Robin Thicke: My bad behavior & stalker album were so ’embarrassing’

Robin Thicke

Robin Thicke has a new interview with the New York Times to promote his upcoming album. Robin is winding up to overcome his failed stalker album, Paula. The interview touches on Thicke’s drug use and boozing (to numb the pain of losing Paula Patton). He also goes into the Marvin Gaye verdict a bit but not much. Mostly, Thicke wants you to forget all about “Blurred Lines” and Paula. Forget how he stalked his estranged wife with creepy videos. Never mind how he ruined all his remaining goodwill with a disastrous #AskThicke Q&A and starred in a #GetHerBack flower ad. Thicke is on a redemption tour.

Thicke says his new record is not about romance but about fatherhood. He got good advice from a friend, who must not have been paying attention too closely because he doled out advice too late. But Thicke says he heeded his pal’s warnings and stepped away from the spotlight. By “stepping away,” Thicke means vacationing, getting papped, publicly making out with his new girlfriend. April Love Geary is 20 years old, and she looks so much like Paula. What throws me off here is how Thicke references Marcel Proust right away:

Thicke embarrassed himself: “There’s a thing that Marcel Proust referred to as supersaturation. When the past, present, and future all become very clear and high-definition and surround-sound in one moment. My supersaturation came right after I performed on the BET Awards. I dedicated the performance [of the song ‘Forever Love’] to my ex. And I came home, and my best friend of 20 years, Craig Crawford, said, ‘I saw your BET performance.’ And I said: ‘Oh yeah! What did you think?’ You know — excited. And he goes: ‘I gotta be honest with you, buddy. You’re kind of playing yourself. You look like a sucker.’ And it hit me that I’d lost my perspective. What I thought was romantic was just embarrassing. And he said, ‘You should just go away for a while.’ So I shut everything down. I took some time off to be with my son, and to be with my family and close friends. And the more time I took off, the more everything became clear.”

Is he sheepish by his stalker album? “Look, my songwriting has always been autobiographical, and always will be. The Paula album was no different. I was struggling through my toughest time, and I decided to share it. And I remember my team and my record company didn’t want me to put it out, but they stuck by me. In hindsight, the only thing I would have done differently was, I wouldn’t have promoted it or sold it. I would have given it away. That would have kept the purity of the message intact.”

The drugs, man: “When ‘Blurred Lines’ first exploded, I had this chip on my shoulder: ‘Hey, wait a second! I’ve been doing this for 15 years, guys!’ And then, you know, I started to force it a little bit. The ego is a very dangerous place. I was supposed to be living the dream, and yet I was in a nightmare because of a crumbling marriage. I had finally reached the pinnacle of success — on paper, I had it all. But I wasn’t happy. And so you start grasping for something else to make you happy. Drugs and alcohol became a way for me to cope. And then you start saying things in interviews, desperate for a little extra attention. And then it becomes a sympathy tour.”

His GQ interview where he said, “What a pleasure it is to degrade a woman”: “I was in Ron Burgundy character, just telling a bad joke. I would never — that was just sarcasm.”

[From New York Times]

So … what Thicke regrets most about the Paula album is that he didn’t give it away. Well, that’s the only way anyone would listen because dude couldn’t sell copies! This redemption tour should be interesting. The sad thing is that Thicke had cred as an R&B artist before “Blurred Lines” blew up. Can he ever get back to being a serious musician (who isn’t degrading or stalking women with his music)? I doubt it.

Robin Thicke

Robin Thicke

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  1. GetOffYourHighHorse says:

    He is just trying to make all the right noises to gain back some cred but in my book his behavior was too disgusting to just push aside

  2. Hahahaha says:

    He’s still a douche. Sorry

  3. NewWester says:

    Gross

  4. Jigli says:

    Visually, both of them hooked up with clones of their former partners. Except that Paula’s clone is barely legal.

    And btw (this is a quote):

    When she was still 19, April shared some pictures of herself in what TMZ determined was the bed that Thicke and ex Paula Patton once shared.

  5. Bishg says:

    Judging by his face, he’s not completely off booze and drugs.

  6. Betti says:

    Is it just me or does he look a lot like the guy who played Gollem?!?

  7. Nuna says:

    He does look like Andy Serkis (?) / Gollum. My question is why would any attractive young lady go out with him? He has sleaze written all over him… They definitely had an open marriage though. There was that young girl whom he groped on the ass. She said she rode in the car with Thicke and Patton and Patton didn’t care he was picking her up.

    • Naddie says:

      Because these young ladies are only attractive on the outside.

    • Otaku Fairy says:

      Had to google his age. He’s 38. I’ve come across the occasional woman who finds him attractive, but I think he’s average. Sometimes you can be in your early 20’s and actually find a guy in his late 30’s attractive (the oldest man I’ve ever found attractive was in his mid 30’s so far) but because this is Robin Thicke, it’s probably at least partially because of money, fame, and the desire to brag to one’s friends about getting with a singe/star.

  8. grabbyhands says:

    Translation: I’m not sorry for any of it. But now that Blurred Lines isn’t popular anymore and I have been exposed for the whiny, disloyal, narcissistic, stalkery one hit wonder that I am, I will (kind of) admit to anything to try and get a slice of fame and attention back.

    He’s only sorry that his attempt to permanently coast on the popularity of Blurred Lines didn’t amount to anything.

    • Esmom says:

      That sounds about right.

    • blackisgood says:

      No, Robin isn’t a one hit wonder. He’s been around for years. Look it up before you rant about his career you probably never heard about before Blurred Lines. Everybody deserve a second chance. If Eminem can do songs about killing his ex-wife, raping Iggy, homophobic lyrics, his drug issues, whatever, and still have a career and so call feminists still buy his music than Robin should as well.

      • Trillion says:

        That makes no sense.

      • AcidRock says:

        It is true, though. I remember his older albums when he just went by “Thicke”. He had more of a hippie, bohemian thing going on, but he most certainly is not a one-hit wonder.

      • Tammy says:

        He definitely is not a one hit wonder.

      • Otaku Fairy says:

        I agree that Eminem isn’t any better than Robin Thicke.

      • lou says:

        Lots of one-hit wonders have been around for years.

        I’ll admit he’s a two-hit wonder, though. A song of his, Get You Alone, was pretty big around 12-13 years ago.

    • NeNe says:

      LMAO!!

  9. Lucy2 says:

    His album tanked and people got sick of him, so now he’s saying it was his decision to step awa? How very Donald Trump of him.

  10. kri says:

    yeah, I ain’t buying it. That picture of him giving that blonde random a colonoscopy was the last straw. Stalking Paula and being a natural born dickface was just him being him. So gross.

  11. Mimz says:

    I’m going to be an optimist and give him the benefit of the doubt. All he said in the interview sounds believable, now let’s see how this pans out.
    He doesn’t deny the douchebaggery, the drugs and the alcohol and the pity party and attention whoring.
    That sounds about right.
    I enjoy his music, (Before blurred lines) and I hope he gets back to the place where he made beautiful music without acting like an asshole.

    • icy says:

      This!!!

    • MonicaQ says:

      Same. I’ll give him a shot. “Lost without you” was my jam for months after it came out.

      • Mimz says:

        Months? It’s on my “all time favorites” playlist. Love that song… was with me through breakups and all that. sigh… he is talented. a talented douche, but talented…

      • Scarlet Vixen says:

        I love that song so much. So sexy! I just try really hard to pretend that Robin Thicke doesn’t sing it.

    • Tammy says:

      Same here… I will give him the benefit of the doubt.

  12. iGotNothin says:

    Dear lord his girlfriend looks EXACTLY like Paula Patton.

    The first order of business for this redemption tour should have been to ditch the previously-stalked ex-wife doppelganger. All he did was replace her with a younger version. He probably calls his girlfriend Paula “in the throws.”

  13. ToodySezHey says:

    His gf looks like Paula ‘s younger sister.

    I dunno…I’d be wary of s guy dating me if I resembled their ex almost exactly.

  14. Crumpet says:

    I have a stupid question. Why are the pics so stretched out? The ones in the post are fine, but when I click to look at some of the other ones, they are usually distorted.

  15. Tacos and TV says:

    HI lady is pretty. He looks old. I like Blurred Lines as a catchy song but the message was bad. He f*cked himself over. $$+booze+$$+women throwing themselves at you+$$+pills+$$=downfall and a hotmess sandwich. Good luck Mr. Thicke. Lost without you was a great song and you really could have kept a good thing going.

  16. Josefa says:

    What sucks the most is Thicke really is talented and his music pre-Blurred Lines is actually very, very good. I was rooting for him to breakout as a star while he was less known, and then… well… let’s just say I have no complaints about the current state of his career.

  17. Mrs Odie says:

    I think Robin is a good guy. I’ve known him and his family. I believe people deserve second chances.

  18. JRenee says:

    I thought the top pic was of him & Paula! I know people sometimes have a type that they are attracted to, but this is creepy. He looks 50, not 38. He doesn’t look like he has resolved his addictions. At all.
    The Paula cd was absolutely dismal.

  19. Dr.Funkenstein says:

    News flash, RT. You’re just one of a million one-hit-wonders. Get over it and get on with your life.