Anya Taylor Joy: ‘When you get too comfortable, you stop growing’

Anya Taylor Joy recently turned 28 years old, and she’s currently starring in Furiosa: A Mad Max Saga. That’s why she’s on the cover of the latest Elle Magazine. Anya’s interviews are never full of gossip or shade, and this Elle piece is no different, but I still enjoyed reading it. She’s a sensitive person who feels like she really doesn’t fit in anywhere. She spent her early childhood in Argentina and she still considers English her second language. Her slippery nationality seems to enable her to play basically any character. Currently, she resides in LA with her husband of two years, Malcolm. Some highlights from Elle:

On Furiosa: “The most beautiful and heartbreaking thing about Furiosa is that she’s the embodiment of impossible hope—living in a world where everything is a violation to you. The air that you breathe, the lack of food, the fact that empathy is punished, that trust is punished. And throughout it all, she just has this relentless conviction that she’s going to make good on that promise she made. I still get chills thinking about it.”

The ‘Furiosa’ shoot: “I was really pushing the boundary of what my body and mind could do,” she says, recalling 3 A.M. rides to set. “I was driving through the streets of Sydney like, ‘I’ve not seen a single person in months. I haven’t seen anybody who doesn’t look like they’re in the Wasteland. I’ve been living in an alien world.’”

Why she took the role: “I wanted to really understand grit in a different way. Because I knew that I had it. But I understood that in isolation, I was going to really experience it. Okay, you’re in a house in the middle of nowhere with just your thoughts and this character. How do you cope with that? And when you don’t have comfort around you—when there’s nothing that you can turn to for distraction—how are you going to experience that? My favorite flowers have always been seeded dandelions or the daisies that grow through concrete. I think I wanted to be placed in concrete. I wanted to understand how that would feel. When you get too comfortable, you stop growing.”

A workaholic: “I woke up and realized I had not taken a break in 10 years. I’ve always been somebody who wants to take care of other people before taking care of myself. I have always been sick, and working, or exhausted at dinner. I was like, I need to figure out what I do for fun.”

Her marriage: After so many years on the move, she made a home with Malcolm McRae, 30, one half of the band more* (asterisk theirs). The couple’s September 2023 wedding at a historic palazzo in Venice included guests Cara Delevingne and Julia Garner. Naturally, the bride wore custom Dior. The couple had quietly eloped 17 months earlier, just before Taylor-Joy returned to Australia to shoot Furiosa. “We’re just real romantics. We were born on the same day. And we wanted to make sure that our first experience was something that was completely for us. So we eloped in New Orleans with our two best friends and had the time of our lives. It was magical. But I’m lucky to say that the second experience—with all of our families—was so beyond beautiful, and I just feel very, very lucky.”

She’s become obsessed with The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City. Reality TV used to depress her, but a friend insisted they watch that infamous finale—“Receipts, proof, timeline, screenshots!”—and now Taylor-Joy is hooked: “I don’t know what happened in my brain, but I’m so invested. I’ve never seen so many people yell at the same time.”

[From Elle]

Anya and Malcolm were both born on April 16, but two years apart. I always find it spooky when someone has my birthday, but Anya is into it (typical Aries). Marriage agrees with her – this is the most settled and calm she’s ever seemed to me in an interview. Usually, she sounds like one ball of chaos, but I think she finally got some time off, she’s making a home with Malcolm, and she’s experiencing life away from her job. I’m not into RHOSLC, but yeah, that “receipts, proof, timeline, screenshots” clip is amazing.

Cover courtesy of Elle, additional photos courtesy of Avalon Red, Cover Images.

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  1. tankerbelle says:

    I love her as an actress but man, celebrity interviews are just so boring aren’t they? Just dullsville. It’s extraordinarily rare that you’ll get actor who is comfortable talking about themselves, their art, and their career in a way that’s interesting. I can only think of Marlon Brando on the Dick Cavett Show. I prefer he Graham Norton style of letting celebrities interact as humans at a cocktail party. Just snippets from each person there, interacting with each other, and a superbly genial host.

    • SarahCS says:

      This is the flip side of the cult of celebrity, they’re regular people just like us and just because they are involved in art we enjoy (she was fab in Furiosa), doesn’t mean they necessarily have much to say for themselves.

      • AlpineWitch says:

        I just finished to watch “The Queen’s Gambit” and she has such a compelling presence onscreen!

    • BeanieBean says:

      Yeah, I swear I’ve heard variations on that ‘getting too comfortable’ line from dozens of celebs over the years.

  2. Normades says:

    Her husband is a nice looking hipster dude, they go well together.

  3. Myeh says:

    This line when you get too comfortable you stop growing is some next level bs. I remember hearing it the first time in 2016 through some men in the same age range as hers. It was all on the podcasts and blogs at the time that doled out toxic masculinity like it was the new New Age talking point. Not great to see its become more mainstream now. You know maybe flourishing in comfort and growth through support is just too hard to make available for everyone so let’s preach on discomfort and growing through that to show how tough and quick we are at adapting. Huge eyeroll and hard pass on that.

    • BeanieBean says:

      Agree with everything you say about the concept, but I’ve heard it far further back in time than that. It’s how stupid rich celebrities–principally actors but also musicians–justify to themselves how they got to be so stupid rich but really, they’ve struggled! Really struggled! And you’ve got to shake things up! Take those chances! Play a bad guy instead of a nice guy! 🙄. Oh, and for women, put on 20 lbs & wear ‘no makeup’! There’s bravery & struggle right there!

  4. Silent Star says:

    I do think you need to get outside your comfort zone to grow. Otherwise you tend to not stray far from your bubble. We see that a lot with self aggrandizing celebrities, so I appreciate her recognizing that in her twenties.

    And goodness, those two make a stunning couple!

  5. JFerber says:

    Myeh, I’m with you. It is a b.s. doctrine. I’ve recently gone through a traumatic change in my life and I seek peace and calm to acclimate, accept what has happened and try to get on with my life. Growth and change are hard enough. I am trying to reduce stress so I can move on with my life. Only people who are spoiled by life would reject comfort as a trajectory. I wish I could find comfort right now, but I cannot. Life is hard enough, you know?

    • BeanieBean says:

      Yes, yes, yes! Only those who have comfort can reject comfort! I would love to be comfortable, and at ease, for a bit. Just a bit.