Sofia Vergara and Nick Loeb broke up again. This is like the millionth time this has happened, so I don’t really know what to say at this point. A recap: Nick and Sofia began dating years ago, but they did the breakup-and-makeup thing several times. The tabloids got wind of some stories involving Nick, cocaine and hookers (that’s a party!), but following those stories, Nick proposed to Sofia and she said yes. Then she started talking about babies non-stop (I think he wanted a baby) and then more tabloid stories came out about how he treats her like crap. And now they’re finally over. For good? Who knows. Sofia wrote on her WhoSay page:
“Not that anyone should care, but in order to not give the press the chance to invent crazy and hurtful drama, I prefer to tell my fans personally that Nick and I have decided to be apart. We have been having too many problems with figuring out how to spend time together and because of my work and now his, its been getting worse and worse. Not fun anymore. We are still very close but we believe it’s the best thing for us right now.”
I liked Sofia more when I thought of her as a kick-ass, take no prisoners diva who didn’t care about love, marriage or babies. She has an adult son, a thriving career and lucrative side projects, and she’s the kind of women who could keep men as pets or playthings. Life’s too short to spend this kind of time (and drama) on such a d-bag. Enough!
Photos courtesy of WENN.
Guess we’ll have to see if she truly moves on this time. Her inclusion of the not fun comment is interesting. That sounds like something a teenager would say as a reason for a breakup, instead of a 40-ish long term couple.
I think it’s important to have fun at any age. I completely understand her comment as I see many couples doing things together and looking absolutely miserable. Or when I happen to catch a conversation of a couple, it’s so depressing how little they have to talk about or how they basically give little jabs at each other. My heart weeps.
Then again, I see a lot of happy older couples too that restores my faith again.
Older people can have fun too.
I fully understand what you are saying, and agree people shouldn’t be miserable nor did I mean to imply it’s age-limited. But I suspect she really equates “fun” with drama, to some degree. And that is why I think she’s somewhat emotionally immature. Maybe not, though. Her next choice of relationship may provide more insight.
I’ve seen your other comment downthread too. In that context, I do agree with your comment now.
For her own sake, I hope she learns from this relationship.
Maybe to give benefit of the doubt, I do think she probably missed out on her teen years due to having her son at such a young age. This relationship may indeed be a learning curve for her. It was so surprising that she resumed their relationship after that hooker story.
I think she’d be waaaaay better off without him, so if they did split (as mean as this is to say) I hope it sticks.
I agree, I always thought she’d be perfect for Clooney.
Wow, I had never thought of that. I bet she’d really give Clooney a run for his money….
“and she’s the kind of women who could keep men as pets or playthings!”
Eh, I tend to disagree with that. What if you just want a companion in life? Granted that Nick Loeb sucks but a person to share your bad and celebrate your good? Why should she want or really…keep men as pets or playthings? Just as its deeply unsatisfying and disrespectful for men to do that with women (play them out, don’t respect or commit to them), i’m certain it’s just as unsatisfying when women do it to and with men.
I just think the whole “kick-ass, take no prisoners diva who didn’t care about love, marriage or babies” gets really old. She had a son that she’s raised well so she’s good at being a mother and there’s nothing inherently less kick-ass or awesome about wanting to meaningfully connect and share your life with someone. If anything, I think the latter takes a willingness to open up and infinitely more courage.
agree, “kind of women who could keep men as pets or playthings!” does sound degrading – for both genders. What a cheap pleasure – to keep someone as a toy-boy. Sounds like an attempt to humiliate men as a payback for feeling humiliated as a woman? Not a healthy attitude.
Oh lighten up. The point is she is stunningly gorgeous and millions of men would love a shot with her.
It’s funny how a woman like her who “has it all” would be attracted to a spoiled and immature “man” like that. Hopefully she’ll find her equal as a partner.
+1
He has always reeked of sliminess, to put it nicely. Good going Sophia, you can do MUCH MUCH better!!!!
That’s usually the m.o of the douche. And strong, smart women are the easiest to ensnare because smart women like to be challenged. Disinterest makes them seem like they could be your equal and then a woman as pretty as Vegara is probably wondering why someone like her can’t have someone like him and she begins to question herself which only makes it easier for him to prey on her.
Hopefully this kind of behavior becomes common knowledge and more women start identifying it before they have to go through the same process. It certainly isn’t very “fun”.
This is a great post and so true!
Great post! I think it’s spot on, and so simple. Close to a year later I still reflect on an old relationship in which this was the composition. Only recently have I started to REALLY mover forward and there are days I still struggle!
Also nice guys are probably intimidated to approach a beautiful woman whereas some player would be after her every five seconds.
Good. Now find some worthy.
I meant someone worthy.
Nick Loeb is an asshole but I think she likes the drama. After all, they split up several times and have fought in public. The engagement came right after the hookers and cocaine rumours so I’m not sure if their relationship was so fun in the past as she thought it was. Her son was apparently embarrassed by both of their behaviour so maybe she likes her men douchey?
Vergara can have her pick, she’s so popular and successful. She’s not the type to be alone for years I think.
This is exactly what I was trying to say above, related to her comment about “fun”. What is her definition of fun? For some people, it’s drama. And I suspect that’s what appeals to her.
I really like Sophia. She seems to have a great sense of humour. She seems like a genuine person. I hope she finds a partner that makes her happy:)
She is gorgeous, just saw her in Chef, that new movie with Favs, RDJ, Bobby Cannavale (very good movie BTW). I am sure she won’t have a problem finding a better hottie.
She is so very boring!
Geez, the rest of us must bore you to death.
Was there not some announcement a while back about them having a baby via a surrogate? Or was that someone else?
I thought that too.
She’s better off! he’s douche`y anyway.
So many bad stories about him- she’s probably better off.
This guy sets off my gaydar something fierce.
honestly if I were him I would just quit my job and help her as much as possible. She’s got money and a good career she’ll always find something to do, people lover her. She’s also incredibly beautiful and seems like nice and has a sense of humor. I think that guy is a dumb*ss. How many guys out there wouldn’t give their left you know what just to date her once.