Julie Andrews calls therapy wonderful, ‘it saved my life in a way’

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Julie Andrews, who just celebrated her 84th birthday on October 1, has published her second memoir, Home Work: A Memoir of My Hollywood Years. Dame Julie is making the rounds on talk shows and stopped by The Late Show with Stephen Colbert on Monday. She talked about working on what are probably her two most iconic films, Mary Poppins and The Sound of Music. She also opened up about time that she spent in therapy:

“Sadly, I’d separated from my lovely first husband and separations were always inevitable and the marriage was over,” the actress told the late night host. “My head was so full of clutter and garbage and believe it or not, it was (film and theater director) Mike Nichols who really tipped me into wanting to go to therapy because he had been … He was so sane and so funny and clear. He had a clarity I admired so much, and I wanted that for myself and I didn’t feel I had it.

“I went and I got into it, and it saved my life in a way,” she said.

Colbert asked the “Sound of Music” actress why she chose to share her experience with therapy.

“Why not, if it helps anybody else have the same idea?” Andrews said. “These days, there’s no harm in sharing it. I think everybody knows the great work it can do. Anybody that is lucky enough to have it, afford it, and take advantage of it, I think it would be wonderful.”

[From USA Today]

I’m glad for Julie that she found therapy to be useful, and that she spoke candidly about it. I also really appreciate that she touched on the conversation around therapy. I agree that there shouldn’t be harm in sharing that one goes to therapy, but there is still a tremendous amount of stigma attached to talking about needing help for one’s mental health. So, I appreciate Julie’s attitude of “Why wouldn’t I talk about this?” and maybe someday we’ll get to a place where more people share it. Her interview with Stephen is worth a watch. He clearly adores and respects her, and refers to her as a “global treasure.” Absolutely.

I’m excited to read Home Work. I read Home: A Memoir of My Early Years when it came out in 2008, and really enjoyed it. (Julie also narrated the audio version.) I’m trying to remember, but I think her second memoir was initially supposed to be published a couple of years after Home. I’d occasionally see something about it “coming soon,” but it never materialized. I was happily surprised when a friend posted about it on Facebook a couple of weeks ago. I still remember being amazed when my mother gave me Julie’s novel Mandy when I was about 8 or so. I thought it was so cool that “Mary Poppins”/”Maria Von Trapp” had written a novel, too. Julie’s eldest daughter, Emma Walton Hamilton, with whom she has co-written numerous children’s books, helped her write the memoir. Julie is on a book tour, too, and the dates are on her website.

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  1. MrsBanjo says:

    I adore her so much.

    • (TheOG)@Jan90067 says:

      JA will always will be one of my favorite people (not to mention MP and TSOM are my favorite movies 😊…aww hell…ANYTHING Julie is in is a fav/go-to movie for me 😊)

      In regards to her statement about mental health: it’s awesome that she’s bringing it up, and we definitely need EVERYONE realizing it’s “okay” to need/get help. I just wish she wouldn’t have added “…if you can afford it”, but added that you can get help, even on a sliding scale, or free, JUST TALK TO SOMEONE AND ASK (a doctor, a social worker, a teacher, counselor).

      This MUST be stressed: it’s NOT just for “rich” people!

  2. Seraphina says:

    I so agree. And thankfully we are beginning to see Being proactive about mental health the same as annual physical exams.

    I will also add it’s refreshing to read a male helped her with this.

  3. HK9 says:

    I love this woman. Her voice & her-period. She has that well raised British manner that could insult me and my family and I’d say, ‘ok, thanks for that’ 🙂 ….she’s an icon. Seriously, I’m starting therapy this year…I’m terrified but I’m gonna do it anyway.

    • BeanieBean says:

      I only just started therapy last year. I saw that first therapist maybe 5-6 times, but it got to a point where daily exercise, yoga, meditation, and talk wasn’t doing it for me. I needed meds. So I recently started therapy with a psychiatrist–which includes talk therapy along with the meds–and I’m finding it more helpful. I could have used therapy a long time ago. If you’re even thinking about it, just do it.
      And count me among the Julie Andrews fans. Mary Poppins will forever be my favorite movie.

  4. Lucy says:

    I love this and her!!

  5. Ladiabla says:

    Love Julie Andrews! The wedding scene in the Sound of Music where she’s walking down the aisle while the nuns are singing “How do you solve a problem like Maria” never fails to make me tear up lol. She’s a treasure.

  6. hnmmom says:

    “Mandy” and “The Last of the Really Great Whangdoodles” were two of my favorite books as a kid. I absolutely adore Julie Andrews, she IS a treasure.

    17 years ago I was on a plane headed to NYC with my husband, a special trip for us and the first time I was traveling without my infant son. I was sitting in my seat on the plane, quietly sobbing b/c I was missing my son combined with a fear of flying and all of a sudden I hear her voice. Lo and behold, she was sitting in front of me. I listened to her talk the whole flight and it soothed me, made me feel like all was right in the world if Mary Poppins/Maria was on my plane LOL. I did speak to her briefly when we were deplaning and told her how much I loved the books I mentioned above. She said that meant more to her than the “loved you as Maria”, etc. comments.

    • Lizzie says:

      Mandy is my favorite as well. I read it once a year still. I buy it for every kid I know when they get to that reading level and I can’t wait to read it with my daughter. It is just the sweetest book.

    • Allergy says:

      This is a wonderful story, hnmmom!
      Andrews really is lovely.

  7. TIFFANY says:

    I am gonna have to pick up the 1st book. Julie did a small interview on TCM about her being on the road by her teen years because she was the only family member woth steady income. It was such a matter of fact way she talks about it. I should feel sad about it but then we would not have had the joy of Julie Andrews in our lives.

    And I loved her in Victor/Victoria. I just thought she was so hot in that film.

    • HK9 says:

      Jazz Hot is one of my fav songs/scenes with her-it’s amazing

      • (TheOG)@Jan90067 says:

        YES!!!!! 😊

      • Sumodo1 says:

        Yes! I adore “Victor/Victoria.” Le Jazz Hot is a fabulous part of the movie. I usually watch it while cooking side dishes the day before Thanksgiving. The movie has such energy! And Robert Preston!!!!! OMG! His scenes with JA are priceless!!!

  8. JV says:

    I loved the Mandy book as a kid, and didn’t realize that the “Julie Andrews” who wrote it was THE Julie Andrews! Only made me love it more <3

  9. Dizzy says:

    Me too, it saved my life. Keep looking until you find the right therapist.

  10. DenG says:

    Beyond Mary Poppins and The Sound of Music, I’m amazed with her in the movies “10” and Victor/Victoria–what a great surprise. A lovely woman, I would say.

  11. Jaded says:

    She is the epitome of loveliness and so, so talented – everything from Mary Poppins to Ten to The Americanization of Emily (my favourite JA movie). She and Carol Burnett together are the bomb, I remember them doing the Julie and Carol show at Carnegie Hall. Google it if you want to have your socks blown off.

  12. dj says:

    Good for everyone (good. Good. Good.) going to therapy and beginning it. As a psychotherapist, the peer-reviewed research has shown that meds and therapy get the best results. Additionally, “try on” therapists. Meet with more than 1 til you find someone you click with. That is born out in the research too as having the best results. Therapy is hard. I did my own years and sometimes I miss it terribly. My therapist retired and moved to another state. Boo! LOL.

  13. Abby says:

    I appreciate her mentioning the part about being able to afford therapy. It’s not cheap. I’ve been going for years and accumulating debt but I’d rather have a healthy mind than a healthy bank account. Many people simply cannot afford it nor even have the means to go into debt for it.