Ex Spice Girl and jilted lover Melanie B, aka Scary Spice, had a baby shower at a Beverly Hills Hotel that looked more like bachelorette party. Strippers entertained the guests and heavily pregnant Mel was seen sipping champagne.

One can hardly blame her for wanting to uh, party all the time. Eddie Murphy dumped her by proxy using the Matt Damon method, telling a Dutch interviewer that he was “being presumptuous” by assuming his then-girlfriend Melanie B’s baby was his and saying “we’re not together anymore.” It was said to be news to Melanie, who heard that she was dumped when friends left messages with news of Murphy’s shocking interview. Word has it that Melanie didn’t get along with Murphy’s live-in mom at his LA mansion and that staff found her controlling.

Murphy was cheating on Scary near the end of their relationship with Babyface’s ex wife Tracy Edmunds, and brought her to the NY premiere of Dreamgirls. Edmunds recently said that if Scary is pregnant with Murphy’s baby as determined by an upcoming paternity test that he’ll take responsibility and that’s “like their business that’s going on.”

People speculated that Murphy’s questionable personal life may have had something to do with his Oscar’s snub this year, and that coupled with his cringe-worthy performances in recent film Norbit make him an unlikeable guy. Considering how Murphy stormed off when Alan Arkin received the best supporting actor award, the Academy made the right decision not to vote for him.

There have been all sorts of rumors about a Spice Girls reunion, but the latest news has any sort of tour postponed as Emma Bunton and Melanie B are pregnant and moms Gerri Halliwell and Victoria Beckham focus on their families and business projects.

Hopefully Scary will get some cash from Murphy in exchange for her trouble. Maybe she’ll be happier as a single mom than living with Murphy and his meddling mother. She’s certainly doing her best to make the most of things.