This is a photo of Olivia Wilde outside The Tonight Show after she realized her white t-shirt was far too sheer for the flashbulbs. Oops. Olivia visited Jay Leno to promote her role in Her. I keep forgetting that she’s even in the movie since all of the talk has been about Joaquin Phoenix and Scarlett Johansson. Rightfully so, since they’re the main characters, but I’m glad Olivia is finally in a movie that looks really good. She’s been in so many critical stinkers and box-office duds, and it’s not really her fault.

Olivia is still barely showing the pregnancy that she announced over a month ago. She talked with Leno about her mom, who was a producer for 60 Minutes and went into all sorts of crazy scenarios while pregnant with Olivia and her siblings. Olivia also says that people are super afraid to ask when she’s due because — I guess — they’re worried about insulting her. I’ve had that fear too. You never, ever should ask a woman about being pregnant unless she mentions it first. Bad things can happen. Here’s some highlights from Livvy’s Leno appearance:

On confusing people as a pregnant lady: “That’s the worst thing in the world — when you congratulate a non-pregnant woman on her pregnancy. I find that people will go to such great lengths to not mention it. Even when you are clearly — like, I feel like I’m clearly pregnant — people will be like, ‘Hey, would you like a glass of whiskey? Would you like to get on this roller coaster?’ And I go, ‘Oh, well, I’m actually pregnant.’ And they go, ‘What?!’ Unless someone’s watching you give birth, I don’t think they want to make the wrong call.”

A girl or a boy? “It’s human. We feel good about that.”

Her mom’s example: “I have a great mom. She’s a good example of how to be a strong badass pregnant lady. But she sets the standards pretty high. She went all over the world for 60 Minutes, for ABC News, for Frontline, for years. So, when I’m worrying about like, ‘Am I allowed to get on the treadmill?,’ my mom is like, ‘I was in war zones with you guys.’ The way most moms tell a cute story about something that happened at, like, a ballet recital, my mom likes to tell the story of when she was eight months pregnant with me, and we were on a plane that had a bomb somewhere in the Middle East. And she’s like, ‘Remember, you almost didn’t arrive because of the bomb?’ And then, you know, they landed, they evacuated the plane, there was no bombing. But I’m like, ‘That’s a terrifying story. Don’t share that with our new friends.'”

[From The Tonight Show with Jay Leno]

Olivia is so cool and laid back during television interviews. I’ve come to realize that her words often come off as smug during a transcript, but watching and listening to her in motion usually yields a different impression. She’s going to be a super fun mom, I think.

Here are some pictures of Olivia out for lunch on Monday. No idea who her “friend” (as our photo agency describes him) is. I couldn’t tell if it was Jason Sudeikis or not, but Kaiser doesn’t think it’s him. Maybe it’s a relative of Jason. Or you know, just a buddy.

Photos courtesy of Fame/Flynet & WENN