Was Ben Affleck checking out another woman or just smiling at something?

Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck seen having what appears to be a serious conversation while out shopping and having lunch with their daughters in LA
Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner were papped out shopping yesterday in Santa Monica. They were there with their daughter, Serafina, and one of her friends. We’ve seen quite a few paparazzi photos of Affleck and Garner out together following the rumors that they’re headed for a high profile divorce. It’s somewhat rare that they run errands together so often. Without issuing a statement, these two are making their intentions clear.

Most of those breakup stories were based on the circumstantial but concrete evidence that Affleck was spotted in a remote area of Canada around the time of Garner’s birthday, and was not wearing his wedding ring. There’s video evidence to show this. Affleck has also been seen gambling in Vegas lately, which is pretty normal for him, and he spent mother’s day with his own mother instead of Garner, the mother of his children. At least one blind item heavily suggests that Affleck was out with another woman while he was in Canada. There’s a reason why sites publish blind items instead of stories quoting anonymous sources, so I wouldn’t put much stock in that.

Radar Online has a slide show of these photos and points to the two images below (plus a couple more) as evidence that Affleck was checking out another woman’s butt. Given whom we’re talking about, this is entirely possible. I doubt Affleck would be this blatant, though, especially with multiple paparazzi there. It’s more likely that the woman made a joke or that Affleck is smiling at something else. She’s on the phone, so maybe she said something funny to a friend.

Jennifer Garner out shopping with Ben Affleck

Jennifer Garner out shopping with Ben Affleck

There also seems to be a lot of tension between these two, but again there are multiple paparazzi bothering them and they’re out with kids. Who knows what the photographers are shouting at them. I want these two to work out, damnit, and I don’t want Affleck to fall back into his old patterns. He seems to be toeing the line for now.

Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck seen having what appears to be a serious conversation while out shopping and having lunch with their daughters in LA

Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck seen having what appears to be a serious conversation while out shopping and having lunch with their daughters in LA

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  1. Sugar says:

    Jennifer has quite the collection of ugly shoes.

    Why would you marry Ben Affleck and expect him to be a faithful husband? Maybe they have a semi-open relationship.

    • Regina Phelange says:

      I’m wondering where she buys all of her hideous clothes.

      • iwannagetdrunk says:

        I love her jacket. I thinks it’s pretty and classy.

      • springingforward says:

        The woman is holding her phone in her right hand and he is trying to see what is on the screen; maybe wondering if she had photos of him or his family on it….

      • Sabrine says:

        I wonder if she’s put the grey sweatshirts out to pasture. Those were her staple for a while and the epitome of frump. Yes, she has three kids; yes, she’s busy, but so was I and even though I didn’t have the resources she does, I never resorted to such ugly clothing even then.

    • SnarkySnarkers says:

      Those shoes are something a grandmother wears out to dinner. Why is she so hellbent on being frumpy? I get wanting to be comfortable but a cute pair of flats would be so much better! Also, both of them are in jackets. Was it cold in LA yesterday?

      • Arock says:

        Her shoes are tragic. Most of SoCal is chilly and rainy right now (sitting in it as we speak) a hurricane is sputtering out over us. We need the rain and it makes for good surf, but it wasn’t just sad choice making on their part.

      • bettyrose says:

        I’m too distracted by his ever growing dad gut. Is he just full on using body doubles in films now?

      • L&Mmommy says:

        I don’t like the Kardashians way of getting yourself dolled up everyday for hours before getting out of the house but at the same time one doesn’t have to be this frumpy. Looking decent while casual is not very difficult, so I’m not sure why she INSIST on those ugly clothes. Simple jeans, flats and a nice shirt/t-shirt are my staple when I don’t want no fuss like many other moms I know, she should consider that. Maybe it’s part of her pr strategy?

      • FLORC says:

        This is a trap easily fallen into. A comfy sweater that you feel you look good in and is snuggly can look frumpy to others.
        I speak from experience.
        Her shoes though… Those a re the shoes of a woman who is trying, but just not getting it.

        She’s dressed well before. No excuse for this.

    • Kiddo says:

      Jennifer has quite the collection of ugly shoes.

      That was hilarious! I never noticed before, but you’re absolutely spot on.

      ETA: Ben looks haggard, hung over, or tired.

      • Shannondipity says:

        Meh. It could her personal choice, it could be health issues. I know since I got neuropathy in my feet, there are exactly two pairs of shoes in which I feel comfortable. And I have to base my clothing choices around those shoes. Sometimes dressing “frumpy” is a luxury; sometimes it’s a necessity. Who knows? Or, here’s another thing – maybe she just doesn’t give a rats you-know-what and fashion isn’t her deal. I can speak from experience; it was scary to lose my hair and my ability to instantly look ‘pretty.’ If she’s let go of that (and she looks lovely, btw) more power to her! Raising kids is hard enough without worrying about what people think about how you look every second.

      • Kiddo says:

        I get what you’re saying, but the shoes don’t scream comfy to me either.

        I’m sorry about your pain, BTW.

    • Rhiley says:

      She has the absolute worst casual style. Her style is often very frumpy and childish. The longer these two are together, the more ill matched they seem. I really think if things keep up much longer, he is going to end up in rehab.

    • MoxyLady007 says:

      I love her. So so much. SO much. But damn lady…. It makes sad she wears such frumpy / ugly clothes. She doesn’t need to be red carpet ready but come on…..

    • JudyK says:

      My first thought, too…”What ugly shoes.”

    • inthekitchen says:

      “Jennifer has quite the collection of ugly shoes. ”

      Agreed – she has terrible style full stop

    • Christo says:

      From the look on his face, it appears that his Gone Girl role was as much therapeutic as a good acting opportunity.

    • TW says:

      Perhaps it’s the other woman’s shoes he’s enamored with.

    • lucy ricardo says:

      i’m so glad this is the first comment because it couldn’t be more true/appropriate.

    • uglyshoes says:

      Pretty sure she’s owned up to finding it hard to pick out stylish clothes before. Everybody has something they’re just not very good at and she seems like a sweet person, I find it endearing.

      • laura in LA says:

        Yeah, but we all know that these are pre-arranged pap walks. She has the money, so why not hire a stylist to help select some of her casual clothing?

        Even the colors she wears are drab and unflattering. No fashionista or shoegal myself, but her casual style is even worse than mine.

  2. Esmom says:

    No way would he be so blatant about checking someone out, there’s more context than these photos are suggesting, I’m sure.

    My question is why are they dressed for fall? Jen looks lovely and fresh-faced but that ensemble is horrific.

    • ncboudicca says:

      Ha, that’s what I wanted to know, too.

      He’s either admiring her shoes or looking for something that’s rolled under a car, my guess. 🙂

      • MoxyLady007 says:

        Honestly it looks like she is talking to someone in the back of her car. Possibly a toddler who just isn’t having it. He’s looking at the situation. Or I could be projecting 😉

      • springingforward says:

        She is holding her phone in her right hand and he is trying to see what is on the screen. That is all.

      • ScotiaGirl says:

        Its Jennifer’s production company partner – Julianna! I believe its her older daughter with Sera.

      • Reeely?? says:

        The Black shoes look super stupid for day. Casual shoes are considered way more hip than cheesy 80s black stiletto sandals. He’s probably flubberflustered. I’d wonder what the fresh set up was going on, so I don’t blame him. The whole shot looks disingenuous.

      • qwerty says:

        He’s a tall guy, he’s obviously trying to avoid hitting his head on the trunk door.

    • Lensblury says:

      It looks to me as if he’s just ducking his head in the first picture, and then something in (or under) the car caught his attention. I think the woman is showing something on her phone to someone sitting in the backseat of her car.

    • MrsBPitt says:

      They usually look like they just picked up whatever clothes were laying on the floor and put them on to go out! I swear, they look like they wear Goodwill reject clothes! I will say, Jennifer Garner looks great at 42. She really dosen’t look like she has had any plastic surgery or anything. She looks younger than Ben and Ben is two years younger than her…

    • Tifygodess says:

      not to mention she has a flowy dress on , only so much a$$ you can see anyways. And in that picture I don’t even see a bump. I would imagine if he was going to check out a booty right in front of everyone – he would be checking out a –BOOTY–.

  3. Jenns says:

    I think he could just be looking at something in the car.

    And I honestly want to know what Jennifer Garner gets out of being married to this man-child. Is being Ms. Ben Affleck that big of a deal?

    • Tate says:

      My best guess is wanting to keep her family together. Sometimes it is not worth it and this seems like one of those times.

    • Tiffany27 says:

      I feel like at this point she just really wants to keep her family together. I don’t care too much for her, but she does seen to genuinely enjoy her children.

    • Luca76 says:

      At this point if he is a cheater, with a drinking and gambling problem it might be better for the kids if they divorce. It’s not healthy for kids to grow up thinking codepency and denial is normal.

      Personally I think she is really ambitious but has some old fashioned and passive aggressive tendencies. I think she’d rather mold him into this perfect Hollywood power player husband and be the woman standing beside him than be a power player in her own right. Everyone forgets when they got together her career was way hotter than his. She sacrificed a lot to be with him at a point when with the right management and choices she could have been a much bigger deal on her own.

      • Mila says:

        the question is if Garner could have sustained her success and im not just talking about actresses and age. she was never a brilliantly talented actress, she had a well like hit show and nowadays lives of her pristine image (which he is part of). that was it. her movies also werent smash hits.
        Affleck was a very young Oscar winner and has directing talent. from a pure career pov it was a wise decision to marry him, i dont think we would still hear about her much if she wasnt married to him.

      • Luca76 says:

        It’s very true that she isn’t a phenomenal talent but I can think of other actresses with the same or less talent that turned the type of heat she had into a decent career for at least for a few years. I’ve always agreed with Lainey’s take on her. She’s very ambitious, she pushes Ben to be driven in his career and keeps him in line.

      • Dubois says:

        I think she was never going to be anything more than a TV actress with a few rom coms and bit parts under her belt. She’s a terribly bland and one-dimensional actress. Marrying Ben elevated her, even though his acting career was in the toilet at the time. He’s always been talented as a writer and director, plus he was an Oscar winner. I don’t doubt that she tries to mold him, but I think he’s rebellious and fights it. She has the upper hand right now, because if they divorce his image will suffer. He’ll be Johnny Depp X10. Jen would not be where she is – status wise – without Ben, and Ben would not be where he is – image wise – without Jan.

    • Neelyo says:

      Her brand is all about the happy family and good marriage. Without that, what does she have? Her talent? Ha!

    • kennedy says:

      There are people who think divorce is not an option. You work through your issues and even if they go unresolved, you stay married. It’s toxic and unhealthy and ultimately you land somewhere in the middle of unhappiness, resentment and completely ignorance. But these people exist. Now, I have no idea what is going on with the Affleck’s but if the gossip mill is churning out the truth, then maybe JenGarn is of a similar mindset.

  4. E says:

    I think he’s just lowering his head while he’s passing under the trunk door… A lot of people do that, lower their heads cause they don’t know exactly how high the door is…

    • Elly says:

      i agree. I do this too.
      Maybe i´ve seen too much horror movies/ slasher, but i´m afraid the trunk door comes down and knocks me out…so i always bend down and scan the trank and people (possible killers) beside me.

    • KarmaKarma says:

      Agree.

  5. Palar says:

    It looks like he’s checking out the back of the car.

  6. YvesWestwood says:

    Hahahahahahahahahahahaah. Oh Ben. He totally checking out her legs (Affleck likes legs and high heels) and then he’s checking out the face. Cmon its clearly obvious. He’s not looking at something that rolled under the car in the second photo – that gives it away. Men are never subtle. She’s got nice legs. his wife couldn’t look more frumpy, could she? The only time his expression changes is when he spots the leggy blonde.

    Seriously sick of these two and their damage control. We know you have a terrible marriage. I don’t think they care that much though – you’d think they would hold hands or something.

    • funcakes says:

      Exactly. All I could think when I saw that picture was “Damn dude! Try to be less obvious.”

      And can he look less miserable. Ben is not a family man type. Even the wife admits that in a past interview. Just leave dude and let the chips fall where they may.

    • BangersandMash says:

      I do not agree with you. Yeah, sure he’s checking her out, while he’s looking at something in the car.And Jennifer doesn’t look ‘frumpy’, it’s almost like you’re making it sound like he’s doing all of this because she’s ‘frumpy’… Jennifer- the boner stopper. No wonder he’s bored and blatantly checking chicks out.
      It may not be your intention but that’s what I took from that.

      But who care, if everyone made a massive fuss every time a married man looked at another woman, civilization would have ended in the year 1653 AD due to women completely stopping the courting and dating process.

      Their marriage is their marriage, and they are trying to navigate it however they want/can. It’s super easy to tell someone to end a relationship with someone. But the level of difficulty gets exaggerated with time and children involved. I think they are both trying to do the best with what they have facing them right now. Honestly…. Divorce is HAAARRRRD!!! it’s not as easy as ‘f*&%!!! Just leave!!’
      Also, If they choose to spoonfeed the populace with ‘happy family’… Let them!! Just how The Brange do, and the Smiths do and Clooneys and the Paltrow/Martins and the…………. (you get the idea)

      • Anne tommy says:

        Good post Bangersand mash, I agree. And Jen looks fine to me, there’s enough people wearing latex dresses around.

      • ScotiaGirl says:

        Its Jennifer’s business partner Julianna! Its her daughter with Sera. Ben has seen her a thousand and one times!

    • laura in LA says:

      I didn’t know that he’s a leg-man (thought it was all about the booty?)

  7. MrsBPitt says:

    I really like Ben with Jennifer Garner and I hope that all is well with their marriage. I’ve been married 30 years, and I can tell you, that sometimes it’s good and sometimes it’s bad! That’s real life. As long at their is no abuse or cheating, you should let things go…am I always in a good mood, um, no! Sometimes my husband has has a rotten week at work and is in a horrible mood. Sometimes the roof is leaking and you have no money to fix it, and you are both in low moods. Sometimes, I’ve felt like, I can’t take another minute with this guy (and I’m sure he has felt the same about me)…but, a little time passes and you are laughing together, and I think, I’m so lucky to have him…Couples give up too easily sometimes…like Ben said “marriage is work” and I’ll add “sometimes”….sometimes it’s wonderful!

    • Lensblury says:

      Yes! I agree. Imagine having a terrible week (or a good one) and then, because you’re both famous, randomly the rumor comes up that you’re getting a divorce for the 50th time, and everyone reads about it. So, in addition to working on your marriage, you have to pose and show up together for the paparazzi. True or not true, either way it must be exhausting to defend your marriage this way. I have no opinion about them, but they are pros at juggling all this. Kudos to them for working on their marriage. And congratulations and respect to you and your husband, too, MrsBPitt!

      • MrsBPitt says:

        Thanks Lensblury!

      • Kitten says:

        It’s seriously every other week that the divorce rumors come out.
        Unbelievable. And this has been going on for the 10 years that they’ve been married. It’s weird how people refuse to accept that they might actually be in it for the long-haul.

        Anyway, MrsBPitt your marriage sounds like my parents’ marriage (almost 50 years now) and most successful marriages. I’m not married but I find that just being in a serious relationship is work. It’s worth it and I love him, but it’s hard.
        It’s always comforting to see that others feel the same way 🙂

    • bella says:

      well said, mrs. b, and congrats on the longevity of your marriage!
      i’ve got to say…marriage is all of those cliches, isn’t it?
      work, commitment, compromise, it’s not always love and roses…
      and it involves overlooking lots, as long as there’s no blaring betrayal, as mrs.b notes…
      you love each other through the times you don’t particularly like each other.
      and oftentimes, many of us…women and men…allow ourselves to become relaxed on how we dress.
      i for one don’t want to feel like i have to look glamorous every time i step out the door.
      and i’ve been called out over recent years for not always dressing to snuff as i always did.
      but it’s exhausting, you know?
      was it rose byrne’s who said earlier this week that women are judged on how well we preserve ourselves?
      it’s true, no?
      unfair…but true.

      i’ve heard men in my family comment ALL THE TIME on how gorgeous a woman used to be “when she was young” and how she’s aged…or has obviously let herself go.

      REALLY?

      i often reply – wow, do you think you still look like you did when you were in your 20s or 30s?

      help me out here…are there others out there who get this???

      anyway…my point being…
      jen garner is held to a different standard.
      she is a celebrity.
      and the wife of an oscar winner…a movie star.

      she will never get cut any slack for appearance.
      and she really needs to step it up…

      word in boston…he’s out the door.
      sad, but true.
      did it have anything to do with how she’s taken care of herself?
      probably not…he’s a skank…he would have done it regardless.

      but, girl, you need to shine…
      you’ll need that at the very least when he goes…

      • Lensblury says:

        Hi bella! I agree with many things you said. One of the things I see a little differently is that I don’t necessarily think that she ‘needs’ to step it up, that she ‘needs’ to shine. I honestly never thought about it, but the fact that JG is doing her thing even though she’s a celeb is making me like her for being real. Sure, if she wanted she could start dressing up for family shopping tours now, but that might also blow up in her face, because then people might go, “look how hard she’s trying to dress up for her man to keep him interested… she must really be desperate.” Maybe they’ll divorce, maybe not – I have no idea. I just think it’s cool that she’s doing whatever she can and thinks is fair while not losing herself in pleasing others. She’s being herself, which in my eyes is usually the healthiest way to keep a sustainable partnership both parties can enjoy.

        Oh, and on another note: yes, I’ve heard those comments about how certain people (of course, mainly women) “used to look good / could look good – if only…” from various sides. The tragic thing is that women can be the harshest critics of other women, or themselves. One example is a very good friend of mine. She’s in her 50s and a naturally beautiful woman. But she’s hardly ever comfortable with herself because she thinks it’s normal and perfectly fine for women to be reduced to their physical beauty. That’s why she exercises fanatically and gets mad at herself for eating sweets. She used to push these standards onto her daughters and me, until I chose to start showing up in sweats to make her realize that there’s more to a person. I asked her daughter, who confirmed that her mom thinks I’ve lost control completely, but since then at least she’s become a little more relaxed. She always used to seek male approval, and always chose men who constantly criticised her and made her feel small. I think it’s very often family members who influence a woman’s feeling of security (or the lack thereof) in terms of appearance. I think many of us were raised to please, and what pleases me now is seeing JG in unpleasant clothes. 🙂

    • Nicolette says:

      You have summed up being in a marriage beautifully Mrs. B Pitt. It is an ongoing series of ups and downs and yes days where you can’t stand each other. But then as you said a day later you’ll be laughing at something together and it’s as if the previous day never happened. Everyone has their struggles, I don’t know a couple that doesn’t. We all vent about the same issues and maybe that’s just how it is. Pick and choose your battles. No one is perfect and it’s inevitable that you will not agree on everything, and as you also stated if there aren’t any serious issues going on such as cheating, abuse or addiction you work through it. And congrats on 30 years!

  8. Fran says:

    He wasn’t checking her out, and even if he was, give him a break! He’s a man!

    • bettyrose says:

      Gah! Boys will be boys? That’s your argument?

      • V4Real says:

        I don’t think that’s her argument but we all would be fooling ourselves if we thought our SO /husband has never checked out other women before. Like the saying goes ” you can look at the menu but you don’t have to order “

      • bettyrose says:

        If the comment was “he’s only human,” I might have agreed, but pullease on the “men can’t help it” mentality. We’re all the same, we all notice the hotties, and we can all control how obvious we are about it.

      • Fran says:

        Nah Bettyrose, I meant it as in the boys will be boys, and girls will be girls. I bet she checks men out all the time, like I do! I don’t think there’s anything particularly wrong with it unless he starts to whistle or hassling said female.
        In this case, if you look at all the pictures, he’s not checking her out anyway.

        I do believe though that men sometimes find it more difficult to hide their interest than women do! I’m more like a man in that sense, maybe because I’m Italian! ;D

    • Kitten says:

      Men look at other women sometimes. Also, women look at other men sometimes.

      It happens.

      • Dani says:

        This. I check people out and I’m faithfully married. Human nature.

      • bettyrose says:

        Exactly. I regularly notice nice looking men, but I don’t gawk and I’d never do it in a disrespectful way (to them or my SO).

      • Kitten says:

        I agree that there’s a difference between staring at a woman all night and a quick once-over or whatever. I just meant that on a personal level, that stuff never bothers me.

      • Esmom says:

        Yes. My kids are sports fans and they think I’m a good sport for going to games with them…MLB, and occasionally NBA and NHL. Checking the athletes out discreetly is a sport in itself! 🙂

      • laura in LA says:

        I’m straight, and I think even I would’ve checked out this woman…I noticed and liked her shoes right away, but they’re ridiculously impractical for day.

  9. Ankhel says:

    I’ve no idea what Ben is up to, but it’s obvious that Jennifer has done something surgical to her face. It looks twenty years younger than her hands, it’s bizarre. Pretty face though.

  10. MelissaManifesto says:

    I know a woman in her mid-thirties who was happily married to a guy with a reputation of cheating because he is musician who gets to travel the world. When they got married, we all were very happy for them. However, the rumor mill was running , people wondered how she didn’t suspect anything. She didn’t because she trusted him, they had been together for close to ten years, she knew he was a handsome and charismatic man, and never thought there was something going on until she found out on her own.

    The lesson here is that when it comes to a marriage or how a spouse perceives another, we never know exactly what’s going on. There are rumors, there are truths, and there’s also blind trust. When it comes to Jen and Ben, I don’t know where exactly they fit, either they have an agreement, she turns a blind eye, or he is not the cheater we all think he is, or she just simply blindly trust her husband.

    • BangersandMash says:

      this ^^^

      but what we do know about Ben is that he has self saboutage things going on, and very strong impulses towards gambling and the such.

      Its hard to put two people together and try to keep on the same track together… always together. But you know what? It’s their marriage, it’s their thing… no two marriages are alike, no one can predict anything, just like you said how one partner perceives the other is entirely in their grasp and understanding of their relationship.

  11. guest says:

    Those 2 pictures of him by that car are giving me the giggles this morning. His eyes are no where near her butt. Really.

  12. jen2 says:

    These photos probably mean nothing. Just caught at an odd angle or just the one second that makes it look awkward and that is the one that is printed. But, if they keep doing pap walks, then folks are going to read something into that more than the tabloid marriage troubles. You should not try this hard to make it all look OK.

    They should never have started with the pap walks as they don’t seem to be doing what they were intended to do. Now they will be hounded with paps looking for anything that looks like trouble, even if it isn’t and tabloids will write their stories based on bad photos, which is what they always do anyway.

  13. Nessa says:

    It’s probably because the paps are hounding them, but he looks utterly miserable.

    • tracking says:

      Yeah, he looks miserable and she looks like she’s trying to put a good face on things.

    • Julia says:

      He did not look miserable during Oscar season when Argo was up for the win. He smiled, kissed his wife, twirled around for the paps. He had no problems with them then. You can’t pivk & choose to like the paps, then hate them.

    • Rafa says:

      Can we accept that paps don’t randomly hang around hoping a celeb will happen by? They call the paps. Frowning or whatever is part of the act. The paps are part of the PR strategy. Unless it’s a celeb hotspot or event, 100% of the time, paps are there by request.

  14. Blythe says:

    Ben is looking really rough! What happened to him? I hope they work out whatever issues they are having, for the sake of their children.

    • Bread and Circuses says:

      I sort of wonder whether BEN is having problems — not the marriage, just him.

      The backlash over Batman may have been emotionally hard on him. Or the workouts he needs to maintain to keep role may be physically exhausting him. He seemed to have a slip in his sobriety/gambling issues in the past year. He had that embarrassment about his family history containing slave-owners and him being found out as hushing it up.

      Maybe Ben’s just having a bit of a rough time, but Jennifer’s still there for him. I hope this is just a guy with a lot on his plate who’s going to get through it thanks to his great family.

    • Lauren says:

      Ben looks bored, embarrassed and fed up with pretending to be a happy family man.
      Jen is frumpy and smugly seems very proud of herself. These two enjoy making each other miserable.

      • Kylie says:

        @Lauren

        Whether he is a good husband or not is debatable, but he genuinely seems to love the children.

  15. Mooncake says:

    Whoops! In the first pic I see Eddie Redmayne in Jennifer. Striking resemblance. Pretty face.

  16. Elfie says:

    Her shoes are horrible, her jacket hideous, why can’t this woman dress herself? It’s not even a comfortable looking outfit!!!!

    I feel sorry for Ben because he looks like he’s being pulverised, I wonder what the paps are shouting at them. They often shout inappropriate things to get a bad reaction. One of his daughters was with them so that would make the paps rude comments even more infuriating.

    I do believe they are divorcing now, if they can do interviews talking about each other and their kids (including headlice stories) then they can issue a statement denying divorce rumours. Which they would have done already if they weren’t planning to divorce soon. Either that or they just have the worst publicists ever.

  17. Annie says:

    Looks to me like he is checking out her legs and then her face as he passes by. Eh. No harm in looking.

  18. Kelly says:

    That woman is Nicole King, Jennifer’s manager and super close friend. She also happens to be the mother of Seraphina’s friend. Ben, jennifer, sera, nicole and her daughter were all together and Nicole was loading the bags onto Jennifer’s car.

    Radar is being puthetic at this point.

    • Julia says:

      There are pics though where Jen goes the opposite direction & gets in another car. Ben & kids go the other way.
      How do you even know that they are mother & daughter???

    • cate says:

      Kelly, how did you figure all of this out – were there other pictures somewhere else?

  19. cate says:

    He’s not checking out that woman, he’s looking under the car to see where the kids went.

  20. Julia says:

    Their poor kids are being used in their PR games. If they hate them so much why take your poor kids to one of the #1 pap areas in LA. Paps are ALWAYS at the countrymart, & Jen knows this.

    If you do not want to deal with the paps, there are plenty of pap free areas in LA.

    The Jolie-Pitts were in LA for most of the past year & hardly seen at all. There are always sightings on twitter of them out & about, but they choose the areas in LA with no paps.

    • Luca76 says:

      I’m a big Brange fan but let’s be honest here a few years back when there were constant break-up rumors they were ALWAYS papped. And I’m sure in the fall when their movie comes out we will see much more of the family.
      My big problem with Garner is that after playing all the PR games she had the nerve to bawl her eyes out at that committee hearing about how bad the paps are.

      • Julia says:

        It actually depends where they are. In Venice they could not escape the paps because they were there outside their house everyday. In NYC they got papped a lot.

        But in LA, they do not get papped. Which is my point that you can live in LA & not be photographed daily.

        Even when Maleficent came out there were not suddenly tons of daily pics. When WWZ came out there were not daily pics. They are mainly seen at airports.

  21. ek says:

    Hi. I cannot get past Jen’s horrible, no-good shoes in these pics. Blarf.

  22. shannon says:

    I’m sure it’s already been said somewhere on here, but he looks like he wants out. BIG TIME. My guess is that Jennifer is making him do the pap walks to save face. I have no doubt he was on a secret getaway to Canada with his side piece.

    • Blue says:

      I think these pap walks are her payback for his trip to Canada with his side piece. He looks miserable in these pics and she looks pathetic trying to maintain the fake happy marriage facade.

  23. Frappy says:

    Hes looking at her saying hey look at me .. I’m batman!

  24. Me too says:

    They are partners in fugliness apparently. What is he wearing??!! I am less concerned about her get up.

    • word says:

      They are two people just going grocery shopping. If they were dressed up I would find it odd.

  25. Cara says:

    Ben looks wrung out…must not be sleeping well locked in the basement all night.

  26. Jessica says:

    He’s never broken his old patterns, he’s always been the same sleazy addict, he just made an effort to appear decent for a while. He got his Oscar and respect, and immediately stopped bothering to hide his true self. I mean, the facade literally started to fall apart the night the Argo won the Oscar, and just weeks later he was showing up for events high as a kite, drinking during interviews, going on week long gambling excursions and barely even trying to hide his cheating.

  27. LadyKarinsky says:

    lol, oh noes, I actually like her outfit! Now I’m questioning my fashion sense 🙁

  28. Sayrah says:

    I don’t think he is checking out that woman but really, who cares if he was? Looking at another person isn’t cheating ffs.

  29. Size Does Matter says:

    Poor Ben is going to get punished for this for sure when Jen finds out and the mask of perfect wholesomeness slips off temporarily in the privacy of their home.

    Jen: “GODDAMMIT, BEN! I ARRANGE THESE PAP WALKS TO HELP OUR IMAGE, NOT HURT IT. HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO TELL YOU, EYES ON ME OR THE KIDS, NOWHERE ELSE?!? NO WANDERING EYES IN THIS FAMILY.”

    Ben: “Yes, mommy dearest.”

    • funcakes says:

      HaHa! Remember black eye he was sporting when there were rumors about him and Blake lively. I always like to think it was Jennifer who gave him that black eye.

      • Elfie says:

        Funcakes; I hope not, domestic violence is never acceptable or deserved whether male on female or female on male.

  30. Dibba says:

    He looks like he smells bad

  31. word says:

    It must be a slow news week if the media is trying to make these pics into a story. You have to be kidding me.

  32. Lisa says:

    The lady that you guys think Ben was checking out was Nicole King, Jen’s manager or something. They are family friends.

  33. Cindy says:

    I empathize with Jennifer Garner- I too am fashioned challenged. I have to be careful, because I just don’t have a clue when it comes to picking clothes. Also, I hate shopping for this reason and if I had the money (ha!) I would hire someone to choose my clothes because I give up. To cover for my incompetence I pick bland clothes- jeans and black shirts. Long sleeve in winter, short in summer. I only wear tennis shoes or flats. I think Jennifer has the same affliction. She should hire someone to clothes shop for her!

    I have no idea if Ben is checking out that woman’s butt:)

  34. mar says:

    OMG the first thing I noticed were her awful shoes.

    Besides the fact that this marriage probably is over, Ben looks like he sees something in the lady car that interests him. He does not seem to checking the lady out in that way.

  35. Jayna says:

    Meh, definitely not checking out her non-existent bum. He either was looking for the kids or he has just come around the SUV and ducked in case he hadn’t cleared the hatch up in the air.

    He does look tired and not happy.

    Regarding Jen’s clothes. I thought the outfit was fine. Her jeans are looking much better these days. Don’t get the hate. Her shoes are questionable, but she’s had far worse, like those flat sandals she’s been wearing for weeks now. The other day that matronly skirt and flat sandals was beyond frumpy.

    I think she’s been looking better most days, because Jen has really trimmed down and lost the last of her baby hips or maybe it’s just that she’s more tone, but she’s looking great in her slacks and jeans. She used to look awful in her man sneakers and man jeans she used to wear. I remember thinking it’s one thing to look casual and not have to be sexy all the time for your man, but it’s another to look so dowdy far too often. She stopped wearing those awful sloppy oversized running shoes about a year ago. She once said her best friends, and even Ben, teased her about it. You have to try to look good for your man somewhat. She has been doing better this year.

    I do think she looks so beautiful naturally. She goes out without any makeup but a little concealer and is so pretty. She said that’s all she wears in her daily life. Few female stars caught out without makeup look as good as she does, and she’s like 43. This is how you do 43, beautiful complexion and shiny hair, and not heavy fillers and botox to the point you look like some plasticized version of yourself.

    “Garner, who’s frequently photographed by paparazzi out and about in casual outfits consisting of jeans and sneakers, even admitted that husband Ben Affleck and her friends make fun of her for her lack of style.”

    “I’m in New Balance sneakers every day. I try not to be because I get made fun of by my husband and friends, but it’s not natural for me to think about how I look on a daily basis,” she said. “I’m not someone who should be in a beauty spotlight. I was one of those people who wore pajamas to class every day in college, and I would still be that way if I could! … I’m kind of my own walking beauty disaster.”

  36. iheartgossip says:

    Oh Please. Clearly she is an assistant; and he looks to be ducking under the van door; and looking around her, perhaps looking into the back of the van or around the auto. I mean, I’m not a Ben lover, but even with my little eyeballs this story is made up.

    • Susie 1 of 3 says:

      Totally agree.

    • mel says:

      I”m with you on everything except the part about the woman being an assistant. She’s got a Mercedes SUV – do assistants make that much? more like a friend who is in a similar tax bracket to Jen and Ben

  37. Heartsease says:

    People saying she has terrible style – I hope she reads this and says ‘Yeah…and???’ Who the eff cares about her style?!?!? Does she love her kids? Yeah. Is she a good person? Only she knows that. But her style? Jeez – #AskHerMore indeed

    • me says:

      Yeah she’s just out shopping…she doesn’t need to be all dressed up. At least she’s not walking around half naked. These two look like completely normal people doing normal things. Why would anyone have an issue with this? I don’t get it.

    • KellyBee says:

      I just have to laugh at your comment because your being completely over dramatic with this comment.

      You say who cares about the way she dresses then why are you even bothering to respond to other people’s openion on her fashion? Funny thing is if people said she look great you wouldn’t bother commenting. I don’t see you in the Kim Kardashian posts saying the same thing.

      As for the #AskHerMore what dose that have to do with anything? Last I check the people here weren’t asking her anything and no one when defining her by the way she dressed they were just stating an opinion.

  38. CasualBtchr says:

    Woman on here so mean. I think she looks fine. Quit being b*tches.

  39. Lisa says:

    Isn’t he just ducking? This is like the Kuleshov effect, where you show two separate shots, but they’re edited so that you associate them. In the second pic, he probably just turned around (maybe at his name). Add speculation, a few hot rumours, there ya go: instant story.

  40. LA Juice says:

    He’s ducking underneath the minivan hatch door- no dude would check an ass out like that- what is wrong with these tabloids?

  41. shi_gatsu says:

    Lol!!! He’s not checking out butt

  42. Jennifer, the bangs are not becoming unless you’re wearing an updo. And Mothers Day is for Mothers, not wives.

  43. poop says:

    it literally looks like something caught his attention. like a loud noise or strange object. he’s not really looking at the woman

  44. Prissa says:

    I like her outfit. The jeans fit her nicely and the jacket is cute. Underneath she has what looks like a tank top so I wouldn’t call that frumpy. The shoes are dated but overall I like the outfit.

    Ben is just ugh. He seems the type to put mirrors on his shoes and look under women’s skirts. Just ugh! 👎

  45. Campbell says:

    He looks like he was looking under the car for something he’d dropped. This is a non-story.

  46. Pinky says:

    It looks to me like nothing more than him ducking beneath the trunk of the car.

    That said, who knows what the status of their marriage is. If he really did cheat on her, what a shame. Some people never appreciate all the fortunes that life has bestowed upon them. I feel sorry for those types, because they doom themselves.

  47. Mispronounced Name Dropper says:

    Ben can’t understand why the woman with the phone hasn’t noticed him. You’re getting old, brother, the admiring glances from strangers are drying up.

  48. FurballFriend says:

    Why does he always look so grumpy? Is life REALLY that shitty?

  49. Katie says:

    Jennifer Garner looks like a frumpy mouse. She’s not attractive at all.

  50. Isa says:

    If I were Jen I would hire a stylist. You don’t have to get all dolled up for every outing but there’s plenty of cute casual clothing out there. I admit that I am terrible with fashion so I stick to solid colored tops but they can be dressed up with a scarf or necklace.

    I don’t think he’s checking the woman out but even if he is oh well. If the rumors are true this isn’t a big deal compared to what he’s done. I know my husband looks at other women, he tries to be discreet but I am not blind. Heck, I even check them out too. Sometimes I worry about looking like a creeper because I can’t stop staring.

  51. Emily C. says:

    She’s wearing jeans, a t-shirt, and a cardigan. OMG how dare she wear something that women wear every single day, doesn’t she know a woman’s job is to keep the fashion industry afloat? To be “frumpy” is a high crime! We must always airbrush ourselves so that we may properly please the male gaze.

    Meanwhile, he’s unshaven, wearing an old t-shirt, jeans, and sneakers, and no one cares.

    I have clothes just like hers AND his. Except I never wear high heels, ever. I guess I should worry that I’m failing my duty at womanhood and that my husband will start running around on me because I don’t look like I stepped out of Vogue. Except wait, in the real world, if you’re clean, no one actually cares what you’re wearing. Only on the internet — and possibly in L.A. — do women get judged like this when they go out for groceries.

  52. gagirl says:

    Ugh….here we go again with yet another terrible outfit. I know it’s been said 1000x but those shoes are simply tragic. She looks like she wears Naturalizer shoes. Lol And that jacket is just bad. It’s matronly and totally the wrong season. I would bet good money it came from Pendleton, which my 60 yr old godmother buys.

  53. JoJo says:

    I do see Jen’s resemblance to Eddie Redmayne, as another poster said above. Also, she seems to look more and more like Melissa Gilbert lately. You can totally see it in certain pics.

  54. Suffragette says:

    I wouldn’t call her look frumpy because she is “put together” in these photos. However, I would say that she has pretty terrible taste in clothing as those shoes and jacket indicate. Now since I am an equal opportunity hater, I would say Ben isn’t looking so great either…so…match made in heaven?

  55. mariaj says:

    ” It’s somewhat rare that they run errands together so often. Without issuing a statement, these two are making their intentions clear. ” Well, photoops like this often are proofs of another statement and the other statement is ” yes, we are actually divorcing, but we’ll do it when the voices will slow down”

  56. Mzizkrizten says:

    The woman is wearing an loose unflattering skirt that doesn’t even show her butt. If the skirt was short or tight or she was wearing pants that showed her butt I’d think he was looking but come on.

  57. Moi says:

    He does look to be checking her out. But who knows. None of us surely. BA’s rep not withstanding, men are going to look at good looking women and women….good looking men, or anyone they (we) find attractive. That’s a natural human reaction. Anyhow, I think Jennifer Garner looks really pretty here. She’s definitely a natural beauty. Clothes be damned. Who cares?