Helen Mirren is People’s Most Beautiful: ‘Most of us are not beautiful’

Helen Mirren is People Magazine’s Most Beautiful Person. A good choice, I think. People’s Most Beautiful issue has undergone a lot of changes over the past decade, and they actually are trying to be more inclusive about beauty. Meaning, beauty without bias, racism, colorism, sizeism or ageism. Has People Mag actually achieved all of that bias-free beauty? Eh, but they are doing better. Here are some highlights from 76-year-old Helen Mirren’s People interview:

When she found about this cover: “I was absolutely sort of gobstruck, as we say in England. I never considered myself ‘beautiful.’ And [at] my age! So I was amazed. Don’t get me wrong — I love beauty and I love looking at beautiful things. But I don’t like the word beauty [as it’s] associated with the beauty industry—makeup and products, skincare and all the rest of it — because I think it excludes the vast majority of us who are not beautiful.”

On beauty: “There are incredibly beautiful people in the world, and it’s an absolute delight to look at them, male or female. Beautiful people are a wonder to behold. But most of us are not beautiful. We have other stuff, which is just as powerful as beauty. And I would like to see us celebrate those things … I love the word swagger because I think swagger means I’m confident in myself, I’m presenting myself to the world, I’m enjoying the world around me. I think what is called the beauty industry should be called the swagger industry. We’re giving people swagger.”

She still gets nervous before starting a new project. “I get very nervous about the day-to-day process. And meeting and dealing with new people. And not knowing whether I am going to remember my lines or not. I just get very frightened until I get into the swing of things and then I kind of relax. Once it’s done I’m not nervous, because it’s done, you can’t pull it back. It’s the doing of it that I get nervous about.” (Though she still doesn’t read film reviews—good or bad.)

You have to continue to grow up: While she admits “you have to continue working on yourself to a certain extent,” the best salve for her fears has been time. “Simple really: Getting older. It happens. Other people call it growing older, but I call it growing up. And one of the advantages is that you literally get to be wiser. Life is a constant process of learning.”

[From People]

Harsh: “Beautiful people are a wonder to behold. But most of us are not beautiful.” Is that fair? I don’t think so. I remember reading some Chloe Sevigny interview and I’m not going to quote her directly but she was basically like, as I get older, I understand that everyone young is beautiful. As in, kids are beautiful, you’re beautiful when you’re young, and when people are older, they either get more interesting and develop other kinds of “beauty” or they don’t. I don’t know, I didn’t expect to pontificate on beauty today. But I am more of the Chloe Sevigny kind of mindset – there are so many beautiful people out there. Helen is right about growing up and everything being a process though.

Photos courtesy of Backgrid, Avalon Red, cover courtesy of People.

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  1. Jessica says:

    I’m so glad they stopped listing who is the most beautiful person in the world. Looking back now that is so embarrassing. Julia Roberts “won” it 4 times.

    • ME says:

      What’s stupid is it’s really just based on celebs in America. If they really search the world, they’d find a non-famous beautiful woman in places like the Middle-East, India, or anywhere on the continent of Africa (just to name a few places).

    • Barbie1 says:

      Not embarrassing at all. Julia is indeed beautiful and that beauty propelled her to worldwide stardom.

  2. Becks1 says:

    My mom always used to say that “youth is beautiful” and as I get older and spend more time around elementary schoolers and middle schoolers (thanks PTA lol) I see what she means and I wish I had appreciated that more when I was younger. (whats the other saying, youth is wasted on the young? lol) but I don’t think that means that people aren’t beautiful as they age.

    The people I think are the most beautiful that I know are the most confident. they’re the women going gray and rocking it, the 45 year old women wearing 2-pieces at the pool regardless of their body size, the women who just really embrace who they are and always end up looking stylish and chic bc of that confidence, regardless of what they’re wearing.

    and that’s where I think someone like Helen Mirren becomes stunning (although I do think she is very pretty anyway.) So I guess I’m agreeing with her, its swagger?

  3. Myjobistoprincess says:

    They should never have someone win it more than once @Jessica. I am completely for Helen Mirren. I went to Capri one year and OMG the most beautiful people were the more mature women as in 55+. They were absolutely stunning dressed with swagger, beautiful jewelry, beautiful hair, beautiful faces that show their age and not capitulated behind injections. They seemed like they took so much care of themselves. Such an inspiration for when i’ll be that age.

  4. MerlinsMom1018 says:

    FINALLY a choice I can get behind!!!
    I ❤ Dame Helen

  5. Nan says:

    I don’t agree with her at all (although I guess she meant well? – hmm). The issue is how we define beauty. If we’re going to allow it to be defined as limited to one narrow set of criteria, then only a few people will fit into that. Around the world, beauty is defined in a much more diverse way and we each perceive beauty according to our individual tastes too. This interview shows that Helen is defining beauty in an exceedingly narrow way which excludes herself and most people. That says something unfortunate about her cultural beliefs and it ignores the sovereignty of each us to define what we think is beautiful for ourselves.

    • Wilma says:

      I agree with you. The kinder I became to myself in this regard the more beautiful other people have become to me.

    • Jo says:

      Beautifully said!

    • StellainNH says:

      I agree. I also include a person’s character with beauty. Someone may look attractive, but if they are not a nice person, they that detracts from beauty.

    • SK says:

      Love her! She’s very beautiful though. I do like what she says about ‘swagger’… I also like what Chloe S said.

  6. T3PO says:

    I think she confuses beauty with pretty. I can genuinely look at someone who is not traditionally considered pretty and find them beautiful. I think beauty is when you look at the essence of a person, the inside and outside combination. You don’t have to be pretty or hot to be beautiful and when someone has a great spirit you can easily be attracted to them or find them attractive regardless of what society would deem pretty.

  7. DeluxeDuckling says:

    Perhaps it’s not that beauty fades, but that ugliness (inside and out) gets more apparent.

    A 75 year old acting like a spoiled toddler is uglier than an actual spoiled toddler because they didn’t take the time to grow out of it. A 75 year old who has grown wise is sophisticated, and therefore hot.

    I find that when someone is lovely, I notice their attractive qualities. When someone is an asshole, I notice their repulsive qualities.

  8. anniefannie says:

    I’m of the belief that beauty is indefinable and lends more to a feeling.
    ie I was at a Walgreens this week and a full figured African American woman who was dressed to the nines and had a gorgeous smile ( also smelled fab, lol ) was joking with the clerk and when she turned around to leave allll the guys
    waiting in line ( of every stripe) turned to watch her walk out. I wouldn’t call her traditionally beautiful but her presence knocked people out.

  9. Lena says:

    I think it’s been a while now that it’s been the “beautiful issue” not “the most beautiful”. Which is good because beauty is truly in the eyes of the beholder. What is beautiful to you might not be to me and Vice versa.

  10. Holly says:

    Youth and beauty are not the same thing. Otherwise there would be no one over 21 who is beautiful.

  11. Jane Wilson says:

    Interesting, kind, funny, original people – I cannot get enough of them! Can anyone?
    No matter what they actually look like, when their personalities and energy attract you, everything about them is beautiful… that’s the glow and the wow and desire for more!
    And Helen in that green dress with the fabulous abstract mother of pearl (?) necklace – absolutely glowing and gorgeous!

  12. VivaAviva says:

    She’s absolutely right. Most people are not beautiful. She’s very clearly speaking about appearances—not kindness, sense of humor, intelligence, etc. If you’re talking straight up physical appearance most people are not beautiful, but neither are they ugly. They’re just averagely attractive people.

    If everyone was beautiful in the physical sense, then no one would be. I am not beautiful. I’m also not ugly. I have average looks. That’s ok. I think I am warm, genuine, and funny. I am kind, loyal, honest, trustworthy, compassionate, and loving. These things, combined with my looks make me an attractive person, but I’m not physically beautiful. I can acknowledge that because I’m confident enough to know that I may not be gorgeous, but I look nice enough and I bring more than my looks to the table.

    • HITHERE says:

      100%. As you said, most people are average – that’s why it’s called average. From a scientific perspective, while there are euro-centric standards of beauty, in all parts of the world, symmetry is highly desired. Very few people have perfectly symmetrical, traditionally “beautiful” faces. And youth, in (way) older times, did signal health/fertility, which is why men are geared toward finding younger women more attractive than older ones.

      I’m not beautiful. I take care of myself in order to be healthy but yes, also, attractive (in a traditional sense?) I’m not going under the knife/not getting injections, so with my asymmetrical face and features I’m never going to be “beautiful.”

      • J says:

        Agreed. I spent much of my early adulthood (18-25 or so) wishing I could be beautiful and being jealous of people with exceptional physical beauty (including a couple of friends). Society taught me that beauty was more important than everything and I wished I could be part of that. Thank goodness I evolved out of that thinking and now I’m just happy being part of the average looking masses. We’re all attractive in our own way and it’s okay not to be in that small percentage of especially physically beautiful people.

    • Thinking says:

      In real life, I’ve seen averagely attractive people classified as beautiful. I’m not sure if personality or spark works its way into the equation somehow, but I do see the word beautiful tossed around a lot for people I might not have much of a reaction to buy other people who definitely do. Beauty is different for everyone.

      In that sense. I think her assessment is a little off.

      I feel she’s describing something (an extraordinary physical beauty ) that maybe doesn’t exist, even among models. Take off the makeup and I think it’s possible that even models could be considered averagely attractive, aside from height.

  13. Ellie says:

    Ok, so who does Dame Helen consider beautiful . That is what would start a debate. I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and one persons trash is another’s treasure .

  14. Mrs.Krabapple says:

    So People is trying to get brownie points for picking an older woman? But they picked an older woman who kept her “good looks” as much as is humanly possible while aging. She was always a conventionally attractive woman (thin, white, blonde actress) so this is hardly an unconventional pick.

  15. Thinking says:

    A lot of people become beautiful the more you talk to them.

    So, yeah, I think she`s being kind of harsh.

    I`m not sure if she`s classifying beauty to a narrow Gisele Bundchen ideal, but unless you have a completely horrid personality most people would resonate as generally kind of pretty in some way. Maybe being in Hollywood makes your standards higher or something.

  16. Thinking says:

    I think she’s trying to make us all feel better by saying very few are truly beautiful, which means none of should feel bad about ourselves, but oddly I find her thoughts kind of depressing. Go figure.

    I get what she’s saying, but it’s still kind of …a downer. Maybe I want to feel like there’s still potential there on my spa glow up days.