ITW: Ben Affleck is getting flirty with Rebecca Hall, not Blake Lively

Sept. 8, 2010 - Hollywood, California, U.S. - Director Ben Affleck and actress Rebecca Hall attend the photocall of ''The Town'' during the 67th Venice International Film Festival at Palazzo del Casino in Venice, Italy, on september 8th, 2010. K65734AM. © Red Carpet Pictures

This story from In Touch Weekly is pissing me off. First of all, they start out doing the same photo assumption I did on Ben Affleck and his Town costar Rebecca Hall – while in Venice, Affleck and Hall spent most of the photo calls starring lovingly at each other. It would have been a half-decent tabloid story – “Ben gets too close to costar, Jennifer Garner pissed.” But then ITW pisses all over it, saying, “While Ben has been nothing but a faithful husband, in the past, before he was married, he found love on-set with other costars… Ben has gone out of his way to reassure Jen that he is a committed husband.” Um… I guess they’re forgetting about Ben’s hardcore flirtations with his other costar, Blake Likely? Why does the Affleck-Garner marriage get handled with kid gloves? Any other relationship, the tabloids would be all over it. Personally, I think it’s because Garner’s fanbase is so rabidly enchanted with her being mother and wife of the decade, and they don’t want to acknowledge that Ben cons across a bit skeezy. There’s another detail I wanted to point out, but just read this:

Posing for pictures at the Venice premiere of The Town, Ben Affleck looked into the eyes of the beautiful brunette standing next to him, acting as if there was nowhere else he’d rather be. Yet romantic as the scene was, it raised eyebrows. The woman was not his wife, but his costar, Rebecca Hall.

“They were inseparable,” an insider says. “At the premiere events, they were by each other’s side the whole time.”

According to the insider, Ben had his arm around Rebecca, whom he called “beautiful, engaging, smart.” And to those who are close to Jennifer Garner, their coziness may be part of a troubling pattern.

“Ben can’t help but flirt with beautiful women,” says a friend. “It’s just Ben. He’s a charming guy.”

While Ben has been nothing but a faithful husband, in the past he found love on-set with other costars. Although that would naturally worry anyone, Ben has gone out of his way to reassure Jen that he is a committed husband. He personally booked her a ticket to the Toronto premiere of The Town so they could share this special time together.

Though Ben and Rebecca’s on-and off-screen chemistry sizzles, friends are confident it’s probably only a temporary flirtation.

[From In Touch Weekly, print edition]

“He personally booked her a ticket to the Toronto premiere of The Town so they could share this special time together.” Yeah, right. More like Garner saw the photos of Ben staring adoringly at Rebecca and decided to “surprise” him in Toronto, where she knew both Rebecca AND Blake Lively would be. Personally – and this really is just my opinion – I don’t think Rebecca and Ben have anything going on. I think he and Blake probably did, though. And I really, really wish the tabloids had done a story about the behind-the-scenes drama at the Toronto premiere for The Town. Ben very carefully refused to pose with any woman – no Blake, no Rebecca, not even Jennifer. He looked miserable too – like Garner had just bitched him out. We’ll see.

Director Ben Affleck whispers to actress Rebecca Hall during a press conference to promote the film The Town during the 35th Toronto International Film Festival September 10, 2010. REUTERS/Fred Thornhill (CANADA - Tags: ENTERTAINMENT)

Sept. 8, 2010 - Hollywood, California, U.S. - Director Ben Affleck and actress Rebecca Hall.''The Town'' premiere at THE 67TH VENICE FILM FESTIVAL at Palazzo del Cinema in Venice, Italy 09-08-2010. K66219AM. © Red Carpet Pictures

Actor Ben Affleck (R), director of out-of-competition film The Town , and actress Rebecca Hall pose as they arrive at the Excelsior Palace during the 67th Venice Film Festival September 7, 2010.   REUTERS/Alessandro Bianchi  (ITALY - Tags: ENTERTAINMENT)

VENICE, ITALY - SEPTEMBER 08: Ben Affleck and Rebecca Hall attend the 'The Town' premiere during the 67th Venice Film Festival at the Sala Grande Palazzo Del Cinema on September 8, 2010 in Venice, Italy. (Photo by Vittorio Zunino Celotto/Getty Images)

Heading to lunch together, Blake Lively and Ben Affleck pal around on set right after shooting a sex scene together of their upcoming film, The Town, in Boston, Massachusetts on September 01, 2009. Fame Pictures, Inc

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  1. Vanessa says:

    In the top picture with Rebecca, he is looking at her lips like he wants to nibble on them…

    Has similar look in the photo with Blake lively…

  2. johnny says:

    Let’s see…she’s in his movie and their flying around promoting the movie, plus they’ve become acquainted cause they worked together on the movie. Oh yeah, instant affair. Gimme a break.

  3. Dorothy says:

    Are they holding hands in the top picture??

    I still think he is super cute and I love him in interviews and it makes me sad that he is probably like every other douche bag out there and cheating on his wife!

  4. mln says:

    Tabloids are lazy and they have a narrative they like to follow with certain stars. Jen Garner is supposed to be the perfect wholesome mom. And the pap shots of them constantly looking sour together and Ben looking miserable are supposed to be the perfect family. I think any one with half a brain can see there is more to this story.

  5. jilly says:

    This was the costar he was actually rumored to be screwing around with the entire time. It somehow got lost amid all the rumors about Ben and Blake.

  6. Snarf says:

    There were tons of blind items about Blake and Ben while they were filming The Town.

  7. LondonLady says:

    hall looks embarrassed and uncomfortable. maybe its just one sided, assuming so since hall recently courted criticism for being the home-wrecker in the Mendes breakup.

  8. johnny says:

    Oh, this is the girl that was in Vicky Christina and Barcelona. She was great in that movie. She’s pretty and there is something charming about her.

  9. Marjalane says:

    Well, duh. This guy has never heard of a poker face has he? Or maybe, that’s his “poke her face”. I know, bad.

    He may not be banging these women, but he wants too. Compare his attitude and body language to what he shows his nasty, icy wife and do the math. It’s no wonder their publicists keep coming out with “happy marriage” stories.

  10. CiCi says:

    eh. i’m a married woman of 12 yrs. if you took a split second pic of me with another guy i see at work or at the store, you’d probably see me smiling broader than when i’m out with my husband and kids too. it’d all be superficial though. there’s no need for pretense with my family; with aquaintances you have to coddle them, or they start making judgment.

  11. Kitten says:

    Well they definitely have chemistry in The Town. I don’t think he’s cheating though. Or maybe it’s just that I really really hope he’s not cheating.

  12. lo says:

    I’m going to be a voice of dissent and say he’s not cheating. Ben worked really hard to rehabilitate his reputation. I don’t think he’d throw it away that quickly. And he was never a cheater before – he’s had many vices but that wasn’t one of them.

    He’s certainly flirtatious with Blake and Rebecca but it doesn’t mean it crossed the line. He doesn’t look thrilled with Jennifer all the time (who is with their spouse) but when he does, people accuse them of playing to the cameras. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t.

    I hope the publicity for the Town ends soon because I’m tired of this story.

  13. debbie says:

    Seriously…who would want to be married to Ben Who-fleck? He is a serial cheater! If we THINK he cheated with them all…he CHEATED with them all! I feel bad for his wife and daughters! He’s a DOG!

  14. Sway says:

    If I was his wife /God forbid!/ I would be super pissed just by the LOOK in his eyes when he looks at these women – and I am so not the jealous type too…

  15. jilly says:

    Ben and Rebecca are hitting up Dublin together too. Just sayin’.

  16. Fluffy Kitten Tail says:

    I don’t care what those women do, as long as they keep their mitts off my Hamm.

  17. Cam says:

    I don’t know if it is because I DON’T WANT to believe he’s a cheater or what, but I just don’t buy it. Maybe he’s cheating, maybe he’s not… but we can’t build an opinion based on photos. I think he and his wife are just fine (or at least I HOPE SO).

  18. serena says:

    Ben, keep your act together or Jennifer will beat you to a pulp.

  19. Lee says:

    Ben Affleck told Time that the scene was “very depressing…She’s the ex girlfriend, and we sort of keep falling back in it. The one you keep trying to get away from but can’t quite and we are really bad for one another.”

    – I swear he based both girlfriend parts on his exes (who I don’t know) but Rebecca Hall may be based on Garner and Blake Lively’s I don’t know who.

  20. Leticia says:

    I hope that he is faithful to his wife and that their marriage lasts. But I have to say, that Jennifer Garner seems like a wonderful person, but really really boring. She should turn the tables on him, and start publicly humiliating him by staring longingly at any attractive male standing by her side. Give him a dose of his own medicine. She was sexy back in her Alias days, she needs to bring that back.

  21. Stronzilla says:

    He looks like a hoser.

  22. flourpot says:

    Nasty and Icy wife? Haven’t heard her described that way before….

  23. Kitten says:

    @19– “I swear he based both girlfriend parts on his exes (who I don’t know) but Rebecca Hall may be based on Garner and Blake Lively’s I don’t know who.”

    Um, you realize that The Town is based on the book “Prince of Thieves” by Chuck Hogan right? I don’t think Chuck Hogan was basing the characters on Affleck’s personal relationships when he penned the novel in 2004……

  24. maj says:

    ” Ben Affleck getting flirty with REbecca Hlla e not with Blake Livey”

    What can i say? If this is thrue i would just say:” go man, you show good taste!

  25. Bodhi says:

    I don’t buy him as a cheater either.

  26. Hautie says:

    I suspect Affleck would have never married Garner had she not gotten pregnant.

    Affleck had just been demolished career wise, by the relationship with Lopez. He could not take another beating in the tabloids by refusing to marry a pregnant girl, he had been dating for around than 6 months.

    A girl who knew this all too well.

    I truly suspect had there been no pregnancy, he would still be single.

    And when the tabloids were saying the marriage was on the rocks. Affleck was looking miserable. She got pregnant again.

  27. Taurus says:

    Don’t know if he cheated but his wife looks boring and dull. Sad to say, men are highly visual and have short attention spans. I could see him getting giddy around these two women. Neither one of them are drop dead but they’re not wearing baggy jeans, sneakers, and fleece pullovers either. step it up Jen! At least get rid of the ponytail and put on a little make-up.

  28. DH says:

    I doubt he did anything, but Im sure he wished he could. In an interview he did with Renner for Oprah, before the Oscars, I remember him warning Jeremy not to have kids and settle down til he was ready. Ironic that the most Ive heard him talk about his family was about how he is wrong all the time and low on the todem pole. You know Ben liked to feel like he is number 1..

  29. DH says:

    Im sure hes not, but dang, it does look like hes holding her hand or thumb in the first pic.

  30. guesty says:

    ‘he so horny’…lol. he really needs to move on from jen.

  31. Sumodo1 says:

    His “family” outings seem so staged, and with these chicks, he looks natural and relaxed.

    Look for reports of a split with Garner after this movie goes to DVD.

  32. Jello says:

    Well Ben has always been extremely protective of his private life since the whole J.Lo fiasco. It could be, when the paps snap him and his wife together he’s just uncomfortable, but when promoting his film, (which looks great), he relaxes. Seriously, you could concoct any story you want about two people based on photos that capture a split second of reality.

  33. whoknows says:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w1Vx0hw5dac

    2:18 sec…he seems pretty genuine and sweet!
    But who knows what’s happening in their house…nobody except them!

  34. danielle says:

    He looked at Garner like that during Daredevil – never seem him look that happy with her since.

  35. Sam says:

    He said some really nice things about his family on Ellen this week too.

  36. hgf says:

    cheater

  37. LindaR says:

    I think the reason the tabs are not all over this all the time is because he could sue them because he isn’t cheating unlike other stories about other people who have too many skeletons in their closets to be suing anyone. He is flirting for sure, but not cheating. At least not yet.

  38. Ally says:

    Gosh, I hope these photos do capture flirting, and not young actresses humoring their skeezy director/costar.

    The last time Affleck cheated, it was with a stripper, so I don’t think Lively or Hall are his type, let alone the type who would be interested in him.

    Anyway, who would give a second’s thought to an Affleck with the Hamm within 100-mile radius?

  39. RR says:

    the only thing I think is funny is the picture with Blake at the bottom– that’s gotta be his sweatshirt. It’s too big (look at the arms) and worn in, and it’s a Red Socks one– not Blake’s style. His.

    To me, her wearing his sweatshirt and his body language in the picture kinda is all that needs to be said.

  40. funnygirl says:

    Ben is a player. Pure and simple. He’s the guy you have a fling with in college, not the guy you marry. Jennifer Garner prob thought she could “change him”-she should’ve married Michael Vartan who seemed soo nice. But ohh no, she went for the bad boy! Sigh. Didn’t Gwyneth Paltrow say Ben’s perfect woman was a stripper with two beers?? Hmm… Ladies, you have been warned!

  41. Madison says:

    I always got the impression Ben married Jennifer Garner more out of circumstance than anything else. Ben rushed into marriage because Jen Garner was pregnant and he was going to be father, it was never going to work because of Ben‘s lack of commitment to Jen and being married, that and Ben never looking excited or smitten by Jennifer Garner the way he does when he’s with Blake Lively or Rebecca Hall.

  42. Cinderella says:

    I think Rebecca is just the red herring. I think Ben was/is boning Blake, but he’s having to lay low for now.

  43. Darlene says:

    Wow, so many of you show your total dislike for Ben Affleck in your comments and a little dislike for his wife as well. You should think about what your idle gossip is really during for the reputation of two perfectLY innocent women (not to mention a married man with children). People have been sued for less and your comments have no basis for facts considering they are formed merely from snippets of photos taken during the promotion and/or filming of a movie. They are all actors during their jobs and probably (if the real truth was revealed) not only can’t stand each other but in fact fucking hate other.

    I would call foul and say shame on you except I know this is only idle gossip and therefore done out of boredom and little else.

    Just another spin on the story. DAMN, I’M GOOD!

  44. Chris says:

    This is self sabotage rearing its ugly head, Ben. Your directing talents have saved your creditability from the disaster that was your acting career, thanks to the stability of married life, and now you’re looking to throw it all away because you’re listening to your dick instead of your head and your heart. Why Ben? Why?

  45. Bee says:

    @kitten I agree they have great chemistry in The Town. Which was fantastic by the way. Everyone should go see it. Ben seems to have chemistry with all of his leading ladies. Kate Beckinsale was swooning over him after they did Pearl Harbor. I’m willing to bet he’s faithful to Jen. But, he obviously still loves the ladies, and the ladies love him.

  46. Daniella says:

    Rebecca and Jennifer have known one another for a long time, so I doubt this very much. He is a personable and charming guy…so what? …he’s screwing everyone?
    What a dumb attempt again for people to crap all over their marriage.

  47. DiMi says:

    I don’t know what’s going on, but a. Affleck and Rebecca Hall look more like a couple than he and Jennifer Garner ever do; he actually looks miserable when he’s with Garner and b. It seems to me that he may have been publicly flirting with Blake Lively to deflect attention away from whatever’s going on with Rebecca Hall, which would explain why he was so shameless about it and c. Remember, this guy is an addict – he has been addicted to gambling, alcohol, cigarettes – which often is correlated with compulsive sexual behavior and cheating. Remember, that compulsive behavior doesn’t just disappear without a lot of hard work. I wouldn’t be surprised to hear he is having an affair.

  48. fluff ass says:

    why can’t men just be devoted and faithful?

  49. Syd says:

    I am such a big fan of Jen…However I can even sense that there is sth wrong…I hope he isnt as much of a douchebag to be cheating on Jen who is like 100 per cent more beautiful than both of them!