Is Drew Barrymore telling Jennifer Aniston to dump John Mayer?

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The National Enquirer is running a new story on their website that Drew Barrymore is telling Jennifer Aniston to get rid of John Mayer. Supposedly Drew and John don’t get along and Drew doesn’t think that he’s the right guy for her friend. This could be based on a quote they include from a recent interview with Drew, but it also sounds like it might have an element of truth to it. You can imagine Drew and John fighting as they both seem to have strong personalities:

Drew Barrymore is begging Jennifer Aniston to dump John Mayer, telling her: “You can do better!” says a friend of the actresses.

The two beauties – recent co-stars in the hit He’s Just Not That Into You – had a recent heart-to-heart talk about the commitment-phobic rocker, pals say, with Drew urging Jen to keep looking because John’s using her to boost his career.

“Drew told Jen she could do way better and she’d be a fool to settle for him,” a close pal told The ENQUIRER.

“The first time Jen introduced twice-divorced Drew to John, they clashed,” added the source.

“They bickered for so long that Jen had to step in and change the subject.”

Over the past 10 months, Drew has heard all of Jen’s horror stories about 31-year-old John’s roving eye, how he blabs about his love life and how he refuses to discuss marriage or children, added the source.

When quizzed recently about what dating advice she gives to girlfriends, Drew revealed: “Don’t coddle your friends, help them grow. Stop repeating those bad patterns. If he doesn’t make you feel good, get out!”

“And even though Jen is crazy in love with John, I think a part of her is worried that Drew may be right.”

[From The National Enquirer]

We are trying to go easy on John Mayer here, but I see where Barrymore is coming from if this is true. This guy told the paparazzi last fall that he had broken up with Aniston, something Aniston later attributed to his need to let it be known that he was the dumper, not the dumpee. Mayer seems to be trying to make amends by taking Aniston on a Valentine’s getaway, writing her a birthday song and going to the Oscars with her. Maybe he’s at a stage where he’s ready to commit now, but I still see him as an immature guy who blabs to the press too much. Look how he talked to Ryan Seacrest right after the Oscars – and he had to go and tell PopSugar ahead of the event that he was going to be Aniston’s date. The Oscar producers were trying to keep the presenters a secret and until Mayer said he would be going it was only an unconfirmed rumor that Aniston would be there.

If Aniston was a friend, I would tell her to hold back a little and see where it goes. It wouldn’t hurt to keep this younger guy at somewhat of a distance. Enjoy yourself and if you love the guy good for you, but you don’t have to open up your entire world and heart to him until you know it’s for real. With his track record, and the way he’s broken up with her in the past, it’s not a good idea to get so wrapped up in it. A good friend of mine once gave me similar advice, and although I didn’t take it at the time she turned out to be right. I went through a lot of heartache in the mean time, thinking that I loved the guy and that it was enough despite the way things were going and the fact that he wasn’t the type to settle down.

Drew Barrymore and John Mayer are shown on 2/22/09 outside the Vanity Fair Oscar Party. Drew Barrymore is shown on 2/15/09 after dinner. Credit: WENN.com

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29 Responses to “Is Drew Barrymore telling Jennifer Aniston to dump John Mayer?”

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  1. teri says:

    Please will someone marry her, I’ll pay you five dollars.

  2. Ash says:

    Clingy……

  3. ohno says:

    I would hardly take personal advice, especially on the topic of men, from Drew Barrymore.

  4. Wonder Woman says:

    Oh let them get married, thats when the REAL fun will come out

    bust out the popcorn and enjoy

  5. PJ says:

    Jennifer says she’s very happy and John says he loves her, so what’s the problem? They have been together about a year now, so it’s obviously a real relationship, and it seems to be growing, not fizzling.

    The Inquirer is just making up stuff again.

    John is a long way from being a George Clooney type of womanizer. He’s had several girlfriends, yes, but they have been ongoing relationships, not one-night hookups. To me that means he’s experimenting, which is typical of 20-somethings, and now that he’s in his 30s he’ll settle down when he’s ready and finds the right partner.

  6. geronimo says:

    lol, agree, Wonder Woman. Think of the entertainment value!

  7. lily says:

    good for jen~ she looks 30!

  8. HEB says:

    Dump him. Is Smith from SATC single? She should date and marry him.

  9. Wow says:

    She seems a bit on edge during interviews some times, but I like Jennifer. I wonder why the public wants her to be married to any man she is just dating as if that will validate her or something. Marriage isn’t for everyone and even some of those who are married, wish they weren’t. Or they do the divorce thing.

    Good on her for just living her life and not caring what her detracters have to say about it.

  10. kiki says:

    Drew marrys guys so they can get their green card. not exactly an expert on relationships.

  11. Lem says:

    why are we trying to go easy on him?

    I love Drew, but dating advise from her, lol, she married Tim Green

  12. Tia C says:

    Tom, not Tim, Green, but true nonetheless. Love her work, but Drew’s not someone I’d take dating advice from, either, LOL.

    Jennifer Aniston is a big girl, she can be in a relationship with whoever she wants. I don’t understand why everyone cares about it so much.

  13. Debbi says:

    I have a friend who is dating a terrible drunk. I want to tell her that he is bad for her, but I don’t want to ruin our friendship. Another friend already said something and she blew off the advice. What to do? Fortunately, he is really taking his time with marriage and even moving in together. I hope it takes him forever and she wises up in the mean time.

    And, I love Drew very much, but you are all right – bad taste in men!

  14. Lem says:

    whoops turns out the i is next to the o

  15. Alexis says:

    He looks like Ricky Ricardo in the photo. It makes me almost kind li- no, no NO, he’s still an ass!

  16. Madelyn Rose says:

    I think that Drew is probably right. If true, this situation is like her character in “He’s Just Not That Into You,” but I don’t think it will turn out like it did in the movie.

    Debbi, you have to be very careful about being honest with your friend. I have made that mistake before, and you might think she’ll love you for it, but she could turn on you! If she asks, maybe you could gently broach the subject…but I wouldn’t offer it up unless you know her very well and think she will truly listen. I went through a similar thing with my sister, and it hurt our relationship for a while. Thankfully, she is now married to a wonderful guy!

  17. sandy says:

    yes! i could totally see him singing Baba-lu and bossing his wife around.
    back to topic- i feel sorry for jen. can you imagine being divorced, biological clock ticking (If that’s what she wants?), and constantly playing head games with this poser who is 10 years younger?
    she must ask herself if this is a waste of time

  18. Codzilla says:

    Debbi: I’m sorry you have to see your friend in peril. In my experience, there’s only so much you can do before the friendship is in jeopardy. One of my closest friends married a man she clearly didn’t love, and during their engagement, I asked her why she was going through with it. Needless to say, my inquiry didn’t go over well, and the friendship eventually dissolved. If your friend is head over heels for this guy, probably the best thing you can do is keep your mouth shut and just be there for her when the hard times come. That’s my two cents, at least.

  19. hmm says:

    Jennifer is a forty year old woman who has been in a lot of relationships and if she wants to be with him then that’s her business. But if the story is true, I respect her friend for telling her the truth regardless of whether or not she wants to hear it. And let’s be clear, the leak about Aniston being on the Oscars was out long before peeboy confirmed it to PopSugar and the result is just what they were hoping for. The dreaded triagle received the attention, not the actual winners. We saw more pictures of Aniston flitting from party to party then the actual winners. And for a couple who weren’t going to speak about their relationship, they spoke to Oprah on Monday, Ryan Seacrest yesterday and there’s a big story on People.com today talking about it, again. So they are active participants in this PR blitz.

  20. Maritza says:

    Jennifer is old enough to know better, I trust her instincts, she’ll know when to say enough is enough and she will leave him when she is ready. In the meantime she is enjoying her young boyfriend.

  21. Sunnyjyl says:

    CB, I think your advice is the best/most balanced I’ve heard. Well expressed.

  22. The triangle sucks! says:

    Well said hmmm! I’m really sad that Jen chose the Oscars to pose with Mayer. Talk about trying to get all the attention. I hope the Oscars don’t invite her back, but they probably will . . . and they’ll try to get Brangelina too. The whole triangle thing cheapens the Oscars.

  23. santacruz says:

    John and JA both looked out of their depth at the oscars…like deer in headlights

  24. torietee says:

    I think it’s show romance and they are using each other: He’s a fame whore and she wants to stay relevant. It works for them.

    P.S I think Jen knows what she is doing and has gone into this ‘relationship’ with her eyes wide open.

  25. Gloaming says:

    Drew probably knew Mayer a long time ago, since he dated Cameron Diaz,who is/was one of Drew’s best friends,so there could be some truth to this.

    I like Drew alot, she seems to be a good friend to Women-a rarity in Hollywood.

  26. RAN says:

    Agree Gloaming.

    I tend to agree with Drew on this one – this guy is a loser, let him go.

    Debbi, I echo Codzilla’s comment – just be there for your friend when things go awry. If you try to intervene beforehand, you may lose him/her.

    Level headed advice CB – you’re sound like a pretty terrific friend.

  27. RAN says:

    sigh… *you* sound like a pretty terrific friend. Oh edit and the good ol’ days

  28. SixxKitty says:

    Whats that old saying “you get what yu settle for”, hello jennifer!

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