Demi Moore is devastated, brokenhearted over Ashton’s romance with Mila Kunis


We’ve heard that Demi Moore, 49, is alternately holding out hope for a reunion with her estranged husband, Ashton Kutcher, and feuding with her daughters for remaining in contact with him. We’ve also heard that the two were recently attending weekly Kabbalah marriage counseling sessions together, although those were tabloid reports, and that they allegedly had makeup sex as recently as last month. That may have been wishful thinking on Demi’s part, or Ashton may have been conflicted about the split and leading her on. Either way, we know that Ashton, 34, is getting somewhat serious in his new relationship with Mila Kunis, 28. We just saw photos of Ashton and Mila making out at the wrap party for Ashton’s film about Steve Jobs. This is said to have been devastating to Demi, who apparently is “beyond heartbroken” that Ashton is with Mila.

Demi Moore is suffering incredible heartache a source close to the actress exclusively told RadarOnline.com.

“Demi is devastated that Ashton has moved on so quickly and is dating Mila,” the friend says. “She is beyond heartbroken.

“Even though Ashton cheated on her all the time, it was with random girls, it wasn’t a relationship like it is with Mila and that is what is killing Demi now.

“Seeing photos of him kissing another woman is too much for her to handle, it’s like having her nose rubbed in it time and time again. She kind of knew it was definitely over between them but I think she was still holding out a little hope for a reconciliation — now he’s actually dating someone else she knows that’s not going to happen.”

As RadarOnline.com previously reported, Demi and Ashton have run into each other since she has returned from rehab, but he’s now obviously moved on with a new romance.

“Each time Demi hears about Ashton and Mila it breaks her heart. She really loved him despite the flaws in their marriage and to see him dating someone new, who is so much younger than she is, is like a knife in her heart,” the source says.

Demi is also estranged from her three daughters, and one reason is because the girls refuse to stop talking to Ashton.

“The girls have all stayed friends with Ashton, and that is infuriating Demi,” a source close to the girls previously told RadarOnline.com about the situation.

While Demi has returned to work, filming in New York City, the turmoil in her personal life is worrying her friends.

“Demi is in a fragile state right now and with the fights with her daughters and hearing how sad she is about Ashton and Mila everyone is afraid of how she’s handling all the stress,” her friend says.

[From Radar Online]

I don’t get the big difference between casually cheating with randoms and having a full blown romance on the side. It’s all cheating, but I get the sense that Demi forgave a lot in an attempt to hold on to her marriage. In this case Ashton and Demi broke up months ago. She needs to understand that he’s moved on and that she needs to do the same. I get that it must hurt to see her ex sucking face with his new girlfriend, but that’s the price of fame. Maybe she’s still taking copious amounts of ADHD drugs and Red Bull and isn’t firmly planted in reality. Her own daughters aren’t even talking to her. I hope she gets the help she needs to come to terms with her life. A lot of people would find it pretty sweet.

These are photos of Mila and Ashton out to see Batman in LA on Sunday. They tried not to be photographed together. Credit: FameFlynet. Demi is shown on 10-18-11. Credit: JGM/Pacific Coast News

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  1. Julie says:

    im also heartbroken, i thought way better of mila. she has lost a lot of respect in my eyes.

    now i wouldnt be surprised if she also got busy with justin timberlake. (and that or her cheating on macaulay culkin lead to their break up)

    i wonder if the ashton thing is new or if they had hook ups through all the years.

    • taylor says:

      No she was never with JT. There was never even one picture of them out together at any point…it’s all tabloid nonsense. She made a rom com with him, that is it. It is sad that a person is not allowed to have a relationship without accusations like this. She was in an 8 year committed relationship with Culkin. There was never anybody else. And like many relationships it ended. She recently connected with an old friend and it has become more. But apparently that is not accepted or allowed.

      • Silly Girl says:

        Right, because you know them personally, Taylor.

      • Rory says:

        I agree Taylor. I have never heard any ill of her all these years she has been acting. Mila started working very young and yet her reputation is excellent. Why are we so quick to believe she had done something wrong? I suspect there is a very good reason Demi’s daughters keep in contact with Ashton and have cut off their mother. Could it be that they don’t blame their stepdad for the broken marriage? The girls know what went on, they were there. Lets reserve judgement.

  2. marie says:

    casually cheating with randoms = just sex, full blown romance = heart is involved..

    I really wish these stories would quit coming out, the paint Demi as extremely desperate-if this is true then she needs to suck it up, many woman go through this daily and keep it together..

    and Mila, you could do sooo much better-stop dating douches..

    • Erinn says:

      I think it is true- her own daughters aren’t even willing to deal with her right now. I think she is that desperate of a mess.

  3. Julie says:

    oh and one more thing: i dont have a problem when celebs lie about their love life. but then they also dont need to complain when people wont believe them in the future. mila said there is nothing like romance and they are friends. if she is really just friends with another dude in the future people wont believe her.

    either admit it or dont say anything is smarter.

  4. Nev says:

    there is much more to this story behind the scenes obviously.

    don’t cheat.

    demi needs to get healthy, BUCK UP and get her confidence back.

    and she will.

    there’s always a comeback.

  5. lady_luck says:

    “casually cheating with randoms = just sex, full blown romance = heart is involved..”

    well that’s what a cheating victim might say to make them feel better about accepting it. But cheating is cheating. And realistically you don’t know how much of the truth in a “random” having no heart involvement there is. A sexual connection can still have varying degrees of other emotional bonding aswell – let’s not fool ourselves here. And randoms still involve kissing and being intimate on the most delicate levels a human being can be. Let’s not rationalise cheating or excuse it for that matter.

    Poor Demi. She needs some hypnotic therapy or something.

    • marie says:

      never said I agreed with it, just saying I’ve known women in her shoes who have tried to explain it away with this theory..

    • Nev says:

      word.

    • AnnieN says:

      Well if they had the open marriage that has been suggested, romance vs. randoms would make all the difference.

    • Chicagogurl17 says:

      Wasn’t the rumor for the longest time that Ashton and Demi had an open marriage? And, participated in threesomes. Meaning him hooking up would be fine but emotional involvement crosses the line.

  6. ShazBot says:

    man Demi sounds like such a loser. It’s not like they broke up last month…or this year even.

    Also, she introduced her daughters to Ashton when they were all fairly young and impressionable, and they loved him and thought of him as an additional father figure. To expect them to cut all ties because of the break up is childish and mean to her daughters…they had a different relationship with him, and I’m sure this is sad/confusing for them too.

    • anonimouse8319 says:

      ..agree…I know so many women that bring men into the lives of their children…expecting the children to be accepting and loving…then, they expect the kids to turn it off when the relationship goes sour…

  7. CC says:

    I still like Mila, bad taste in men or not. I am a bit disappointed she’d hook up with the douch though. She can do so much better! UGH. WHY? I know she’s a celeb, but it’s like a friend of yours starts dating a douche and is oblivious to that fact. You still like her but shake her head, and might avoid the pairing and would rather hang with her when she’s solo, but you still hope to be there when she comes to her senses.

  8. imabrat says:

    Seems like Ashton and Mila are trying to be discreet, I would like to imagine for Demi’s sake. Demi seems so fragile, she needs to work on herself and not worry about any relationship!

    • Diana says:

      Well, they re not doing a good job. And I think this story is from Ashton camp. Probably publicity for the movie he’s shooting?

      • taylor says:

        Yea right, part of the master strategy for a film that won’t be out for a year is to go to a private home, where you think you won’t be stalked by paparrazzi and have them use a powerful zoom lens camera to take pictures.

  9. vic says:

    You’d think if she wanted him back she’d want the girls to stay close to him. Keep emotional ties to the family.

    Cheating is cheating but just for sex they usually come back. Love, no.

  10. WaywardGirl says:

    I still like Mila but I’m still eye rolling w/ this thing she has with Ashton. She could do 10x better

  11. Maritza says:

    It wouldn’t surprise me if Mila were pregnant, her face looks kind of puffy in that photo. If that were the case that would really drive Demi crazy.

  12. the original bellaluna says:

    Mila, Mila, Mila…what are you doing?!? As if Trousersnake wasn’t uber-douche enough, now you’re with Asston? WTF.

    Demi needs to undergo some extensive counseling. Not kabbalah counseling, but actual psychological counseling.

    • Chicagogurl17 says:

      Agree on everything!

    • Rhea says:

      Hi, bella! How are you today? ITA with everything you said. Come on, Demi! Focus on your own self right now!!

      • the original bellaluna says:

        Rhea – I’m alright, how ’bout you? (I am getting ready to go back to bed for a little bit, though.) 🙂 Demi really does need to keep him in her rear-view. It’s not healthy for her to obsess like this. I get that she really loved(s) him, but he’s not worth it.

        Buck up, Girl!

      • Rhea says:

        Hi, Bella! I’m OK right now. Good to know you got an extra zzz’s time. 😉 Maybe someone should send Demi a copy of “Eat, Pray, Love” to give her an inspiration.

    • The Original Mia says:

      Word to everything. So disappointed in Mila. Beautiful, talented girl. Horrible taste in men.

  13. Dredz says:

    I’m surprised Demi is surprised… Really? In Hollywood news travel fast, Ashton & Mila have been friends for long time, anyone could see it coming.

  14. TheOriginalKitten says:

    I would NEVER let a dude see me sweating him after everything is over-it’s just embarassing. Demi is an attractive lady, she really needs to go get hers and forget about Doucheton Kutcher. I know it’s not easy to go through a divorce but sometimes a distraction can help to ease the pain.

    • Jo 'Mama' Besser says:

      Agreed. There’s something really ‘pick me, choose me, love me’ about it and that’d be my worst fear.

  15. Ravensdaughter says:

    I get the difference-we know he cares for Mila, and may be in love with here. Possible they will get married. Demi is still hanging on to hope, which is sad, but understandable. Mila and Ashton making a permanent commitment would dash Demi’s hopes completely.

  16. Dawn says:

    Oh for god…poor Demi this poor Demi that…poor Demi indeed! No one knows what really went on in this relationship other than those involved and that is none of us. It has been reported that Demi not only knew about the other women but had her own women as well. And her huffing can anything be more attractive than that? I don’t find Demi to be a victim of anything other than her own bad decisions. Her children are all old enough to make their own decisions about Ashton and obviously they aren’t overly concerned that she doesn’t like it that they stay in touch with him. Demi needs to first sober up. Then she needs to deal with her obvious eating disorder. From there it is time for her to not only accept her age but to embrace it. She has a lot of stuff to deal with and whatever is going on with Ashton is not one of them. Heck lots of people are saying that were never legally married to begin with.

  17. Jennifer says:

    wah, wah, wah. Grow-up and get over it.

  18. Ari says:

    What the hell is with these people? Why even bother denying it? It’s fairly obvious something is going on at this rate and I was one of the sticklers who didn’t even believe this entire thing in the first place. But its getting tired already. With media these days, you’re just stupid to think no-one notices.

  19. DANDILION says:

    Yeah.. looks like date much younger manageable guys and the daughters refuse to help her on her new lover toy-boy quest.

  20. Jordan says:

    People put Mila too high on a pedestal, it was inevitable she would fall. I just didn’t realize she would do so in such a douchey way. She’ll wait to parade the relationship around when she has a movie to sell, but be evasive in interviews to keep the interest going…until the studios tell her otherwise. *Sigh* I had so much hope she would be different.

  21. Kevin says:

    Kelso and Jackie. It was meant to be.

  22. lafairy says:

    For How long is Mila Kunis 28??? it’s been like forever, when she was doing “Black Swan” she was already 28!

  23. cam says:

    “I don’t get the big difference between casually cheating with randoms and having a full blown romance on the side”—I think it might hurt more because Ashton and Mila have been friends since That 70’s Show, meaning he’s probably talked about her to Demi and he’s probably hung out with her during their marriage.

    I wouldn’t be surprised if both women had met and have had conversations together. My point being, they knew eachother, and Demi probably didn’t feel threatened by Mila and Ashton’s friendship, and now that they’re together it probably hurts more than him just cheating with random girls, because that potential for them being together has been under Demi’s nose this whole time. Maybe now she realized that Ashton probably had feelings for Mila the whole time they were together.

    • Debra Johnson says:

      Well stated. Plus there is a short video that shows Mila with Demi’s kids. When a relationship brings such pain to others, it is not worth it.

      • cam says:

        Woah, i didn’t even know that. Even worse. Do you think her girls talk to Mila? That be devastating if its true that they don’t want to talk to their own mother but have no problem with their cheating stepfather’s new girlfriend…

      • Sherri says:

        What video?

      • Debra Johnson says:

        Let me clarify. There is a very short video on You Tube with Rumer Willis, Ryan Gosling and Mila. They appeared to be out having fun. The point is There has been interaction with Ashton’s stepchildren. It is just not a good situation. Mila needs to leave this alone. JJames Franco is a better match for Mila.

  24. Barbara says:

    I don’t believe they are married or we would have heard that Ashton filed for divorce. I don’t think he would behave this way if they were indeed married, IMO.
    She needs to pull herself together and get some professional help, I don’t see the red string doing her any good. She is not a good role model for her daughters if she cannot deal with aging gracefully.

  25. cherylk says:

    Time to pull up her big girl granny pants and realize she/s old enough to be his Mother. Threesomes aside.

  26. mar says:

    Im over celebs, especially her

  27. Love says:

    Hey Demi ,get the fuc$ over yourself !
    Stop being stuck in teenage drama . Get a horse farm , pick up gardening , become a lesbian … Whatever it’ll take you to accept that are a mature woman and need to grow up .
    That means no more : ironic eyeglasses, butt shots of you in the bathroom , whip it’s, and boyfriends who are half your age, oh and dancing on stage like a chicken being electrocuted.

  28. G says:

    I like Mila…I get the feeling she’s a “man-eater” so I like this coupling. Ashton just might get whats coming to him.

  29. kellyinseattle says:

    Ashton doesn’t have the “it” factor.

  30. bettyrose says:

    I do get the diff btwn random hookup and emotional involvement in terms of hurt BUT I will never get why Hollywood women who can take their pick of “normal” men chase after Hollywood jagoffs.

  31. Francesca says:

    Mila Kunis, Minka Kelly, Oliva Wilde they all look the same to me! Demi should just look away while Ashton does his thing for awhile. It would be painful for anyone to watch, esp a mid aged gal like ole Demi.

    • bettyrose says:

      Six months at a spa in Europe with no media being pampered by the best and mingling with suave euro men. If you have the means why wouldn’t you???

  32. mimi says:

    Wasn’t there some rag mag article about seth macfarane sweeping mila off her feet recently? I thought I remember an analysis of the “sexual energy” given off by them at the TED premier ? And another story about how he drew her a picture of her dog that was put to sleep?
    Or, has that relationship already fizzled out
    Shame, I thought they were kind nof good together.

  33. Aotearovian says:

    I know I’m flying a lone flag here, but I don’t think AK is a douchebag. I think he’s a guy who fell in love with a much older, more experienced woman when he was very young (and man, the average 25yo guy is YOUNG) and it only became very gradually apparent over time that he was in with a chronically insecure, emotionally damaged person who needed more from him than any one person can be reasonably expected to provide.

    His way of getting out of it was clumsy, cack-handed and unwittingly cruel, and I’d bet pounds that if he could do it over he’d do it all very differently.

    And I cut Demi a lot of slack, because if I’d had anything like the childhood and adolescence she had, not to mention the biological predisposition to addiction and mental illness, I would be FUBAR and utterly incapable of achieving anything like the success she has, whatever you think of her abilities or quality of her work.

    So I don’t see any villains here. But I really hope Demi sorts it out. She’s not a bad person and doesn’t deserve to be so (apparently) unhappy.

  34. Jennifer12 says:

    I get the sense that Ashton was given permission to play the field and took a lot of heat for cheating, when Demi condoned it in exchange for her marriage. I’ve heard a lot about their open marriage. I think Ashton was awfully young when he started with Demi, and began outgrowing her. Then she sort of tried to sweeten things by having that deal while he still stayed with her. I used to read things he said about Demi’s intelligence, and remember thinking that he seemed in awe of this smart, confident older woman. Now he’s not the baby faced 20 something anymore. I’m not an Ashton fan, but I don’t mind him, either. I think he and Mila have had a long standing attraction and finally acted on it and there’s a chance that there’s a foundation for a solid relationship there.

  35. ezra says:

    I’ve said it before, she was foolish to marry him. She is obviously in a lot of pain. She placed too much value on her looks, but to be fair that had much to do with the industry she was in – the film industry is notorious for devaluing & dehumanizing women after a certain age. She has made her mistakes, but for her daughters to cut her off totally,(if this is indeed true) in my opinion, is cruel. This estrangement is rubbing more salt into her wounds. I feel very sorry for her.

  36. Carolyn says:

    Anyone who watched That 70s Show wouldn’t be suprised at them hooking up in real life- it was inevitable. I like them together. Demi & Ashton should have called time a looong time ago.

  37. RHONYC says:

    i disagree with all opinions that say women have to ‘work through the hurt’ before moving on. it’s so sexist. it’s validated that men get to move on b4 the body is even cold, meanwhile the woman has to ‘learn something’ ‘find herself’ or ‘get herself together’.

    F*CK.
    THAT.

    speaking of which, Demi needs to f*ck that man right out of her hair
    & send him (mentally) on his way.

    f*ck, f*ck, & more f*cking please. getcha back blown out 50 ways from Sunday Dem. have the time of your life and pretend that ‘Ash’chenhaller died.

    the end. 8)

  38. Alicia says:

    This poor woman is outdated, and lost the dignity of woman and child of God to marry this boy. No sense of decency where his life is going. Totally lost perspective, his age and a brat whining instead of confronting their own lives and see their children.