Demi Lovato left a treatment center last November and she jumped into a relationship with a guy named Henry Levy. I didnât pay much attention to the relationship because most people were like âoh, heâs her sober companionâ or âDemi wouldnât jump into a relationship so quickly after leaving a treatment facility.â But it happened. And they broke up this week:
Four months after first being spotted together, Demi Lovato and designer Henry Levy have called it quits. A source close to Lovato, 26, confirms exclusively to PEOPLE the couple are no longer dating. And despite reports, Levy was never the singerâs sober companion, adds the source. The exes were first linked in November after they were photographed together on a sushi dinner date in Los Angeles shortly after the âConfidentâ singer left a treatment facility following an overdose.
So Demi is having a hard week. So she did what a lot of us do when weâre having a tough time: she gave herself some self-love. Demi sent herself flowers with the message: âYouâre beautiful, youâre loved, and youâre worthy of a happy and healthy life.â She posted the photo on Instagram Stories with the message: âCause sometimes you gotta send yourself flowers ⌠#selflove.â
Have you ever done this? Iâve never SENT flowers to myself, but if I need a pick-me-up, I will buy myself pretty flowers at the grocery store, but that doesnât happen too often. Usually, if I need a self-care treat, it comes in the form of milkshakes or French fries. Maybe I should try flowers with some affirmations, f–k it.
Photos courtesy of Instagram, Backgrid.
It is a bit cloying to share that you do this though, no? I buy myself little gifts when I feel down, so I get it.
That first photo is airbrushed to the gods lmaooooo.
Idk. I donât really see Demi ever really beating her demons. She keeps on repeating the same mistakes, and for whatever reason sheâs not getting off social media smh. Arenât you not supposed to jump into a relationship after treatment as well?
The flowers thing with the card is weird to me. I also donât get posting it on sm cuz thatâs a special kind of needy.
Yup, needy is the right word, this is why she’s never leaving social media for long.
At the end of the day, after all the self-love talk, what she really needs to keep her going is external validation. Whether she gets it through her fans, her hook ups, her yes-men or her relationships. She should still be in therapy, this attention seeking is doing the opposite of helping her.
she seems very aware of the large number of young people who follow her and seems to want to send an example to them in this way? That Self love is good? And she probably wants a response from her supportive fans as she seems down about the breakup. I think celebs like the positive comments too and arent exclusively in it for fame attention reasons
I buy myself flowers all the time, but more because I LOVE cut flowers in my house, and I have some gorgeous vases, LOL. But good for her.
Not everything needs to be shared.
Ill buy myself flowers at the grocery store mostly because I’m too cheap to send myself some. Haha
Right? Me too! Why pay extra for delivery?
Never done it, but, you know, whatever works for her! A breakup is nearly always hard on anyone, and I can’t imagine how much more tough it would be for someone like her, where the coping mechanisms that would seem to be the ones she instinctively turns to nearly all seem to be so terribly, sadly self-destructive. I hope she’s doing alright and hanging in there, and if sending herself flowers helps her feel better and keeps her from going down old, darker paths, then order a flower shop’s worth, I say!
I still didn’t mail the xmass postcards, so I guess I’d fail at doing this too. I don’t wanna say anything to attack someone who’s cleary recovering from many things, so if it makes her feel better and she gets tons of positive comments on good for her.
I believe the word weâre looking for is extra and not in a good way! Iâm all about treat yo self but sending yourself flowers, that message and then posting for all your followers to see???
That is so much face tune.
She has rubbed me the wrong way ever since that clearly staged speech when “a fan” threw a Barbie on stage. She is too much. She is too thirsty.
I can’t with this one.
Her thirst would drain the Hoover Dam.
Hate first line of her note is about her beauty. Further perpetuates the flawed thinking that being beautiful is the end all be all.
Possibly she’s referring to her inner beauty, but I doubt it.
Demi’s face looks bloated for some reason
I had a girl living down the hall from me in the dorms at college who was always talking about her boyfriend and how great he was. Shed give lots of unsolicited advice to everyone, especially girls who were single as if thats a problem that needs to be fixed.
She saw i had flowers in my room on valentines day and asked, âooohh! Who bought you flowers?â I said, âi bought them for myself.â She gave me the dirtiest look and walked away. Maybe 2 minutes later she came back and said in a patronizing tone, âSo, you called a flower shop and had them deliever flowers-to yourself?â I said, âNo, I was at the grocery store, saw the flowers and bought them for myself. I think its silly to wait around for a guy to give you what you want- give yourself what you want.â She gave me the dirtiest look and spent the rest of the year badmouthing me to others on the floor.