Jana Kramer’s husband Mike Caussin cheats on her, it’s what he does. We laughed about that so hard on the podcast this week, that’s at about 40 minutes in. We may not have otherwise talked about such a minor story, but one of our comments of the week was from Oh No on our last post about Jana. That was when Jana was saying she wouldn’t hire a hot nanny because it’s “not that I don’t trust my husband” but “You look at some of these nannies, and I’m like, ‘Well, you kinda asked for it, she’s kinda hot.’ Not saying that Ben Affleck was wrong, but you look at the nanny and I’m like, ‘Well, she’s really cute.’ You’re playing with fire.” So who is asking for it, the woman who hires the attractive young woman to care for her children or the nanny who gets sexually harassed? How about the woman who knowingly married a cheater and took him back after he cheated on her multiple times? Jana has also said things like “Anyone can cheat. Someone can cheat right now or tomorrow.” That’s like saying “anyone can get a DUI” to justify someone’s fifth DUI.
As People points out, a Bachelor contestant named Ashley Spivey made an Instagram story responding to Jana. She told it like it is, writing “This is insulting @kramergirl. After a long day of nannying I can assure that the last thing we want to do is seduce a husband. Also, sounds like your husband sucks.”
Jana then issued a clarification, which was basically “Sorry if you were offended, hot nannies.” She wrote this about as a caption on the photo posted above. She is the cheesiest.
Okay. There has been some backlash about my nanny comments so I want to come here to discuss. First of all, a few of the things I said were taken severely out of context. Like the fact that people think I meant the nanny deserved it cause she is hot. I did NOT say that NOR would I ever say that or think that. No one ever deserves to be sexually assaulted in the workplace based on what they wear or how they look. Period. Me and the whine down crew were talking about not bringing in temptation. Now me saying that is also wrong and offending some. On my podcast I like to stir things up, start conversations BUT never to offend others. So for the nannies I have offended I’m sorry. The funny thing is all my past nannies have been beautiful and I never cared because they LOVED my children and that’s what it’s about. At the end of the day people will cheat no matter what and it doesn’t matter what someone looks like. Truth is it’s about BOUNDARIES and this week on the podcast we talk about that. It’s not about how hot the nanny is, or how big of boobs ur nanny has or what she is wearing… it’s about BOUNDARIES and TRUST.. It truly is about having healthy boundaries with your spouse. How have you set healthy boundaries in your house with ur spouse? Comment below.
[From Instagram]
She’s not sorry she said that, she’s sorry if she offended you, okay? How could you even take it that way when some of her best friends are beautiful nannies? It’s not about “how hot the nanny is or how big of boobs ur nanny has [sic]” it’s about you putting boundaries on your cheating husband by making it a little bit harder for him to find his next target.
To get serious for a moment, Jana has been through some sh-t, she really has, so she accepts this dude cheating on her and then tries to control the situation by telling everyone about it and making moves like this. She thinks it’s other women’s fault for being attractive because that’s easier than facing the fact that she married and had two kids with a guy who constantly cheats on her and isn’t going to change.
photos via Instagram
This Jana person sounds like an idiot.
Feel bad for her kids.
I was a nanny for a year in college. I can assure you that I had zero interest in the husband. My job was to be a caregiver to two little girls and that’s what I did. Maybe she should stop making excuses for her shit husband and dump him. It isn’t a nanny problem, it’s a husband who gets away with cheating and a women who will blame anyone for her husband’s behavior.
I was a nanny during my undergrad and I can’t really recall much time alone with their Father. I’m not sure how they utilize their nanny, but the family I worked for dismissed me after they got home and settled. How much time do these people have with their nannies?
Sounds like she finds potential areas of *temptation* and then goes on her podcast (who even listens to her?) to create paranoia.
He’s just not worth it, girl.
She blames his sex addiction. Not saying sex addiction isn’t real, but it is not an excuse to treat your wife like garbage.
Knowing he is who he is, I look and I am like, really, girl? You put up with his constant sh*t and he looks like that? She must really love who he is on the inside, which is weird, b/c he seems terrible on the inside (and outside).
Seems like there’s a lot of ugly behavior behind those pretty pix on social media.
It’s not worth it, Jana.
Yeah her social media is a great example that social media is NOT reality. Lots of heartbreak and lies behind those photos she shares.
Maybe the posts with him get the most coverage because of the controversy. It just is overkill with their happy photos. She seems so obsessed with him in an unhealthy way.
Her life seems really shallow and sad and no amount of staged filtered photos with her husband will change the reality that he is a habitual cheater. What a shame of a marriage
100% of the blame solely rests with her cheating husband, full stop. So the next thing I’m going to say does NOT shift that or absolve him of the blame.
… but also, who the F is sleeping with a married father of two? Especially a married father of two who has publicly cheated on his wife time and time again? And that she puts her pain on blast like that? How on earth could somebody *still* choose to have sex with him?
I always asked that question and the answer is some ppl are messy and love the drama. They thrive on this kind of dysfunction and rather then try to fix themselves and realize how damaging/destructive this type of behavior they move on to the next mess.
January Jones is famous for being with multiple married men who are fathers. Some women like her seem to enjoy screwing over women too, I don t know the psychology behind it but there has to be some deep seeded anger right?
Miranda Lambert types that need to “win” the men that are already taken
It could be a woman who is insecure and falls under the spell of having attention paid to her. It’s not healthy and obviously personal work has to be done, but it’s a reason.
Been there, done that, did the work on myself!
It’s about healthy boundaries? If you don’t enforce your boundaries and have a bottom line, there is no point.
I agree with everyone, this guy isn’t worth it. Her life and mind seem 100% consumed by her cheating husband and preventing him from cheating and looking for evidence he is cheating. She needs to detach from him emotionally because it sounds like it has made her obsessed and crazy.
Toxic.
I was a nanny on and off before I had my kids. Guess what? Never once tried to seduce the dads because I’m not a terrible human being.
I know the last post said they were celebrating because he hadn’t cheated on her in a year or whatever (omg what kind of example are you setting for your kids?!) but my guess is he’s already cheated on her again and she just doesn’t know or he’s going to. Not wishing that on her but dude has a bad track record.
Some women simply blame ‘other women’ for their husband’s infidelities. It’s ludicrous, but I hear the convos. Something something getting back at crazy bitch something something. I’m always like chicas, your husbands cheated…the women have nothing to do with you.
Irl, it’s always the weird lookin’ men/men with small penises that can’t stop cheating.
It’s the same type of guy that if single, sleeps with a gazillion women.
They need validation. Don’t date men that aren’t secure in themselves for whatever reason.
(Sorry to pick on the appearances and member size, but it’s a pattern.)
Ummm how is a quote taken out of context from your podcast?
After following this woman on Instagram for a week I’ve decided that 1) I can’t stand her and 2) I think she’s just gunning for a reality show on E!.
They kind of asked for it? I thought we’ve established men CAN control their sexual behaviors if they choose. Her statement hits too close to home with the attitude that rape victims are asking for it because they were wearing a low cut shirt and mini skirt.
Isn’t this more offensive to the nannies she has hired? She’s asically calling them bad looking.
I feel like that’s why she was trying to backtrack saying her past nannies were beautiful lol. Yikes
Who is this dolt anyway, and can we stop feeding her need for attention?
lol, this girl and her attitude are a siren’s song for a particular type of woman that would sleep w/her husband in her house in their marital bed to prove a point. I’ve known a few. She needs to relax before someone humbles her again.
I nannied in college, presumably young with perky boobs, and with both of the families I nannied for the very last thing I wanted to do was seduce someone. It was my JOB to take care of kids, not star in some off-brand porno. This Jana chick needs to find some self-esteem and some respect for herself and admit that her husband is a piece of trash. Direct quote from above: At the end of the day people will cheat no matter what and it doesn’t matter what someone looks like. No, sweetie, people aren’t going to “cheat no matter what”. Just your husband because there’s been zero repercussions for his wandering dong. If you keep letting him get away with it under the banner of addiction then he’ll find a way to f**k the nanny, f**k the housekeeper, f**k your best friend and on and on because you won’t stand up for yourself.
Lol she’s incapable of saying her husband is just a no-good cheater, so she calls him an “addict” and constantly makes these universal proclamations about how every man cheats and people are going to cheat no matter what. No, lady. Your husband is the problem. Your issue is with him and his behavior.
I’m sorry what is she talking about with boundaries having to do with preventing cheating? Does she mean actually just explicitly saying cheating will not be tolerated? Isn’t that? In the wedding vows? She says it 3 times as if that’s the whole reason and cure to someone cheating. And also, yeah you have to show your spouse you trust them and not be suspicious and jealous about everything BUT they have to earn that trust which…not sure if her man has done that. If he’s trying to convince her he cheated b/c she didn’t trust him well…eesh.
Probably a response to one of his past defenses “I didn’t know not to stick it in that random woman because you didn’t explicitly say not to! I just need to know the boundaries!”
And she literally showed up at a hotel when he was trying to hook up with someone else. She said he was expecting someone else and she showed up instead, so he didn’t end up physically cheating. To me that implies she either laid a trap and he jumped right in or she snooped and caught him just before the act. Neither gives any impression of trust. He can’t be trusted, he has proven that again and again.
She shouldn’t trust him because he is not trustworthy!
She is SUCH an idiot. I cannot believe that there are people as simple and stupid as she is in this world. Especially stupid people who actually advertise how stupid they are by speaking to the masses. I’m embarrassed for her.
I’ve met her once or twice through some mutual friends and those friends say that she’s genuinely super nice but not the brightest bulb. I guess she’s desperately trying to hang onto her own version of happiness.
I have second hand embarrassment for her. Yikes.
So it’s a thing now to Instagram your cheating husband into a faithful one? Good to know.
Also, she changed her tune slightly from “Anyone can cheat” to “people will cheat no matter what.” Sounds like she’s gearing up for her hubby’s (3rd?) relapse.
Oh Jana. I’m not personally affronted, I’m not offended by your statement. I just find it to be absolutely typical of the type of woman who has bought into patriarchal norms and internalized misogyny.
I’m not even surprised by it, I just find it deeply problematic and indicative of your lack of education and self respect. It makes me sad for you, and makes me sad we live in a world where this type of logic exists. It makes me sad that you are famous for confirming to those norms, and are using this game to continue that pressure on others.
I think its just really a simple matter. Her husband is a cheater and everyone person with a vagina is a threat (in her mind) to her relationship with a serial cheater. She thinks if she can control as much of her circumstances as possible, he won’t cheat but cheaters will always find a way- they just get better at hiding it.
She verbalizes this fear in a way that makes it seem women are throwing themselves at her innocent husband but anyone with two eye balls can see what the issue is here. HIM.
She is making excuses for him and excuse herself for putting up with it.
How sad she has to worry about a babysitter. She probably misses out on enjoying a lot of female relationships because she is so worried her husband is going to screw them.
Look what Jude Law started ;).
It seems that the only time I have to google who a celebrity is, they always turn out to be a Country Singer lol.
(Not shading Country, just that that’s obviously where I have a gap of interest/knowledge pop culture wise!)
I remember the story of her abuse and attempted murder….it is heartbreaking. My theory is that she is emotionally immature and still experiences the effects of that trauma. Maybe she’s emotionally immature as a coping mechanism? I think that betrayal brought up a lot of the same feelings as her ex husband’s abuse and attempted murder did. She was desperate to feel in control, and not a person prone to deep reflection…so this is what she came up with. I want to give her a hug and then throw her into a therapists office and lock the door.