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Elin Nordegren did just two interviews, both print interviews with People Magazine done four years apart, since her ex husband Tiger Woods’ serial cheating became the biggest scandal in golf in 2009. She doesn’t get enough credit for keeping her head down, for staying incredibly classy and for choosing to pursue an education. Of course she got a fat settlement and bought a mansion out of it, but she’s not living like a rock star. Elin, a Swedish immigrant who has worked as a model and nanny, got her bachelor’s degree in psychology from Rollins College in Florida in 2014. She was named valedictorian and gave an inspiring commencement speech in which she sounded both humble and grateful, saying that “education has been the only consistent part of my life for the last 9 years” and calling it “the one thing that no one can take away from you.” She also said that she hoped to be an inspiration to her two children with Tiger: daughter Sam, 10, and son Charlie, 9. Now Elin is about to get her masters degree is psychology and is downsizing, having put her home on the market. She also gets along well with Tiger and they have a successful coparenting relationship.
As Woods works on his comeback, his ex-wife, Elin Nordegren, lives a quiet life in South Florida. Last month, she put her North Palm Beach mansion on the market for $49.5 million to “downsize.”
Nordegren —who shares two kids, daughter Sam, 10, and son Charlie, 9, with Woods — famously purchased a home on the 1.4 acre waterfront parcel back in 2011 for $12.25 million using part of her reported $100 million divorce settlement from Woods and demolished it to build a three-story, custom residence.
But a source close to the golfer says that the former couple gets along well now. “They’re friends now,” the insider tells PEOPLE. “Everything that happened in the past is in the past. They both decided to be adults and to do what was best for the kids. So they get along really well.”
“Tiger says really great things about Elin,” the source continues. “He never complains about her, ever. He never says things like, ‘Oh, my ex is being unreasonable.’ On the contrary, he talks about her in glowing terms. They’re closer now than they were when they were married. The kids love them both.”
Nordegren continued her education after the split. She is scheduled to get a master’s degree in psychology next month.
This is a smart, thoughtful woman who did not act hastily and who has worked to get along with her ex despite the very public way he humiliated her. He didn’t deserve her and he still doesn’t. She could have lived well off that $100 million for the rest of her life but instead she found a calling and that has made all the difference. I’m so impressed with Elin from the small glimpse she’s given us of her life and her character. Also, if she sells that mansion for her asking price she’s going to make tidy profit. You go, Elin.
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Wow, that is fantastic of her! Had no idea that she was so motivated.
As for her selling a Florida waterfront home, I hope that it really is due to “downsizing” and not due to “ocean rising.” (There are some communities in Florida which are already seeing issues with boats not being able to get under bridges due to higher tides.)
Maybe it’s both? I was just thinking that I’m happy I don’t have family in south FL.
Congratulations!!
Clapping my hands till they get sore! Tiger deserved more that a couple swings at his head but the best revenge is indeed living the best life and never looking back!! Hopefully she is getting hers from some hot smart loyal dude who HATES golf like me ! 😉
She was dating my kids basketball coach’s brother who is an ex football player and beautiful so she was getting hers a couple months back! They actually cane to a couple of the kids game to support his niece and they were both very nice.
Good for her!
Stay classy, Elin.
I’m feeling so inspired all of the sudden (not that I’ve ever been through what she has). Good for her!!!
She really was so classy during the whole divorce, congrats to her
I first read that as El Woods- looks a lot like Reese Witherspoon in Clueless.
*Legally Blonde*
I also read that as Elle woods!
Same 😂
Yeah I thought it was a reboot of Elle Woods – Legally Blonde at first glance!
For a moment I thought it was based on a real event and this was the real Elle.
I feel compelled to point out that his actions humiliated *himself*, not her.
Thank you thank you thank you. This is my pet peeve! Why are cheated upon partners always referred to as humiliated? The message is “Now it’s publicly known that she wasn’t good enough to keep her man from straying, so HE has humiliated HER.” No. Just no.
Right on, NotSoSocialButterfly! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I think you’re reading it through just one narrow lens. I think it’s OK to say he humiliated her – because what he did was mean and wrong and reckless and HIS actions hurt her and made her no doubt feel very disrespected. When one is disrespected so publicly, that is painful and yes, it’s humiliating. That’s the definition of it.
Agree Sunshine. It’s not a judgement, it would be mortifying to know the entire world has read about the skeevy gross sexual exploits of the father of your children. Feeling humiliated would be the very least you’d expect and it doesn’t imply any fault or shame on the wronged person.
So nice to hear about someone enduring a scandal and not going the Dancing with the Stars route.
Oh god yes! The one celeb ex who has no need for the spotlight.
If I recall, she actually went after him with a golf club after the news broke, so I don’t know that she started out classy at the start, lol. Masters degrees ain’t no joke, though, so kudos to her.
He denied that story and there’s little to corroborate it:
http://www.eonline.com/news/171535/did-elin-golf-club-tiger-newly-released-report-rehashes-domestic-violence-claims
Well, I’m glad to see that cleared up. On the other hand, a sad death today for dramatic gossip memories, lol.
Without showing my hand and no tea spilling… I’m siding heavily that she whacked out some teeth with a golf club.
Veronica – I also recall there being accounts of a banged up car (dented by golf clubs) and a destroyed golf clubs as well. There was no need for anyone to make that up (contemporaneously, no less). If she had a moment, I don’t blame her. But she recovered nicely.
Congratulations to her. Tons of money and she still expanded her education and is the primary care giver for her kids. WTG!
I wished more women focused on education post divorce instead of the next guy. But to be fair her mother is well educated and she probably grew up with the expectation that she would eventually pursue higher education. A lot of Europeans take a few gap years to travel as nannies then go back home to finish college.
With our poor parental role/modeling and bad educational system, most young girls just want to be famous and pretty…geting a $100,000 means staying in the limelight and marrying someone else rich and famous. I sthink studies have shown that parents are always the most influential on a young person’s life.
Thank you. Elin comes from an educated family – journalist and politician parents. She came to the US to nanny for a year for Jesper Parvenik, a friend and professional golfer, before finishing school. Good on her for having the discipline and curiosity and drive to keep going with psychology.
Good for her. They don’t give you that for being cute and I’m glad they get along well. Learning how to coparent is key and the decision to speak well of one’s ex goes a long way to creating a loving peaceful environment for all involved.
That’s great! And maybe that degree will come in handy for dealing with Tiger.
Good for her. I like that she made a life for herself and didn’t let his scandal define her.
She has handled herself with great class, and maintained a lot of privacy. So many others would have used that situation to get famous or something, but she focused on herself, her kids, and her education. Smart woman.
Way to go, Elin!
I love her, she is really inspirational!
This is impressive. To have all that money and still get your education. For most, there would be no motivation. I’m thinking about all the papers and exams I wrote…all the early, late, and weekend classes. Would I have done all that knowing I have millions in the bank? Not sure.
If I could afford to not work I’d be in education constantly but it certainly doesn’t seem to be a preference shared by the uber rich.
What an inspiring woman. Living her best life the way she wants to and being a great role model in the process. All the respect to her.
I have a fairly good relationship with my ex husband. It was really good until the new wife came into the picture. When she inserts herself into our dealings, I always take a breath and think “what would Elin do?”. Elin is a class act. If she lost it when she found about his disgusting behavior, I don’t blame her. She has conducted herself with poise and integrity. He never deserved her.
Such a beauty – and smart. What was Tiger thinking to hurt this women, over & over again?
Get it, girl! I’ve got to wonder if living with a person like Tiger for years had more than a little to do with her wanting to explore the science of understanding people’s messed up psyches.