Warning: this post contains spoilers for this week’s episode of This is Us
Another week, another drama-packed visit with the Pearson clan on This is Us. Without the excitement of a Sylvester Stallone cameo, we were able to focus on mother-daughter relationships, which seemed to be the thread running through this episode. Back in the 80s, Kevin and Kate got chicken pox and Rebecca’s critical “Mom-ster,” played by Elizabeth Perkins, invited herself over to help out when she let her casual racist flag fly. I Love EP, don’t get me wrong, but she does play a great sub-par mother. Picture an older version of her character from About Last Night and you’ve got the gist of who she is on the show.
It’s still a rocky road for Randall and Beth, as they desperately try to assimilate their foster child, Deja, into the family. Her hygiene leaves a little to be desired and, after Randall fails to break through after an aborted trip to the bowling alley, Beth finally gets Deja to let her hair down (see what I did there?) and gives her beautiful braids. Unfortunately, Beth breaks some unwritten foster mom/foster daughter code and tells her husband about Deja’s struggle with alopecia. Deja acts out by chopping off her locks.
Kevin needs a mother figure as Brian Grazer, who is producing his big budget Stallone-starring movie, insists he get his injured knee looked at. He has a torn meniscus and eventually consents to surgery. Afterwards, he refuses to follow doctor’s orders and use the old RICE technique to heal, opting for stubbornness and pain pills to get him back on set. Bad idea.
And then there’s Kate. The first time we see her on this episode, she’s working out, to make sure she fits in the dress she wants to wear for her singing debut with the band. Toby tries to get her to relax and eat a muffin. (Side note: How many of you were yelling at the TV, like I was, “SHE DOESN’T WANT THE MUFFIN, TOBY!”?) We see her later head to the drug store, making a beeline for the “Weight loss” section. Uh oh. Fortunately we learn that she was actually there picking up pre-natal vitamins because, guess what? She’s six weeks pregnant! I don’t think I’ve been happier for a fictional character in quite some time.
Chrissy Metz, who plays the mom-to-be, said it was difficult to keep her character’s maternity under wraps. In response to a fan who asked her, “How hard was that to keep to yourself?” Chrissy replied: “Beyond difficult! My real family didn’t even have a clue.”
Beyond difficult! My real family didnt even have a clue 😇 #ThisisUs https://t.co/VrH0WeDpp4
— Chrissy Metz (@ChrissyMetz) October 18, 2017
And, since none of the actors seem to know their characters’ fates very far in advance of filming, it’s not really a surprise that Chrissy’s co-stars were also kept in the dark about Kate’s delicate condition. Susan Kelechi Watson, who has been knocking it out of the park as Beth, told Entertainment Tonight that “It was one of the those things that was left out of the script when we first got it. But it was such a lovely moment. When I finally did get to read the script for that scene, I could just imagine Chrissy [Metz].”
When asked by The Hollywood Reporter how many episodes she filmed knowing her character was with child, she replied, “In my mind, probably the episode before. At least in my backstory, she has some sort of an inclination but didn’t necessarily believe it to be true. She didn’t completely believe it until she went to the doctor’s.” And, as far as why she feels her character hasn’t told Toby about the upcoming arrival, she said:
She’s very afraid. She’s afraid to admit it’s real because then your heart becomes involved. Then there’s that potential for disappointment. I didn’t even realize this but after 35 years old it’s considered a geriatric pregnancy. Like, what? And not to say people don’t have healthy, wonderful, perfect geriatric pregnancies, but there’s this thought of disappointing…it’s one thing to handle your own disappointment. Mostly she knows how he’s going to react but they’re not married. As his mother probably believes, they’re living in sin. They just got together; it’s not even a whole year really. And she doesn’t want to disappoint him because God forbid. What if he’s not into it, or what if there’s a potential complication or problem? You don’t ever want to break a loved one’s heart because that’s harder to deal with than your own.
Like most fans, I hope the pregnancy is an easy one for Kate, as my heart might not be able to handle any complications. I’ve already felt so many feelings while watching this show. And it’s cool that I’m not the only one. P!nk recently tweeted these all too common sentiments:
This Is Us needs to come with a free box of tissues
— P!nk (@Pink) October 17, 2017
Chrissy replied to the tweet, stating, “I agree, I resort to toilet paper” and then appropriately fangirled out over the fact that P!nk watches the show. Too cute.
I agree, I resort to toilet paper. #desperatetimes #ThisIsUs
(Also , omg! 🙈😍) https://t.co/yGb9JCPvdX— Chrissy Metz (@ChrissyMetz) October 18, 2017
Photos: Getty Images, WENN.com
I’m so happy for Kate! I think Toby is going to be ecstatic, but I also fear he’s going to become more controlling over her health (he means well but he takes it too far). I guess Kate does have two things going “against” her, her age & weight, so I hope she doesn’t encounter any major complications🤞🏻. And I have to admit the Kevin/pain pills storyline is kind of disappointing. It’s such a cliched storyline that I was hoping they would avoid. Maybe they’ll take a different approach to it? I hope so. I’m still all in and loving all of the other storylines (I’m rooting for Deja to connect with the family and open herself up to being happy…easier said than done, I know).
I haven’t watched any of this season, but this reaffirmed that I hate Toby.
Omg yes! I want someone better than Toby for her but everyone seems to love Toby. I honestly don’t get it. I was hoping he would die after the heart attack, I hope there’s still time lol I also find his character extremely boring
LOL, I know, when he collapsed with the heart attack, I was like oh good…oh crap he’s still alive.
He is WAY too pushy towards her, and just so…much.
I can’t stand Toby. He’s too much. All of those romantic gestures he does are more for him than for Kate. And he really doesn’t want her to mature.
He’s immature, needy and selfish under the guise of a “nice guy.”
Now, every time I see him, all I can think of is Taserface from “Guardians of the Galaxy 2”
I JUST CAN’T!!! With Toby!🤢He’s supposed to be a good actor in other things but I’ve never seen him in anything else.I feel guilty even though it’s just TV but I too hoped he was going to be killed off due to the heart attack.It seems like they assembled this perfect cast with such chemistry and threw Toby in as an afterthought.Weird.And something that has crossed my mind (I hope I’m wrong),but it’s like the fat girl has to be with the *funny fat guy *gross. I am not stereotyping here,but just saying it seems like the show maybe is -I hope not.I think Kate is gorgeous and talented and they need to give her a guy with looks,charm,charisma,and some common sense.I was heavy as a young girl/teen and always got paired up with the overweight guy WTF We should be over these things.Hope her pregnancy goes well she’s lovely inside and out and can do the mom thing with or without Toby.Sorry for the rant I have a life and all it’s not like I dwell on this aspect of the show,maybe it’s PMS and my nagging cold😒
Just caught up on the last two weeks last night.
I was happy with the storyline twist for Kate but I don’t think it’s going to be an easy pregnancy for her and I think we’ll all cry a lot. Her weight has to be a factor in it because she is so obese.
I usually like Toby but wanted to punch him in the face about his control over her health. He doesn’t want her to lose weight. He is insecure and thinks he’ll lose her. He’s pissin’ me off!
This too thank you
Am I alone in not really liking “This is Us?”
Hello there! I tried. I liked it in the beginning, I stopped watching for a while then I tried to go back but it was to much going on and I stopped before the ending of season one. I read this article to see what I missed and nope, to much real world mixed with telenovela stuff. I now know what I want. I want light, funny stuff. I want laughter more than anything. So no more drama for me. I am even avoiding GOT so I can handle HTGAWM as I want to know how it ends so badly. Thank Good there is TBBT. It is stupid but light. Sorry long post
Why is this show such a big deal? I loved Parenthood which had a lot of similar family dynamic issues/complexities that often required boxes of tissues to be watched….I don’t remember the same kind of hype around that show as this one. Kind of bugs me…Parenthood FTW!
Please don’t flame me but I absolutely do not like Kate or Toby. I find Kate way too focused on herself and codependent with Kevin, not to mention downright rude to her mom……I find Toby to be exceedingly needy and clingy. Their relationship is not one I could be in, so cloying…..That being said, the twist blew my mind, I thought she was there getting pre tested for weight loss surgery , well done to the writers!!
I know this is going to be an unpopular sentiment, but I prefer Kate now that she’s starting to lose a little bit of weight. Personally I wasn’t buying her character until this season I feel like she emotes more and is just more believable in the role and I was trying to figure out why I feel that way and I think it is because she started to lose weight and you can see the expression on her face better. Again I know that’s not a popular thought but being a big woman I know but sometimes people can misread my emotions based on my face facial expressions. So I appreciate now that I can delineate her different Expressions I feel her character is more real. And I’m really really enjoying her storyline she’s becoming a more fully realized character.