Benjamin Millepied was a butt-hurt d-bag to a NYT reporter

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Benjamin Millepied is just as testy and surly with journalists as his baby-mama Natalie Portman. I will always say that if a celebrity wants their privacy, there are ways to go about it. If a celebrity wants to not answer a certain line of questioning, there are ways to avoid those questions, or simply not answer them in a polite, professional way. Journalists have a job too – they get paid to ask questions. Most journalists understand “Oh, please, I don’t really want to discuss that. Next question, please.” That’s polite and professional. What’s not polite and professional is throwing a hissy fit when a journalist deigns to ask you about the whole reason why you’re famous: say, impregnating Natalie Portman. Such is the case with Benjamin.

Millepied was receiving some award a few days ago, and a reporter from the New York Times asked him a polite question about his baby-mama (“How‘s Natalie doing?” was the exact question). Instead of simply answering politely and vaguely, or even walking away, or just muttering something in French, Benjamin got butt-hurt and tried to have the NYT reporter bounced from the event. Ridiculous. The NYT piece is here, and here’s the behind-the-scenes story:

Benjamin Millepied hasn’t helped dispel the stereotype that the French are rude. The future Mr. Natalie Portman had some in the media yearning nostalgically for “freedom fries” on Thursday night when he demanded that a correspondent for The New York Times’ Nocturnalist column be kicked out of a New York University fete after she innocently inquired about the state of his pregnant fiancée.

Although The Times noted the international incident briefly in Saturday’s paper, a source familiar with what happened tells us the New York City Ballet dancer’s behavior was even more boorish than the newspaper reported.

The 33-year-old Millepied — whose status in the city has risen appreciably since he paired off with Portman — was at New York University’s Kimmel Center where he received a “Medal of Honor” from NYU’s La Maison Francaise.

There, a source says Millepied “grew increasingly testy” with a petite reporter from The Times as she asked him a handful of softball questions related to the evening, his background and career.

Our insider says the reporter, who was not Nocturnalist columnist Sarah Maslin Nir, playfuly asked Millepied if he had done anything “armylike” to receive his award. She was riffing on the fact that in the U.S., the Medal of Honor is the highest military decoration bestowed by the government to brave American soldiers, not French ballet dancers.

But Millepied either did not get this or chose not to be amused.

“You’re being funny?” we’re told the Francophile “snarled” at the reporter, in a performance worthy of a Darren Aronofsky film.

The worst was yet to come. As Nir wrote in The Times, shortly after her reporter politely asked, “How’s Natalie doing?” “Mr. Millepied stormed off, oozing exquisite hauteur. The kind, we suspect, that can emanate only from a ballet divo engaged to a megastar.”

Although our source says reporters had not been warned in advance to refrain from asking about Portman, Nir wrote that shortly after Millepied stalked away, “we were told by the organizers that our inquiring after Ms. Portman’s health was ‘inappropriate’ and that Mr. Millepied wanted us out.”

“Later still, we were told we could stay if we didn’t report,” Nir continues. “We left.” Bravo.

Perhaps Millepied’s tights were in a twist because he remembered a February Times article in which Dance magazine Editor Wendy Perron noted that the Millepied’s work as a choreographer “has been very spotty” and that he was “the next tier” from the top in terms of his work.

Neither Nir, nor a rep for Millepied could be reached for comment by deadline.

[From The New York Daily News]

Oh, for goodness sake. It kills me when celebrities act this way, and it’s especially stupid when it’s someone like Benjamin – you know, someone who is slightly famous in one particular area, to one specific group of people (the ballet world), who suddenly becomes a much bigger celebrity simply because of WHO HE IMPREGNATED. With that new-found fame, Benjamin got TONS of additional offers and work (including that twirling gig for YSL), so he just needs to suck it up and learn some professionalism instead of wandering around throwing fits like a butt-hurt baby. I should note something else too – this is not Benjamin’s first tangle with the paper of record. The NYT tried to profile him several months ago, and he was a total dick to them then too.

Meanwhile, in a recent interview, Natalie Portman compared herself to Audrey Hepburn and suggested that she (Natalie) was thinking about leaving Hollywood: “Audrey made some good choices in life… More and more I realize how unimportant it is to be in the history books or anything like that. Putting time and energy into your children – that’s valuable.” If you want to leave, leave. Don’t compare yourself to Audrey Hepburn as you’re going, though.

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  1. Lynnie says:

    Come again? WHO is this guy? Oh, yeah, some dancer who was sorta featured in a bad movie and is only still getting press because of his pregnant girlfriend. Whatever…

  2. mia girl says:

    Maybe he stormed off because he felt he had already done 80% of the interview.

  3. merski says:

    These two truly deserve each other.

    Honestly, this guy just made me nostalgic for Billy Bob Thornton. Thanks, you butthole. :[

  4. bros says:

    why does he go around acting like such a little entitled bitch? i am on the fence about natalie (she lost me when she started being sanctimonious about vegan eating) but benjamin seems like a 100% asshat.

  5. gobo says:

    I really don’t think I could decide which one of them is the most uppitty little shit.

  6. garvels says:

    Who are these people? The journalist was just doing their job. If the spoiled little millionaires don’t like the attention then get out of the business.

  7. carrie says:

    i’m ok when some celebrities don’t want to talk about private stuffs but it’s weird when you see how she uses her pregnancy during her award campaign and yes,she said stupid stuffs

    on him,he wants to be famous for himself and not only for being Portman’s sperm donnor

  8. Praise St. Angie! says:

    I wonder if he supports pedophile rapists like his baby-mama does.

    oh, and I love it when you use the term “butt hurt”. it’s almost as good as when you use “dong”.

  9. Kaboom says:

    The K-Feds of the world …

  10. Amy says:

    I feel people in the ballet world are just temperamental in this way and they are just really weird about certain things. He is a principal dancer in New York City Ballet so honestly I think he felt self-entitled before Natalie and Black Swan came along.

    Either that or he is trying to emulate George Balanchine personality wise.

  11. Mia says:

    Match made in pretentious heaven.

  12. courtney says:

    Um people the NY Times is no better than a tabloid and Natalie is ben’s Fiance not girlfriend there’s a difference. maybe they asked him a personal question that he wasn’t comfortable answering

  13. eh says:

    Are you kidding me? If people ask me a question about the same someone/something whenever and wherever, I might snap too. Earned it with armylike behavior? What? If I don’t laugh at dumb attempt at jokes, I get labeled as bitter? This reporting from NYT reporter is far from neutral, and worded in a spiteful way. Yup. The demoralization and dumbing down the nation is full in effect. People can’t think straight anymore.

  14. monsley says:

    @mia girl: Hilarious. 🙂

  15. original kate says:

    You’re being funny?” we’re told the Francophile “snarled” at the reporter”

    umm..isn’t he french? then he is not a francophile. a francophile is someone who has an extreme liking of anything french, not a frenchman; seems like a reporter would know this.

  16. flounder says:

    I think it’s unfortunate that he is seen as the latest face of french people. Though he and natalie may be talented individuals, in no way are they entitled to be this arrogant.

  17. Moosey Goosey says:

    This one…Seems to me that he is the next Le K Fed’ and not the next grande plie!

  18. Eve says:

    Meanwhile, in a recent interview, Natalie Portman compared herself to Audrey Hepburn

    Oh, no, she didn’t!

    and suggested that she (Natalie) was thinking about leaving Hollywood

    Fingers crossed that she will do that, hopefully as soon as possible.

  19. MoMo says:

    Yeah ‘francophone’ means french (like anglophone means english)

    If he were witty or gracious he would have come up with better responses.

  20. Marjalane says:

    My, but this sour couple are full of self importance, aren’t they?!

  21. “Later still, we were told we could stay if we didn’t report. We left.” Bravo indeed.

  22. Cheyenne says:

    The difference between Hepburn and Portman is Hepburn was always classy and gracious and Portman is a revolting bitch with an attitude.

  23. Solveig says:

    So he just rushed away? What a snotty bitch he is.
    *Sarcasm mode: OFF*
    I don’t see anything wrong in what he did, he avoided that question going away as often other celebrities do. But he is Benjamin Millipied, fiancé of Natalie Portman, of course he is a self-entitled jerk.
    By the way, he didn’t know that the reporters had not been warned to avoid asking question about his private life, thus his behaviour is justifiable.
    And IMHO Natalie is the only actress who can be compared (for the looks) to Audrey Hepburn, no harm done (and I’m more a fan of Audrey’s than Natalie’s).

  24. skibunny says:

    What a little bitch!

  25. Delta Juliet says:

    I understand that he is very well-known in ballet circles, etc. But he needs to get his head out of his ass enough to realize that ballet fans are a very small group (relatively speaking) and if he wants to appeal to the general masses, he should be a little more gracious.
    But, if he wants people to think he’s an a-hole, he can just continue as is.
    I don’t understand people getting so huffy over stupid questions. People ask me stuff all the time and I don’t get all high and mighty about it. Get a grip. Or simply say “next question?”

  26. xxodettexx says:

    i cannot stand entitled people

  27. Mouse says:

    Wowsers, these two sound like really horrible, arrogant people. I didn’t think I could like either of them any less, but slap my ass and call me Sally! I do now.

  28. meg says:

    I LOVE IT when star fu**ers get called out for being what they are and they all testy. I makes me laugh. Does being haughty and jerky help your case at all? NO! Now sashay back to your dressing room and cry, little man.

  29. Madisyn says:

    He is no Baryshnikov or Nureyev and he knows it, as such, will never be well known for himself in his profession and only for knocking up an actress who happened to win the academy award.

    Like @Delta Juliet said how many average/everyday people, even us avid gossip hounds know the ballet elite. Has anyone ever heard of Benjamin Millepeid before he knocked up Portman? He’s just PISSED OFF because he keeps getting referred to as MR. Natalie Portman. And will continue to as well!

    You uppity self-entitled little man, get used to it.

  30. Lili says:

    Millepied is rude because he’s an ass. Don’t cite his Frenchness as an explanation for his d-baggery to a reporter.

    Please do this for us, the NICE French people… 🙂 Don’t even mention the stereotype. That’s why it won’t go away.

  31. bluhare says:

    I can’t believe those of you excusing his behaviour because he didn’t know they hadn’t been told not to ask those questions.

    So asking softball questions about your pregnant fiancee is an excuse to be an arrogant jerk? I get so sick of the “but he’s an artiste!” crap. He’s made out of the same stuff as the rest of us, so no pass there.

    When she dumps him, he’ll wish he had been nicer to the press.

  32. Praise St. Angie! says:

    “When she dumps him, he’ll wish he had been nicer to the press.”

    well said. the ONLY reason that NY Times was even there was because of who he knocked up. In fact, the ONLY reason anyone outside of the ballet world knows who he is is because of who he knocked up (as Madisyn pointed out), so he needs to check himself.

  33. the original bellaluna says:

    OK, seriously, that first pic needs to be a “Caption This” contest.

    Millipeen: I’m strutting off, secure in my famous beard-hood as Portman’s baby-daddy!

    Dude Giving the Side-Eye: Strut that ass, girlfriend!

  34. Lostara says:

    Pfff….

    Benjamin Millepied should have watched his girlfriends co-star – Monsieur VINCENT CASSEL (THAT is a classy French man) – while promoting ‘Black Swan’. He would have learned a lot about good manners and how to do interviews.

    But what do I expect? Millepieds IQ hardly reaches his shoe-size, I suppose….

  35. bluhare says:

    My Caption This Entry: (with thanks to original bellaluna for coming up with the idea)

    Exit . . . Stage GAUCHE!

  36. harfang says:

    His state of hauteur must be… high enough that it didn’t register with him that it is very appropriate for anyone to enquire after the health of your significant other, if the S.O. is hugely pregnant. That has to be the same in France.

    Incidentally a bitchy divo is not representative of a country and I think the “freedom fries” thing is stupid and ignorant. I know it’s the Daily News, but criminy, we live in a world, people. None of us should be wet enough behind the ears to expect a highly sheltered and pampered person to accurately represent their national character.

  37. Catherine says:

    Another elitist piece of s**t climbing the social ladder. What a bore he is.

  38. mln76 says:

    Courtney I hope you being sarcastic the New York Times is the pre-eminent paper in the country. They may have a Arts section but they are hardly a tab I think you are thinking of the Post. Oh and Millepied is a douche.

  39. rosmarina says:

    I agree with Madisynn – he’s tired of being called Mr. Natalie Portman. Especially when it’s HIS night. HIS!

    I also wonder how many times he’s been chastised by Portman and/or her PR people for saying too much.

  40. Yasmine says:

    @ #29 meg: “Now sashay back to your dressing room and cry, little man.” HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! That’s hilarious and should be posted on every blog about this joker. Seriously, to people who justify his rudeness and annoyance for being asked a stupid or repetitive question, have you ever worked with other people or a general public? I worked for 3 years in retail, at minimum wage, not even doing what I loved, and got asked a lot of repetitive and stupid questions (try a question on returns, ugghh) but I never took the liberty to smirk and then kick someone out of the store. Later I was a professor’s teacher assistant, and let me tell you, university students can be just as stupid as the next joe shmoe working in the next cubicle, but that gives you no excuse to bitch them out. So this d-bag has no excuse for this divo behaviour and should show common civility and courtesy if he is the hot shit and grand person he seems to think he is!

  41. the original bellaluna says:

    @ Bluhare – OH! How about “Exit, stage douche!”? 😀 What do you think, huh?

  42. thinkaboutit says:

    Meh. He’s just pissed off because he has not gotten famous in his own right, which is probably what he expected when he agreed to pretend that NP and her “very married mystery lover’s” baby was his! My bet is that he will soon figure out that he can get MUCH more press — maybe even household name status! — by letting the secret out.

  43. Liana says:

    A little graciousness goes a long way. Would it have been so hard to simply say “Natalie’s doing well, thank you,” and then move on? Why be a jerk? Be nice on the way up, because you don’t know who you’re going to pass on the way down.

  44. bluhare says:

    @original bellaluna: Hahahahaha! Love it! Exit, Stage Douche . . . brilliant.

  45. bluhare says:

    I just thought of something. Maybe he’s douchier than usual because of all that gossip that Aranofsky’s the father not him. Hmmmmm. Although I think he’d probably be a douche anyway.

    It is entertaining imagining him being cuckolded by Ms. Perfect’s “oops” with her director.

  46. truthzbetta says:

    …and he’s short. All around ugh.

  47. skuddles says:

    Well like with anything, there’s probably a bit more to this story. I suspect there was an actual tone of condescension in the reporter’s questions, and Millepied already has his defenses way up for a # of reasons. The whole “Portman danced the whole Black Swan” thing got his ass in a sling, and then something else we’re not seeing – the disdain of the ballet world he surely faces now. They value hard work more than most and his easy ride to fame, simply for dating a famous person, is no doubt drawing some heat for him. And they are the ones whose opinion really matters to his insecure, arrogant, dancing little heart – and they might not find it too endearing either that he got involved in defending Natlie’s “dancing” – knowing fully well her skill was a mere drop in the bucket compared to a true prima ballerina. So the guy’s got issues, and chances are he’ll blow up his relationship with Natalie at some point, the pressure will get to him, plus his shallow side will know he’ll still be looked after for life.

  48. riri says:

    You are not being fair here.
    The reporter insinuated that he was not worthy of the award.

    I was going to mark it under him being “French” and expressing his feelings in an open way, but after reading it, you can tell the reporter was kind of belittling him.

    I actually like it when actors (or dancers for that matter) are actually real and not “trained PR puppets”.

    I have never seen or heard Natalie EVER acting like that with journalists. She is known for being very professional and polite.
    Anyways,

  49. LuckyLilGem says:

    If Nat leaves the spotlight, will the Ballet K Fed stay with her? If she forfeits her celeb status, what happens to his?

  50. LBeees says:

    @Courtney

    Are you effing kidding me? Have you ever read the newspaper? Do you ever read any newspapers? The New York Times is the gold standard for western news reporting. Google it, then come back and talk like you know something.

  51. Nikki Girl says:

    I really don’t think this reporter was being rude, I think she was joking around with the Medal of Honor comment. Regardless, he overreacted and sounds like he behaved extremely rudely. And trying to get someone thrown out? Seriously? How self-important is that? Give me a break. I just don’t like this guy at all. Not sure what Natalie is thinking.