I was pretty shocked at the news of Amber Rose divorcing Wiz Khalifa after one year of marriage. They were finished almost as soon as they began. Now I’m over it too. If someone decides to split that fast, something really bad must have happened. The consensus is that one or both of them cheated. People looked towards Nick Cannon as an instigator. Nick insisted that he and Amber are mere business associates.
Some new details have hit TMZ. Amber strongly suspected that Wiz was cheating on her since his tour begain in July. He made a huge deal about not wanting her to come along. His official excuse was that Amber belonged at home with baby Sebastian. If that’s true, then Wiz is a complete douche. There’s no reason that Wiz couldn’t bring his family on tour unless he was looking for extracurricular amusement.
Amber took to Twitter yesterday. She confessed her pain, saying she was “devastated” and concentrating upon little Sebastian. She denied cheating and said Wiz couldn’t do the same:
Please stop with the fake stories. I would never ever ever cheat on my husband in a million years I think u guys know this…..
— Amber Rose (@DaRealAmberRose) September 25, 2014
Unfortunately my now ex husband can't say the same….
— Amber Rose (@DaRealAmberRose) September 25, 2014
Then Wiz decided to tweet like an a-hole by declaring how his day has been “magical” without Amber around, basically.
Today is a magical day for many of us.
Let it be yours too.
— We Dem Boyz (@wizkhalifa) September 25, 2014
TMZ further reports that Wiz has been telling everyone how “Amber is one big nag.” Of course. Dudes always say that when they’re confronted with their own behavior. The word “nag” is a blanket term of douchey art. It instantly makes a woman look and feel bad. But is it really nagging if Amber wanted her husband to not sleep with other woman on tour?
Gee Wiz. How rude.
Photos courtesy of WENN
I love the tone of this site. There are so many guy-centric, male POV gossip sites out there, that it’s really refreshing to have one that says things like nagging is just a term guys use when they’re confronted with their own douchey behavior. Thanks for that. Sincerely.
+1
Guys also like to pull out the “oh she was so crazy or a psycho ” after getting dumped. I know so many men – especially when I was younger – that it seemed every ex girlfriendl was a “psycho”. I would say in a sarcastic tone – wow either you have horrible luck or the problem is really you. ( of course it was them ) lol I hate how that’s one of their go to as well
That’s suuuch a red flag, haha. They’re either almost always assholes, or the actual crazy ones.
Right, Erinn, HUGE red flag
Yup. When men say women are “crazy”, it’s a way for them to dismiss the woman’s feeling and absolve themselves of any responsibility in the relationship.
Dudes-check your own behavior before you throw out the “crazy”.
I know, right? Yet another word to take away a woman’s power and make her the bad guy. If someone has one crazy ex, yeah, I’ll give them the benefit of the doubt, I’ve met some people who go a bit nuts after a break up or were already kinda nuts, but if they have multiple crazy exes, well, they’re the asshole here.
@Wren
OR they thrive on drama, and are ‘crazy’ themselves. I have an uncle who LOVES crazy women. The sh-t they start over stupid stuff, the better he likes them. And it doesn’t even have to be the crazy types that go to jail because they drove a CAR off the lot, when it was just supposed to be a test drive, and told him (my uncle) that there wasn’t a car note or insurance to pay (his first wife)–any kind of drama, etc is what he loves.
really? how many of them are there? the biggest are run by women. it makes sense as gossip is almost exclusively consumed by women.
You would be surprised by the amount of guy focused sites who literally Judge celebrities on boobs and bikini pics. It’s a myth that guys aren’t interested in gossip. It just has to be sprinkled with boobs ass and beer.
@brionne yes exactly. check out some of the comments on barstool sports. disturbing.
Agreed. What is “nagging”, if not a reasonable request ignored so often that it needs repeating ad infinitum?
Why do men never get called nags?
good point.
So true!!! I’ve told Mr. M this before. He’s never called me a nag but I start to feel like one if I have to gently remind him about something he said he would do weeks ago over and over.
Because they keep everything in until they explode or get an ulcer!
“Show me a beautiful woman and I’ll show you a man sick of fking her.”
I believe her. She has always said in interviews that she never cheats and thinks 3somes are gross, way before she got with Wiz. He’s been caught several times on social media hitting on girls hard then requesting they delete the comment (before there were DM’s). One girl didn’t do it fast enough cuz she wasn’t on IG all the time and probably didn’t even see his comment and his fans attacked HER for being a whore and exposing him! He’s gross. Aren’t they all in this industry?
Did you know that pre-19th century nagging women (and witches) were forced to wear a contraption called a scold’s bridle which had a spiked bit protruding into the mouth, holding down the tongue so that if they tried to speak they’d be hurt by the spikes?
It’s so amazing to me how men have subjugated women, not just by calling them nags, but by inventing a contraption like the scold’s bridle to stop them nagging.
@LAK- WOW I had no idea. For anyone else also as interested: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scold's_bridle
I’ve always felt that “nag” is a somewhat sexist term. When was the last time a man was referred to as a “nag”? Am I wrong?
Yes, and men love to deflect responsibility for something away from themselves, so to say Amber is a nag certainly doesn’t address the question of his cheating, does it? But Amber, honey, when you married this kind of a man, did you REALLY think he would be faithful?
‘Nagging’ and ‘bringing up the past’ are the favourites here. The past, by the way, can be everything including stuff he’s literally just said.
Lmao YES! Sometimes in the SAME CONVERSATION! My God that drives me nuts.
That, being called a nag or crazy is so dismissive of legitimate things a woman is communicating and, exactly as said in the post, a way to absolve men of the crap they do!
The worst is when they deny saying something from a previous argument. Then they demand to know the precise date of the statement. When you can’t immediately produce, “September 3, 2011” off the top of your head, it’s all, “See … I never said that. You’re making sh-t up in your head again.”
*sniff* This has been genuinely cathartic.
I’m not married, but have had break ups. I guess I’ve been lucky in that none of them have been really ugly.
I just don’t understand the need to air everything in public. Social media makes it all worst in some way. It is an open forum to bring the world into something that is no one’s business. They have a child that will know of this one day.
I think everyone figured something drastic had to happen for this to end so quickly.
Oh fu*k him! She’s a nag for wanting to come on tour and spend time with her husband and for wanting their child to spend time with his father? His frail a** needs to have a seat.
AND for not wanting him to sleep with other women apparently? the nerve.
What a bitch, right?
why do we take this at face value though? Amber obviously wants to get the upper hand in the publicity battle. so she accuses him of cheating. there were rumors about both of them. so know she gets in the open and puts all the blame on him while painting herself as the saint who would “never ever ever” (Taylor Swift speak) cheat on her dear husband.
i would not be surprised if its her team leaking those things.
as you can see in the comments and the article: its working perfectly. appeal to sexist gender stereotypes and you can see women being mad at him. without knowing what went down at all.
with media aimed at men the publicist would write she boned a richer dude and laughed at him when he showed feelings. And he would not call her the female “nag” she would call him the male “loser” (how often do you see women being called losers? especially when it comes to making money or job success?). tada, men would be mad at her exactly in the same way the mostly female comments here are at him.
This is so spot on and such a refreshing and honest viewpoint. More people should see this. I am always suspicious when celebs take to social media to air private grievances, especially when it’s pointing the finger squarely at the other party and trying to be (or pretend) totally innocent. Her strategy worked like a charm, based on the comments here.
Great points you make here.
I feel awful for her if it’s true. But I still can’t believe women are lining up to sleep with this yahoo. He looks so dirty and like he smells.
Just what I was thinking…. and his teeth YUCK!!!
I know nothing about Amber, but I do know that she
can do much better.
Yeah but he’s a very rich guy. For some women, that’s all it takes.
Very true. Freddy Krueger could whip out the claws after flashing a wad of cash and some women would still try and follow him home…
She once said that she has NEVER been around Wiz when he wasn’t high,how can you marry someone that you have never witnessed in a sober state.Poor baby though.
People marry addicts all the time.They marry people who are addicted to gambling,shopping,food,marijuana etc. I guess she thought it wasnt that serious because it is only weed.Well he looks like a crack head in that twitpic IMO
The strange thing is I seem to remember she said she smoked with him every day. Like it was something good they shared.
I don’t see it being over “as quickly as it began” since they’ve been together for almost 4 years, they’ve not been married for one. I liked them as a couple but Kanye and Amber were always my favourite.
I hate all this mud slinging on social media. One day your son will read these stories! I know it is hard when you are hurt not to vent but you are in the public eye, have a social media blackout till the news blows over so you won’t be tempted to tweet.
i have to disagree a bit here…celebs are talked about in social media whether they themselves open their mouths or not. in this situation, if Wiz really DID cheat on Amber, then she has a right to let everyone, INCLUDING her son (who may one day read this), know what a dirtbag she was married to. i guess i think mud-slinging is deserved when one partner cheats on the other. if she’s making it up though just for sympathy (which i don’t think she is), THEN she’s completely wrong and should be ashamed of spreading lies her son will one day read.
Granted, some people, both men and women, can be nags, but a good amount of the time, calling someone else a ‘nag’ is a deflection of the fact that you aren’t listening, or aren’t acting on things you’ve promised or should be doing. When someone feels compelled to repetitively make demands, or asks to discuss something, you have to look inward, as to why this person feels as though you haven’t met your end of the bargain on either of the levels above. Unless this is their modus operandi and that’s something you would have noticed before making a commitment.
My mother could tend be a what I called ‘nag’ back then, when I was a kid, but really, she wouldn’t have had to be, if I didn’t blow her off in the first place.
Well said.
Exactly. People who know they aren’t doing what they should be doing find it annoying when you point it out, and in their mind, you’re nagging.
yeap. most of the time, from my observation, it’s also a way to deflect any personal responsibility for your own actions – as in “i cheated on so-and-so because she’s a nag.” oh, ok. totally her fault, then, you had no agency in your own actions.
Well that’s who my mom explains it-she nags because sh*t needs to get done.
That being said…I really do feel like she nags and needles my dad but I think it’s just their dynamic. To me though, sometimes it seems that she’s critiquing him for no reason.
Then the next second, they’ll be totally loving and sweet to each other.
Maybe that’s just what happens after being married for 47 years? I don’t know….
Also, it needs to be said that my dad can be a bit of a stick in the mud, so my mom’s pushiness can sometimes be good for him.
*how not “who”
Totally. While there are some people in the world who are legit nags no matter what you do, most of the time their behavior is merely a symptom of the other person not listening or holding up their end of the relationship. “Oh, she was a nag, eh? Well what exactly were YOU doing to make her feel like she had to nag you? Nothing? Gee, that’s hard to believe since I doubt you would have married someone as deeply unpleasant as you’re currently describing.”
@Kitten, So are you a new kitten, the original kitten, or the best kitten?
There are so many kittens I can’t keep track.
Are you having an identity crisis?
Yeah, every day she has a new name, If it’s O’Kitt. I can’t keep up. That, or there is an explosion of litters and we’re not even in kitten season any longer, I think.
Well when I first started commenting here I was just “Kitten”. But those were the pre-Mod Squad days where trolls were a-plenty, so people would come on and comment as “Kitten”, saying batsh*t crazy things and I didn’t want to be associated with that. I then became The Original Kitten.
Today my name is Kitten.
Flashback Friday, Going old-school, etc.
Just keeping us on our toes. Got it.
Indeed. Unless someone is a truly vindictive and petty person, their “nagging” is a request for assistance or a concern they have. I challenge all the men who claim that their wives “nag” to take on ALL of her duties for a week – and then see who is “nagging”.
He looks like that one lonely dried up chicken wing at the bottom of a KFC bucket.
Perfect and hilarious. Thank you.
LMAO @ this accurate description!
Gold!
LMAO!
Ha! Spot on!
he needs to go away.
i totally believe what he is accused of. but i also believe that she is not innocent. if you have to write “never ever ever” and “you guys know this” then im convinced you are doing the same. denials can often reveal the truth better than confessions.
Since some months,there are some rumors on their mutual cheatings : her with Nick Cannon and him with other women.
After,she’s like a likeable Kim K .No talent but famous for her love life and her boyfriends.
He always looks under influence .
i believe that they are both equally to blame. she just did a first strike to discredit him. if he now blames her for cheating it will look like he is just making stuff up.
Meh, I don’t know who is to blame, but he could’ve said she cheated too, right after she said she didn’t. Instead, he called her a nag, not a liar, not a cheater.
Kiddo, where does he call her a nag? TMZ says that. you dont know if thats not coming from her team. as i said a little above: it looks to me like her publicist using gender stereotypes to get people on her side.
all we know is that Amber tweeted that he is the bad guy and she would “never ever ever” do something like that.
Good point @ Sara. You’re right. Although TMZ does have pretty solid and sordid sources.
Eh, they both are such jokes.
And these two had a baby. Awesome.
Rumor is they both cheated she is just trying to get out in front basically.
And tmz just reported she wants the prenup enforced (giving her 1 mil) but also wants spousal support which was already denied in the terms of the prenup. So that sounds fishy to me already.
Update: We’ve learned there are 2 additional pages to the prenup … and in them Wiz agrees to pay Amber spousal support in addition to the one-time payout. We’re told the support is “modest” — slightly more than $5K a month.
Damn, some men can have the prettiest girl on their arm and still be looking for the next trick – pitiful.
Honestly. Some men only think with their d and how to put the ‘p’ in some new ‘v’…..
On the rebound from Kanye, you married a weed smoking rapper with a fading career and now we’re supposed to feel what?
“weed smoking rapper” = total redundancy
LOL! No doubt but there is a group of “mature” rappers who are family men and probably not hitting the bong with regularity anymore ie Jay Z, Will Smith, ‘LL Cool J, Dr. Dre, Ice Cube, Queen Latifah, Diddy and maybe even Ice T.
Believe it or not rap hasn’t always been mostly concerned with weed and booty. 🙂
I know and you’re right 😉
I was just being a wiseass.
If AR had brown curly hair she would look a bit like Sarah Mclaughlan.
I hope this does not get all the attention Amber wants it to get. File for divorce, tweet devastation than goto the Roxy. What the heck?
She dated a rapper who cheated than She married a rapper who might have cheated. Than he is high all the time. The photos of him with his son are sad he is wasted in some of them.
That is like marrying an outlaw and expecting your old man to stay faithful, clean and take you on saturdays ride.
I do not care for cheaters but she is a self proclaimed Philly hood rat than she knows the deal.
The lifestyle is the lifestyle.
Her choice and his choice to bring a child into that lifestyle is disturbing. Oh and her “career” is about to take off. She comes off as a climber to me. He may have cheated but she is no dummy when it comes to $$$$$$$$$$$$.
He probably got caught but, she’s no angel don’t get it twisted. Many stories are out there about both of them being sexually “adventurous” and engaging in “threesomes”.
I do not doubt it but she is trying to sell herself as something she is not.
Nag=expecting him to man up and be grown and responsible for his family. How dare she. What does she think, that they’re married with a child?! Oh wait…
Right or wrong he’s getting tons of support in his home town…. it’s been ALL over fb and its unreal how cruel people can be when speaking of her!
| don’t think bringing the child on tour would have been wise. Wiz is a known weed user (heavy user at that)…what do you think happens on tour? A lot of pot smoking…a lot of hoochies as well. Did he cheat? Who knows…but Amber must have some proof. All that weed smoking made Wiz paranoid…I doubt anything is going on with Amber and Nick…doubt he’s even her type.
#yeezytaughtme
This has nothing to do with this story, but I’d like to see a post on Marquise, 50 Cent’s son, hanging around Floyd Mayweather (50’s enemy) to replace 50 as a father figure. I find it despicable that 50 has disowned his teenage son Marquise, failed to go to his high school graduation and basically replaced him with his two year old son, whom he just threw a huge Ferrari-themed party for. How do you do that to your 17 year old son? And 50 has always talked trash publicly about Marquise’s mother. 50 needs to be called out for this nonsense. He needs to take care of all his children and be involved in their lives in a positive way.
By the way, I have always found Nick Cannon extremely attractive. I wonder if Amber feels the same way, but I’m not implying she did anything with Nick before the divorce announcement. If I were Amber, I’d wait for Nick’s divorce to be finalized (and her own) and then hit that hard.
Please, people. Think before you have kids with someone you barely know. The kids always suffer from the adults’ choices.