Jonathan Van Ness: A lot of people were looking for a reason to hate me


Back in March, Netflix announced that the splendiferously coiffed Jeremiah Brent would be replacing Bobby Berk as the interior design expert for Season 9 of Queer Eye. There had long been rumors of Berk being unhappy. Still, Berk let it be known that he was a little surprised he was the only one of the Fab Five leaving. Then Rolling Stone put out a bombshell story in which many production sources described beauty expert Jonathan Van Ness as an absolute nightmare to work with. All of the sources were anonymous to protect their jobs. Van Ness has kept mum since the takedown piece… until now. They were on the Table Manners podcast last week and took full accountability for their actions and making people feel unsafe at work. Hahaha just kidding! Yeah, Van Ness totally played the victim:

Queer Eye’s Jonathan Van Ness is breaking their silence on the allegations against them.

If you don’t know, back in March of 2024, an exposé was released that had some behind-the-scenes, unverified information from unnamed sources.

Three insiders called the star emotionally “abusive” and having “rage issues,” and all seven sources said the star would lash out at crew members and people who worked closely with them.

During filming, one production source said that JVN would explode at least once a week, describing the star as “a yeller.”

Now, they’re finally responding to some of these claims.

They said on Wednesday’s episode of the “Table Manners” podcast, “There was this article that was written about Queer Eye and myself in March, but our whole Queer Eye family had first learned about this article in December.”

“I went from this bankruptcy [JVN Hair had to be sold]. Then, ‘Oh there’s someone who’s going to write an investigative takedown, exposé piece about you that isn’t really based in reality, but can certainly have a lot of things taken out of context to make you look as bad as possible. So from January to March, I was walking on eggshells being like, ‘When is this going to happen?’ And then it finally did happen,” they said.

Jonathan added about the reaction from the public, “I think a lot of people were looking for a reason to hate me or looking for a reason to be like, ‘See, I always knew that they were a fake c-nt.’”

“My family was so supportive, and my husband and my team. But I didn’t get on social media to look at my phone for like three weeks and anytime I tried to dip my toe in, I would immediately see something that was so intensely hurtful,” they added.

[From Just Jared]

You guys, Jonathan didn’t look at their phone for three weeks — the struggle is real! Have they not suffered enough! Lol, poor baby. I feel like there’s a deeply philosophical point somewhere in the fact that the expert in charge of beauty seems more than a touch delusional. Back when we covered the Rolling Stone article, many of you commented on Van Ness’s bad behavior. Things like their team members warning people in advance not to make eye contact, along with lots of descriptions of temper tantrums. So no, I’m not at all surprised that Van Ness’ response is to say the article “isn’t really based in reality.” If Van Ness had comms people on staff worth their salt, they would have trotted out some carefully crafted lines like, “I never thought I conducted myself poorly, but I have to take into account that multiple people feel this way, and I’ve been looking at my behavior accordingly to see how I can do better.” Van Ness doesn’t have to believe any of it! It just would’ve been an easy PR win to issue a conciliatory statement, instead of snapping right into “the whole world was looking to attack meeee!” So in conclusion, I definitely agree with Van Ness that someone isn’t operating in reality; I just don’t think it’s Rolling Stone.

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17 Responses to “Jonathan Van Ness: A lot of people were looking for a reason to hate me”

  1. Slippers4life says:

    To be fair, when a celebrity ISN’T like this, it’s rare. My dad did riders for many concerts and events and got so used to people acting exactly like these he didn’t bring us along, and his stories were more about the very few nice experiences he had. Later, my brother got into tv and does writing, direction, and editing and says the exact same thing. This is not unusual. Van Ness likely just pissed off the wrong staff who likely knows someone who could write an article like this this. They need to be accountable for sure and they are certainly not alone in how they treat people on set. Just a side note the nicest celebrities? Keith Urban and Nicole Kidman as well as the Wiggles. Lol

    • Maureen says:

      I don’t know about that. I’ve met my fair share of celebrities and I’ve found they’re mostly just people. There are a couple who were shitty but that’s it (Maria Shriver and Nic Cage). I prefer to talk about the nice ones
      (Sean Hayes and Molly Shannon) and the ones who were shockingly pretty (Ray Romano, dead sexy).

    • Jenepooh says:

      I also did contract and stage management for a concert and events promoter way back in the early 2000’s and I absolutely echo your dad’s experiences. It was rare when celebrities were nice (the nicest were Kenny Rogers, Fred from B52s, Marvin Young/YoungMC). Most of the time, I was dealing with the most entitled buffoons. BTW, the riders on the contracts were always my favorite part of the job. Julio Iglesias’ and his required black socks, The Beach Boys and their requirements of catering with “corn is not a vegetable, corn is a grain” in all caps, bolded, and 14pt font 🤣🌽. Legendary.

  2. SarahLee says:

    They are just…..so…..thirsty.

  3. Mireille says:

    I’m all for calling out celebrities for being cruel and leading a toxic, abusive work environment. And no, Jonathan, no one is out to get you for being you…we just can’t stand people who hurl their privilege, shitty behavior, and rage at co-workers just trying to make a living and afraid to speak up in fear of losing their jobs. Accountability is the issue here, reprimand, losing HIS job, and maybe a fricken apology would be nice too. Ugh. The arrogance of this one.

  4. ariel says:

    The story made me sad when it came out both because i enjoy the show and he presents as such a loving person- and he’s representing (apologies if i get terminology wrong, its early) a non-binary person, and doing it with flare and confidence. And so many people need to see that – both others like him and people who have never met anyone like him.
    So when the story came out that he was a huge brat and abusive and obnoxious- i was disappointed.

    And all i needed was for him to be like- yes, i am a drama queen, and when i was given a little power, i did not keep my inner b*itch in check- i apologize, i was wrong to treat people like that.

    That’s it, i am not that hard to please with a sincere apology.
    No one gets it right all the time- no one is above acting an ass.
    Instead we get- EVERYONE IS OUT TO GET ME!!!

    Again, it is disappointing.

    • transfem joy says:

      “so many people need to see that – both others like him and people who have never met anyone like him.”

      They’re not the end all be all of nonbinary representation. There are nonbinary characters in children’s media now and if someone wants to look at a they/them they can just log on tiktok.

      Saying this as a trans person, that Van Ness clown and his attitude can go back to clown college. Nobody needs them as representation of nonbinary people.

      Also, it’s kind of funny that you think they was such good nb rep while you can’t even remember their actual pronouns.

    • Ariel says:

      My fellow Ariel, I agree so SO much. This could be such a cool opportunity for them to own it. Accountability is so hot… whatever this is just is not.

  5. Oh come on. says:

    > their team members warning people in advance not to make eye contact,

    Makes it sound like they’re a grizzly bear.

    • lisa says:

      he did that where I live and his body guards formed a circle around him – but a lot of the business owners didnt know who he was. he is ridiculous.

  6. Lisa says:

    he was so sh!tty to the local business owners when he played my local theater, he thinks he is a lot more famous than he is

  7. tealily says:

    “I think a lot of people were looking for a reason to hate me or looking for a reason to be like, ‘See, I always knew that they were a fake c-nt.’”

    I would counter that with I think a lot of people were rooting for them and are hugely disappointed that they can’t seem to be a decent person.

  8. Katie Beanstalk says:

    I like that blue dress. Apart from that doesn’t everyone expect them to be divas?

  9. Emme says:

    Who is he?? Genuinely, who?

  10. manda says:

    I had no idea that JVN had to be sold! I didn’t like the products, but thought other people did.

    Very disappointing to hear this response regarding the criticism, would have been so easy to just admit to being a b!tch. I wouldn’t think one could act that way without realizing they’re doing it, right?

    Also, have no idea if Bobby is a nice guy, but he sure seems it, and I will be sad to see him go, bc I thought he really did beautiful designs, and they really provided a lot to some of those makeovers, kind of surprising. I wanted to nominate my hubby just for the redecorating of our house!

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