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Amanda Seales of HBO’s Insecure fame is making headlines for not renewing her contract as a co-host on The Real. Amanda joined the panel of women in late 2019 and came on as a permanent co-host in January 2020. Deadline reported that she was offered a new deal but she declined, stating that she wasn’t being defended by the powers that be against “disparaging” comments and that her voice wasn’t being heard. She also cited a lack of Black people in positions of power on the show.
“My contract is up … and I didn’t renew it because it doesn’t feel good to my soul to be at a place where I cannot speak to my people the way they need to be spoken to,” Seales said during an Instagram Live earlier this week. “And where the people who are speaking to me in disparaging ways are not being handled,” she added.
Sources tell Deadline she was offered a new deal, but declined to stay.
“I’m not in a space where I can, as a full black woman, have my voice and my co-workers also have their voices and where the people at the top are not respecting the necessity for black voices to be at the top too,” Seales said.
Of course, the internet can’t take anything at face value and must create false rumors that it is because she wasn’t getting along with the other co-hosts. Loni Love is one of Amanda’s cohosts on The Real. Amanda recorded an Instagram story video about a montha ago (that Loni reposted) disputing the rumor that she unfollowed Loni on Instagram. She says that’s not true and they don’t have any problem with each other. She also doesn’t have an issue with any of her other cohosts. Here’s what she said back then and the video is below:
Do not try to create some false dissension between me and the co-hosts of The Real. Y’all so f***ing corny,” she said. “There is a whole pandemic and an uprising going on, and you still can’t find s*** else to do but try and create some kind of conflict that doesn’t exist? … What I gotta do with my business ain’t got nothing to do with them sisters.
Why do people have to always create rumors that imply women are catty and can’t get along? As a makeup artist, I worked predominantly with women and gay men, and let me tell you most of the time, my life was gravy. We rarely had fights and we genuinely respected one another and worked well as a team.
Amanda declining the offer had nothing to do with a lack of chemistry with the other co-hosts, it was more out of a principle. Amanda, it would seem, prides herself in being someone who keeps it 100%. She felt that she couldn’t be fully herself nor say what needed to be said. She also felt that there were no black voices at the top which must have hindered honest conversations around things that mattered to her.
I wish I had a juicy story to report, but I think sometimes we just need to see someone who has a lot to lose actually say no to being used as a pawn and refuse to conform for the sake of money. I admire Ms. Seales for standing up for herself and on her values. That seems to be a rarity these days.
Amanda has a podcast, Small Doses, and book of the same name released late last year.
I’ve never watched the Real but I enjoy her podcast and her book. I also follow her on IG. A friend of mine went to her “Smart, Funny, and Black” shows in ATL last year and really enjoyed it. She really speaks her mind about uncomfortable topics. I’m sure they hired her for that reason then once she got there, it became apparent that they wanted to control what she said.
Big fan of Amanda Seales, she speaks truth to power, so however she said things went down, I believe her. Also I highly recommend: Smart, Funny and Black entertainment on YouTube and her pod cast small doses.
Her HBO special “I be Knowing” was good, too.
There were a lot of rumors about her behavior a while back and I’m glad that she has platforms where she can speak and be herself and refute them.
It’s sad when people can’t keep in mind that focusing on (being distracted by) looking for conflict between co-conspirators keeps us from focusing on the people in power and dismantling the structures that keep them there.
People, including black people, are mostly against her because she does speak uncomfortable truths. She’s keeps it a 💯. All the time. And it pisses people off.
When she was just a guest at The Real i was excited to see her there, but when she joined, it really became clear she was biting her tongue more often than not.
They hired her for a reason, yet they wanted to muzzle her. I’m proud of her for standing up for herself.
I really really like her.
I’ll miss her on the Real but I admire her for choosing her authenticity over a contract.