, successful, and funny and has nothing to be embarrassed about.
Embarrassing is allowing your husband to cheat and then he knocks up his mistress. In my opinion, of course.
Jesse is an unbelieveable asshole to do this to his child. Sandra is like a mother to her (the own childs mum was is prison for 6 months) and admitted to working less to be there for her. How do you make a 5 year old understand all this after they think you’ll be a family forever?
That said Jesse left the childs mom when
she was 7/8 months pregnant and hooked up with Sandra immediately after so it wasn’t a great situation from the start.
Apparently his ex was violent towards him.
@ dee:
how embarrassing for Sandra, especially so soon after she was all smiles with him at the Oscars.
I hope she had him sign a pre-nup.
Why should Sandra be embarrassed by this, if any thing Jesses, Tiger, and all the other disgusting cheating pigs should be embarrassed that we the public know just how little they regard their partners in life, that they have no honor, they are liars, not only that but they cheat with the ugliest women on the planet, because when you go looking for trash, you find it.
It’s time to look at cheating as a character flaw, just like stealing, fraud, being a weak person, who doesn’t think of the spouses nor their kids.
Sunny will again be shuffle around new people and really his mistress is a porn star, Sunny really doesn’t stand a chance at life, there goes her stable life.
The truth is…ALL men cheat,but most of them don’t get caught.
In Greece we say that the only woman that knows where her man is and what he’s doing is a widow!!!
It’s not that they don’t love their wife or girlfriend,they just can’t say no when an oppurtunity appears.Their little head is the one in comand and for the pleasure of sex they are capable of ruining everything.Men don’t think about these things when they cheat.They react like animals following their sexual instincts.They also think they’re smart enough to not get caught.I’m a woman and I know for sure that whoever I’m with,whatever I do someday he’ll cheat on me.I just don’t want to find out!
@Cara Let me sum up your argument: Sandra has money. Sandra has been around since Sunny was an infant. No one gets anything without being rich. Sandra got what she deserved for being a stable figure in this childs life.
You’re hate is showing, love.
cara – I think you are going to get pummeled on here for that comment
Takes the heat off of Jennifer Aniston. Same old story…sorta…..
The shame of it all is if these two celebrities do forgive and reunite… the fans will never accept “the couple” because all their dirty laundry has been exposed by the media, and as we all know….dirty laundry just stinks.
Sandra’s marriage is doomed and she is too beautiful….too smart to spin it.
“It’s not that they don’t love their wife or girlfriend,they just can’t say no when an oppurtunity appears.”
chicoulina, you make a good point, which I’ve seen stated here before.
most men are only as faithful as their options.
(anyone see South Park last night?…)
That’s what iam talking about.
I don’t care the wife pedigree, as long as she didn’t kill someone. A man who leaves his pregnant wife is an a**hole. The one who does it to be with another woman is an ultimate despicable a**hole.
And as for Sandra that was the biggest mistake she did from the get go. You just don’t hook up with a man who has a pregnant wife whatever the woman is. A man who trades the well being of his pregnant wife and future child just to be with you has no shred of decency nor responsability whatsoever.
Then everything afterWwards, like this present affair, related to his lack of responsability and egoism does make sense.
sayrah and sudini – she did thank him. She was talking about her mother and how the way her mother loved her and raised her led her to wonderful things, including “that” (and she pointed to Jesse, who was sort of crying).
It could have been “this,” and I’m paraphrasing the rest because I don’t remember the exact words. But it was very touching and she certainly did include him in her thank you in a very sweet way.
Uh, cara? Sandra didn’t get custody, how could she, she’s not Sunny’s mother? The judge decided Jesse’s home was more stable for Sunny than her biological mother’s (IIRC, she had taken up porn acting again and was dating a fellow pornstar). Jesse went out of his way to keep Sandy out of the actual court proceedings, as much as the press tried to drag her in.
When is it a sin to love your husband’s children? Are you suggesting that she bought his kids? For what reason?
A drug-addicted porn star is NOT a good mother. What kinds of low-life, predatory trash would that mother have had around her daughter? Any judge with a working brain cell would have given sole custody to the dad. Don’t give me the PC bull that porn stars are just people making a living and that they are “normal”. You have to be pretty messed up and have major psychological issues to let ugly strangers f@$# you for a living. Look who that dumb twat got together with after getting out of jail–you think that guy would be a good man to have around your kid?
Gosh I love SB and am so sorry for her. I never liked JJ tho..
This just breaks my heart. It’s evident she considered his children her own, based on her comment in her Oscars speech about finding family in different places.
He’s such an ass. To cheat on her with such a dirty skank. Disgusting.
all things considered, tiger woods’ wife is looking spineless right now. good for you sandra. don’t stay there and wallow in his filth with him.
This is so sucky!
I gotta say, tho, I have a really big problem with the idea that men are incapable of being faithful. There do exsit in this world men would never cheat on their partner
maybe j.j was crying at the oscars, because he knew what a dirty scum bag he was. i feel for these people. to have such a painful thing so highly publicized must be hard.
I love Sandra. I’m so sad for her. This is so awful. I hate that guy for breaking her heart.
Chicoulina, not all men cheat. You really can find someone nice, so hang in there.
@constance. I don’t think there is a difference. I found out my first husband screwed anything with a hole and then he “fell in love” with one of them. it’s horribly painful no matter what they do. I dumped his ass, by the way.
@cara. It’s “have” not “of”. Go back to school. Take an english class.
@Constance: I think the psychologist could be right. If a married man bangs a bunch of whores there is obviously no emotional connection, but if he is having a continuing affair with one woman, there obviously is something going on between them.
Either way, it begs the question of why he can’t keep his damn dick in his drawers in the first place.
@Chicoulina – “The truth is…ALL men cheat,but most of them don’t get caught.”
Shut your mouth. That is NOT true, and you know it. You might as well say “all women are golddiggers” or “all blacks steal” or “all Jews are cheap.”
@David S. – yeah pretty much.
I don’t think most are surprised this happened, they just are sad about it happening to her I guess. I’m not surprised though. I feel that most couples feel they have a committed spouse or partner until the day they find out that they really don’t.
Halle Berry was in a very similar situation as she bounced back fine. Sandra will too.
Chicoulina: I’m sorry for whatever has happened to you. I know it’s easy to be paranoid of such circumstances when it’s happened before, but I can assure you that not all men cheat. You can’t get away with such behavior. Sooner or later, it comes out, like pus in a wound (sorry for that analogy). Keep looking around, and don’t ignore red flags in their behavior. My husband has been obsessed with me since we were children, and I know he’d never cheat on me. You’ll find a good guy if you don’t settle for something less.
I feel bad for Sandra, but at the same time, I don’t see how people delude themselves into thinking that their partners won’t stray when they strayed from their first wives to be with them. That said, she seems like a great person and I hope she makes it through this.
Chicoulina, men are not animals without the capability of foresight and a comprehension of consequences. If they were, I’m pretty sure more of them would be incapable of having a job, driving a car, or having a conversation. If a man doesn’t see a delicious chocolate bar on the shelf at the store and immediately devour it without paying, it suggests he is capable of the inner thought process that tells him, “Hey, if I want that, I’d better take it to the front and pay for it.” Don’t justify cheating by saying men are incapable of decision-making. Infidelity, even one-night infidelity, doesn’t just “happen”. It is the result of a string of bad decisions.
Also, if you think men lack the basic reasoning skills to turn down sex with a stranger in lieu of faithfullness to a wife/partner, how do you explain their ability to plan/reason to keep it from you? Gotcha. 😛
I guess Jesse doesn’t consider his daughter’s well-being to be very important. I am helping my husband raise one of his daughters. I make considerably more than him and put a roof over their heads and he is a wonderful man and sometimes it is tough, but I would never leave him (for selfish reasons anyway) knowing his daughter would suffer. When she lies down at night she has no idea of the financial impact I have on her life and she probably isn’t thinking about how good it is too have a step mom there, but those are the things she needs. I would never put her well-being below my need to screw around or just because I am bored. Also, my husband is very appreciative and is a good man and father, otherwise I wouldn’t be with him. Wish Jesse felt the same way about his own child.
Somebody mentioned yesterday in this blog how he previously was with a porn star and Sandy probably isn’t in too the same kind of sex. Shouldn’t Jesse have known that before he married Sandra though if that is the issue?
The truth is…ALL men cheat,but most of them don’t get caught.
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iI don’t agree with this postulat at all, because if i did, then all women are cheaters too since those men go with women.
I beleive there are good men and women and i beleive that there are cheaters who are women who are more numerous that people think.
Again, cheating is not a man’s thing it’s an individual thing and trust me, some women cheat too, they are however better at hiding it. According a poll i read about 10 % of children are not their father’s and they don’t know it.
It’s just when it’s a man, it’s more advertiserd and also because when a woman cheats people perception is that she had to be suffering from some mistreatment, lack of emotional implication from her man which could explain her seeing someone else. While a man is de facto guilty of such behaviour wether he was mistreated or not, wether he was miserable in his couple or not.
In a woman’s case of affair there is often a suspicious of mistreatment that makes it more acceptable by the general public who is more inclined to hear her excuses.
@Gatsbygal, chicoulina is from Greece. It is true that the European view toward sex is somewhat different than ours in the States. She is stating things from what she sees over there.
I actually do think that JJ loves her. Too bad he couldn’t “keep it to himself.” Sandra Bullock was the best thing that ever happened to him. It sounds as though he’s had a whole lot of self-destructive tendencies throughout his life. Seems to me he works just as hard to tear down the good he builds in his life as he does to build it up in the first place.
Oh, and McGee isn’t a mistress, no matter what she thinks. That implies emotion, and I just don’t see it being there. She was a piece of meat. No more.
“all men cheat” is about as true as the following:
all women are weak and stupid
all children are rude
all Greeks are greasy and fat
all French are drunks
all old ladies are super sweet and kind
See also:
If a woman gets a guy turned on, she must follow through with sex, or be date raped, but then she totally deserved it. (That’s an oldie but goodie, eh? Remember how awesome that one was?)
I don’t think Sandra had a clue- she was public in her thanks and love for him during the entire awards season (and she did thank him in her Oscar speech, but it was through a gesture).
Generally, when the tabloid mags are going to run a story like this they give a courtesy call (to try and get some quotes, or to cover their asses legally) to the subject. I’m sure Sandra’s manager got the call, she talked to Jesse, and then moved out on Monday and waited for the story to come out.
It’s so sad- I really like her!
Yeah, I’m Greek, too–I’m well aware of the justifications and stereotypes that go along with the male-centric/chauvanistic parts of that culture, but that doesn’t mean I buy it.
The “all men cheat” belief has nothing to do with a “European” view of sex. It’s a cop-out for personal responsibility, plain and simple. I’m honest about what I want, need, and expect. Frankly, I don’t care what other people do/what their partners do. I know what I’m comfortable with and what I’m not, and there is no reason why my comfort and relationship terms are less important than my man’s. Period.
Looking back, I now see how Sandra may have known something about the affair prior to making the speech.
Being in public, she couldn’t risk humiliating herself on stage if she spoke about it. What a true actress – she knew that they had fallen out of love many moons ago and shed the tears to convince every one that they still had someting. Those weren’t tears of love for him.
She may have subtly said “I love you..but I love myself more”.
She knew she was taking a chance with Jesse from the start. I am sure she blames herself for giving him a chance to cheat.
The wisest statement made about men came from comedian Chris Rock:
“Men are only as faithful as their options.”
I have read all your comments carefully…I respect all your views.Yes in Europe we probably think about sex and relationships more openly then in the Us.
Of course there is always an exception.Yes there may be some men out there that do not cheat.But they are very few.Most of you are 100% that your husband hasn’t cheated.How are you so sure?Are you with him 24/7?If you asked Sandra Bullock a week ago she would of sweared that there was no way in hell he would do that to her.And the list is very long unfortunately.
Most women don’t have a clue when their man is cheating on them,sometimes they find out after a long time and sometimes they never know.
Of course women cheat too,they’re not angels.And yes lots of men are growing up children that do not have their DNA.Shit happens everwhere and yes there are good and bad examples for everyone but men are a category on their own.That is my personal opinion and you don’t have to agree with me.
Julia:Men are animals about their sexual instincts not everything else.A man may be totally in love with someone but be capable of cheating with a complete stranger or not(without protection) and then returning to his bed with his wife/girlfriend like nothing happened.Maybe even have sex with her on the same night.
A woman will never cheat if she’s crazy in love with someone.
Yes there are exceptions to all the above.
I hope that those of you who are in denial about the cheating thing which have been cheated on will continue to live the fairytale without ever finding out.
Bek:FYI I am absolutely sure lots of men have cheated on me but that’s not the issue.I have brothers and lots of male friends and I know what they’re up to.I have analysed their thinking and their actions and I have come to peace with it.
I have also been the mistress many times without the wife ever finding out so I know what I’m talking about.
I love you PrincessPea. Not in that special girl way, but the way you love someone you have never met but they post something that is really true and basically says it all and also shows that you have possibly taken a course in critical thinking or at least have been blessed with the ability to make a creative and sensible argument without using generalizations, and so you cyberlove them. That way.
I think JJ was crying at the Oscars because he had a burning sensation.
To say all men are cheaters , thats like a drug addict saying, everyone takes drugs
of course trying to justify their own failures they make a statement like that
All Men are not cheaters I have never cheated on any woman I dated, nor of course on my wife. What percentage of men cheat? who knows, depends on the country, age of the man, the upbringing and values, etc but to say all men are cheaters is one of the most ignorant insulting statements I have ever heard
Chicowhatever your name is
@ anonPlus..
“Men are only as faithful as their options.”
I have always said that. The more the choices, the more likely he will stray.
chicoulina – I’m European, I have five brothers and many male friends and trust me, all men do NOT cheat. I actually find your statement about men being incapable of controlling their actions and making choises rather naive to be honest
Aw, thanks lastwordlinda! You’re pretty awesome too.
Yeah, doesn’t matter where you’re from (Greece, America, Nigeria, Saudi Arabia, whatever), good character is universal. If you have someone’s trust, and you’ve entered into a pact where you’ve promised to be faithful (i.e. marriage, or any other monogamous romantic relationship…or hell, ANY relationship in general!) then it’s a low, low move to betray that trust.
If you want to be with multiple partners, get with a bunch of people who think the same way you do. If you want to sleep with cheap tattoo’d sluts, don’t vow to be faithful to a classy lady like Sandra Bullock. Or, at the very (VERY) least, get a divorce before you sleep with these other women – don’t do it behind the back of the person who’s placed so much trust in you, be up-front about it for god’s sake.
All these men recently who’ve been caught cheating, they’re such little boys it makes me sick. No balls, none of ’em.
@Chicoulina: “I have brothers and lots of male friends and I know what they’re up to.I have analysed their thinking and their actions and I have come to peace with it.”
Wow, then you only know shitty people. I feel sorry for you, now. You’ve never actually met a real man with some goddamn dignity and honor.
Love Sandra!
C’ mon cheat? and with this cheap creepy w***e?Efff jurk!
I think that we put celebrities on a pedestal and have the notion that we know them, because we are constantly exposed to them on T.V., movies, etc…
But the reality is that we do not know them at all.
They have Public Relations people that clean up their images and they brand themselves pretty much like a product. ( example Tiger Woods: Family Oriented Athlete). I agree with all the people in this thread that said that they were not surprised with the outcome of Sandy’s and Jessie’s marital problems. I really have a hard time believing that if Sandra Bullock was a emotionally healthy person, she would have hooked up with this disgusting individual. How many of you ladies would hook up with him or introduce him to the family if Jessie was not famous? Now Sandra has had a string of poor choices of past boyfriends: pot smoking-shirtles-bongo playing Matt McConaughey, the Gossling kid that was way too young for her, unavailable George Clooney, well you get the picture. And this does not mean that she is not talented, sweet and a good person, just with issues of her own. And with all this said, NO ONE deserves to be deceived and cheated on. Good luck to her and all involved.
Chicoulina–Yeah, I have male relatives and most of my friends are male, so I’m pretty sure that I also know what I’m talking about. Plus, the psych degree helps a tad.
I feel sorry for your “european” view. Not all men are devoid of empathy or are able to screw strangers without conscience. You know some truly shitty people.
GatsbyGal, I’m with you. Some of my chauvanistic relatives screwed around on their wives. They also demanded soup every night.
Chicoulina – The world you live in must be a really sad place….
snowball – well said.
Wow some of you guys in here are very “sensitive” about faith issues.I wonder why?
It reminds me of “in the closet” gay guys being very touchy about homosexuality!
And why take it so personally?
Congratulations to the faithful ones in here,don’t forget to send me your addresses so I can send you all a big trophy with your name on it!!!
Your man may be faithful now,someday when the oppurtunity arrives “if” it arrives he won’t be anymore.
Mack:A man is faithful because he didn’t have the oppurtunity to cheat,not because he didn’t want to.
Stop lying to yourselves.
I’m sorry for all you guys being in denial.It’s always the quiet ones and it’s always a shock!!It’s better if you don’t find out and stay in denial and in your fairytale world forever!
Jenny:
You may tease my “European” view,but in America I see the cheaters are coming out one by one!
Jenny-Gatsbygal:I dare you to test your man,have a beautiful woman flirt with him to have sex and then we’ll see what happens!Yeah..the first thing he’ll think about is to be faithful to you!!
AnonPlus-Praise St. Angie!:
You rock!!!
Constance:Yes there is a difference.
Chic, last comment:
There is absolutely ZERO scientific evidence for your belief that men are biologically/psychologically incapable of turning down sex. Zero. Both men AND women are capable of higher-level thinking.
However, men AND women also think less readily when aroused and in the moment, which is why BOTH genders are to blame if they find themselves in a situation that has gone far enough to necessitate denying intercourse. Hot girl you work with asks you for drinks? Say no. Sexy dude you used to date wants to catch up over dinner? Say no. Cutie starts flirting with you on facebook? Log off. Lots of this crap is the end result of a string of bad decisions.
I would never cheat on my fiancee, but I also know that I don’t make the best decisions shitfaced drunk. Wanna know how I keep faithful? By not getting shitfaced drunk with hot guys. You don’t have to turn down sex if you aren’t available (generally).
I don’t think your view that men are incapable of turning down sex is “European”, which is why I used quotes. I think it’s misguided. You cannot make global assumptions based on your circle of friends, and your attempt to rationalize away the culpability of these men is offensive.
I believe he was married when little miss perfect took up with him so big suprise. still hate him more than her. hey sandy help janine get back on her feet she was a good mom until you rocked her world. between you two ladies sunny could sill have a great life.