We joke a lot about Taylor Swift around here, and that obviously makes us terribly anti-feminist, anti-woman and anti-kitty. But that’s the problem, isn’t it? If we let Taylor Swift run the conversation, then she will never develop a key sense of self-awareness, and she will never understand that she makes bad decisions for herself with her love life. Granted, those “bad decisions” have her laughing all the way to the bank. But let’s make the argument that she is genuinely looking for love, looking for a partner, looking for a real relationship. Is Calvin Harris that guy? Well, look at his own romantic history, which is just as drama-filled as Swifty’s. Whatever is happening between them, it probably won’t last. But they are in the full throttle of love, and that might include writing songs about their love together. Because they are each other’s muse.

They made their first public appearance together at the Billboard Awards over the weekend. But its seems Taylor Swift and Calvin Harris have been loved up for a lot longer than that. The couple, who started dating in March, are apparently writing songs together, as they are “slowly becoming each other’s muses”.

You may remember Calvin wrote a song with his ex girlfriend Rita Ora which did not end well when they publically rowed about it after their split. Anyway a source said of Taylor and Calvin: “They’re crazy about each other, but are really stimulated by their unique approaches to songwriting. They’re slowly becoming each other’s muses.”

The duo started playing music together during a low-key date night at Taylor’s mansion in Beverly Hills, California. The insider said: “They often end up in fits of laughter, but they’ve come up with some very interesting melodies and lyrics and she wants to record some of them.”

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I have no doubt that Taylor Swift is already writing songs about Calvin Harris and she’s probably even got some lyrics hidden away for when they do break up. But Calvin? Using Tay-Tay as a muse? The very thought of it made me a little bit sick to my stomach. It’s not that I think so highly of Calvin Harris as a songwriter/producer (although “Sweet Nothing” is everything), but… I mean, Calvin and Taylor are just apples and oranges when it comes to music. Maybe that’s the name of Taylor’s song. “Apples & Oranges.” He said I was his apple/Baby meet me at the chapel/He’s my orange in every way/all he needs to do is stay. I think I just wrote Swifty’s new #1 hit.

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