I have to confess an ugly secret: watching people getting scared brings me so much joy. Scaring people and people falling down. OMG, if a person falls from being scared, it’ll keep me laughing for minutes. I am, in fact, a very good sport about being scared, which is helpful because I am so easy to scare, so everyone does it. All of this is to say that I could totally hang with Yara Shahidi and her mom. Yara was on The Tonight Show promoting her show, Grown-ish, when she discussed how her family is all about pranks. After she and Jimmy Fallon played his game Catch Phrase, she sat for her interview and talked about still being traumatized from a time in her childhood when her mother hid under her bed and grabbed her feet.
I saw your mom backstage and she’s so sweet, I love her. But you told me it’s not the same at home, that you guys love playing practical jokes on each other. Are you a practical joke family?
One thing that has really stuck with me, all my life, is the fact that my mother – I love her – hid under my bed and I was walking from the bathroom, so she must have been under there for like a second, she grabbed my ankles. I was terrifying and I may or may not still check under my bed. But you know, I could be nothing but impressed because the level of commitment that that took…How long was she under there?
I have no clue, to this day. But it’s what I aspire to be able to accomplish
So, yeah *waves hands at the screen* these are my people. I am so inspired by this story, I intend to go to my daughter’s room to see if I can fit under the bed as soon as I am finished writing (my son was clever enough to get a platform bed… but he still has a closet *evil grin*). I feel compelled to include the cautionary note that you not try this at home if you have family members who hate being scared or, you know, a heart condition.
Yara tells a story following the ankle grabbing about convincing her younger brother that “collagion” was an actual word and defined it for him, something he believed for years and subsequently got all his friends to believe. He found out it was not a word one day during a car ride when Yara said, “remember that time you thought collagion was a word?” and it was only then that he’d realized it wasn’t and he’d been duped. Again, this spoke to me because my parents and brothers did this sh-t to me all the time. And I still find out of their deception when they start a story with, “remember when you believed {fill in the blank}” – To. This. Day.
My whole family is getting together in a month. I best start plotting now.
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She is such a delight.
I’m going to the memorial of a family friend this weekend whose husband was a prankster. He’d leap out of closets. He’d be gardening and see her in the second story bathroom window and spray her with the hose. The neighbors thought there were coyotes because he’d walk the dogs at night and howl outside the window to scare her. She loved it all! Had a tremendous sense of humor.
No wonder she’s so gorgeous, her mother is also gorgeous.
We are a family of pranksters too. Once on a long trip (8 hr car ride to Maine from PA) my little brother fell asleep with his feet on the center console that’s between the front seats. My father tied his shoelaces together and my brother, being clueless as always, went to walk and of course fell. On the same car ride a couple hours later, he fell asleep with his feet between my parents and my father again tied his shoelaces together. Not learning, my brother went to walk and again fell over. This was probably 25 years ago, and we still talk about it.
My brother used to do the exact thing Yara’s mother did. For years I got into bed by diving from a safe distance. I’m 47 and now have a bed low enough that no one could possibly fit under it.
I’d still be in therapy if my Mother did that to me.
thank you
me too
i find this truly disturbing. i do not need any additional fear thrown my way,
life can be scary enough as it is…i make it clear to my kids and husband that i do not find pranks or scares funny I find them cruel, mean and sometimes traumatizing
I want to know I am safe and can trust my family
and they can trust me- that we have each others backs and do not take our safety and security for granted…
I almost didn’t click on this post! Yes I am triggered
I’m on the no-prank side. When I was a kid, I leapt out at my brother from a closet to scare him, and I still remember his big blue eyes widening in terror. I felt so horrible then & do to this day. Never again.
My mom jumped out and scared me when I was walking home one night and all I remember is being in a fetal position on the ground, and had completely let my bladder go. I was 15.
People in my family know not to scare me or I will punch them, or spend the next fifteen minutes trying to calm down my adrenaline. It’s not funny to me in the slightest.
Oh good lord that is terrifying! I’m almost 40 and I still jump onto the bed from three feet away- I would DIE if anybody ever pranked me like that!
I hate pranks, they get me homicidal.
Oh heeeeeelllllll no.
I don’t mind silly, harmless little pranks, but some of the stuff people do to each other is over the top. Hiding under a bed is one of them! That would be so traumatizing.
She and her mom are both lovely.
My mom told me there was a dragon guarding the Great Wall of China and I believed it until I was like 12 or 13, lol
Honestly, it reads as like a survival test. Like, from a really old part of our brain. I am not a fan of pranks.
I hid on top of the washing machine for 30 min to scare my husband.