Jason Derulo and his girlfriend at the time, Jena Frumes, welcomed a son in May 2021. They were both, understandably, thrilled. Unfortunately, they split up less than five months after little Jason was born. There were plenty of rumors at the time of their split that big Jason’s philandering was the cause of his split with Jena. However, even despite his wandering dong breaking up their home, Jena and Jason have been co-parenting well.
Last week, Jena decided to post a photo of herself looking amazing in a bikini to Instagram and added an affirmation that read, “You are beautiful, you are worth it and YOU are irreplaceable. Don’t forget that.” Words I think we could all say to ourselves every once in a while, right? Some person replied in the grossest way possible, calling little Jason a bastard, Jena a wh*** and accusing her of having her “morals mixed up.” Although Jena owed this troll nothing, she did reply and told them – and everyone else – that she doesn’t deserve to be lied to by anyone and will “never be OK with sharing a lover.”
Jena Frumes clapped back at an Instagram follower Thursday after the person questioned her worth.
The model and actress, 28, who shares a 13-month-old son with singer Jason Derulo, 32, posted a bikini photo while in her home and captioned it, “You are beautiful, you are worth it and YOU are irreplaceable. Don’t forget that.”
A follower replied, “Worth it in what way?” before commenting on Frumes’ split from Derulo. “You’re not married, which means your child is a bastard and you’re playing the w—- role. Y’all got morals mixed up.”
Frumes was quick to comment back, and said, “I wouldn’t call myself a w—- its unfortunate situation didn’t work out because we once did aspire to be married but maybe it’s best to be single than to be in a relationship & constantly be disrespected & cheated on and lied to. Or is it better to stay quiet so people like you approve?”
Frumes later shared a longer message on her Instagram story, noting that all she wanted with Derulo was “a family to love and experience life with,” but claiming his alleged cheating and disrespect got in the way of that.
“Women really don’t deserve to be treated and judged the way they are. No one aspires to be a single mom. It’s the biggest heartbreak and failure for me personally knowing I’m alone in this…But if your non-negotiables are being tested you’ll never find peace in that relationship,” she wrote.
“If a man wants a different girl every week over his family I’ll never accept that…we will never be able to make it work ‘happily,’ was straight up told that I should ‘turn the other cheek.’ I’ll never be OK with sharing a lover that I love with all my heart!!!” the influencer continued.
Frumes went into further detail about Derulo’s reported unfaithfulness, and said, “If the streets come first I can’t change that so stop blaming the women like we chose the single mother life. That s— is hella annoying. You don’t know what women go through to try & ‘make it work.’ It was never about money or dating someone famous…I was in love & we planned a baby & life together! It didn’t work out and life must go on. Leave me alone.”
“Women really don’t deserve to be treated and judged the way they are.” I mean, yeah. Jena splits with her baby’s father because he can’t be faithful, leaving her to do what is likely the bulk of the child’s care and she’s the one being accusing of mixed-up morals? Nobody who hasn’t willingly agreed to an open relationship needs to be “OK” with sharing a lover. More so, no one should have to stand by and accept their lover lying to and disrespecting them because of some antiquated notion of what family means.
Obviously, Jena had a few things to get out there and was emotional in her comments. There are women who do, in fact, plan to raise children as single mothers and that’s perfectly acceptable as well. My guess is this is not the first name Jena has been called by Big Jason’s fans. And she’s hurt. She’s hurt because she was planning a life with him as she said. Hurt because he chose his rock star lifestyle over their family (and it sounds like he did so many, many times). And hurt because these strangers online are calling her terrible names for daring to feel good about herself and her choices when she’s the wronged party. It doesn’t surprise many of us that Jason cheated on his partner. But Jena trusted him, and he broke that trust. She moved on for herself and for her son. She should be commended.
You know, not much surprises me these days but calling a single mother out for “playing the w****” in 2022 is right up there. This is shameful.
Jason had a reputation as a cheater before they got together so it is not surprising that he cheated on her. That doesn’t mean people should question her morals. She is also younger than him so I wonder if there was some naivety in thinking he would change for her and have a family.
Calling a child a bastard because their parents aren’t married… Good lord is it 2022 or 1822?
She’s beautiful, the baby is gorgeous, the dog is adorable.
That is one cute baby!
Her eyes are absolutely gorgeous!
You took the words from my mouth.
Ditto to all this!
People suck. Period. She dealt with that troll marvellously. Even though it was none of his/her business. BTW, she is gorgeous. Her eyes are stunning.
Is this some desperate Jason Derulo stan? A hateful troll who decided to build his or her entire online presence around performatively hunting women who have failed to consent and conform to conservaturd values? Some combination of both? Who knows. It really doesn’t take anything at all for people to be misogynistic.
I have a theory, almost nothing to do with your comment. I think. But I think trolls like these HATE that women are absolutely choosing just to do it the single way than stay unhappy with a man. Marriages in previous generation were built on very basic needs being met and those needs were based on uneven playing fields for men and women. They are still uneven but much less than previous generations. So this disregard for the previous shitty marriages because we don’t ‘NEED’ partners in a financial way anymore is super triggering for them (cause this troll could be a man and a woman). Hell, even myself, who has married well, was a poor single girl before meeting my doctor husband, I have contemplated how much I “need” him now. We’re in this weird phase were he is regressing and it’s like I have TWO children now. It’s becoming a problem.
Jordin sparks will back you up on this one Jenna.
The audacity of that man though. As stated on tik tok he probably sings “JASON DERULO!!!” In bed. Lolol.
I think that polygamy is going to make a mainstream comeback amongst the non- and pseudo-religious. Between spiking inflation (rising cost of living) and rollback of women’s rights…it won’t be hard for men to shroud abuse/non consensual dominance as a lifestyle choice.
She is so incredibly gorgeous and attractive. Jason is a damn fool. Work it mama, and eff those misogynistic idiots.
She is one gorgeous woman with her head on straight and her morals intact. The nerve of that troll. Yes, work it mama, indeed.
The baby is a cutie and she’s gorgeous.