Jesse James’ sister backs up story of childhood abuse, which dad denies

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We last heard from Jesse James’ dad late last month, when Larry James told TMZ that Jesse wasn’t the tough thug he tried to portray and that his only crime was stealing film from a fotomat as a teen. Larry also tried to explain away Jesse’s interest in Nazi memorabilia as if he had no hand in it. He claimed that when Jesse was a child he bought books for him on WWII and the Nazis, but that it was just in response to Jesse’s fascination with the Nazi regime. A “friend” of James was a German Nazi who gave little Jesse a bunch of “literature” that his father passed on to him as a “joke” and claimed to have later destroyed.

In his Nightline interview, Jesse told a sob story about living in fear of his abusive dad, who would regularly go into rages and broke his arm when he was just seven. In response, the older James denies ever beating Jesse. He gave Radar Online an elaborate tale about how Jesse broke his own arm by throwing a tantrum. As for a photo of Jesse with a black eye, his dad claims he also did that to himself.

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In an exclusive interview obtained by RadarOnline.com, Larry explained his version of how Jesse got injured. He alleges that Jesse’s arm was broken by falling off of a fence he had jumped in an attempt to retrieve a ball he had accidentally kicked into a neighbor’s yard.

“Just to show off…he dove over the fence, landed on the ground, and broke his arm,” Larry said. “He neglected to say that I was right there, picked him up, lifted him over the fence and I never let go of him until his hand was in a cast. I even had them cut his shirt off him at the hospital so I didn’t have to let go of his arm.”

Larry even felt guilty for originally making Jesse get the ball. “But I didn’t break his arm, he did it by throwing a tantrum,” Larry added. “I still feel sorry about it. I wish I had just gotten the d–n ball myself. It wasn’t worth my son breaking his arm.”

Larry also addressed a childhood photo shown on Nightline which pictured a young Jesse with a black eye. “We lived in a big house on a hill and had a small race track on the field below us and I had bought him a small minibike,” Larry explained. “He was riding it, he crashed and banged himself up pretty good. He got a black eye, had a couple of cuts on his arm but it was nothing serious. I for sure didn’t blacken his eye.”

Larry does not hold a grudge against his estranged son and hopes for a reconciliation before he passes away. He also feels empathy for Jesse’s situation and infidelity issues, citing his own past with women.

“I am so sorry for what has happened in his life. God knows I’ve made a lot of mistakes, unfortunately most of them has been with women,” Larry added. “I kind of know where he is at right now. I am always there for him…with open arms.”

[From Radar Online]

Kids can get hurt in all sorts of ways, and it’s possible that Jesse is lying about his childhood in order to elicit sympathy. It’s not like he’s proven himself to be trustworthy. I believe him and find his dad really sketchy, though. There are too many minor details he’s including in his stories. That doesn’t make Jesse seem like less of a self absorbed creep to me. If he was abused like that it doesn’t excuse his massive infidelity over 30 years later.

It seems like Jesse’s confession has exposed a rift in his family. His sister backs up his tale of childhood abuse. She told E! Online that it was “completely true” that Jesse was abused and that “I saw it… He did abuse Jesse.” Jesse’s then-stepmother, who was with his father from when Jesse was six but has since divorced him, denies that Larry was abusive. She told TMZ “Larry was the most caring father, the kindest father who would do anything for anybody. He loved Jesse to death and would brag about him all the time.” Jesse’s stepmother says Jesse and his dad had a falling out when Larry turned him in for stealing from the Fotomat when he was 16. Whatever happened between them, Jesse hasn’t spoken to or seen his dad in six years.

Here’s James out in Long Beach, CA yesterday. Credit: Fame Pictures

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  1. bellaluna says:

    Child abuse doesn’t excuse bad behaviour. I know from experience it can be overcome. I also know from experience that medical professionals rarely allow you to hold your child (even an infant) while being x-rayed – unless they need assistance restraining the child.

    Jesse’s dad is a liar, but Jesse is still a jerk. And it sounds like he learned his womanising ways from his father, a la Tiger.

  2. saintdevil says:

    I believe Jesse was abused.
    I also understand that this leads to emotional and relationship problems even decades later.

    However, how you deal with those problems is a choice. He’s fully responsible for all the lying and cheating and hurting.

  3. YT says:

    With his sister stepping up and say she and Jessie do not have contact with their father, their father was abusive, and the father did not marry the stepmother until she and Jessie were teenagers, I am inclined not to believe the father. Abusive parents are good at playing innocent and blaming their children. Besides, the father can make some money by talking to the tabloids.

    It does not excuse Jessie’s bad behavior, but a kid who is constantly yelled at and put down is basically brainwashed into believing they are worthless.

  4. Vibius says:

    If he did abuse his kids that was a BAD example. Pretty much every dad would have pushed their kid to get the ball back. Playing baseball (as a pitcher) growing up I cant even tell you how many times I had to climb those damn 6 foot fences. Broke my lower arm once, but I didnt think it was child abuse.

  5. xxodettexx says:

    i agree with everyone else in that i believe jesse was abused but boo-frakking-hoo… it just does not excuse banging horrid creatures left and right, destroying your family and the ones you claim to love the most

    i was raised under the “spare the rod/spoil the child” theory and managed to turn out just fine…

  6. canadianchick says:

    Ahh the abuse excuse-I know lots of people who were abused who never hurt their spouses as Jesse did. Both he and his dad are dirtbags, and that he’s playing the victim publicly tells me he has a lot more healing and growing up to do. Run, Sandy and Louis, run!

  7. lem says:

    so did he break his arm climbing over the fence or by throwing a tantrum? his dad’s story is sketchy as hell.

  8. Malorie says:

    It´s funny, my father used to say that I had done to myself the things he did to me. How do they ALL come with the same stupid excuse?

    Though, I´m not a cheater or abuser of any kind today. Happily married and thanking everyday for my excellent husband.

  9. flourpot says:

    How do you remember exactly how your kid got a black eye one random day 20 years ago? My kids only 5 but I can’t remember how she got that little scar on her foot. Too many details, right on the money.

  10. DD says:

    just like lem, I’m confused by his father’s version of him breaking his arm. How does falling from a fence retrieving a ball == throwing a tantrum, or did he break his arm twice?Just for giving two different versions of the same incident I deem him a liar.

  11. a says:

    from my experience, one parent tends to cover for the other (due to guilt or shame maybe) and the children just try to get through it and grow up… that whole “apple of my eye” quote from the father seemed a bit much…plus an abuser usually has a knack for explaining his/her way out of things.

  12. ogechi says:

    Cant we leave James along for a second? The hate is becoming too much and it is totally boring at this stage. Ok he cheated on his wife, but he didn’t cheat on me. So why trying to doubt him?

    My mum beat sh-t of me when i was a kid, I hated her and loved my dad more. But I realized few years ago that she was strict to make me better. I love my parents equally now. In Africa your parents beat/punish and equally rob paper on your eyes if u go contrary to their orders. Its strange to me when people from western countries complain about their parents on abuse. I wish it could be so here.

  13. DoMaJoReMc says:

    @ YT: I am in agreement with you….”basically brainwashed into believing they are worthless….”

    I was sexually assaulted by a beloved uncle. I told my Mom, (his older sister) and she never believed me, she died not having believed me. At her funeral ‘the’ uncle asked me if she knew, I told him yes, and he walked away from me and said, “Have a nice life.”

    I felt worthless, and sabotaged every relationship I ever had. EVER. I am with husband #3, and am thankful every day for therapy and a great husband who understands. This is the first relationship I NEVER cheated in. Strange things happen when there is abuse of any kind. I am lucky that I got the help, but not before hurting many nice men in my life. : (

    I hope JJ gets the help he needs, for his life and for his kids.

  14. DD says:

    hey ogechi sometimes the abuse is too severe and goes beyond disciplinary intentions. I too used to get whipped from time to time when I was out of line, I don’t consider myself abused. But I knew some people whose parents would go into a drunken tirade and beat the shit out of their kids. Also breaking your kids arm or giving them a black eye to discipline them is out of line in my opinion.

  15. Lauren says:

    I don’t believe Jesse’s dad…most abusers never admit they have done anything wrong. Adults that were abused as children usually have problems with committed relationships and emotional intimacy. This does not excuse Jesse’s disgusting behavior, or him hurting Sandra & his children.

  16. Morgs says:

    They really are paving a nice road for the two of them to get back together.

    Seriously Sandy?

  17. original kate says:

    i’m tired of people pulling the “i was abused as a child” card to justify their bad behavior. funny how these things never come up until they are convenient. if he was abused than that is terrible and he should get therapy, but it does not excuse the hurt he has caused.

  18. Ken says:

    A person can blame all the shit they want on their parents but at the end of the day they can only hold themselves responsible for their own actions. Makes me puke when people say they learned bad habits from parents then subject themselves to the same damn behavior knowing it was wrong to begin with – its a lame excuse used time and time again. Poor old dad, has to defend himself because his jerkoff son can’t own up to his own shit. Fuck you, Jesse – just own up to the fact you want dirty sex and Sandra is above that. There is an industry based on kinky sex, hookers and porn – either you’re a sexual freak or not. Why try and pretend you’re something you’re not? He’d probably gain more respect if he just embraced his freak side instead of trying to lie about it.

  19. gg says:

    Jesse James is a huge child, it is reflected in his clothes. Lots of people do physical labor in their jobs, and they don’t look like a oversized ten-year-old sk8r boi.

  20. Lucinda says:

    As soon as dad says, “Jesse did it to himself” he loses me. Sister backing up brother confirms for me. Stepmom denying also confirms. She can’t admit she knew it was happening. Then she looks bad. I don’t feel sorry for him though because it doesn’t excuse his behavior.

  21. daisyfly says:

    I was abused by my mother for most of my childhood/adolescence. She tried to kill me twice, and tried to kill my son.

    None of that is an excuse to cheat on my husband.

    Jesse James can suck on a hair moose knuckle.

  22. Morgs says:

    I’m glad you made it out daisyfly.

  23. Deb says:

    Whatever…….he’s 40 yrs old now. Grow up and take responsibility for YOURSELF, ya big whiney baby.

  24. Duh says:

    What parent is gonna admit “Yeah I beat my kid until I broke his arm. Damn proud of myself for that.”

    Shoot my sister won’t even admit that she whacked her son on the butt with her hand when he set the kitchen trash can on fire. Somehow she remembers her and her 5 yr old son sitting down at the kitchen table and discussing why its bad to play with fire and set the trash can on fire over milk and cookies.

    Yeah, right. I’m gonna side with Jesse on this one.

  25. keilani says:

    He’s a disgusting dirt bag. The past doesnt justify his actions.

    He thinks he has an automatic built in excuse for any kind of bad behavior: “I was abused, therefore I have carte blanche to abuse others and everyone should understand and give me a special pass”. NOT!

  26. bombshell says:

    He needs to crawl back underneath that trailer. . . Why did Sandra choose someone so low class? He looks exactly like a white racist biker. The Nazi thing came as no surprise whatsoever.

  27. Stacy says:

    I believe Jesse was abused and I also believe he’s ashamed and truly sorry for what he did. I hope Sandra will give him a second chance. I believe it will take years for him to prove he can be trusted again, but if they’re both committed to a relationship of some sort, even just one for the sake of the children, they may one day be able to be a family again. Love does prevail!