Whenever I think of J.Lo’s song Jenny from the Block, the refrain gets stuck in my head and I see Ben Affleck rubbing her ass in a loop. He’s always biting his lip and looking like he’s concentrating really hard on it. I just re-watched that part of the video (at 3:20 here) and it’s not as bad as I remember, although he does kiss it. So that’s why I was reluctant to report this story that Jennifer Lopez denies that the rock she’s been wearing on her left hand is an engagement ring from Casper Smart-enough to get a $10k a week allowance. She denied it with the line “don’t be fooled by the rocks that I got,” which means I have to keep seeing Ben Affleck touching her ass, but worse than that I have to hear the song.

We’ve heard all sorts of stories that Lopez is just about to marry Smart. It’s her M.O., and US Weekly even ran a story in late April that she was about to marry Casper, was “certain she wants to be with Casper forever” and was anxious to expand her family with him. Well Jennifer says she’s not engaged, and we shouldn’t be fooled by the diamond she’s got on her left ring finger inviting speculation.

Jenny from the Block won’t be walking down the aisle any time soon.

“Rumors!!! Don’t be fooled by the rocks that I got,” Jennifer Lopez wrote on her website Friday in response to buzz boyfriend Casper Smart popped the question. “No engagement!”

After quoting her 2002 R&B hit (and posting a white-hot self-portrait without any bling on her ring finger), Lopez asked fans, “What’s the best way to stop a false rumor?”

Chatter that Lopez, 42, and Smart, 25 – who’ve been romantically linked since last November – were taking the next step first heated up in March, when a fake Tweet from fashion designer Roberto Cavalli seemed to suggest the two were engaged. (A source close to Lopez then confirmed to PEOPLE that the reports were false.)

Since then, Lopez has been photographed stepping out with a questionable ring on her finger.

But rumors aside, it appears to be a lasting sweet romance for the couple, who shared candy (and some cozy moments) last weekend in Las Vegas.

[From People]

So she’s not engaged, but she is letting Casper sabotage her career by sitting in on really important business meetings he should have no access to as her boy toy. Maybe this means her people are starting to get through to her, and are telling her she better not make herself a laughing stock by making Casper any more legitimate than she already has. Or maybe she’s starting to wake up to the reality that this is a fling with a much younger guy, and that it would be supremely stupid to marry him, although I doubt it. Hell she might just be engaged and the people running her website are doing damage control. It’s not like she even retweeted this.