For yesterday’s appearance in NYC on behalf of Macy’s Material Girl line, it seems that Madonna allowed her daughter Lola to do press. While Madge stood right beside her. And Lola couldn’t get enough of it, talking and expressing her 13 year old opinions, which of course, she thinks are epic and important and, like, no one has ever thought this way before. I mean, we were all like that. But we weren’t all talking to the press at that age. Anyway, I just thought I’d give you some of the gems from Madge and Lola’s magical red carpet appearance – note this: Madge actually talks about how Lola can’t do anything fun, like dye her hair or go out with boys. Mah-OOOOM!!!!!

She may have been wild in her younger years, but now, Madonna is a no-nonsense mother of four — with super-strict guidelines for her eldest daughter, 13-year-old Lourdes “Lola” Leon.

The Material Mom exclusively tells In Touch that Lola can’t dye her raven locks until she’s 14 — and that dating is out of the question for the high school freshman. “No!” Lola answered when asked if she has boyfriends — as Madonna shook her head and grimaced in disgust — at the launch of their juniors clothing line, Material Girl, at Macy’s in New York.

Despite the rules, the mother/daughter pair is close, even holding hands as they posed on the pink carpet at the event.

“I think she’s doing a really good job!” Lola told In Touch when asked about her mother’s parenting skills. Madonna admitted that raising a down-to-earth daughter in the public eye isn’t easy.

“It does require a lot of time and effort and paying attention,” she told In Touch.

Madonna’s first born doesn’t have any blonde ambitions! At Wednesday’s Material Girl Collection launch at Macy’s in NYC, Lourdes Leon Ciccone told UsMagazine.com that she’s “allowed” to start dyeing her hair when she turns 14 next month — but the natural brunette’s not interested in her mother’s most famous hue.

“I wouldn’t go blonde,” Lourdes told reporters. “I’d like to do a darker color — a really dark, dark red.”

Although she’s granted Lourdes permission, Madonna, 52, isn’t thrilled about her eldest’s upcoming experiments with hair color. “Once you start dyeing your hair that’s it,” the singer (who should know!) said. “You have to keep dyeing it.”

Another milestone for Lourdes: She just started attending New York’s LaGuardia High School. “I love it!” Lourdes told Us. “It’s amazing!”\

The famous mom and daughter collaborated on the Material Girl line. “She has a very good sense of what works and what doesn’t,” Madonna said. “She has really great sense of style. She pretty much ran all of the meetings while I was doing other things!”

“Lola did most of the work. I just kind of hung out in the background and went, ‘That’s nice,’ but she pretty much did all of the work. I was just overseeing it,” she said.

“There are some definite pieces [inspired by my mom]. The tulle skirt because that’s like her thing—she made that. The necklaces, the gloves, the lace tights, the combat boots…that tough girly thing,” Lourdes told PEOPLE.

As for the items in Mom’s closet that she covets most? “All of her shoes are ridiculous! I love to try on her [Christian] Louboutins,” she said.

Also on hand for the celebration was Material Girl face Taylor Momsen. “It was such an honor to be chosen by Madonna and Lola. They’re such talented people and I’m just ecstatic,” gushed the Gossip Girl star. The night concluded with the three ladies gathering on the fourth floor of Macy’s, as dancers performed and a DJ spun many of Madonna’s songs.

“Lola has been so inspiring and it’s been so great to watch her focus, her determination.” Madonna said. “I’ve achieved many things in my life, but I have to say watching my daughter make her dreams come true and achieve her goals is more exciting than anything I’ve ever done.”

[From People, Us Weekly and In Touch Weekly]

Aw… Madonna and Lola actually seem really sweet together. Like they’re really tight and Madonna is strict but she wants Lola to be herself and find herself. Don’t believe me? Watch this video of the two of them:

Lola seems WAY, like, totally OLD-er than her, like, 13 years or, like, whatever, but she still, like, talks like a kid, you know? But they’re adorable together. Of course part of it is that Madge still thinks she’s Lola’s age. But the other part of it is that she doesn’t want to embarrass Lola in any way, and she’s trying so hard to be cool for her daughter. There’s a lot of analyze, so just enjoy.