What I know about British country life, I learned from the Daily Mail, the Bridget Jones books and Miss Marple. So I have some vague familiarity with the organization called the Women’s Institute, or WI. WI is for country ladies, usually older ladies, to meet a few times a month, maybe have a guest speaker, maybe do some knitting and maybe gossip about their flower gardens. The WI seems pretty harmless overall, although I’m struggling to understand why a woman under the age of 55 would really want to join. But it’s happened. Duchess Kate apparently written to the local WI and asked to join. Sure. I imagine she has a lot of free time what with her mother organizing the entire Anmer Hall household.
For a young mother settling down to a genteel life in the country, the Women’s Institute – with its flower-arranging, tea and delicious home-made cakes – makes for a very alluring prospect. And now there is one branch of the WI in Norfolk that’s set to receive a new member who is sure to attract discreet – but excited – attention from the assembled ladies. For the Duchess of Cambridge has written to Anmer WI on the Sandringham estate, where she and Prince William have their country home, to express her interest in joining.
The branch, with just 14 members, has an evening meeting once a month in the community hall less than a ten-minute stroll from the Royal couple’s Georgian mansion, Anmer Hall. Last night, the delighted president of the Anmer WI welcomed the news. Dorothy Pulsford-Harris, 70, a retired barrister, had written to the Duchess before Christmas to invite her to join. She said: ‘I had a very nice letter back from her private secretary saying she was interested. We would be delighted to see her.’
The Duchess would be following Royal tradition, as the Queen became a member of Sandringham WI in 1943 and is now the branch’s president, having taken over the role from the Queen Mother. The Queen always attends one meeting a year – usually featuring a celebrity guest speaker – during her annual Christmas break on the 20,000-acre Norfolk estate. The Duchess of Cornwall and the Countess of Wessex are also WI members, and Princess Anne is an associate member. The Queen, Princess Anne and the Countess of Wessex are due to attend the WI’s annual meeting on June 4, which will mark its centenary.
By joining the WI, Kate, 33, would be showing another sign of the Royal couple’s wish to live a middle-class lifestyle. The Duchess has been seen in Waitrose, local shops and joining Prince William for pub meals. The WI, with its traditional ‘Jam and Jerusalem’ image, has campaigned for many years to attract younger members. Mrs Pulsford-Harris added: ‘She would be one of our younger members. I don’t know how old our youngest member is, but I would say early 40s.’
Meetings of the Anmer branch involve activities such as flower-arranging and craft demonstrations, or visits by speakers. Mrs Pulsford-Harris said: ‘The speakers include people with interesting jobs like the local paramedics who go round on their bicycles, and people from local charities, particularly mental health charities. There are also outings and we have a meeting once a year when we go to a member’s home in the evening for a garden party – hopefully when it is not raining.’
As I said, it sounds pretty harmless. And I’m guessing this is more about royal tradition – I didn’t realize so many royal women had connections to the WI – rather than wanting that “middle class” lifestyle. Perhaps Kate can even count these meetings as part of her royal event list! Ha.
One more thing – Carole Middleton has just signed on to write an advice/product recommendation list for two mum-centered publications, Little London and Baby London. She will be offering recommendations for “the best products on the market” for babies and toddlers. Sigh…
Photos courtesy of WENN.
My aunties were all in the WI. Back then, it was all about cooking (mostly jam) and crafts (mostly knitting). There’s one in my village and it is mostly the older women. But these days it’s all about zumba! They’re jumping about in the village hall almost every day! And they do a weekly lunch club for the pensioners. I think it’s the sort of place British women go to where the American equivalent would be some kind of church group. Bit of cooking, bit of craft, bit of charity stuff, lots and lots of gossip.
We actually have something called Ladies Library in the States – it sounds very similar – my Grammies were members and it’s something I think about joining from time to time. They do some charitable things but it’s mostly small groups & they also host string quartets, etc. for members to come see.
Here in the South it’s the Junior League.
Do the WI clubs put out cookbooks like the Junior League over here does? Junior League cookbooks are great; two of my most popular desserts are from their books. I’ll have to go looking for WI ones.
I was going to say that I don’t think it’s odd! I’m 27 and have been a member of the junior League for 3 years now!
They do put out recipe books! I found one on Amazon US – ISBN 978-1785030475. Here’s the recipe section of their website: http://www.thewi.org.uk/what-we-do/recipes.
You are awesome. Thank you Sixer!
And if you come back, Sixer, I’ve bookmarked the page after having spent a lovely half hour going through the desserts. And I’m definitely trying the vegetarian Shepherdess Pie!!!
Oh please, it’s Waity! You don’t expect her to actually make appearances there do you?
Exactly. The only time I ever imagine her visiting the group is when QEII makes her annual visit and Kate will be sure to be photographed.
But in reality, I think it will go the same way the headlines for the RAF wives group in Wales went:
2011 – newlywed Kate set to join RAF wives group
2012 – Kate Middleton accused of snubbing RAF wives group & Kate Middleton Avoids Socialising With RAF Wives
That was my first thought–it will go the way of the RAF wives’ club.
As it says in the article, she didnt ask to join, she was invited. So her staff sends back a letter saying “maybe” because “ha ha, f*ck no!” is rude. There is no reason to suspect that this will hold her attention any more than her volunteer work with the Scouts – five appearances in four years.
Maybe she was invited to join because four of the 14 members are prince william’s granny, stepmother, and aunts? i mean, it would be kind of rude if they DIDN’T invite her to eat crumpets with them and the other ten women who also apparently live on the Queen’s estate?
Calendar Girls!
LOL!! Good one!!
It’s very normcore to join these retro organizations . Kate’s got a hipster heart
This isn’t comparable to the Red Hatters is it? Oh Geez. Though, I’d never heard of them until a few years ago.
If this is some kind of feminist group, I don’t think it’s a good fit for Middleton since she’s clearly demonstrated being controlled by others for a long time.
Hahaha no, their roots are in old school rural communities where the little woman goes to show off her baking and domestic skills. Kind of the opposite. Here in Australia it’s called the Country Women’s Association and does all the same stuff, it’s considered very antiquated. They do put out an amazing cookbook though.
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It sounds like dabbling into a bit of an Amish life. I think it was the word “antiquated” you used.
In any event. I think this is a sign we won’t see much of Kate for a while.
However, right now, I’m still hoping Mike Middleton sets up the camera soon for a lovely family photo and William allows the photos to be published.
All I know about the WI is from the movie Calendar Girls, with Helen Mirren and many many other famous faces.
Doubt we’ll see the Duchess of Crumpets in a nude calendar anytime soon though XD
The history is interesting though. The Womens Institute had an important contribution during the two World Wars iirc, uniting the women in Britain in sort of local communities together and creating much needed foodpreserves and the like.
http://www.thewi.org.uk/centenary/centenary-timeline
We’ve already seen her completely naked anyway, so…
I have to say, I’m 34 and I would LOVE to have that where I live!
I’m older, but it sounds like a good way to meet you neighbors. Why not?
Right! I was just thinking this actually sounds kind of lovely.
Yeah, me too! I’m 35 and I love knitting 🙂
I’m 35 and took up knitting and crocheting with a few friends last January. There were classes near me and it ended up being just us with the teacher in the class. Honestly, enjoyed it so much and just us getting to meet up every week, have coffee and then grab food afterwards, it’s fab.
I love making stuff for people now.
I am a fairly normal (ha!) woman who turned 41 yesterday and I have been a member of the WI since my daughter was born 11 years ago.
My mum lives a long way away (and is two stops short of Dagenham) and for me it was a lovely way to make friends, provide my children with lots of ‘aunties’ and be involved in our village. For a very long time it was the one night a month I would go out and have adult conversation.
I have learned a great deal, laughed a lot and made a lot of cake. Win win! Plus there is a great deal of discussion and campaigning – environmental and social. And yes, I am still the youngest in my group, but age is just a number. These women are my friends.
It is a pity if Kate doesn’t join – real women with real lives and experiences could teach her such a lot about her responsibilities both to her nation and others.
Happy Belated Birthday, scone. And well said….
I don’t picture Kate joining or being active in such a group.
This smells of PR. She will join. Attend a few times. Stories will come out that she’s good things and crafty/social/country life. And it will bump up her numbers.
Past that this move appears to be all Jason.
And Carole? Who didn’t see that move coming?
Attend a *few* times? Please. If she goes more than once I’ll die from the shock. I mean, what will she talk about? Shopping? Grooming? Vacationing? Nevertheless, however many times she goes it will count towards her year end numbers. Just like giving birth was an official engagement. *eyeroll*
@Red Snapper! LOL….. ‘shopping, grooming, vacationing’………….that’s really about all she would have to contribute, from what I can see. hahahaha
Sounds lovely, and very sensible of you to have found a family to adopt since yours was far away.
Look up the Shoreditch Sisters, part of a new generation of WI members.
Yeah, it’s still very focused around communities and crafts, but to my horror, not a single member in my local group knitted (which is possibly why I didn’t join 🙂 ). There are usually guest speakers – the week that I went, it was a female farmer, telling us about how the turkey business worked, and then she showed us all how to carve a turkey properly. There is a vague religious feeling about it – my local group is connected to the local CofE church – but I don’t think it has to be. I’d join in a flash if either of my nearest groups met in the evenings. It’s not always work-friendly unfortunately.
I think it’s a good idea. Kate needs to broaden her horizons, make some female friends and stop being such a doormat to Wills. It may help her ease away from total dependency on “mummy” too when she sees how other women seem to be able to deal with their children and run a home without their mothers constantly hovering over everything.
Watch her mother join her, sit quietly during the meetings listening to the other women talk, then steal their ideas and sell them to the print media as her own. Just Kidding. Not really.
jaded, I don’t see that happening….Kate won’t stop being a doormat, and she hasn’t really shown any interest in broadening her horizons. She lives in a cocoon and likes it that way – including Ma Middleton. If she goes to one meeting, it will only be a PR effort.
Seeing as you brought up work, Kaiser, I’d like to note that the Court CIrcular has Charlotte’s birth down as an engagement for Kate. I guess she did work pretty hard!
That’s crazy!
OMG, that’s embarrassing.
Hahahahahaha
Next step is counting Carole’s mothering a toddler articles as work for Kate.
You mean they’re going to count the birth as an official engagement?
Does that mean they’ll count the number of hours in labor as credited hours too? If so, Kate should say she was in labor for 600 hours and beat the Queen in number of hours worked per year.
That would be something if the hours get counted.
As usual she didn’t spend too much time working at that either, as she went home just a few hours later, haha! Seriously, they counted the birth of a baby as an official engagement? Standing outside for two minutes to show a newborn now counts as work???
Maybe they’ll log all the hours of pregnancy towards her working ‘quota’. These people really suck……….
Really? As in really? I’m speechless. So, I guess when she shows up for her own funeral that will be recorded as an engagement too. Well, f*ck, that explains why she looked so good, blow-out, etc., leaving the hospital with wee lil Charlotte. It was an engagement. It was an engagement. Who knew?
Re: the WI. Where is Hyacinth Bucket when you need her?
I love watching KUA, it never get’s old! I can just see Hyacinth bending over backwards to make sure the Duchess was in HER group, lol.
@ Lucky Charms. I love that bucket woman😜😜😜!! U r right. It never gets old. Patricia Rutledge is such a good comedic actress.
I’m still flabbergasted at this. I keep checking the CC hoping it’s an aberration, but nope! There it is.
I guess producing the Spare to the Throne counts.
It really lends credence to the argument that she’s just there to provide heirs, doesn’t it? I was stunned to see that counted as work.
Does she also get credit for walking outside with the baby, or is it all rolled into one engagement? 😉
Should be two, since shaking hands when you get on & off a plane counts as two.😉
If she does follow through with joining, she will probably show up once a year, if at all.
How does Carole get away with writing about baby/toddlers? Her ‘experience’ has to be from the royal babies, so would the Queen not be a bit miffed? It sounds like she will be shilling products.
She did raise her own children but that was more than two decades ago…. Almost none of the same products would be on the market today. So…. Yeah. Tell us Carole, what brand of nappies do you use for William’s accidents?
Wills probably requires a pacifier more than George! LOL
Christin, the article said Carole wasn’t going to be paid for the articles, but certainly inferred she could reference items they sell.
In all honesty. If somebody isn’t going to get paid then I wonder if this somebody is going to write stuff himself or just pen her name to somebody else’s writing.
Well, Pipster isn’t getting a ton of work these days is she?
Kind of reminds me of the DAR without the “A” or the “R” I guess…
Would it count as work-related hours if she joins? Does she get credited hours if her chefs…er… she makes cookies for the meetings?
What happens if they ask her to join in an activity? I’d think she’d get really confused about whether or not she could or should or actually wants to. She’d have to talk to several of her staff to find out what answer she should give. It’s just going to get really complicated.
“I had a very nice letter back from her private secretary saying she was interested.”
Why…. Because Waity was TOO BUSY to write the note herself? Or maybe because the “princess lessons” didn’t include “How to write a nice letter.”
Every time I think I’m lazy I compare myself to her LOL
Remember that letter to the sick kid in the hospital? It was type-written (probably by her secretary) but signed (with the wrong spelling though).
Then remember her Thank-You letter to the Wimbledon people? It was hand-written.
Priorities, right?
That was damning. Typed up letter with very proper, impersonal wording. The excuse was she doesn’t have time to write it out herself and had to have staff type it up.
Then the Wimbledon Thank You letter came out shortly after. The spelling errors were so basic even I could point them out.
Priorities.
Though, that was some time ago. Maybe she’s trying to be less lazy and distant?
OMG the Wimbledon letter! She wrote about enjoying “peace and quite”! I couldn’t believe my eyes. She got a 2:1 degree in art history from a top Uni. It boggles the mind.
I start wondering if any British university would ever have dared to not let Prince William’s girlfriend graduate.
2:1 isn’t that good, is it?
Yup. In my view that doesn’t count as Kate joining. It was just a polite letter saying she was interested, not that she would. She might join this one, though, as a lot of the royal women are members.
Women’s groups – here in Germany there are several such clubs. For example the “Landfrauen” (country women) who are very much about housekeeping skills but they have done a lot for the education of the lower ranks as well. Back then it was all about stenotyping and typewriting and secretarial skills and such.
Hail to them – society would be a lot poorer without them.
But Kate joining one such club? It is ridiculous. She doesn’t know anything about housekeeping as she has a chef and a nanny and a personal assistant and a driver and gardeners and then she has her mother who seems to organize it all.
I doubt Kate has many / any interests at all. She certainly never displayed any except shopping and catering to William.
These clubs are about giving back and organizing events and supporting and teaching each other. What would Kate have to offer? And as there is nothing she is apparently interested in … Why would she join? Oh yes, it is all about pr.
I really dislike these window-dressing pr actions of Kate and William. Their pr games appear so fake and dishonest. See, the Queen might not actually have taught cooking to anybody at her club but at least she shows up regularly. She is a member since those days when it was “normal” to be a member. And I bet she said some nice words each time she visits. I doubt Kate will ever go so far in her support of this club.
Sounds boring!!
I noticed in the middle photo the part in Kate’s hair followed by a little bump.
Could that be the wiglet that’s been mentioned so much or just a little back combing or blow dry with lots of hairspray?
I’m sure the Wigleteers can confirm, but that sure looks like a wiglet to me.
If they’ve counted the birth as an official engagement why not the conception….? LOL.
ROFL!!!