Drake has always tried to project an image of an emo guy always looking for a real relationship. That’s not who he really is though. The reality of Drake is that he’s the guy who hid a whole-ass child for a year and mocks his child’s mother in his music. He’s also the guy who has uncomfortably close “friendships” with teenage girls, within and outside of the music industry. And don’t forget all of that misogynistic sh-t he’s said about Megan Thee Stallion and Serena Williams either. Dude has an issue with women. Well, here’s one silver lining, I guess – Drake doesn’t really believe in marriage.
Drake revealed the reason he hasn’t tied the knot with anyone yet as he opened up about his love life. Appearing on “The Really Good Podcast with Bobbi Althoff” Thursday, the “Hotline Bling” hitmaker, 36, called the concept of marriage “a thing of ancient times.”
“I don’t know. It seems like a thing of, like, ancient times or something. I think I will eventually,” he said. “I don’t know, I don’t think I can offer somebody what they’d be looking for. Just consistency. I think my life, my work is my priority.”
When Althoff quipped that Drake, whose real name is Aubrey Graham, refuses to settle down in a bid to continue “sleeping around,” the rapper was quick to shut it down. The “One Dance” hitmaker said he can’t offer “consistency” or dedication to a relationship “at this stage” in his life.
“I don’t wanna get married ’cause like, I just don’t wanna disappoint someone,” he added. “I probably will not end up marrying someone famous. Famous people really aren’t that, like, anything — they’re not that intriguing.”
And when quizzed on what qualities he’s looking for in a significant other, the rapper said he wants “somebody that’s an individual.”
“I like somebody that’s, like, their own,” he explained. “They’re not just not like a carbon copy, like a person that I’ve seen a bunch of times throughout my existence. I like somebody with a sense of humor, you know? I like — I don’t know, like, cosplay.”
Of all the ways Drake is a sh-tty person, I don’t think this is one of them. While the whole marriage/parenthood dilemma is still massively different for men, culturally, men are still expected to “settle down and get married” by a certain age. Most of Drake’s generational peers are married, I would assume. Now, do I think Drake is trying to be an outlier? Do we even believe that he has strong feelings either way? No – he clearly believes he will get married at some point, but I appreciate that he’s basically saying that the whole concept of marriage is antiquated.
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Oh please. Mr Kiss and Tell can’t keep a woman. Something about him is really fucking off and no woman of actual substance wants him. The only women who will deal with him are in the money and the lifestyle. None who can provide that for themselves give him the time of day. This is him trying to save face.
Women say something like this all the time, especially once they’re in a marriage.
I have a kind of mean in-law who says, “a broken clock is right twice a day.”
Yep he is looking for someone with a sense of humor because he is a big joke. Stay single Drake.
I agree with him on this one tiny point. Marriage is not the be all end all of romantic relationships. I wish society, as a whole, would stop pressuring people to get married (and/or have children).
For real. It’s a bum steer for women in particular, that’s why it’s declining steadily since women have entered the workforce in droves.
I’ve gotta say I’m somewhat impressed that he’s got the insight into his own behavior to know he’d be a disappointment to a woman and not able to provide “consistency” (ie. constancy). Know thyself.
While I dislike Drake as a person, he is not stupid. With the exception of having unprotected sex with his baby moma, He is capable of having human insight which is why his pen game is so lauded.
Everything else aside, if someone knows they aren’t cut out for marriage, at least not right now, it’s good to not get married.
Yup. I’d rather the likes of him and Leo stay single and do what they do with consenting partners, than feel pressured to marry, check out, and then cheat on their partners. Marriage and lifelong monogamy is not for everyone. Open marriage is also not for everyone, so there is nothing wrong with being a bachelor for life if that’s the life you choose.
No wonder Rihanna did not want any thing to do with him long term.
Drake has no idea what he’s saying here. He’s confused. I don’t think he has ever deeply loved anyone. Including himself.
Also, “men are still expected to “settle down and get married” by a certain age.”
HAHAHAHA because women aren’t?? Society is way harder on women who haven’t married and/or had kids.
I don’t know how he manages to say so many insulting things at all once: famous people aren’t intriguing; I’d definitely disappoint someone but I’ll marry them anyway; marriage is ancient… lol, YIKES.
I genuinely don’t know how you anyone can find his marriage remarks offensive. Over 50% of marriages end in divorce and the number of non married men and women is increasing at a fast rate.
Drake is only committed to work and nothing else. He is many things but at least he knows he would be an awful spouse.
I agree with him. Children should be legally protected though. Marriage is ancient and weird. And I’m married!
What’s really ancient is crusty old guys tryna get with literal teenagers but go off I guess
I mean, I hate him… but he’s not wrong. Marriage is not for everyone and if you’re pretty sure it’s not for you, STAY SINGLE.