Shock of all shocks, another woman who “dated” Mel Gibson has come forward and told (sold) her story of abuse, at the pure white hands of Mel. The woman’s name is Violet Kowal, and if that sounds familiar, it’s because she was the woman rumored to be having an affair with Mel during the same time that Oksana was pregnant with Lucia. Violet has been described at various times as a porn star, porn director and porn producer. In Touch Weekly identifies her as a “star” so let’s go with that. Anyway, Violet’s story is that she was his mistress for a short time, and everything horrible you’d ever want to think about is probably true in Mel’s case. He’s paranoid, he chain-smokes, he threatens his mistresses, he doesn’t want to wear a condom and he’ll yell at you if you don’t come over and f-ck him when he wants it. UGH.

“Mel was a monster to me too,” Violet Kowal tells In Touch exclusively. “I left town and went into hiding for almost a month.”

In an exclusive interview with In Touch, Mel Gibson’s former mistress, Violet Kowal, claims that Mel was terrifying and threatened her life.

“His threats scared me so badly,” Violet tells In Touch, “I left town and went into hiding for almost a month.” Violet says she met Mel at the Hotel Bel-Air in 2007, when he was still married to his wife, Robyn. Two years later, in July 2009, after Mel was divorced but dating Oksana, Violet claims she got a call from the star.

“I agreed to go visit him at his Malibu compound,” she explains. The two had sex for the first time, though Violet was uneasy.

“He didn’t want to use protection, but I insisted,” she says. “He seemed paranoid and anxious. He chain-smoked before and after we had sex. It was weird.”

Mel’s attorney has said that Violet’s story is an “absurd fabrication.”

Violet and Mel had “passionate” sex six more times, but she claims his dark side was bubbling under the surface.

“He would get very aggressive and angry if I was not available,” she explains, “even yelling and demanding to come to my home when I refused to see him.”

[From In Touch Weekly]

It’s funny to me that Mel’s people are even denying any story about him at this point. You’d think they would just go quiet and go home. I feel for Mel’s team, I really do. It’s gotta suck to work for Mr. Crazypants White Supremacist.

By the way – Violet is Polish. Gee, I wonder what racial slurs he threw her way when she refused to be at his beck and call? It’s no wonder she left town. I buy it.

Also – in regards to the now ongoing domestic violence investigation against Mel, Radar got two “law enforcement specialists” to say what they think is going to happen to Mel, long-term. They pretty much think that if Oksana turns over the tape of Mel admitting he hit her, the investigation will be pretty cut-and-dry. Then there was this quote that made my blood turn cold: “The cops will ask Oksana if it’s true and if she wants to press charges. If she does, Mel would be prosecuted for domestic violence and he would have to defend himself. Until now it’s been a he-said-she-said. Now we’re getting into facts. It doesn’t look good for Mel…His lawyers will do everything they can to suppress the tape. That will take care of the criminal actions but it will get messy before it gets better. The bottom line is that normally when you see violence escalate like this the female is in extreme danger. The fear is what he [Mel] will do if action isn’t taken.” Yep. I think what he’s saying is that Mel is escalating, in violence, in rage, in paranoia, in a complete disregard for anyone but himself.

UPDATE: Radar is also reporting that Mel threatened to kill Oksana and “bury her in the rose garden.” According to Radar’s source (Team Oksana): “Mel made a series of serious and violent threats against Oksana. When things in their relationship started going badly and he made the first threats against her, Oksana decided she needed to protect herself. She made the recordings and on one of them, Mel is heard telling Oksana, ‘I will bury you in the rose garden,’ which she believed to be a clear reference to killing her. Of course it never eventuated, but it reminded Oksana that Mel is a violent, disturbed and unpredictable man.” The tape is now in the possession of an LA judge who is overseeing Mel and Oksana’s custody dispute, and will probably also be heard by the LA County Sheriff’s Dept.

Mel Gibson on October 12, 2009. Credit: WENN.