Minnie Driver: ‘In England, I felt I was punished… for being ambitious’

Minnie Driver lived and worked in America for nearly three decades. Many British celebrities view America as a place to work but disparage as a place with inferior culture compared to Britain. But Minnie loved her life in California, living in a fancy trailer in Malibu and raising her son Henry. Nowadays, she splits her time between California and the UK, because Henry goes to school over there. But she has nice things to say about America – and awful things to say about Donald Trump – in an interview with the Times of London. Some highlights:

Her “Cinderella moment” while promoting ‘Circle of Friends’ in America. Landing in the US having lost the weight again, she was treated to the full Hollywood glam-over. “They came at my hair and blow-dried it straight. And they got me a good bra and the right size jeans. And suddenly I was sleek. Suddenly, I was revealed to myself as being a girl who was pretty, and it was so exciting.”

Being 54 years old: “I’d much rather have my face when I was 25. But I certainly wouldn’t want to have to go through all that sh-t again, of all the other attendant stuff that was coming down the pipe.”

She’s back to living in London after 27 years in Los Angeles. “I will always be between both places, but my son’s at school here, so if I’m not working, I’m wherever he is.”

She stopped making movies when she became a mother: “It’s why I stopped making movies, really consciously. I called my agent and went, ‘OK, I’m having a baby and I would really like you to go and look for a show that’s called Shoots in Los Angeles and will pay me a regular wage. I couldn’t be travelling. I couldn’t be taking a tiny baby to Romania — and I didn’t want to. As a single mum, I didn’t want him to have that uncertainty. I wanted him to have school and football and mates and tea and his own bed and our house.”

She was happy to find work in America: “In America there was just this idea of, ‘Whatever you want to do, try it. Do it. Throw everything you have at it and see what happens.’ There is this idea that you’re allowed to renew and to change course; you’re allowed to pivot. I can be a writer, I can be a musician, I can be a mother, I can be an actor — you don’t have to be just one thing. In England, I felt I was punished for wanting more. I was punished for being ambitious. The British press think it’s greedy for me to want to be more.”

Whether she believes things really changed with #MeToo: “Yes, I do. But not because of some kind of systemic epiphany that men had. Rather, because they know that there’s accountability now. There are actually mechanisms in place [which mean] that kind of behaviour can’t be hidden. And I think #MeToo put a dent in it, but I just don’t know whether that power dynamic is ever really going to be redressed. Revolutions are bloody. People want to maintain the status quo for as long as they possibly can until they absolutely can’t and then, kicking and screaming, people will change.”

Another big change for the industry: “I watched Challengers the other night and what I loved most was seeing that Zendaya was a producer. Not an executive producer — a producer.” She namechecks Margot Robbie, the creative force behind Barbie. “They’re like, ‘I’m part of this creation, I am making this happen.’ And I think maybe that is how it changes. We all should have been doing that back in the Nineties. When I think about the work that I did on scripts, the fixing things, the making stuff better, absolutely uncredited. I made so many of the roles that I was in through improv, through rewriting, through ideas that were all then completely uncredited. So what’s great is that these girls are now getting credit for it.”

She is British but: “I identify as a Californian.” Driver is more anxious than jubilant [about Trump’s felony conviction]. “He’s going to say that the whole thing is like the election, that it’s corrupt. Of course he deserves to be in prison — of course he does. But just looking at how much money he raised in that two days, $53 million in a 48-hour period, and the idea that because the founding fathers — if there had been some mothers involved perhaps it would be different — left no room in the constitution for the idea that the American people could be so stupid as to vote for a felon, there is nothing reflected in the judiciary about what would happen if he wins. It’s a pickle when you’ve got the Secret Service already scoping out prisons, going, ‘What would this look like?’ ”

Whether she would live in America again if Trump was reelected:
“If I lived in a red [Republican] state, no, I couldn’t. But living in California, you are somewhat insulated. But do you want to go and live in a bubble? Do you run away from the fire or do you go back and help?” It’s not just Trump himself, she says, but “the revelation of the 70 million people who really quite like a bit of a racist attitude and non-existent immigration policies and dismantling the environmental agencies. And they were always there; they weren’t created by him. He’s just a symptom, and now they’ve got a mascot.”.

[From The Times]

Yeah, her assessment of Trump and the MAGA cult is dead on. Trump IS a symptom. The thing is, while I think the cult is a fundamental crack in America’s foundations, I also feel like it’s an underreported story – especially by the American media – that the cult seems to be less enthusiastic these days. The same energy isn’t there. Minnie’s right about being insulated from everything in California too, and she’s right about how the industry has changed.

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27 Responses to “Minnie Driver: ‘In England, I felt I was punished… for being ambitious’”

  1. Teddy says:

    Although Paradise Cove has certainly turned into a super-fancy trailer park, with homes now selling in the 2 and 3 million range, when Minnie bought hers, it was still a just a podunk family park. She was the first celeb to buy there, kept a very low profile, earned her place in the surf lineup, and was a wonderful neighbor. Her first Christmas there, she hired a little espresso cart to come to the bluff, for a breakfast party and she brought a boom box and played Christmas music. So yeah, it’s fancy now. But Minnie isn’t. 🙂

    • truthSF says:

      Wow! She seems so down to earth and sounds like she’d be such a fun neighbor! I’ve been a fan of hers since Gross Pointe Blank!

    • East Villager says:

      I love this so much. Thank you so much for sharing it! I pass Paradise Cove every time I take my cats to the vet, and it’s my fantasy to live there one day.

  2. ML says:

    I totally understand what she says about both cultures: I spent my childhood and first years of adulthood in the States and almost half my life abroad. You miss things from one place and love things about where you live and so you kind of wind up in between both. America has changed a bit since I left as well, so it’s both familiar and strange to visit.

    “[Trump is] just a symptom, and now they’ve got a mascot.” So well said. Too many countries are lurching towards dictatorship and right wingers.

  3. Sydneygirl says:

    I adore her. Always have and she always seemed to walk her own path – a real original.

    She is bang on about Trump.

  4. Amy Bee says:

    I liked this interview. She’s absolutely right about Trump being just the symptom.

  5. Mina_Esq says:

    Her analyses are so thoughtful. I like her. I totally get being between two cultures. When I’m home in Europe, there are definitely things I miss about North America, and vice versa. I think the average European doesn’t like anyone that tries to rise above the rest. They complain all the time, while living more or less a life of leisure (by North American standards). My best friend’s sister is a lawyer in Vienna, and she has the nerve to complain how it’s unfair that our lawyers get paid so much more than they do. Meanwhile, she tells me that she spent three months working on a single (and relatively uncomplicated) file of setting up a charity for a client. Meanwhile, prior to becoming a managing lawyer, I had never had fewer than 80 litigation files at any given time. We get the money because we work five times as hard. All of this to say that I totally buy that the Brits borderline resented Minnie for being ambitious.

    • AC says:

      I know what you mean. We lived in Spain for 1/2 of the year earlier this year. Their wages are low and they complain about it but are also living a laid back life. Their own economists are actually worried that they’re going to become more dependent in the future as they are falling way behind on innovation and entrepreneurship, and most of all worried how they can sustain their lifestyle in the future.

  6. Jks says:

    I’ve always enjoyed her as an actress. Love her voice and her hair is glorious.

    She comes across as being a very down to earth, intelligent and likeable person.

  7. Agnes says:

    She’s a real one. I like what she has to say about everything but especially MAGA. Yes, it probably started as a Russian op, but it spread because it hit a nerve with Whitey. I see Trump Vance signs in Midwestern cornfields and know that no ad or reasoning on Earth is going to change the minds of those guys in 70k trucks pulling boats and trailers and BBQ supersmokers to vote for Harris-Walz no matter how much camo they add to their message. Anxious dangerous times.

    • MsIam says:

      We outnumber those folks by far but turnout is key. They still only get one person, one vote. I’ll never understand people who can’t be bothered to vote, especially with mail in ballots available in many states.

      • Saucy&Sassy says:

        MsIam, we definitely outnumber them. I think getting people to vote has been one of the underpinnings of the Democrats’ campaigns. I think people will get out and vote. Especially women and the men who support them, youth and all of the seniors who fought to get abortion and equal rights for women (still working on that one). It’s a formidable group.

    • Libra says:

      @Agnes; correct you are! Took a road trip Saturday through those cornfields and saw the same. Trump Vance signs all over and none for Harris. This is the state that voted Walz in as governor. Ditto to trucks getting camo duck boats out for a shoot with Trump bumper stickers. Die hards will never change their minds even if presented with the facts.

      • Agnes says:

        They don’t even know anymore what they believe in, Trump is just a vote against women (who have ALL gotten way too uppity) and against everything that is not doughy white ignorance with a ball-hitch in back. Cities better vote or we’re doomed.

      • AC says:

        I’m in CA, and I only saw 1 trump sign the past couple mths between road trips from SD, LA, OC and Ventura, Montecito/SB as of today. That’s a big deal. I saw a lot more Trumper signs in 2020 even though CA was overwhelmingly Biden.
        There was a post from Twitter today where a person went around his conservative neighborhood in PA and knocked doors to support Harris – Result: all Harris(even from independents and Republicans), one Trumper. Had the same explanation -tired of MAGA and taking women’s rights away.
        Many said they didn’t want to put signs because of theft or what MAGAs might do to their front yards.
        Crossing fingers and everyone Vote!

  8. yipyip says:

    I’ve liked her for years, she is talented.
    I always wondered if she has been blacklisted a bit?
    Her career has never hit the A level she deserves, IMO.
    Yet Jennifer Lawrence and Goopy are both Oscar winners.

    She is correct about Trump.
    The MAGA cult is not going away, I’m still amazed how many are under 50.
    And they are SO hardcore and closed minded. Cult.

  9. Mightymolly says:

    IDK how well places like California will be protected from project 2025.

  10. tamsin says:

    I’ve always liked Minnie Driver as well, and wondered what happened to her since she wasn’t very visible for long periods. I totally agree with her MAGA analysis. Every country has a dangerous underbelly, and its vital to always fight for fairness, democracy, and actions that will improve the human race and life for everybody. I think the ingrained class structure in Britain is what makes “ambition” something to be repressed.

  11. lisa says:

    honk for Minnie! she was great as herself on Ab Fab

  12. Latine says:

    Well something is going on. Minnie driver is a great actress. Yet, if you remember her early career there was a pr push to turn her into a problem. It happened for years. I assume she ticked someone off or someone felt she was competition. It happens a lot. Downing someone to uplift someone else.

    • Jaded says:

      It seems to have started when she talked openly about the truly awful way Matt Damon dumped her on Oprah Winfrey, saying he was “single.” She had no idea that was coming and was horribly heartbroken and humiliated. Hell I’d talk about it too if it happened to me. Women no longer have to put up and shut up.

  13. Jacques says:

    “I also feel like it’s an underreported story – especially by the American media – that the cult seems to be less enthusiastic these days.”

    Never underestimate extremists. They are spreading loathsome lies that are dangerous. Weather forecasters are getting death threats because lunatics believe they are controlling the weather to interfere with the election. People believed that Haitians were eating pets in Springfield, Ohio. When your only source of news is Fox, your reality is skewed and you are being fed a steady diet of hatred.

    My fear is those extremists are lying in wait until election results are delivered, and if Trump doesn’t win, they will arm themselves and wreak havoc. We cannot get complacent. They are and will continue to be a danger to Democracy.

    • Jaded says:

      Agree 100%. Also, election offices are being staffed with MAGA nutbars who will do everything they can to destroy or reject ballots, and disenfranchise as many voters they can. Look at Georgia, they’re demanding a mandatory hand recount of all votes…that would take months to complete. These extremists are capable of just about anything to get Trump into office.

  14. AC says:

    I always love Minnie Driver. She’s talented an amazing actress. Some of the British actors are so arrogant, they can stay home if they dislike America. Anyways many studios get the point, these days It seems more HW studios are looking for authenticity instead of hiring a British actor to hide their accent and play an American.
    Having lived in Europe for the first half of the year with my husband and children, I know the great family life there. But the problem I see with Europe is that they are quickly becoming stagnant, as they prefer a much laid back life instead of being innovative and entrepreneurial. I love the Quality of life there, but for how long . I’m not sure how long they can sustain that lifestyle in the future as they are getting to be more dependent on other countries for jobs and resources. The wages in Europe are also now pretty low and their housing crisis is even worse than the US where there’s a very big gap between income and home price affordability. The gap is big compared to the US. Also, statistically there are now more homeless people in the UK, France, Germany than the US. They’re not in the streets but they are in temporary shelters. Many countries in Europe are also getting older, I feel their socialized medicine is one day going to collapse if their younger generation doesn’t carry some of the weight.
    The thing is, and maybe because it’s a culture thing, they don’t see the big warning signs themselves- and continue living the life they know. But their economists are very worried and also sounding the alarm.
    Re the US elections, I do agree that at least in CA it’s still progressive. And we still have our state rights. At the same time, I see Trump fatigue all over the country- he has his loyal base but it hasn’t grown in years- crossing fingers he will lose badly this Nov.

  15. Vuyelwa Ncube says:

    The ‘never rise above your station’ Country does love to attack those upwardly mobile

    • Lily says:

      I agree the UK doesn’t like anyone upwardly mobile. Look at how the UK public treated the Middletons for years and Meghan. How dare these middle class women get above their station! /sarcasm

  16. Lily says:

    Someone wise once said the original sin for the USA is racism and for the UK it is classism.

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