Michelle Obama covers Variety: ‘I view myself as being the average woman’

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I once heard an African-American political commentator say that for the African-American community, the images of the Obamas as the “first family of America” are so beautiful, it’s like we are getting drunk on these images. I sort of feel like that’s the truth. Like, Barack Obama’s presidency was historic in so many ways but it feels superficial to say that America has changed simply because we, as a nation, got to see an African-American family in the White House. But we did change. And we’re still getting drunk on those images. And in the Obamas’ last six months in the White House, everyone is feeling so bittersweet about them leaving. I’m expecting lots of “exit interviews” from both Pres. Obama and the First Lady. And this might be one of the first ones from Michelle. Michelle covers the new issue of Variety to talk about how she’s a child of pop culture, and why she broke the mold as far as a FLOTUS embracing pop culture as never before. You can read the full piece here. Some highlights:

Her appearance on Carpool Karaoke: “First of all, I was riding in a car with somebody else, without the Secret Service. So right there, [I said], ‘Let’s keep driving!’ I think we drove around the South Lawn about 100 times.”

Her many TV show appearances: “What I have never been afraid of is to be a little silly, and you can engage people that way. My view is, first you get them to laugh, then you get them to listen… [I’m interested in] reaching people where they lived on a day-to-day basis, and the next step was, ‘How do you do that? Where are the people?’ Well, they’re not reading the op-ed pieces in the major newspapers. They’re not watching Sunday morning news talk shows. They’re doing what most people are doing: They are watching TV. A lot of our audiences are kids and teens, and they want to be in on the joke. And they’ll listen again. We’re just a little looser with this stuff than most traditional first ladies.”

The First Lady’s office: “It has been wonderful having the platform of the first lady’s office. But if you sort of look at who we are, we don’t have a budget. We don’t have congressional authority. But I still believe we managed to have impact on these issues, which sort of sets the foundation to think, ‘Gosh, we can do a lot, even when we’re not here, just with the power of public awareness.’ ”

The Average Woman: “I view myself as being the average woman. While I am first lady, I wasn’t first lady my whole life. I’m a product of pop culture. I’m a consumer of pop culture, and I know what resonates with people. I know what they’ll get a chuckle out of and what they think is kind of silly. And whenever my team approaches me with ideas and concepts, we’re usually like, ‘Is this really funny? Are people going to understand it?’”

Her binge-watch shows: “On a good flight to China? Having the fifth season of ‘Orange Is the New Black’ is a lifesaver. The only way I get through the next season of ‘The Americans’ is on a long flight. And it helps, because you look up and say, ‘We’re here. We’re landing.’ ”

The lack of diversity in pop culture: “For so many people, television and movies may be the only way they understand people who aren’t like them. And when I come across many little black girls who come up to me over the course of this 7½ years with tears in their eyes, and they say: ‘Thank you for being a role model for me. I don’t see educated black women on TV, and the fact that you’re first lady validates who I am….’ My mom says it all the time: ‘People are so enamored of Michelle and Barack Obama.’ And she says, ‘There are millions of Michelle and Barack Obamas.’ We’re not new. We’re not special. People who come from intact families who are educated, who have values, who care for their kids, who raise their kids — if you don’t see that on TV, and you don’t live in communities with people like me, you never know who we are, and you can make and be susceptible to all sorts of assumptions and stereotypes and biases, based on nothing but what you see and hear on TV. So it becomes very important for the world to see different images of each other, so that, again, we can develop empathy and understanding.”

Her favorite show when she was a girl was The Mary Tyler Moore Show: “She was one of the few single working women depicted on television at the time. She wasn’t married. She wasn’t looking to get married. At no point did the series end in a happy ending with her finding a husband — which seemed to be the course you had to take as a woman. But she sort of bucked that. She worked in a newsroom, she had a tough boss, and she stood up to him. She had close friends, never bemoaning the fact that she was a single. She was very proud and comfortable in that role. I was probably 10 or 11 when I saw that, and sort of started thinking, ‘You know what? Marriage is an option. Having a family is an option. And going to school and getting your education and building your career is another really viable option that can lead to happiness and fulfillment.”

[From Variety]

“We’re not new. We’re not special…” I agree with the first part but I disagree with the second part. The Obamas were not and are not new, but they are special. There is an exceptionalism within them and around them. I understand that this is Michelle is speaking from her humility and her middle-class roots, but she IS special. The entire piece is worth a read, she talks a lot about her experiences doing individual TV shows, and there are quotes from other people about her strong influence across the board.

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Photos courtesy of Variety.

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  1. lilacflowers says:

    Dearest Michelle, you are very, very special. You will be missed when you leave the White House but it will be your turn to shine unbound by the limitations of the Office of First Lady. Shine. Astound us. Lead us. And continue being fabulous you.

  2. Locke Lamora says:

    I really hope she runs for some kind of political office, because she’s amazing and shouldn’t be remembered as just the wife of the President.

    And what she said about only seeing people who are different on TV really resonated with me. I come from a place with absolutely no diversity so most of my worldview when I was a kid was shaped by TV. But the images of black people I got were trough shows like Family Matters and Fresh Prince of Bel Air so I guess I never got the negative picture she talks about. It is interesting how much we are shaped by the media, especially as kids. And while I personally don’t like how showbizzy politics in America is, I can see why they used show bizz so much. It makes sense.

    • Cee says:

      True. Until very very recently there wasn’t a black population where I’m from. So the first time I even knew there were black people was through TV shows and films. And then you visit the US and get to know them in a different light and it’s sad because what you thought was real (as a child!) is evidently not.

      Michelle Obama is everything but average – she’s an amazing example and role model to any woman, but I understand how more important she is to african american women in particular.

  3. trollontheloose says:

    I feel like I need the posters of these pics. She exudes some confidence. When Obama was elected the first time I felt a huge pride because it was the year I got my citizenship. I felt the US was finally embracing changes ready for a different haul of politic after the Bush era. Moe oriented toward the world. Patriotic but not blindly patriotic. Today I see and feel some nostalgia among my friends and acquaintances because the Obama made some changes but all these violence these past 5 years shadow some of the accomplishments. i don’t think we will see another Black family anytime soon. Trump just unleashed so much hate that the racists are pouring and spewing hate behavior as if they were chained during Obama both terms. This campaign is just a freaking gigantic show of ignorant that act like the first born being angry and jealous and mad at the attention his parents pay to the new born: suddenly it’s all about everyone not just them. I am looking forward to follow Mrs Obama other venues, books, lectures..

  4. Megan says:

    Michelle Obama is an average woman? No. Super woman? Yes!!!

  5. jeanpierre says:

    She Is wonderful. I will miss her.

  6. Jb says:

    utterly gorgeous images of her.
    all 4 – really 5 with her mom – will be so missed

  7. Louise says:

    She should run. People would vote for her!

    • Bee says:

      Remember “Run, HIllary, Run?” People love women until they run for office, and then they’re brutalized. Even Elizabeth Warren was brutalized when she ran for senate. Grrr. It makes me so mad.

  8. sensible says:

    I saw Potus on Ellen just this afternoon here in Australia, and he impresses me with how authentic he is as a person. From over here I think to myself I would be very proud to have him as my leader if I were from the US. I even wrote to my friend on fb that he is just effortlessly charming. Tbh, it’s been a rough few years here in Oz politically, and I work in our parliament so I am a bit desperate for some inspiration…..I think you guys are heading for rough waters too come November.

    • Locke Lamora says:

      I find that a bit problematic. People shouldn’t vote for the politocian that is genuine or charming, they should vote for the one with the best policies.

      • sensible says:

        Of course policies come first, that goes without saying. I am commenting about icing on the cake of political life.

  9. grabbyhands says:

    Absolutely the picture of grace, civility and beauty. God, I’m going to miss the Obamas.

  10. minx says:

    FLOTUS is anything but average! Love her.

  11. Annie says:

    It has been wonderful having a President and First Lady like Barack and Michelle Obama, who one can admire, respect and grow genuinely find of. I am so going to miss them and their decency. The thought of them leaving the White House hurts and in all my 60 years I have never felt that before about a President and First Lady. I wish them well but hope they remain on the national scene in some capacity, because we need them.

  12. mary s says:

    She is so above average.

  13. Ellie66 says:

    She looks beautiful those are great pictures. I’m going to miss them both because the mess that’s coming our way (whoever wins) is going to suck!! 😬

    • Rose says:

      Michelle is so not average. She is a very successful woman in her own right. I can see her doing great things further down the line, once they leave the White House.

  14. Lucy says:

    I don’t agree with the US Government in several things, but I must admit I admire the Obamas and Michelle in particular. As a political figure, a woman and, well, a person.

  15. Kk says:

    I adore her. And these are really good photos. Well done Variety.

  16. KiddVicious says:

    I need to stop reading all articles about the Obama’s leaving office, it makes me tear up. I’m going to be a blubbering baby watching them get on that helicopter for the last time.

    • Tiffany :) says:

      “I’m going to be a blubbering baby watching them get on that helicopter for the last time.”

      OUCH! That image is painful.

  17. Reece says:

    No ma’am. You, and Barack, most certainly are very special!

  18. Betsy says:

    Dang, Mrs. Obama, I wish I were “average” like you!

  19. Guesto says:

    I think her ‘average’ message has been slightly lost here.

    For me, what she was trying to get across is that her (black) family is not exceptional, that there are countless black families out there just like hers, but they’re just not being ‘seen’.

    It’s such an important message and I think she might be slightly saddened by some of the responses on here.

    • Betsy says:

      No, I get that. But she’s just not average, by any definition. Going to the White House puts the Obamas into a category that 99.9999% of us will never experience. Well-educated, high-achieving African American families aren’t atypical (no matter what Trump thinks), but she and Pres Obama? Sorry, becoming President and First Lady means you are no longer mathematically average.

      • Guesto says:

        @Betsy – I understand what you’re saying, but I still feel her point is being missed.

        I think her point is that there are countless ‘Michelles and Baracks’ out there but they’re just not being acknowledged.

  20. mellie says:

    I already loved her and now that I know she loves the MTM show I love her that much more 🙂

  21. Anare says:

    She is smart confident curious funny tough bold classy and beautiful. Stunningly gorgeous in those pics. If she’s average I’m whale sh*t on the bottom of the ocean.