Kellie Pickler is really growing on me. Though I found her sort of annoying on American Idol, she’s carved out a respectable career in country music since then, and has given some fairly interesting interviews. Last year she started crying onstage while performing at the Country Music Awards when she sang a song she wrote about the mother who abandoned her. In several interviews she’s shown that she’s willing to talk about her struggles and has a good deal more depth than her dyed blonde hair and boob job would make you think.
Kellie is promoting her newest CD, and talked about a message that she says runs throughout the album: telling young girls to hold on to their innocence. While it’s sort of cheesy, when she was interviewed she didn’t come off as condescending or holier-than-thou about it. My first reaction was that she’d probably slept with guys she wished she hadn’t, and the song was coming from a place of appreciating yourself.
With her bottle-blonde hair and breast implants, one could argue that Kellie Pickler comes across as the “naughty little minx” that Simon Cowell once called her during the fifth season of “American Idol.” But the country crooner is upholding a moral ground on her upcoming album by encouraging young girls to maintain their “innocence” for as long as possible.
“I need to sing about real things that I relate to and are part of me and my life, I think it’s important to keep it real,” Pickler told us in reference to her self-titled album which debuted at number one on the country charts last week. “The first time people hear ‘Don’t You Know You’re Beautiful,’ they always think I’m singing about outer beauty but its so much more deep than that. My favorite verse is the second verse which goes: ‘Hey there little homecoming queen in that back seat, I bet his brown eyes are promising you everything and I know you want to be just like your friends. But he’ll still love you if you don’t give in, but if those girls were being honest that have been where you’re at, I bet they’ll tell you they wish they had their innocence back.’”
So for all the young women out there who look up to Pickler as their “Idol”, she has a few words of wisdom …
“Hold onto that innocence because it is so beautiful and cherish it because its priceless — and once it’s gone, you cant get it back,” she said. “I think it’s important for all women, young girls as well as adults to love what you see when you look in the mirror, to love your heart.”
[From Fox News’ Pop Tarts]
Normally I would find a song about keeping your virginity trite and boring at best, but it seems like Kellie’s heart is in the right place. I don’t get the sense that she’s judging anyone, just pointing out that there are other ways to go that are just as good. Considering how many songs there are about being a total skank, it’s nice to have a few that present a different option.
Here’s Kellie at the CMA Music Festival celebrity signing in Nashville on June 6th. Photographer Judy Eddy. Images thanks to WENN.
Personally, I think that if Kellie Pickler advises something, you are safest doing the complete opposite.
Of course, this is a bit hard to maintain when it comes to virginity but I think it’s definitely wrong to advocate either being a slut and not caring about it or keeping your virginity as long as you can.
Each girl should decide on her own when she wants to go through with this (no pun intended) and it should be a decision which is not based on peer pressure or anything else. In that sense, Kellie does have a point. But I think she’s putting just another type of pressure on younger girls by telling them to save themselves.
I’d rather have someone do a song about how important it is to follow your instincts and heart (as Christina Aguilera did a while ago), rather than going into the whole purity thing. Being and feeling pure is not a matter of being or not being a virgin.
I didn’t take it that way, I saw it as more advising the younger teens to hold onto childhood and innocence as long as possible, and I have no argument with that at all. It’s sad to see 12 year olds giving blow jobs under the bleachers at the football game just to be popular. I don’t have a problem with staying a virgin as long as you want – just don’t brag about it when it’s not true. Hear that, Miley?
Why when it comes to women “innocence” always means their bodies. Real innocence comes from intention and the heart. Losing your virginity does not mean losing your “innocence”
I have to argue the whole “losing your virginity is not losing your innocence” part. Obviously you knew nothing of intercourse before that and after you lose your virginity it changes you completely. Doesn’t mean you have to wear a chip on your shoulder about it, you just can’t go back to being innocent and being oblivious to sex and other things that complicate an adult’s life.
Innocence doesn’t just mean the hymen, it’s an entire state of mind.
Interesting, considering how much pork she’s had to swallow to get her musical career off the ground.
From the woman that didn’t know France was a country, innocence could mean hotdogs.
Its so sad that young girls and women today are taught that is is “sexually freeing” to be promiscuous, and that its old-fashioned and prude to wait. All that accomplishes is an easy lay for the guy and emotional problems for the girl. Young boys and girls alike are not emotionally mature enough to handle sex.
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