Teenaged ‘Teen Vogue’ November cover girl is pregnant

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Jourdan Dunn, left, a 19-year-old British model, is pregnant and due in December. She is also the cover girl for Teen Vogue (jointly with Chanel Iman) for the Novemeber issue. Dunn did not inform Teen Vogue that she was pregnant until after she and Chanel had done the cover shoot, but in the cover interview, she does talk about her pregnancy.

Of course, people are up in arms about this. Personally, I’m not disgusted by it, but my first and now solidified thought was and is simply “Way to glamorize teen pregnancy, Teen Vogue.” I mean, really… Show some perfect-looking, beautiful, airbrushed teenage girl without even a hint of a pregnant belly, and then mention that she‘s pregnant inside, without any additional information on teen pregnancy. Way. To. Go. Anyway, Teen Vogue’s press office is now doing some damage control, and the results are just what you’d expect.

A model on the November cover of Teen Vogue is a 19-year-old who reveals in the magazine that she is pregnant.

Jourdan Dunn is not visibly pregnant on the cover, and Teen Vogue Editor-in-Chief Amy Astley said the magazine didn’t know about Dunn’s pregnancy until after the photo shoot. But she said that editors didn’t consider pulling the cover Dunn shares with fellow model Chanel Iman.

“Teen pregnancy is a difficult, real-life issue that Teen Vogue readers (with an average age of 18) are mature enough to be exposed to,” Astley said in a statement. “Teen Vogue felt it was important to support, not punish, Jourdan Dunn, who contributed to a beautiful photo shoot and who will surely have an ongoing and successful career in fashion.”

The cover has raised eyebrows among some parents, teens and advocates against teen pregnancy.

“There’s no message to send to them that that’s not OK. Maybe if she’s on the cover to tell them ‘Be careful,’ that’s one thing,” said Catherine Essig, a 19-year-old sophomore at Dallas’ Southern Methodist University, who was concerned about 15- and 16-year-old readers.

Many advocates said parents should use the cover as a way to talk to their kids about sex and the importance of planning pregnancies for the right moment in their lives.

“Teen parenting isn’t glamorous, even if you are a teen model,” said Valerie Huber, executive director of the National Abstinence Education Association.

A message left by The Associated Press at Dunn’s New York City agency was not immediately returned. The London native told Teen Vogue that her unplanned pregnancy has been hard.

“All I could think about was what my mom was going to say, my agency, my boyfriend,” said Dunn, who is expecting a boy in December. “When I told my mom, she started crying and blaming herself. She got pregnant with me at the same age, and she said, ‘I don’t want you to have to go through what I did.'”

“The magazine should be used as a teachable moment because the media and popular culture help shape “the social script for teenagers,” said Bill Albert, a spokesman for the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy. “It shapes what they think is cool, is not cool, what’s in, what’s out, what’s acceptable, what seems to be the social norm…It’s not the only influence and I’d suggest not the most powerful, but it is an influence.”

But parents, he said, shouldn’t underestimate their own power.

“Young people tell us time and time again that parents — not the media, not their partners, not their peers — parents most influence their decisions about sex,” he said.

After a record high in the early 1990s, the teen birth rate in the U.S. dropped 34 percent from 1991 to 2005. But between 2005 and 2007, it increased 5 percent, according to the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy.

A lack of family planning remains a problem even as women get older — 70 percent of pregnancies among 18 to 29-year-olds are unplanned, Albert said.

The magazine cover story mainly focuses on the two models’ friendship, which grew chilly over competition for a time, and their experiences as black models in the fashion world.

Jill Taylor, chair of the women and gender studies department at Simmons College in Boston, said that she would have liked to have seen the magazine use the model’s pregnancy to provide more information about teen pregnancy.

“Fourteen and 15-year-olds reading it don’t have an idea how hard it is for most single mothers having babies. She’s got resources,” Taylor said.

[From Huffington Post]

The most frightening quote, in my opinion, was this one from Dunn, describing her emotions when she learned she was pregnant: “All I could think about was what my mom was going to say, my agency, my boyfriend.” Nice order, there, Jourdan. My mom, my modeling agency, and oh yeah, my boyfriend. Other than that, am I alone in feeling slightly “meh” about this controversy? Yes, it’s glamorizing teen pregnancy, but there’s been a lot of that going around. Does this help teenage girls? Not really. But I’m optimistic enough to hope that it started some conversations.

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  1. Firestarter says:

    No Kaiser, you are not alone in the “meh” of it being a controversy.

    ITA about her quote. The fact that her agency was more of a priority than telling the father. But then again, she is a teen, so I can see she is kind of clueless about things period.

  2. Wench says:

    The only thing that shocked me was that Teen Vogue’s average reading age is 18 – I was all up in Glamour at that age.

    But, she’s not underage. She’s not unemployed and she’s not a junkie. Neeeeeeeext.

  3. HEB says:

    Career OVER.
    Thats why your mom is so upset.

  4. birdie says:

    What annoys me is that the press releases for crap like this always say “This is a perfect opportunity for parents to talk to their daughter’s about sex and pregnancy”

    1.) I don’t think parents can know everything their teenagers are reading unless they are spying on them. Teens are a pretty secretive bunch. When I was a teenager my mom didn’t have a clue what I was reading. I got my hands on some serious crap. In addition to Seventeen, Cosmopolitan, etc. I actually stole Lady Chatterley’s Lover from the library because I didn’t want my mom to know I had it.

    2.) Teenagers don’t spend as much time with their parents as younger children. The time that they do spend together, shouldn’t revolve around a constant flow of lectures about sex, pregnancies, drugs, etc. Teens spend most of their day in school, and then after school there are activities or social gatherings that take precedence over having “the talk” with Mom & Dad. I’m sure parents don’t want to spend all their time lecturing their teens about sex either especially when you can barely get a “school was okay” out of them.

    It’s a good idea to have a talk with them at some point, but I feel that glamorizing teen pregnancy by making it look so easy does young people a disservice. It would have been so easy for glamour to have included a story from another girl who is struggling to finish school and make ends meet while raising a baby. Those horror stories are the ones I remember from my seventeen magazine days.

  5. Rosanna says:

    Although technically still a teen, she is 19, therefore an adult in legal terms. As a young woman, she is entitled to do as she pleases with her womb *just* like any other adult women. Empowering young girls mean empowering them to take their decisions, definitely not ours. As long as her pregnancy was a choice, good for her. I wish her all the best.

  6. lena says:

    she’s been on the catwalk and in magazines since she announced that she is pregnant…they hide her belly

  7. princess pea says:

    I’m too busy being pleased to see TWO women of color on the cover to worry about pregnancy.

    This one magazine is not going to do more damage than abstinence-only education, Bristol Palin and Jamie-Lynn Spears, and the already present push for young girls to be ‘sexy’ for boys and men.

    Teen pregnancy isn’t a great thing, but it’s also not the worst that could happen to a baby. Ditto unmarried parents, single parents, etc. What matters is that at least ONE person loves and cherishes, nurtures and educates that child.

  8. pj says:

    Maybe she thought that her boyfriend would be the EASIEST to tell out of the three (mom, agency, boyfriend) and that’s why she listed him last? Not that she considered him the least important. Just guessing. Those two ladies are gorgeous by the way.

    I also was kind of “meh” about her particular pregnancy. I think 19 is extrememly young to be a parent. But she’s a successful model and I’m sure being in the modeling business for a while has caused her to grow up quite a bit faster than the average teen…not that it makes it right. Just saying.

  9. scorpiogal says:

    @ Wench- I’m with you. I outgrew teen magazines by the time I was 15.

    I don’t find this story all that controversial either. And 19 isn’t a shockingly young age to be pregnant- our bodies are certainly better able to cope with a baby at age 19, then at age 40 (which seems to be the celebrity norm now.)

  10. javelin says:

    What, Kaiser, she should be quaking with fear anticipating her boyfriend’s reaction? Sounds like he’s pretty supportive, so it makes sense she’d be more concerned about letting her mom down and jeopardizing her modeling future. Not to mention he’d be the least surprised party.

  11. Ami says:

    I’m with Rosanna on this one, women should be in a position to makes decisions on the occupancies of their own wombs without being vilified for their choices regardless of whether or not they are in the public eye…and for any future reference, Jourdan is actually English.

  12. Cinderella says:

    She’s an adult. Why is she even on the cover of Teen Vogue.

  13. princess pea says:

    @ javelin – he’d be the least surprised. Hee!

    My theory on that list:
    1) Her mom, obviously, she was worried about disappointing/upsetting. (Pretty standard worry in this case, but especially given her mother’s teen pregnancy)
    2) Her job. Hell yes it’s jeopardized. Can’t do too much work while heavily pregnant, unsure of the shape you’ll be afterwards… Scary. They could totally fire her. Modelling contracts are harsh.
    3) If she had decided quickly that she would keep the baby and raise it, she might be less worried about him than you’d think. It could be as simple as “If he’s staying with us, that’s awesome. If he leaves us now, he sucks.” Or it could be that she knew him pretty well (one hopes) and was fairly certain that he wouldn’t freak out.

  14. Firestarter says:

    Javelin- I think Kaiser’s point was that it would seem that informing her mother AND boyfriend would be priorties over her agency. At least, that is how I read it. Not that she should have been scared to tell him.

  15. LWord says:

    I am shocked at the reaction that people are having about this 19 yearold woman being pregnant.
    Considering the USA is where such gems as 16 and pregnant and countless Out of control Teen shows are produced and filmed
    and recieve a good if not great following on television.

    I’m also wondering why they are so concerned about high school girls? This woman is a high school graduate and has steady work in modeling,
    I can’t help thinking that if she were married people would not mind, considering there are many women married and with child shortly after their 18th birthday or earlier!
    Should she be banned from modeling…lets take the food out of her babies mouth! Also I think it’s pretty telling that she thought of her BF last, perhaps she new that her mother
    and job are what she can really count on. Remember dads do not always choose to stick around, she needs to focus on close family and working to keep a roof over her babies little head.

    I know that when I was in high school(not that long ago) we did not walk around saying”Hey I’m going to try and get pregnant because it looks so glamorous and easy”
    Maybe it’s because I live in Canada where we have access to safe sex education, school nurses who dole out condoms and birth control shots/pills and a
    daycare system available to teenage mothers right in our high schools. Having the daycare in the schools helps these teen moms finish their education and also offers
    a clear view of what these girls go through. We’ve all witnessed teen moms struggling to get their crappy strollers of the bus and through the snow. We watch their children
    walk by everyday on their way to day care….we also have parenting classes offered in our schools.

    Teen moms should not be villified in the media, they should not strike fear into the hearts of parents everywhere. It truly does not matter how well informed a person is
    there will always be teen parents. I’m glad that now they dont have to hide their pregnancies, they dont get shipped away until after they have their babies, they are not
    the “shame” of their families. Being a teen mom is not easy, but being a mother of any age is not easy. We need to embrace these woman/girls and make sure that they have resources
    and education so that hopefully their children will not find themselves in the same position.

  16. GatsbyGal says:

    “Teen pregnancy”…c’mon, she’s 19, she’s an adult. If she were 20, she would be a nonstory. I thought this article was going to be about some 14 year old or something.

  17. Kayleigh says:

    Personally the order she picked for the “Oh snap I gotta tell them!” My mom would for sure be the scariest. Then my job that revolves around my body image. Then the person who should have probably seen this coming when we didn’t use protection. Plus what do you think the chances are of teenage parents sticking together? I’m sure my career as a model would over shadow the father of my kid when the chances are that he will bolt.
    Job > Teenage fling

  18. anna says:

    The issue of teen pregnancy has been presented regularly in the media, and I feel folks can talk about it -with out stigma -like sane adults and not feel shame or judgment when discussing decisions. Far from being resolved, teen pregnancy is a huge responsibility, it’s life changer, and it doesn’t seem like it’s being glamorized.

    Abstinence, of course, is the sure fire way to prevent pregnancies, but we see young women making choices and standing by them, regardless of what they are, as they explore their development as adults.

    Teen pregnancies, however, are as whole DOWN from what the rates were in 80’s and 90’s. WE must be doing something right. Girls today are smarter, let’s give them and ourselves credit. I think Vogue tackled this respectfully, and realistically.. without neither glamorizing nor vilifying for what is, a very personal choice for this young woman.

    ((Also, if I may as a woman of color….What I have to say (and really love) is that the comments have been about a TEEN who is pregnant on the cover of a teen magazine. No mention of race (except one comment and now, admittedly, mine)… I feel celebitchy readers should be COMMENDED for the color-blindedness of this discussion, and for tackling the issue and not her skin color..It is heartening..))

    that’s all, and I’m done. No more mention.

  19. AlaskaJoey says:

    There is an industry for pregnant models, and agencies that specialize in them. I see no reason she couldn’t switch over, unless they wouldn’t want her due to her age.

  20. Firestarter says:

    Well job or not, he is the father of the child, and that gives him more importance than a career that she may not have beyond the age of 25. The guy will always be the childs father, she will not always be a model.

  21. Sumodo says:

    Young women get pregnant at 19 and some of them don’t go through with it. Like me. I put career first.

  22. Cheyenne says:

    Why in the world should her pregnancy be career-terminating? Some models still have active careers after two or three children.

    As long as she loses the pregnancy weight, she should have a bright future in modeling ahead of her. She is still very young, not to mention drop-dead gorgeous.

  23. chartreuseoak says:

    Jourdan Dunn is not American she’s British.

    Also she’s 19 and she has a job. Some models have kids and can still have a successful career and hopefully she’s one of them.

  24. viper says:

    Good GOD it’s like a revolving door this industry is. Only youve got more chances of staying out then actually managing to get in!

  25. Kaboom says:

    Contrived story.

  26. Meg says:

    “As long as her pregnancy was a choice…” “Empowering young girls mean empowering them to take their decisions…”

    If she was worried about telling her own mother and the father of the child, I doubt it was a planned out choice. There’s nothing “empowering” about not caring enough about yourself to have safe sex.

    And I don’t buy it when so many pregnant girls and women claim they did. People lie all the time and birth control does not fail that often when used correctly-especially The Pill with a condom for disease protection.

  27. javelin says:

    Firestarter,
    Yes, I know what Kaiser’s point was, but Kaiser missed Jourdan’s point, in my opinion, by calling her quote “frightening.”

  28. wow says:

    I’m more shocked that they have two high profile black models on the cover. Yay! I remember a Sports Illustrated cover that once featured three supermodels on the cover and they were all three pregnant. They weren’t all three married either, and no controversy. I think it was Kathy Ireland, Elle Mcphearson and I believe Rachel Hunter. Not sure. But no big uproar. I think they were all three on either Letterman or Leno discussing it back then.

    If you have sex often enough, eventually you’ll probably end up having a kid …even if you use protection because it’s not 100% effective. Other top models who have had babies have got right back into shape without skipping much of a beat in their career. Alessandra Ambrosio being one, and another one of her Victoria’s Secret counterparts who’s name I forget.

    I must pick up this issue though.

  29. Shannon says:

    I don’t think the pregnancy should even have come up – what does it have to do with her cover shoot? Nothing! She’s a model, she is not paid to talk, she’s paid to take nice pictures. And yet here she is, suddenly a spokesperson on teen motherhood.

    Teenage pregnancy should be talked about in appropriate forums where kids can get all the facts – in health classes, balanced articles, with parents, etc. Instead they’re being bombarded with these fantasies and glamorous teen mothers who will never have to worry about balancing money, and education, and their social lives with being a mom (Secret Life of the American Teenager, Jamie Lynn Spears, Bristol Palin etc. etc.). It should certainly not be the focus in a fashion magazine. I’ve read Teen Vogue, and I can assure you that nobody buys it for the interviews/articles. They just wanted the publicity, and aren’t going to take responsibility for glamorizing teen motherhood. And I’m betting they didn’t include a message about the importance of contraception and safe sex either. I think it’s really appalling honestly.

    Oh, and there’s no way a 19 year old model got pregnant on purpose. No way in hell. This was clearly an unplanned pregnancy. I totally support her choice, I just think it was inappropriate that Vogue got involved – she’s being exploited.

  30. ien says:

    i dont understand how this “glamorizes” teen pregnancy.
    shes not showing her belly on the cover, and the cover text says nothing about teen pregnancy, nor do the pictures that accompany on the inside.

    and if the mag didnt even know that she was preggers during the time of the shoot then how is it their fault?
    is the mag supposed to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars do a complete re-shoot just becuase she preggers???

  31. Ana says:

    I don’t see what the big deal is. She is nineteen not thirteen for crying out loud.
    I got married and pregnant at the age of nineteen and I’m okay. So didn’t get married before she got pregnant, most people don’t.
    At least she can afford to take care of a baby.
    Also, I don’t think those were listed in order of importance necessarily. She seemed like she was describing how a million things were going through her mind.

  32. abbizmal says:

    Way to sell magazines. I say “meh” as well. It’s not like she’s 15 or something like that. She makes enough money to support this baby in style. Prolly more than I make in 10 years. No objection here.

  33. Jo 'Mama' Besser says:

    Alright, I’m in. I didn’t expect this thread to have a unanimous response. I almost feel a duty to mix it up for shits and giggles. Let it be resolved: this pot must prepare to be stirred.

    I wish her well, of course. We’ve all done tragic crap, and will in the future. I’m not torching her on the stake, but I can’t be the only one who thinks that this won’t earn her a Guggenheim.

    Let it be known, that I’m not comparing these two people AT ALL, it wouldn’t be fair or accurate, so I accept and admit this fact freely. But:

    All day long people crow about how 23-year-old Lindsay Lohan is a lost little girl who needs mommy and daddy to make her a cup of cocoa because she’s such a young ‘po’ widdle’. How is someone younger than her a font of wisdom? Everyone’s different, no dispute, but that’s kind of wacky.

    What’s the difference between eighteen and nineteen? Apparently, the former must constantly undergo lectures on anything from theoretical physics to the intricacies of blinking. Nineteen though, well…there’s critical thinking, bar none.

    Why is it so controversial for a parent to say, ‘Yeah, you fucked it up epically. Now, let’s consider our options and work through this’? Or, ‘children are a blessing, and right now you’re acting like one so you have a lot of growing up to do–quickly’? Or how about, ‘What if you don’t get pregnant today and just read a book’? Why is that so bad?

    Now, in my role as Hater-In-Waiting (nice ring to that title), I assume that I must engage in that most overused bit of advice and ‘get over it’, because ‘these are the times, man.’ Obviously media is hugely influential, but it isn’t Teen Vogue’s job to make our children less stupid. And I know that parents are harried and stressed and they can’t be around their kids all day. This is very hard but, guys, that’s not Vogue’s fault or concern. I would never believe that media influence is incapable of insidiousness, but when things go well, it’s because we’re empowered. If they don’t, it’s because Conde Nast didn’t raise us right.

    Adolescence is a time when you learn how to be an adult, not a time for shooting yourself in the foot because you think you’re soooo mature. Okay, that’s exactly what it is. But that’s (reasonably) fine because that’s namely what kids do. They do stupid things, because they are kids. Nineteen? Of course she could be younger, but she could be older too. It’s just a different perspective, you know?

    Man, if I were to get pregnant at nineteen, my family would rip my arms off and beat me them. Perhaps they’d top it off with killing to death or something. I know it’ll send some people running into the night, seeing as how discipline that isn’t packed in leather is a shameful thing. Each family is different too, but all I know is that mine gave me a lot of reasons not to get pregnant, and it worked.

    Would a *true* adult feel the need to fling herself into Elysian Fields upon learning about her pregnancy because she’s afraid of how those around her would handle it? A lot of the time, yes. But I just haven’t met the parent who would throw a box social over this type of development. Anxieties are par for the course in any pregnancy, but if abject fear enters into the discussion, I mean, I don’t really know. It’s a tough situation, so I hope she gets what she needs.

    Modeling has an expiration date, so realistically she might not be wanted anymore when she’s ready to return (broke or bored). Un-wed, at the start of her career and nineteen? If that’s planned, then I’m a giant Pez dispenser and I can’t wait until the day when I’ll be back to feeding chocolate and watermelon to my blue ox, Babe. Or named ‘Habsburg’. I don’t get the sense that the boyfriend would have solemnly declared himself to be ‘henceforth settled down’ before they conceived, and that and they solidified their love with a commitment ceremony near that makeshift koi pond behind the Fashion Bug.

    I grew up in a single-parent household (and my mother was well out of her teens): Screw That. Now, don’t get any Stephen King ideas, but having been in the crux of it, I don’t want it. You have to go in with your eyes open, and building as many castle in the sky fantasies about this being a post-marital or post-adolescence or post-stigma world where we’ve moved beyond the difficulties that will arise from this situation is naive. That’s the truth. The world we want and the one that responds often don’t overlap, not knowing that does a disservice. It might sound fatalistic or cynical, but even under the most felicitous of circumstances, it can’t be all Lorelai and Rory, all the time. See, ‘mother’s reaction’.

    Why just do something because you can? Sure, she has a younger body, but what of it? 40 isn’t exactly hollow shell state. Of course I know about difficulties in conception and increased chance of defects with older mums, (though it’s much more of a possibility it’s a first pregnancy.) It’s not compulsory to hit that just because menarche happened. Generally speaking, 40-year-olds have far more to offer than nineteen-year-olds. They can rent a car and can legitimately buy their babies Schnapps in every nation on earth. They also remember Human League, and if you don’t think that ‘Fascination’ is an ass-shakingly boss song, we have nothing to say to each other.

    If I may be entirely (somewhat) sincere at the moment, I’ve never understood the magical thinking that supposes that on the blessed occasion when a person enters into the age of majority, Anubis appears in your bedchamber, presents you with a ‘Wisdom Chalice’, pays homage to you while wearing a hair shirt, and has his all-shawm ska band play ‘I’m an Adult Now’.

    Nothing’s that easy (except for nineteen-year-old models. BOOM! Crass joke, I know, you’ll live).

  34. Jen says:

    Why is everyone all up in arms about how she discussed her pregnancy and with who? I severely doubt that her agency was the 2nd she told. I’m sure she told her boyfriend, then her mother, then her agency when she started to show. Ugh the issues people get obssessed with.

  35. Who Cares. this stuff is so normal now days that it shouldn’t be such a big deal. I don’t agree that she is an adult because my sister was 18 when she had her first child and only 20 when she had her second and she still has no clue. I don’t see why its such a big deal.

  36. KelBear says:

    Why is this even on here?

  37. Sigh. says:

    Hmm —
    A lot of you think her having a “job,” in a VERY, VERY, VERY FICKLE industry is some sort of saving grace.

    An industry that is NOT baby-friendly (how many runway shows have on-site day care?), usually calls for travel, still known for its behind-the-scene seediness, and does not cater to the “moms-on-the-go.” But we break crazy over stars twice her age whose kids are being raised by their nannies.

    Still, she’s a beautiful girl. Both are. Good Luck.
    Here’s hoping the dad isn’t some weird, questionable, contiental lover-type, model-chaser four times her age.

  38. Trashaddict says:

    How typical of teen Vogue to screw up and then invoke the “public’s right to know” and discuss these things. I think there are probably many black nonpregnant teen models who would like to make the cover. And I’m wondering if a stereotype is at work here, are people finding it more acceptable that she’s black and pregnant at 19? If she was white and pregnant would they be more up in arms or not?
    19 is adult but unplanned pregnancy is not, and I think that’s the main point. In the post-AIDS era, sex without protection is not only immature and stupid, it’s DANGEROUS! (Speaking as one who’s been admittedly stupid in her lifetime but incredibly damn lucky never to have been in that kind of mess).

  39. girl says:

    I don’t get why this is such a big deal either. Don’t magazine covers show girls with drug problems and eating disorders pretty frequently? They don’t even show her baby bump either.

  40. crab says:

    Teens have been getting pregnant for generations nothing new! It’s the hormones, we’re suppose to have sex at that age, although society says differently!!

  41. princess pea says:

    “It’s the hormones, we’re suppose to have sex at that age”

    It’s amazing the way you can spot a teenager online, no?

  42. Cristina says:

    Disgusting and shameful

  43. Firestarter says:

    @Crab- Actually, you are supposed to have sex when you are mentally, physically and emotionally ready to have sex, not when you get to a certain age.

    Looks like someone is cutting class today.

  44. Ally says:

    Rosanna, you said it perfectly.

    The upset here isn’t about a “teen” pregnancy. She’s a 19-year-old high school graduate with a high-flying career. It’s an upset about a young, unmarried pregnancy.

    It’s like how everyone piled on to Jamie Lynn Spears, until the family announced she was engaged to the father, then everyone calmed down. The upset is about some neandarthal worries about ownership of women’s bodies and their offspring. As long as there’s a man around, it’s all a-ok!

    We all laugh about the days when Lucille Ball broke the taboo by being the first real pregnant woman to appear on TV (oh noes, she did the nasty!). Are there seriously parents out there in the USA who still worry about their kids at that primitive level? Oh no, Susie can’t look at a pregnant unmarried 19-year-old who has a smile on her face — she’ll immediately want to have sex! Morons.

    Educate your kids about the values, emotions, pleasure, and the medical issues related to sex, without browbeating them, or passing on the hang-ups your own family gave you. Then stop metaphorically stoning strangers who make you uncomfortable about your hang-ups and the fact that past a certain age, you don’t control your kids.

  45. C-DUB says:

    BLAH, BLAH, BLAH….She’s 19 with a job. She’ll lose the weight and be modeling again in no time! Why is this an issue??? Jamie Lynn was 16 and pregnant…..THERE’S A CONTRAVERSY

  46. Firestarter says:

    Only because you all-caps’d it am I going to be annoying and point out that you spelled controversy incorrectly.

    Also, Jaime Lynn had a job.

  47. MNG says:

    and i thought she was sensible! KMT!!!
    well, good luck with that!

  48. C-DUB says:

    Where does Jamie Lynn work?

    Oh, I do always see her coming out of Wal-Mart. Your right “Firestarter” and I spell checked this one just for you!

  49. Firestarter says:

    C-DUB- I didn’t say she was currently working, I said she HAD a job, up until she got preggo. She was on a show on Nickelodeon for several years.

  50. SARAH says:

    No matter how you look at it, it does send the wrong message. No mother wants to know/let her children know that some girl in a magazine is pregnant, and that it’s perfectly fine. Next thing you know, someone’s daughter is going to be spreading her legs, wanting to get pregnant, because being knocked up is a good thing.
    While the model may not be in high school, she is still a young girl. Even with a career and all, who knows if this modeling career will even stick afterwards. Shedding those pregnancy pounds aren’t always an easy thing.

  51. crash2GO2 says:

    Hey Jo Mama: Have you ever heard the saying ‘The less you say, the more they hear?’

  52. You really make it seem really easy with your presentation but I to find this matter to be really one thing that I feel I would by no means understand. It seems too complex and very huge for me. I am having a look ahead for your next publish, I’ll try to get the hang of it!