Sister Wives family gets top lawyer to defend them in polygamy investigation

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It looks like the felony bigamy investigation against the “Sister Wives” reality show family is moving forward. Kody Brown, the family patriarch, has four wives, 13 biological children and 3 step-children. Three of the wives, Kody, and their biological children live in one home in separate connected apartments. The fourth wife has a separate home with her kids at this point but an addition is being built to accommodate them. Bigamy is technically a felony under Utah law, where the Browns live, although Kody is only legally married to one of his four wives. After announcing an investigation last week, the local police department has turned over the case to the county. The Browns, who say they hope to increase acceptance of polygamy through their show, plan to fight the charges and have hired a top lawyer.

Kody Brown and wives have a powerful new legal force behind them — TMZ has learned … constitutional law guru Jonathan Turley is now representing the “Sister Wives” family in the polygamy investigation, and he’s willing to fight it all the way.

Turley — a professor at The George Washington University Law School — tells TMZ he is ready, willing and able to sit down with the Utah County Attorney and make a case why his clients should not be prosecuted.

Turley says absent some proof that the family is engaged in child abuse or other crimes, Utah prosecutors almost never prosecute for polygamy. Turley is quick to note there is absolutely no evidence of child abuse or other crimes in the Brown family.

Turley points out … although Utah prosecutors have a lot of discretion in deciding when to prosecute someone, people can’t be hauled into the criminal justice system simply because they’ve gone on TV and become high profile. In legalese, it’s called “selective prosecution” … and it’s illegal.

Turley says his goal is to convince prosecutors to leave the Brown family alone. But he says if his clients are prosecuted, he’ll fight it hard. Turley would not say outright that he’ll make this a test case and push it all the way to the U.S. Supreme Court, but he made it clear … he will do everything it takes to clear his clients if they’re prosecuted.

[From TMZ]

Many of you have pointed out that the Browns are in no way representative of the very oppressive, harsh reality of polygamy under Fundamentalist Mormonism and that they’re doing a grave disservice to its victims (women, children and adolescent boys) by putting such a rosy face on the practice. Let me play devil’s advocate for a moment, though. (And again I’m playing devil’s advocate and definitely see the other side to this.) If that’s the case, and they don’t have much in common with the compounds where girls are married off to relatives at young ages (and they don’t, they’ve said they want their daughters to go to college and marry for love) why prosecute them? Yes they’ve chosen to put themselves out there, but there’s a big difference between not agreeing with what they’re doing and prosecuting them for a law that is almost never enforced in cases like this.

The wives seem to have entered into this agreement under their own free will, and to be willingly staying in it. They tout the benefits of having “Sister Wives” and they all sound happy with the arrangement. We may think they’re fools and that it’s wrong for them to try and make polygamy seem so palatable, but maybe that’s how it is for them. If they’re the very extreme exception in polygamy there is the danger that by going public they’re making an antiquated, illegal practice seem legitimate. Don’t prosecute these people for that, just go after the homes where women and children are genuinely at risk. That won’t get much publicity, though, just as documentaries on the oppression of polygamy don’t get as much press coverage as a cute reality show family.

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  1. mary jane says:

    I watched a bit of it last night and I don’t think wife #1 is coping with addition of fourth wife who, btw, is very attractive and sweet. I think #1 (forgot her name) feels old, outnumbered and dull.

    I felt bad for her. I don’t think she’s going to live like this forever.

  2. DelBocaVista says:

    I havent’s seen the show so I have to ask; where does he get the money to support such a family? I’m assuming the women don’t work outside the home.

  3. D says:

    He is in sales. Two of the wives work outside the home. The potential fourth wife (as of the second episode) had just moved closer to the Browns and was seeking employment.

  4. Jess says:

    He SO looks like Donal Logue.
    http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0006610/

    Good luck with all the wives, dude.

  5. DelBocaVista says:

    Thanks D.

    Also, isn’t the same wife that suggested he hook up w/ wife #4 the same one that’s getting all jealous now?
    Mari or something? It doesn’t make sense but that’s what I’ve gathered from the commercials and internet posts.

    Sorry about all the questions.

  6. Johnny Depp's Girl says:

    He looks completely miserable sometimes! I say leave em alone. If they arent hurting anyone and everyone is safe and happy, whatever!

    I, myself, would never get into a lifestyle like this but in the case of this family, it looks like all parties “chose” to live like this.

  7. Lynda says:

    @Mary Jane: I agree with you. The first wife appears unhappy, but they all are saying that because they have been married for so long together, that an addition will take some shifting about. I feel for her though, just because she appears so…I don’t know what.

  8. fabgrrl says:

    How is this living arrangement different than The Girls Next Door? Besides the kids, of course.

  9. c says:

    I understand both sides…however…shouldn’t the law be enforced for everyone because of the awful things that go on? There’s no way the sects that practice polygamy are legally married to more than one either. In that case they aren’t technically able to be prosecuted for that…they go after the abuse for sure.

  10. Caprice says:

    fabgrrl, I was wondering the same thing. He is officially married to one of the women and the rest of them are basically girlfriends that live in the house. The only difference is that he calls the girlfriends his wives.

    I don’t think this situation really falls under bigamy. Its just a group of women and their children that live with a married couple and the husband has sex with all the women.

    Unless, they have had ceremonies under a church for each woman they add I don’t think this is bigamy.

  11. lola says:

    Bigomy is typically listed as a crime in most states.

    That being said, so long as he has only one marriage certificate there shouldn’t be an issue – what remains is merely a lifestyle choice and nobody’s business.

    However, call it what it is: Me, My Wife, and my 3 Girlfriends. Cause those last three- they are not wives, they are life partners.

    And that’s not a problem. But if they were legally married – yea, people that’s a CRIME you know. Just because you consent doesn’t make it not a crime. That’s like saying “oh i consent to do cocaine. So its not criminal.”

    Moral weight makes no difference. If they can prosecute you for it, it’s a law.

    Incidentally lifestyling advocates- the mormans who back this practice are the same folks who brought you prop 8. So maybe if we’re opening up this conversation we should acknowledge that EVERYONE has the right to define their own marriage.

    Not ready for that one? then don’t say these people should be left on their own to define what marriage means to them either. You cannot have it both ways. “A” man, “A” woman, equality and free choice, or STFU. Those are th options.

  12. Peachy says:

    Why do these women feel that they do not deserve their own partner? Maybe they have traumatic histories or no backbone(doormat syndrome)? They are all consenting adults so it their choice, but sadly the children are learning both physically and emotionally from their environment, and likely to imitate it. Personally, I would never want to share my husband. It would keep me in a perpetual state of competitiveness, lowered self-esteem, and self loathing. But hey, I might lose some weight!

  13. pshhh says:

    Even if most people would prefer not to live this way, there is no reason that those who do should be punished. They choose and want this lifestyle, and can leave it if they don’t!

    I’ve heard polygamy horror stories, but this is obviously a family who is in it by choice. And only one of the marriages is legal so leave them alone and let them live their lives!

    There is a polygamist family who lives by me and they always look like they’re trying to hide… its so sad 🙁 they shouldn’t have to. Live and let live people

  14. telesma says:

    If he hasn’t tried to marry the other ones legally and is only legally married to the first one, I’m not sure any laws have been broken. If that’s so, I don’t think he can be charged with anything, though social services might be interested in children growing up in that environment.

    As for their way of life…I don’t really care about how consenting adults choose to live. I only care when there are minors, abuse, or coercion of any kind involved. In this case, I’d be interested in how the children are faring in this lifestyle, psychologically more than anything.

  15. gillie says:

    there was a case of a polygamist who went on tv and bragged about being a polygamist in the early 90s. and just for that one reason, the DA opened an investigation and they brought him to trial. i think his name was green. not sure. he was convicted and spent time in prison for bigamy.

  16. Meg says:

    YAY LOLA!! Tell it girl…

  17. Bella Mosley says:

    Surely Utah has something better to do with their tax dollars, police force, DA, etc. than prosecute these people. If not, then they should lower their taxes.
    I don’t agree with what they are doing but they are all adults and are not on welfare. Yay!

    PS: And at least all the wives know and help each other. It isn’t like he haas a secret wife or is having an affair. It is all out in the open. Give it up Utah – move on.

  18. maggiegrace says:

    Prolly not illegal, since there’s only one marriage certificate. But the lifestyle seems SO bizarre to me. As someone upthread said, why would a woman consent to this? You don’t really have 1/3 (or 1/4) of the work, you have 1/3 of a husband and 1/3 of the family’s resources. That’s not very appealing to me.

  19. Raven says:

    What they are doing can’t be prosecuted so the state has to go after them for actual crimes like welfare fraud. My concern about families like this is the self esteem of the little girls growing up this way. They will not understand that they have choices and will feel lesser. The way most of these women are controlled in most bigamous marriages is to limit the education. These girls are about as likely to attend college as the Duggar girls. The difference is that in bigamist enclaves, the boys don’t have it too well either. The men are too threatened that a 15 year-old boy will want a relationship with the man’s 15-year old wife and be much more appealing.

    And Lola, wake up. Gay marriage is a choice. In real bigamous homes, those women are married off as children, raped by ugly adult men and essentially kept as slaves. Do you know nothing about the system? To equate this with gay marriage is about as fair and balanced as Fox News.

  20. onesassytart says:

    This man supports these women/children by whoring them out to a reality show, and now he’s being busted for circumventing the laws in the State that he chose to live? boo hoo buddy.

    i’ve got no time for people who create their own problems, put these problems on tv, and then cry about it.

  21. bluhare says:

    Yeah, and he’s supposedly doing this to put a good light on polygamy. Uh huh. He’s doing it for cold hard cash, pure and simple.

    Haven’t watched it, and don’t plan to. I think the whole reality genre is getting to the point of ridiculousness.

  22. skibunny says:

    This whole scene is so messed up. Looks like a whole lotta low self esteem going on in that house. They appear to be eating well though.

  23. RHONYC says:

    i bet he thinks he stills looks as good as he did when he wed wife
    # 1.

    btw- why are his 2 wives Huns?

    poor kids. 🙁

  24. Bella Mosley says:

    As far as the kids they appear to be happy and as for theem realizes they have choices – one of the girls said she wants a monogomous marriage as she doesn’t want to share and they support her choice.

  25. Lucky Charm says:

    Regardinig comments about the daughters being raised in this lifestyle – I saw an episode the other day where Kody and two of his older daughters went to visit Robin. One of the girls told Robin that she doesn’t want to live as a polygamist when she gets older, that when she does get married she wants to be the only wife. She said it’s fine that it’s her parents’ choice and it works for them but it’s not for her. So I don’t think we have anything to worry about these kids being “brainwashed”. They all seem normal and well-adjusted and education certainly seems to be encouraged.

    It isn’t my cup of tea, but at least the kids aren’t being abused or neglected in any way. And truthfully, couldn’t we all use an extra pair of hands around the house at times when you have kids to raise?

    EDIT: Bella Mosley, I was writing my comment when yours posted, I didn’t see it earlier, lol.

  26. Peachy says:

    Lucky, not if those hands were clutching my husbands sweetbuns the night before! 🙂

    I’d rather Little Red Hen it!

  27. Kerri says:

    Oh my. I don’t watch this show, and I refuse to turn on TLC anymore for fear of it being recorded as a ‘rating’. But the picture on the front page had me laughing my butt off. Thanks, Celebitchy. That “durrrr” look on his face is just about priceless.

  28. jc126 says:

    Good gravy – put something on TV and some people will defend it no matter how much it’s harmful to women and to children.

  29. Rio says:

    I was actually a ‘sister girlfriend’ in a polyamerous relationship for awhile when I was younger- although the situation was reversed- the wife had her husband and boyfriend (they lived in the same house). I was dating the boyfriend.
    the reason I broke up with him? He didn’t tell me he was dating the wife (who was at the time a friend but not close friend) and didn’t tell her he was dating me! She and I met over margaritas one day, got STINkING drunk, she spilled the beans on her relationship with him- and by the end of the evening we’d BOTH dumped his cheating, lying douche ass! I’m her daughter’s godmother now and we’re close as sisters, lol.
    my experience is nowhere NEAR the Texas sect’s, but I suspect it’s close to the Browns. Polyamoury these days isn’t as taboo as it was. When all parties are mature, consenting and adult…who cares?

  30. Maudie says:

    It’s been said over one hundred times — they are not Mormons. Mormon church says one husband, one wife. And no girlfriends or boyfriends on the side. These folks would be excommunicated.

  31. wonderful says:

    Um, why can’t marriage be defined as “a legal union between two consenting adults.” Why is that difficult? WHY would we have to allow polygamy if we allowed homosexual marriages? Some of you either really arent thinking this one through, or you are just showing your true homophobic colours. Straight up.

  32. Rosanna says:

    #8: it isn’t, in fact. Hugh Hefner never got prosecuted, so why Kody? Is it because he is a Mormon and lives in Utah? Or is it because his wives don’t strut around half naked? Or is it because of some other moral “principle” selectively applied to this family?

  33. Rosanna says:

    There is nothing homophobic, dear. Either the definition of marriage is the traditional, carved in stone one man and one woman OR everybody has the right to have it his/her way. You can’t allow one-sided tweaks just to be trendy and fashionable (or serve your own interests!) and then proceed to deny the right to do the SAME thing to another human being JUST because you disagree with his/her version of what works for him/her!!!

  34. jc126 says:

    Of course it’s possible to define marriage as between two consenting adult individuals without making polygamy (or bestiality or incest or other insulting comparison) legal. Red herrings for those who are upset by same-sex marriage.

  35. truthzbetta says:

    This is just like when the world had to tell Papa John Phillips’ kid McKenzie you can’t have “consensual” incest. She finally got the message and has realized how desperate she was for love she was denied by him that it got sick.

    Incest, slavery, and polygamy all need to be part of humanity’s ugly past. Prosecute the bum, get the Stockholm Syndrome sister wives some therapy, and get the children out of this modern day enslavement and demeaning treatment of women. And for Pete’s sake somebody fire the asses of the television producers who would call modern women’s slavery entertainment.

  36. wonderful says:

    Rosanna – that’s not even remotely true, because human nature just isnt that simple. Things need to get complicated and need to change with moral “trends.” We can agree, as a culture, that denying two loving consenting adults marriage is wrong. Then using these same principles to say then we must then, as a by-product, allow an adult and child, or adult and five partners, or adult and beast to unite is plain backwards and crazy. You base your assumptions that we need to keep the world simple, stupid, and uncomplicated. I cant even fathom why you would think things need to be in black and white, FOREVER AND ALWAYS.

  37. lindsey says:

    i love the show, despite my feelings when i first saw it. ( I was against it) I now see them as a good family with great kids. and as with gay marriages i respect all marriages that harm no one and make people happy:)

  38. chris ogden says:

    Perhaps one of the ‘sister wives’ should bring a prospective husband home to meet Kody.

    He would probably fly into a fit of rage and show his ‘double standards’ for the camera.