Alec Baldwin apologizes over Filipino mail-order bride joke

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Alec Baldwin’s been sticking his foot in his mouth a lot more than usual lately – at least when it comes to his off-color jokes. Last week he was on “Late Night” and told David Letterman he wanted more kids. But after his bad experience with ex-wife Kim Basinger, Baldwin is apparently reluctant to marry again. Or at least to marry an American woman. He joked that he was considering getting a Filipino mail-order bride – and the result was a threatened beat-down from a Filipino senator.

Philippine Sen. Ramon Revilla said Monday that Baldwin’s comment was “insensitive and uncalled for” and an insult to millions of Filipinos. He called the actor “arrogant” and said he is apparently unaware that the Philippines has a law against mail-order brides.

“Let him try to come here in the Philippines and he’ll see mayhem,” Revilla said, using a local idiom that implies the speaker will personally administer a beating.

[From Yahoo! News]

Though Baldwin isn’t the type to be pushed around easily, he clearly realized he’d crossed a line. Or perhaps it was the threat of a beating – but he did apologize.

I’d like to offer an apology and a clarification to remarks I made recently.

While on the David Letterman program, I joked that I might need a “mail-order bride” to achieve the goal of having more children in my life. I believe that most people understood that this was a joke and took it as such. (A dated reference, no doubt, and another sign of my advancing age.) However, I do apologize to anyone who took offense. The comments of some Philippine government officials come as no surprise to me, either. Even the one by a former action film star-turned-Senator who beckoned me to come to the Philippines so he could “beat” me over my comment.

Such anger and frustration about the issue of sex trafficking is understandable. The Philippines has suffered significant problems with the issue of sex trafficking and I would like to turn your attention to the work of an organization called Love146 that my brother Stephen educated me about. Visit their website at www.love146.org and learn of the important work that is being done, in various regions of the world, by Rob Morris and his co-founders and staff.

[From the Huffington Post]

This was only one of several of Baldwin’s “holy crap why’d he say that” jokes. He also joked about his relationship with now 13-year-old daughter Ireland. Keep in mind this is the same girl he infamously chewed out via voicemail, calling her a vile little pig amongst other terrible things a parent should never, ever say. It was a huge PR debacle, so you’d think he’d stay away from ever talking about Ireland again – at least in anything other than absolutely glowing terms. But no.

‘My daughter is 13 and I see now why, in these films, whenever they represent a Mayan culture, or any tribal culture, or a Hawaiian culture, they always throw a teenage girl into the volcano as a sacrifice,’ he joked.

‘I kind of understand why. They [teenage girls] are very opinionated.’

‘Everyone always tells me “Oh it’s their hormones”, and I don’t really care,’ he told the chat show host.

‘They should be sent to some kind of Chinese re-education camp in the mountains for five years.’

[From the Daily Mail]

I’m starting to think Baldwin might want to completely stay away from mentioning other cultures, especially in relation to his jokes. The jokes themselves aren’t going over well, and associating them with other cultures simply seems to be widening the group of people he’s insulting. Instead of offending just mail-order brides, he offended Filipinos and Russians. Instead of offending just his daughter, he also offended Mayans, Hawaiians, and the Chinese. While I love the living daylights out of the guy – simply for how great he is on “30 Rock” – I really think Alec Baldwin should stick to scripted jokes. He’s smart and worldly, which had great comedic potential, but he lacks that self-censoring feature that lets most of us know when we’re about to cross the line.

Here’s Alec at the Spirit Awards on February 20th. Images thanks to Fame Pictures .

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  1. vale says:

    I thought the volcano joke was really funny, but mostly because I remember what I was like at 13.

  2. Feebee says:

    Ha, I was thinking exactly the same thing. Any one who’s been a teenage girl will understand the sentiment of their parent wanting to chuck them in a volcano.

    I hope that the fact Baldwin can publicly joke about his relationship with his daughter means the “rude little pig” incident is well behind them and they have a good one and that possibly she shares his sense of humour.

  3. Annie says:

    Yea, he might want to consider curing himself of that foot in mouth syndrome…

    I mean, I know there are going to be some people who are going to scream about how PC the world has gotten and how it’s a horrible thing, but all you’re really doing is giving justification to derogatory statements. And if you were the victim of such statements, I bet you wouldn’t be justifying them then. But hey, it isn’t an insult on you..so who cares?

  4. Debbi says:

    Agreed, Vale, agreed.

  5. DD says:

    I don’t know, comedians get away with these kinds of jokes all the time. The minute an actor makes a joke he’s villainized. He wasn’t condoning sex trafficking, he was making an obvious joke. I guess different standards for different people.

  6. Wench. says:

    Ha, everyone with a teenage girl is nodding frantically in agreement, I’m sure.

  7. Lex says:

    Ya I don’t hear him ‘condoning’ sex trafficking at all in that joke! And teenage girls are a HUGE pain in the ass – everyone knows that! I suppose he doesn’t need to mention specific cultures, but I think people are being far too sensitive! It’s a late night talk show!

  8. ChristinaT says:

    oh gawd, the level of sensitivity in this country is kind of sickening… there are people who live in countries where it’s so bad that they get raped or mugged or brutalized on the way to the grocery store… and they have just accepted that as a part of their life…

    but we americans are soooo whiny that we get all bent out of shape over a few tasteless jokes… we’ve become a sniveling, wimpy and whiny lot haven’t we :/

  9. Ally says:

    I can’t believe you people. He’s obviously a pompous blowhard who can’t handle any woman, whether it’s his wife or even his daughter, who doesn’t agree with him and worship every stupid thing he utters 24/7. He’s a bloated male diva who wants to be surrounded by fawning, subservient women, and doesn’t even have the decency or good sense to shut up about it.

    And making jokes about a violent death for your daughter is not cute under any optic.

    I hope that Filipino official gets on a plane to the States.

  10. yadira says:

    Some of the stuff he says isn’t that bad until he specifies a nationality. Than it becomes a personalized offensive joke instead of just offensive.

  11. Ceenitall says:

    Christ on a cracker! He is being funny, lighted up. I used to tell people when my daughter was a teen that we were not going to both make it to her 20’s. I didn’t really mean I was going to kill her or kill myself for that matter, it was a joke. Anyone who has had a teenage daughter with a mouth knows just what it’s like. And by the way, she is now 23 and has turned into quite a nice young woman. So alls well in the end.

  12. Boom says:

    Don Rickles used to and still does make these type of remarks, now that guy is funny, specially during Johnny Carson days….he is also actor/comedian. When did we become such an uptight society?

  13. Casey says:

    It was in questionable taste, but I think anyone watching it knew he was kidding.

    Anyone with a 13 year old can relate, and probably laughed as well.

    There’s been far worse said, where people didn’t go nuts.

  14. Liz says:

    I love him…he is so incredibly funny on 30 Rock. He’s just the Joe Biden of comedian talk show guests. 🙂

  15. ebgirl says:

    Sorry, I have to disagree about him being offensive to all those other cultures. I’ve got some Mayan in me and I thought the joke was hilarious. And I have a multicultural group of friends and you can TRUST that sending your teenage kids away to another country when they get totally out of hand is something they really do. I have a friend who shipped her son off to Mexico to work on a cherry farm for the summer when he started trying to be a gang-banger. My aunt got shipped off to a convent for a few months when she got out of hand. My Filipina-American friend’s brother got shipped to the Philippines when he started to act up. All these people straightened up REAL fast after that. haha And girls ARE the worst. I was hell on wheels, but I just moved out before my mother could ship me off to Mexico like she kept threatening to do. (I love Mexico, but didn’t want to go live there with people I didn’t know at 15 years old). People need to chill out and stop being so easily offended. He was just making a joke and not trying to offend other cultures.

  16. Jag says:

    I think he’s a racist pig who thinks he’s funny.

  17. jennifer says:

    However, I do apologize to anyone who took offense.

    I’m not going to comment on whether or not I find what he said inappropriate or offensive, but I WILL comment on the above statement. It sounds just like Miley Cyrus’s “apology”. When you apologize for someone taking offense, you are not actually apologizing. If your apology is not sincere, or you don’t actually apologize, fine. But don’t pull the “I’m sorry if YOU are offended” crap. You’re not actually apologizing for your own actions at ALL, and if you’re truly not sorry I’d actually respect you a bit more for saying “I don’t apologize for what I said because I truly don’t believe it to be offensive” or something along those lines, you know?

    I find him offensive in so many ways, ugh.

  18. Bob says:

    Baldwin is a master at delivering lines written by other people. But he needs to avoid speaking without a script if he wants to keep his career alive.

  19. embertine says:

    Oh come on. The fact is that a lot of Filipino women have sold themselves out as mail-order brides. If he said Thai, or Russian, would it have been offensive? ‘Cause it happens a lot in those countries too.

    Maybe the minister should ask himself why so many women in his country want to leave it so badly that they’ll sell themselves to unattractive Westerners just to get away, because it still goes on.

  20. barneslr says:

    Okay, I absolutely HATE Baldwin. In my mind, he can do nothing right, and I refuse to watch anything that he appears in.

    That being said, he was just making a stupid joke. Anyone who gets offended needs to get the stick out of their hiney.

    And for the record, Filipino mail order brides do exist…I happen to know one. I also know a Russian one and an Estonian one, so it does happen. If that senator is so fired up, he should address the problems that drive women to sell themselves like that, rather than going after some has-been actor that makes a lame joke.

    And I lived in Hawaii for a few years as a child. I can’t tell you how many times Dad would jokingly threaten to throw me into a volcano. And yet I survived to adulthood and still have a good relationship with Dad.

  21. Brent says:

    Well, he already apologized and we should all forgive. I understand he was banned from visiting the Philippines. Even Senator Revilla says thet he will beat him up when he visits Philippines. I kinda wonder why when Philippine officials says something bad about the States or it’s people, they never get banned in the States. What Senator Revilla’s response is childish. Does’nt visit the States himself? Or did he only say that to impress people? Can he be questioned for threat of bodily harm when he comes to the States. Just my 2 cents.

  22. Kim says:

    its not bad to make jokes but lets make sure that there is always limitation so we wouldnt hurt others…. this is a good lesson to those who put others down, they should be careful and not to hurt others feelings….

  23. Gia says:

    Philippine Sen. Ramon Revilla needs to stop being sensitive. Doesnt he have better things to worry about than some actor in another country. which Alec didnt even insult the country. OMG. people always talk about Russian mail order brides. you dont hear Russia trying to beat people up

  24. Magsy says:

    Alec, put a sock in it.

  25. m says:

    well it’s good now that alec is telling a FACT & not some sugar-coating piece of bs. you’ll find out how many google searches people are looking into about mail-order brides, and their business will just get more cliets. LOL THANKS A LOT MAN.

    other than that, sensitive fucks need to straighten up and grow the eff up. seriously. there are better things to do than whine about some comedian.

    i’m filipina btw.

  26. Vicky Milner says:

    I don’t know why so many people seem to think Foreign Brides are bad? I think it is great that two people can find each other even though they live worlds apart

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