It feels like ‘With Love, Meghan’ is being purposefully review-bombed

There’s no shortage of commentary about the Duchess of Sussex’s latest Netflix show, With Love, Meghan. I think most British networks had special coverage of WLM, and of course British outlets are flooding the zone with bad reviews. I haven’t finished WLM, but I’m enjoying it, and my favorite episode thus far was the one with Roy Choi, an LA restauranter. That showed Meghan learning from a chef she admired, and acting as sous chef, helping to make Korean food and sauces. The pacing on that episode was a lot different and they made so much food… and Meghan gave almost all of it to the crew!!

Anyway, what’s remarkable is just how many people have already watched every episode… just to scream about how “boring” it is or how Meghan is [insert insult here]. It’s also sadly notable that the bad reviews aren’t just coming from British outlets. It looks like there was an international effort to disparage a little cooking and entertaining show:

Meghan Markle probably only ever expected her new show, With Love, Meghan, to get terrible reviews in the U.K. press, which has a longstanding animus against the duchess, who is tremendously unpopular in Britain due to her and Harry’s perceived sell out of the British royal family. However, she can hardly have predicted the scorching nature of the potentially career-ending reviews she is receiving in America, led by Hollywood industry bible Variety, which compared watching her show to a “forced march.”

In a brutal takedown of the new show, Variety paints the duchess as a narcissist for whom “no amount of praise seems enough” and questions why a show purportedly about Meghan’s life would be shot at a stand-in home up the road. It mocks the struggle “to fill eight long episodes with only a certain number of new ideas” and notes that “Meghan’s quirks come to seem like affectations, from the multiple times she remarks on the beauty of an egg yolk to her dedication to placing ‘edible flowers’ on just about any comestible.”

The review then says, “The show plays out like a forced march, one in which Meghan’s guests must, as the price of getting to share an afternoon in a made-for-TV kitchen with her, praise her first.” It concludes with another dig at Meghan’s self-absorption, saying: “With Love, Meghan is made with a great deal of love — in the sense that the greatest love of all is the one that a person has for herself.”

Another U.S. publication, Time Magazine, found the show and its star wanting, saying of Meghan: “With each glossy new program, podcast, and lifestyle brand, the promise of authenticity has given way to an impersonal performance of perfection. With Love, Meghan might be the most performative example to date.” Later, the review declares itself baffled by the blandness of the whole affair, saying: “There has to be something remarkable, besides her jam-making skills, about a woman with the strength of will to extricate herself, her children, and a husband who’d spent his whole life within the institution from the notoriously controlling British royal family.”

Another savage review from an outlet with no axe to grind on behalf of the British royal family appeared in Tuesday’s Irish Times which declares, “a black hole of beige throughout.” It adds: “The big conceit is that we, the impoverished viewers, can hang with Meghan for a few precious hours. And yet the velvet rope is always in sight. Filming takes place not in Meghan’s actual house but in some sort of guest mansion adjoining her property, and if there are passing references to her husband and children, we never see them on screen. With Love, Meghan is trying to sell us on Meghan’s lifestyle without actually showing us any of it…the ‘banter’ between host and guests has all the spark of a dead battery on a frosty morning.”

[From The Daily Beast]

Again, I expected the negativity from the Mail, the Telegraph, the Mirror. I guess I didn’t expect it from the Guardian, Variety, Time Magazine, etc. That’s the good thing about Meghan’s promotional blitz this week though – she’s doing her own “flood the zone” campaign with positivity. One way or the other, people are going to have opinions about her and they’re definitely going to watch WLM. I’m getting a similar vibe to Archetypes too – as in, there’s a learning curve and Meghan is still figuring out what works within the show. Archetypes had a steep improvement the further people got within the pod, and I suspect that if Netflix greenlights a second WLM season – which they should do – Meghan will make some adjustments here and there, as she did on Archetypes.

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154 Responses to “It feels like ‘With Love, Meghan’ is being purposefully review-bombed”

  1. C-Shell says:

    Eh. They did the same thing with “Polo,” and their echo chamber continues to recite their own bad reviews as proof it was a failure. I loved “Polo,” too, so 🤷‍♀️. In their zeal to hate and comment on every second of WLM, they are racking up big viewership numbers for her, and that’s what Netflix cares about.

    • Hypocrisy says:

      Even if it is in non British publications it all leads back to the British tabloids and the BRF.. nastiness has no limits with that family and it shows.
      I love both Polo and With Love, Meghan and I believe there are a lot more of us than there are haters.. she’s in the top ten worldwide in 24 hours. Way to go Meghan!

      • Megan says:

        Oh course the guests on the show like her, that’s why they agreed to appear. Were the reviewers expecting Meghan to invite Jan Moir and Ingrid Seward around for tea?

    • 2131Jan says:

      Let’s face it: with Meghan, there are always going to be those who want to tear them down, just “because”….because they like the “power”, because they feel stepping on someone else will raise themselves “higher”…. I tune them out. Personally, as a big fan of The Tig from when it started, I was always hoping for it to be in this kind of forum/show. #GoWithLoveMeghan !!

      Here’s the Netflix website, Tudum, that has the recipes for each episode:

      https://www.netflix.com/tudum/articles/with-love-meghan-season-1-recipes-crafts?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZAkUWUtiBcyfd_yjAqXJDNxMgxm_WytY1kxnIiS49YrZHD8yv6jqTe9Tg_aem_9Mi_ErzvrG8XbJhENE_9HQ

      I was hoping for this! Can’t wait to try some of these recipes!

      • Eurydice says:

        Sadly, it’s not all the recipes – the spaghetti dish isn’t there. But it’s pretty easy to figure out from the episode and there a lot of other content.

      • NotSoSocialB says:

        @Eurydice,

        I made that spaghetti after watching the first episode. While I forgot the red pepper flakes, it was very tasty- so much so that I’m eating it for breakfast today (made with barilla protein plus pasta).

        I’m not a big fan of this type of program, but I am a big fan of finding new and yummy recipes, so I’m in!!

      • Dainty Daisy says:

        @Megan, “Were the reviewers expecting Meghan to invite Jan Moir and Ingrid Seward around for tea?”.
        You made me spill my tea! 🤭 Meredith Constant (Substack/YouTube) does a killer impersonation of Jan Moir, so anytime i read that name or see her face, i chuckle.

  2. Lia says:

    I refused to read the British media reviews, as I imagine they are pissed that she didn’t mention the Royal Family at all, thus not giving them endless space for bashing her.
    I hate the unnecessarily snarky tone of the Variety review but, while I liked the show, some of the criticism in the article rings true. I am not a fan of cooking shows but I watched it out of support and mainly found it to be the light, joyful content it sets out to be. I mostly enjoyed the parts about hosting, gardening and Meghan being game about learning from other chefs. Some interactions felt stilted but I do believe that comes from a place of this being a very first for her. I definitely wouldn’t be able to improvise in front of the camera to make conversations with strangers sound natural while also cooking and just because she used to be an actress doesn’t mean that she is either, as scripted and unscripted content differs, I figure.
    She is warm, earnerst and engaging which is what matters at the end of the day to make a good product. Just like with the podcast I am sure she is going to progressively improve and become more confident in this kind of format.

    • Blogger says:

      She has a natural curiosity in her which makes it a character strength. She’s not Christiane Amanpour but she has the ability to consistently engage in small talk which is a sign of soft power. I’m sure she’s more charismatic in real life but after years of media abuse I’d be wary too.

      • Lia says:

        I agree and that transpired in the podcast progressively (which is why I am looking forward to the new one). I am sure she will become more comfortable and less stilted with unscripted convo with time.

      • DK says:

        I read the Guardian review before I watched an episode, saw it was full of typical Deranger talking points, and decided to immediately stream the show in support.

        I *really* wanted to disagree with The Guardian (and obviously I disagree with the scathing tone etc), but I must admit, I *did* find the first two eps (as far as I’ve gotten so far) boring.

        My pet peeve isn’t M and her guests complimenting each other (hello?! Have these critics not seen any other celebrity talk-ish shows? Name a single morning chat show, late night show, etc., in which the hosts and the guests aren’t super polite and complimentary with each other?!).

        It’s that they all kept just repeating what the other said – the bee keeper would say something and M would repeat it, or M would say something and her friend Daniel would say it back, etc.

        But that can be fixed by more judicious editing in the future – and in M. getting the hang of what she wants the show to be, which can take a moment, as @Lia points out.

        I think where the magic can happen is precisely in the curiosity you mention, @Blogger – these would be great opportunities for more “real” chats with the guests. I think Meghan is so good at making people feel comfortable and valued, so this show would absolutely shine if, while they are cooking/crafting/creating, she asks (or they exchange) deeper questions, more interesting questions – like, talk about something else, not JUST the craft at hand.

        Mindy started to get at an interesting topic when she was asking about Meghan realizing her life was going to be in Toronto as Suits got picked up for more and more eps., and I would have loved to see them follow that conversational wormhole or let it open up others.

        If Meghan and the guests agree to topics ahead of time, so they have safe boundaries for what is/not off-limits, etc. and can open up in that safety net (again, as any morning or late night chat show would do), this would really develop into a unique show that I think audiences would enjoy – and could become a destination for celebrities when promoting things, etc.

        I think she would really shine in that kind of role and I hope it gets another season to grow and develop into its potential.

    • windyriver says:

      Interesting, don’t recall feeling like anything was particularly stilted, especially since she’d never met Roy Choi, Alice Waters – and IIRC she’d only known Mindy for a couple of years, since she was on Archetypes. Will see what I think when I rewatch it after seeing other people’s comments. Agree she has a gift for small talk, an offshoot of her general knowledge, and her interest in other people and the world around her.

      The Roy Choi episode was different from the others, because it really was much more like a typical cooking show, and given the complexity of what he was doing, he pretty much had to be the driver of what went on. I thought Meghan did really well fitting in to his flow. Clearly the crew loved the episode, that food looked amazing. (Also great that Netflix has published so many recipes.)

      I was impressed when Alice Waters, a woman who helped ignite the farm to table movement, and who’s owned her own influential restaurant for 50 years, said she’d never seen an egg yolk that amazing color. What’s Meghan feeding those chickens?

      Finally, I’m curious who had the job of stocking that kitchen set. They had everything!

      • Lady Esther says:

        Egg yolks being super orange apparently come from being fed marigolds – it has nothing to do with whether or not they are free-range or other factors in raising and keeping them. I Googled it when I wanted to learn about my local eggs!

      • Bean says:

        I have chickens and they lay yolks that color depending what I’m feeding them (not marigolds). Red peppers yield the most beautiful yolks.

      • Bronco says:

        I’m always surprised when anyone expects more from the guardian. They may be left leaning but they have a massive blind spot with Meghan (colourblind maybe?). They’re as deranger as the tabs – they just don’t base 30% of their content on all things Sussex.

      • Kit says:

        Who owns these media and SM outlets? The same group of people who are taking orders from Trump and billionaires keen on becoming trillionaires. The ones who proclaim “woke” as causing civilization’s downfall.

        The Guardian always has a snobbish attitude toward Americans. It has taken in some American heavyweights like Robert Reich and Margaret Sullivan, but I find there’s a lot of Oxbridge petty bitchiness built in among its writers. Very classic upper class vibe despite pretending to be down with the working class. The wannabe to the mannor born tell.

        The Guardian lately has been pretty deferential toward the Crown, especially toward Will, Kate, and Charles. Somewhere, somehow, it’s been less republican and more status quo coverage. Lots of genuflecting going on.

    • Arizona says:

      for me personally, it’s a bit too Live Laugh Love, but that stuff is highly popular with a lot of people, so I expect the show to do well.

    • Leonie says:

      The Hollywood Reporter panned it this morning. So with both the HR and Variety trashing it, Meghan needs to find another outlet for her talents.

      • Jay says:

        Eh, both Variety and HR are owned by the same entity, which has been decidedly anti-Sussex. So I don’t think Meghan should quit just yet.

      • Dee(2) says:

        Lol is this snark? It’s a top 10 show in 20 countries. There wouldn’t be an entertainment industry if critical reviews were the only thing that mattered. People are watching it, even if they are hate watching. That’s all that matters from a production standpoint. The way the goal posts move for this woman I swear. People can’t even fake it anymore, they are legitimately upset she’s happy and wealthy. There’s nothing on this planet she could do which would be acceptable. Everything is suitable until she’s doing it.

      • Maxine Branch says:

        I think this is Meghan’s wheel house and at the end of the day this show will have massive viewing hours, critics be damned.

      • misssixer says:

        NO…She doesn’t!!! zeesh

      • misssixer says:

        that comment was meant for @leonie. Dont’ t know how it ended up here.
        Sorry, @jay, dee2, maxine

    • LadyE says:

      I read the Guardian article and got super angry at how ugly and unnecessarily rude it was. So, I also decided to watch it asap out of support. I’m watching it as I type, on episode 5. I have to be honest, it’s really not my thing and while I didn’t want to agree with the Guardian either, I think the criticisms (not tone) are pretty on point. Pretty bummed about it, tbh. I hope other people enjoy it, but yeah really not my thing

      • Jais says:

        Which criticisms did you find on point? Don’t be bummed though. It won’t be for everyone. From the comments here and the fact that it broke into the top 10, it seems like other people are enjoying it as you hope for😊

  3. It was a given that they were going to come for her show!! It’s what they do. They try to bring the biracial women down! Too bad it hasn’t been working . Where do I find the amount of people who watched this? I bet a large number have been watching. I enjoyed all the episodes some were a little slower than others but that’s to be expected. I hope for a season two!!!!

    • Ginger says:

      Yup. Everyone with 2 working brain cells knows that Meghan is the subject of an organized smear campaign. The hate towards her isn’t organic at all. For these outlets to have such strong and passionate feeling over a lifestyle/cooking show shows that they were going to hate it regardless because it’s Meghan. They also hate that her friends were praising her/saying how happy they are that she is happy. These friends have seen her at her lowest and are relived that she is in a good place. Why hate on that?

    • Dreamchild says:

      I hope her next season is holiday tips and treats! Love it

    • Carrie says:

      WOW…Just Jared has compiled ALL of the bad reviews into one article. I’ve been reading that site for about 20 years and I don’t think they’ve ever done this. SO weird and sus. With all the British people taking over newspaper and media jobs here, I’m thinking it has gone much further than that.

      • Bronco says:

        How you know is, most of these outlets don’t actually review lifestyle shows. There’s hundreds of them. They rarely get reviews.

      • misssixer says:

        That site has been neg to Meg for a while now. Started reading around the same time as you…stopped about 5 or so yrs ago. LG about 3 yrs ago. So no surprise there!

    • Maxine Branch says:

      I have watched all 8 episodes and absolutely loved them. Meghan has a natural ease with people and a natural curiosity. While the critics moan, groan and snark, she had a core group of folks globally who have followed her since The Tig and love her show as well. This show will do well because of the critics driving the numbers and her natural charisma. This is exactly what is needed right now something easy, breezy and beautiful to watch with a beautiful authentic host.

    • Becks1 says:

      I think its fine if people dont like it. Not everything is for everyone.

      But there is not doubt in my mind that this is being review-bombed. and I think its working against those reviews. I’ve seen a lot of social media comments that are like “why does all the media hate Meghan? This is a perfect comfort show” or something along those lines. the hate just keeps working against the haters.

      • Dee(2) says:

        I think it’s not working because one it’s ridiculously over the top, they’re acting like she told people to tune in so that they could watch her turn lead to gold. But also because people realize that other shows within this genre exists that one don’t get specialized reviews from these organizations, and when they do they do not receive the vitriol that everything that she does gets.

        I have my quibbles with the show, I joked with my friend last night that I’m going to take a shot every time she says crudite, but it was all love. I’m not judging everything she does for perfection and parsing every word and eyebrow raise and musical choice.

  4. Twinkles says:

    Yesterday Times UK had at least 4 mean spirited reviews of With Love with hundreds of horrible comments after each article. I am on episode 4, and really enjoying her show. She has solid cooking and entertaining advice, and she’s witty.

  5. ThatGirlThere says:

    It’s interesting to see Meghan criticized for sharing about herself, her life, HER story on her Netflix show, when other TV cooking/lifestyle hosts share bits about their lives as well. Maybe she’s trying to take control of the narrative and show her authentic self, after years of being misrepresented and maligned by the British press and others.

    It would seem that it’s easier for the press to diss a Black woman than it is to hold a rabid puppet president and boot kickers accountable and his.

  6. Polo says:

    Just want to point out that Mindy and Tyler Perry movies/shows have been widely criticized and have low rotten tomato scores.
    But Tyler’s last movie had his greatest streaming success on Netflix and Mindy’s current show is top 4 global.
    Critics will critic.
    Yes they are review bombing but Meghan’s doing a good job of providing counter programming like you said.

    Meghan’s show is currently top 6.

    • Jais says:

      That’s the thing at the end of the day. Are people watching it? They seem to be as far as I can tell?

      • Brassy Rebel says:

        I had to search on Netflix. I really expected it to be featured prominently at least for a few days. Not sure why that’s happening. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

  7. anna says:

    the insane thing is that there are a million cooking shows/lifestyle shows like this on netflix/hbo/hgtv etc and 99% never get a single review – whatever. it’s still in the top 10 everywhere.

    • Kel says:

      SPEAK!!
      I’m sure they expected some of this and I know those who hate her are thrilled to read any bad review but I glad she’s seeing lots of support.

    • Dee(2) says:

      That’s another thing I don’t get, why do they feel the need to review this? Netflix releases something just about every week, and I’ve never seen the Guardian review the Upshaws. Saying she’s not successful, saying everything’s a flop, saying she’s unpopular and irrelevant, and then every single thing she does you write an article about it. Has a TV show, article in every major newspaper in the country she doesn’t live in. Opens an Instagram account, article in every single major newspaper in a country she doesn’t live in. It’s ridiculous, they are covering her like she’s the President.

      • sunnyside up says:

        It was strange to see a review of this sort of program in the Guardian, it is meant to be a republication paper and generally ignores the Royal family.

    • Bronco says:

      I just wrote that above! They never get reviewed. Gee, I wonder why everyone’s on the M hate train 🙄🙄

  8. Jan says:

    As Jay Z said, man lies, numbers don’t.
    Meghan was in NYC, meeting up with tig followers, Netflix threw a watch party for them, to say they had a blast would be an understatement.

    • Blogger says:

      Exactly. Her Instagram following is phenomenal. I hope that Meghan continues to listen to the groundswell of support for her as opposed to the gatekeepers in the media who’ve been bypassed.

    • Oh_Hey says:

      Guys – we know what this is especially in the age of media outlets appeasing conservatives. Let’s be real. When’s the last time these folks reviewed barefoot Contessa or Nigella Lawson. Have you seen Lawson’s Vietnamese spring roll episode??? It’s the stuff of legend and Meghan is heads above that.

      • Eurydice says:

        Omg, those spring rolls were embarrassing. Even the young woman who was helping her looked at them like “Seriously?’

  9. Tina says:

    Honestly who cares. What matters is viewing numbers and the fact that it’s in the Top 10 in many countries after 24 hours is huge. So far I’ve seen top 10 in uk, us, Canada, South Africa, Ireland, Germany, Netherlands, Sri Lanka etc. I’m sure I’ll see more as the day goes on. Most regular people online I’ve seen have posted positive reviews. I enjoyed it even though this usually isn’t the type of show I watch. I’ll rewatch it again for sure.

    • Meredith says:

      I think what interests Netflix is how many people watch all 8 episodes, not how many watch 1, so it has to be good enough to sustain interest by their metrics to get renewed. I haven’t had time to watch it yet, and I don’t watch any cooking shows so it’s not high on my list because it’s just not my thing. But I hope people who do like these kinds of shows love hers, because she’s clearly put her whole heart in it.

    • Looty says:

      It gets better as it goes. The ladybug crostini!

  10. Dee(2) says:

    I do not understand this obsession with the show not being filmed in her house? Why is this such a ” thing” for people? And then for so many reviews to be upset Harry and the kids aren’t there, it seems like they are upset that she didn’t just film breakfast and bath time for them to gawk at.

    I don’t know if it’s just me but there is a certain nosiness in some of these reviews that seems to manifest in them saying that it’s fake because she didn’t get on camera and do a real housewives confessional. It’s not fake because somebody isn’t telling you all of their business. The comment from the Time review is particularly telling. It feels like they want struggle voyeurism from her and are upset she’s not breaking down on camera for their enjoyment.

    ETA- Yes it’s being review bombed I don’t even go to websites like IMDB and rotten tomatoes anymore and I used to love them because they have no user controls in place. This happens and has happened on any TV show, movie, any media action that highlights minority women.

    • Nic919 says:

      And Meghan confirms right at the beginning of the first episode that this isn’t her house. It’s not like she’s pretending it is.

    • Ginger says:

      If she filmed at her house they would complain that she is disturbing her children’s lives and that she is showing off. She will never win with these people. A lot of these types of shows are filmed elsewhere. Anyone with common sense knows that.

      • windyriver says:

        She was very clear in the People article about why she wasn’t filming in her house. But I guess that’s part of the point – People got the interview, these other outlets didn’t.

    • molly says:

      Tell me you don’t know how television works without telling me…

      Do they think a show with Netflix money about a person with Sussex money (and two small children!) is doing this in their OWN kitchen??

      And fine, some 20-something tiktok troll in Australia may not understand how American television gets made, but these global publications absolutely do.

    • Livia says:

      Good for her that it’s not! I don’t blame her for not wanting all of that negative energy in their home. The DM would be gleefully picking her house apart showing blurry stills with red arrows pointing at the most innocuous details. I wouldn’t want any of those vile royal correspondents seeing anything personal and precious

    • MrsCope says:

      The house complaint, and absence of her children/family continues to be a boundary people will not accept. The “adjacent mansion” snark is wild because how is this different from her being on a set. The adorable cottage she’s cooking in is a problem?? She cooks, hosts, lifestyles — how dare she, she travels internationally and has conversations about real topics affecting women and girls — how dare she, she exists — how dare she.

      • Jais says:

        That adorable cottage has freaking gorgeous mountain views. So well-chosen. Meghan has an eye for production value and details.

      • sunnyside up says:

        I don’t know what happens in the US but in British cooking shows it is not normal for the family of the chef to join in.

    • Elizabeth K. Mahon says:

      I don’t know of a single cooking show that was filmed in someone’s actual house. Almost all of them are filmed somewhere else.

      • Livia says:

        Nigella did in the early days, but that was probably 25 years ago now. So you’re right, these days no one does it, not even Nigella. It’s too disruptive with the crews, etc. And particularly in Meghan’s case, you don’t want to invite the dementors in

    • Becks1 says:

      The Pioneer woman literally has a separate house on her property where she films her show and does all her cookbook photography, etc. (in her very first cookbook you can see pictures of her real kitchen/house but after that its all at the lodge.) and then she uses it as a tourist attraction to boot lol.

      Meghan is using what is basically a set. There’s nothing nefarious about it but of course the press is going to twist it because THEY Want to see the inside of her house.

    • Magdalena says:

      A huge part of it is that the critics have NO access and thus no insider information, despite their stupid claims to have “sources close to Netflix” and “sources close to the Sussexes” or whichever organisation they happen to be working with – then the Sussexes announce something and their sources of course had zero idea.

      Another is that despite the British media and their supporters (and I include tabloid addicts in that) having driven her out, they are BIG MAD that she escaped, regained her life and is being fabulous and successful with her husband and children and they cannot claim to have had a part in that. They still like to gate-keep and they do believe that THEY should be the ones to determine whether she is successful or not. I recall that foot-faced woman Tominey claiming “that’s what a reputation is” after she had outlined that “reputation is, in part, crafted by the press”. They’re pissed that they no longer get to monetise her.

      And I also think that they are hoping that if they keep writing negatively about her, she will grace them with a personal interview to literally beg them to be nice to her, so that they can gloat. It burns them that she ignores them and has cut off their ability to profit from their illusion of “access”.

  11. Blogger says:

    At the end of the day, what do their reviews matter? People will watch it or not. The fact that she’s getting so many reviews over this shows her star power and the media hate it. They have to cover her because she brings clicks and eyeballs. They are “forced” to review her to make themselves relevant and the easiest way to do that is to be negative.

    She’s a Californian with a cooking show. Why should people outside California care about what she does? The fact that they do explains itself. They are obsessed with her like with Diana. The Irish Times didn’t need to cover her, but they do so they’re just joining the pile on because…let me check…the weather isn’t really that inviting in the British Isles and sunny California makes the envy personal.

    As for the Guardian, they haven’t opened the comments on their articles because they will get blasted over their coverage of her.

  12. Lady Esther says:

    It’s partly a PR issue, and partly a promotion issue (which is on Meghan IMO)

    2) The PR issue is that there is indeed an international cabal bent on destroying anything Meghan does (and by extension Harry, although they go lighter on him).

    I have noticed in my own career in PR how the British have taken over many high and medium-level positions of influence in many press outlets, consulting firms (which feed on each other), in companies, etc and this has an influential effect on what kinds of discourse are allowed and promoted. Most of all being that the British are intent on criticising American content (that’s why you get the same take from the Guardian as the Telegraph), because the one thing that the British hate above all is sincerity, and that’s something that most Americans (and especially Meghan) communicate above all else. I’ve worked with the British on both sides of the pond for more than 25 years. It’s not good, healthy or illuminating but scratch any publication, PR department in a major corporation or consulting firm and you’ll find Brits, who bring a very specific perspective that is then picked up everywhere internationally. It’s something I struggled with for years, unless you concentrate on national media with their own language, and that takes a lot of effort and money

    This is the main challenge for the new Chief Communications Officer for Meghan and Harry, and I hope she is up to it. The main thing is for Meghan to keep doing what she’s doing despite negative press, which leads me to

    2) I agree with Kaiser that it’s not about “tit for tat” responses for Harry and Meghan. I’ve said many times that communications success has some very basic steps. It’s about getting a positive narrative out there to counteract the negative. It’s about realizing that their “brand” such as it is needs an organisational response, not a personal one that depends on them as individuals. Finally, they MUST be seen in Hollywood as willing to take their lumps while still promoting their work. I very much doubt that Gwyneth always got good press, or Martha Stewart but these women got out there and kept going to promote their business. Meghan has to do the same. Let it roll off her back and get out there! Do print press (like the People article), do late night telly, do podcasts like Kamala Harris did….then Hollywood will have your back.

    • Sarah says:

      Esther,
      It’s not only in PR. It’s the same in Academia. I’m French but mostly taught, researched & wrote abroad. I was respected in my field until I came to live in the UK. I eventually started to doubt myself until at a Conference in London where 1/3 of the members were American, I then realised it was the English modus operandi. (I’ve worked with Scots and they were
      different.) I’ve had people here criticising a conference of mine to realise 6 months later that 2 women who insulted me to my face actually stole my work and published what I had presented under their names, without crediting me.
      Englandcis a very sick society, a very cruel one. Americans are intrinsically kind, and aren’t ready for that. Meghan wasn’t.

      • Eurydice says:

        Yes, it’s the Tall Poppy Syndrome – all about knocking down anyone who is doing well.

      • Lady Esther says:

        I feel you Sarah and I’m very sorry for what you have endured, as the British hate the French almost as much as Americans. Unfortunately as we see now in the Washington Post, Wall St Journal for example, plus the Hollywood trade papers many press outlets from entertainment to “real journalism” are importing British voices and a large part of what Meghan is enduring is because of that change

        @Eurydice and it’s more than Tall Poppy syndrome, that makes it sound almost cute. It’s not. It’s the way the British actively destroy other cultures just to remain in their minds the ultimate Empire that gets to decide what everyone can and can not say politically and culturally. It’s as Sarah said, the British are a sick society, they MUST shit on others to feel better about themselves. Reams could be and have been written about their passive aggressive hatred of anyone that dares to be happy or – even worse! – sincere about being happy

    • Bronco says:

      I appreciate your thorough comment @lady Esther. One thing that needs to be said is Meghan especially (and Harry) have an orchestrated billion dollar hate campaign waged against them. There’s no ebb and flow. It’s a constant, orchestrated barrage. And whilst Brits might hate Americans, this isn’t that. It may feed into it, but it’s not the reason. They want Meghan vanished forever. I can’t think of anyone bar a president /prime minister who gets that much coverage. There’s no way to rationalise what’s happening to her because it’s never happened before.

      • Magdalena says:

        Thank you Bronco. This is a very pertinent point that keeps getting overlooked in all of the PR recommendations. They have been putting positive narratives out there with every single project they have worked on, but as you say, there IS a constant, orchestrated BILLION dollar, worldwide hate campaign being waged against them, especially Meghan. She, H and Archewell cannot be expected to act the way other people would while promoting their work precisely because this is unprecedented territory. When I look at how far they have come and how much they have accomplished since they left that nest of vipers, despite the hate campaign, I think that they are doing just fine, and will continue to move onward and upward.

  13. Flamingo says:

    I don’t think formal reviews are as impactful as the media would like you to believe. If people want to watch it they will. If they like it. You will see good word of mouth online through other platforms.

    Netflix knows the metrics to the Nth degree who is watching it. If she hits the right demographics. Hopefully we will get another season.

    I just started watching the first episode and it’s so pretty and lush. I am really enjoying it so far. I may even learn something. All I know is how to make dino nuggies, scrambled eggs and toast.

    • twoz says:

      I saw so many comments on Threads alone saying that they checked it out out of curiosity after the negative reviews and found themselves really enjoying it.

  14. Nic919 says:

    The reviews reveal more about the reviewer than the show. Because at the end of the day if you like Meghan you will like the show. If you hate Meghan, you won’t like the show.

    I have watched 4 episodes and I liked it better than polo, which I thought was good but not great. The show is more about Meghan’s interactions with her guests although she does know how to cook when you see the ease by which she does stuff.

    • Jais says:

      One of the complaints from variety was that Meghan’s proclamation of self-love for herself was an example of her self-absorption. I mean listen. That critique is kind of telling. There are more fair critiques sure but that one is pretty gross. Heaven forbid someone have self-love.

      • Blogger says:

        They prefer that she killed herself like Caroline Flack.

        She didn’t bend to their will, and for that Meghan remains triumphant.

      • Sarah says:

        Esther,
        It’s not only in PR. It’s the same in Academia. I’m French but mostly taught, researched & wrote abroad. I was respected in my field until I came to live in the UK. I eventually started to doubt myself until at a Conference in London where 1/3 of the members were American, I then realised it was the English modus operandi. (I’ve worked with Scots and they were
        different.) I’ve had people here criticising a conference of mine to realise 6 months later that 2 women who insulted me to my face actually stole my work and published what I had presented under their names, without crediting me.
        Englandcis a very sick society, a very cruel one. Americans are intrinsically kind, and aren’t ready for that. Meghan wasn’t.

    • nutella toast says:

      @nic919, I love Meghan. I’ve watched their documentary at least 8 times – sometimes while cooking actually, loved the Invictus doc, really, really LOVED the Netflix series that examined social justice heroes that they produced (OUTSTANDING). Not a huge fan of Polo (I genuinely tried). I desperately wanted to love this cooking show, but I don’t. I’m going to watch it all regardless so she gets the views because I really want her to succeed, but it hasn’t held my attention with the ease that I feel when she’s speaking in public forums, representing others in support of organizations or businesses – there is an ease and genuineness and expertise that pulls you in – she has a natural sense of authority and respect that always takes my breath away because it’s so unforced – it’s just who she is. Every time I find myself telling the BRF outloud that they screwed up and missed out on the best thing that ever happened to them. I expected to feel that on this series and I don’t (yet). I really hope it’s maybe just the first 3 episodes. Because I really, really want her to succeed.

  15. Khate’s Mourning Wig says:

    Mentioned on another thread that I canceled my subscription to The Guardian after seeing their reviews in the middle of the night. I was surprised by their negative coverage.

    Guess I better start leaving some reviews. I loved Martha Stewart when I was younger and always said I wanted to be the Black MS. There are plenty of us who love creating, cooking, and entertaining to find this to be charming and lovely. Happy to counter the negative reviews with my take.

    Another note – I didn’t binge the show because I wanted to savor it. I want to keep that sense of delight for as long as as possible. That’s a rarity for compulsive ol’ me!

    • Blogger says:

      I have a feeling the Windsors subscribe to the Guardian hence the need to appease their subscribers.

      I read a comment long ago about how the Guardian is really run by the black sheep from the upper crust / gentry so they pretend to be on the side of the working class when really they are there to support their classist system and ensure the boat is not rocked. Having a fully formed feminist American woman come in is a major threat to them. If a liberal newspaper was truly liberal, they’d have more positive coverage of a woman who is friends with Gloria Steinem, Amal Clooney etc; and warmly welcomed by the late Archbishop
      Tutu and the first black Vice President of Colombia.

      As is, they attack her as if their livelihood depended on it…which it probably is.

      • Khate’s Mourning Wig says:

        Ahh I didn’t know that. Thanks for the info. And you’re spot on about warmer coverage.

      • Lady Esther says:

        I disagree, I have subscribed to the Guardian for many years for two reasons:

        first, because of their participation in international journalist efforts to uncover illicit money and power, what used to be known and respected as investigative journalism – just a couple of examples off the top of my head, the Panama Papers, their partnerships with Pro Publica, the NY Times, etc. That is their quality writing, which I suspect they supplement with “articles for clicks” just like the NY Times: wellness, food, and “entertainment.” Girl’s gotta eat (the NYT article on WLM was very factual and boring, not critical at all)

        second, because they are the only major UK publication to do any reporting at all on the British Royal Family. They have a long history of publishing articles about the hidden money, the hidden jewels, the hidden efforts to exempt the BRF from UK legislation, the “spider memos” from Charles to UK government belying the lie that the BRF “has no real power,” and on and on and on. I applaud them for this and hope that eventually it will lead to real change in the British establishment, but I’m not holding my breath…

        The Guardian opinion columnists like Hyde et al are just piling on Meghan for clicks. Does anyone actually read her outside of London, or Zoe Williams, or know either from a hole in the ground? (Note how only the female journalists opine on Meghan…male journalists consider her beneath their level.) I don’t pay attention because it doesn’t impact at all on the serious reporting that the Guardian does, and no one that reads the Guardian gives two hoots in Hades for Meghan or the BRF, let’s be real

    • SarahCS says:

      Yeah I opened my app yesterday morning and saw two negative stories about it on there which I was surprised by. It’s frustrating as I appreciate their covereage on other topics but I may stop paying and go back to having ads if they’re intent on getting on this bandwaggon.

      • lily says:

        Went to youtube and it is full of videos calling her all kinds of names. Not just no name people but the GB News to and there is a channel popcorn planet who accusing her that she blocked them because she did not liked their videos about her, the guy who is doing the videos openly hates her and has all his infos about her from the british tabloids

    • Dreamchild says:

      I’m going to watch it so many times. I need those flower sprinkles. Lol. My great grand daughter is going to be one in April. I’m recreating her bday party tips. I’m going to leave it on when I sleep so she can get more views!

    • heygingersnaps says:

      I’ve said it before, the guardian is the same as the gutter press, they may try to pretend they are not but they willingly go after the Meghan hate money that’s why I don’t give them any clicks or buy their papers anymore.

  16. ariel says:

    The numbers don’t lie, and i bet With Love, Meghan is doing BIG numbers.
    I have not watched all of the episodes, kind of savoring. But it is such a lovely diversion.
    It is pleasant, funny, the music is fantastic. She has a wonderful rapport with her guests.
    There is a great range of super easy to move involved. She makes a brief statement to Mindy about how she likes high/low fashion, and the cooking and decorating shows that too.
    She uses store bought hummus, and notes some flowers came from the grocery store.

    Even a non- domestic person like me can love it.
    And maybe even consider trying a recipe or two. She makes it look easy.

    Generally, on social media, the Meg hate is just an easy way to find a racist. So, block and move on.

    The numbers of the show will be strong.
    And i am going to re-watch the crap out of it.

    We always knew they were racist, but the stupidity of the royal family, the absolute lack of critical thinking, and strategic planning understanding consequences, did the god that chose them to rule rob them of all of that?
    Because, morons.

    And i keep going back to what Harry said in the netflix doc- thinking of what his mother went through, and had to go through alone when she escaped the institution.
    He and Meg have each other, and a good circle of friends.

    And this is a hit show.

    Haters gonna hate.

    • Magdalena says:

      I see a lot of people saying that they are not rushing through the series because they want to savour it. That’s great. However, if you really want to help Meghan as people also say, then the best way is to keep streaming it, i.e., watch the entire series then watch it all over again, savouring it, as it were.

      The use of “savour” is strange to me, as Netflix is a streaming service. It’s not as though it won’t be there when you next want to see it – it’s not a slice of cake which gets smaller with each bite. 🙂 Watch it… then watch it again, and again, and again, the way people do with the Harry and Meghan series.

  17. Inge says:

    I’m especially surprised by the Guardian. 4 articles bashing the biracial duchess. And I’ve let them know that.

    I personally love the show and think it looks gorgeous.

    The salty ones are probably jealous that Meghan will never host them.

    • Blogger says:

      Happy to review bomb those four articles when they’re brave enough to open them for comments. 😏

      • PunkyMomma says:

        Yes, this. Four articles with no ability to comment. Very telling. As a daily reader of The Guardian, I’m disappointed.

    • Jais says:

      I’m not really surprised. Idk why but I’m just not? It’s a glossy lifestyle show meant to be a glossy lifestyle show. It’s very Cali beautiful. It’s not super self-deprecating.

  18. Tessa says:

    The comments sections with derangers keep on going with the usual name calling and insults. No matter what.

  19. Eurydice says:

    A million years from now they’ll do some documentary about how weird all this is. Other than having married Harry, there’s literally nothing controversial about Meghan. Literal murderers are getting better press than Meghan.

  20. Chantale says:

    That is why there was no promos before the show. They can say everything they want people saw it already. No deterrent! Now M Sussex can promote her products.

  21. Iheoma Nwakpadolu says:

    ‘Authentic self’ for any person with a dorp of African blood equals: loud, ghetto, gangster.. thank you Samuel L. Jackson and Kendrick Lamar. Racist unsecured persons will hate. It’s.now in their DNA. We move on to success, it’s un our DNA. Let them cry. Good job Meghan

  22. Lili says:

    I binged watched all the episodes whilst working, i will watch it again more slowly to get more info on the recipes. I deliberately didn’t read any posts even her people article as i wanted to watch with out any colour in either direction. I’m glad that it is easily accesible and i note i have 2 of the pots she used, I have to go back and learn to make foccacia i made it once when i went on a baking course. I appreciated the stildedness between her and some of her friends it made it more real because they weren’t acting and were not sure how to behave in some spot so looked to her for direction as they were aware of her history with the media post marriage to Harry. i loved the bits with the professional chefs and i hope she does more of that in the future seasons. i loved that she made plantain chips i make those as well. I imagine she will get some push back for not having more black friends on the show, but there is room in future seasons all in all it was quite international

  23. Bunny says:

    At this point British media hate is baked in the cake. They are so predictable and pathetic. I loved all 8 episodes and can’t wait to purchase her products.

  24. JEsi says:

    I read both the Variety and Guardian “reviews”. Not a single constructive criticism between those two. Horrible hatchet job, spewing old talking points about narcism, not relatable, last chance show to save their image, etc. It’s very disheartening, and makes me think Meghan could eradicate world hunger and they’ll still find a stick to beat her with.

    It’s a fun, beautiful and lighthearted show to enjoy. No one is asking anyone to emulate her life. Take parts of it that you can relate to and jog on- same with countless lifestyle and cooking shows. They expect so much from H&M and it’s honestly tiring to watch and read. I vacillitate between H&M giving them nothing- not a single outing, tour or interview of themselves and the kids to “Why shouldn’t they live their gorgeous lives?” It’ll serve the bloody press right to be stuck with the bland and sauceless Will & Kate.

  25. QuiteContrary says:

    We are living in an utter hellscape. I appreciate “With Love, Meghan” for offering us a reprieve from reality. And Meghan is the opposite of her critics — open-minded, nonjudgmental, adorably enthusiastic about her friendships and family.

    Critics who think they’re cool kids hate those qualities. They want bitterness and cynicism, not someone geeking out over ladybug crostini.

    Given the state of our union, I’ll take the flower sprinkles, thanks.

  26. K.W. says:

    The first reviews (US Weekly, etc.) were so positive, the onslaught of negativity was surprising. Especially from outlets like the Guardian.

  27. Laura says:

    Having said all that, I am still a fan of Meghan and am willing to see what else she can do. It is just a first season, so if some changes were made I would definetely watch a second season.

  28. Ula1010 says:

    I’ve only watched thru the 3rd episode so far, but I like how each guest has a different relationship with her before the show (non at all with Roy Choi). Its clear why she has a strong group of friends. She’s very sincere and loves taking care of people. It reminded me that there was once another version of myself who wasn’t so individualistic and isolated.

    I loved her interactions with Roy Choi. I hope those two stay in touch.

  29. Snuffles says:

    The underlying message of these reviews is clear: How dare she?

    • How dare she succeed? She was supposed to fail, to flop, to come crawling back.

    • How dare she make money? She wasn’t meant to thrive on her own.

    • How dare she love herself? When we’ve been telling the world she’s unlovable.

    • How dare her friends love her? When we’ve insisted she has none.

    • How dare she use the name Sussex? We don’t think she deserves the title, and we’re furious we can’t take it away.

    • How dare she not show her children? If we can’t see them, we can’t profit from them. We can’t compare them to the Wales children to push the idea of superiority.

    • How dare she say “my husband”? She was supposed to divorce him.

    • How dare she reclaim her own narrative? That was our job—until the day she died.

    • How dare she not show us her house? We were supposed to judge her, to measure her against the other royals.

    • How dare she not mention the royal family? Without that, what new stories do we have to write?

    The outrage isn’t about what she’s done—it’s about what she hasn’t allowed them to do.

    • JEsi says:

      Well said (written)!

      All of that and then some.

      The British Press and RF wants her to regret the day H&M decided to branch out their own and shun them. They detest them for it and cannot bring themselves to be objective in anything they do. They should continue dining on their charmless and workshy Will & Kate.

  30. sunny says:

    I don’t really get all the criticisms about the show. I mean, it is a little bland but you can offer that same critique of similar lifestyle content.

    I think it is beautiful to look at and Meghan seems kind, dorky and painfully earnest. I’ve only watched two episodes so far but I do think she comes off a little nervous(which seems natural to me because she is putting herself out there with this project). On the whole, the show does seem rough around the edges in some of the production pieces but I think that will improve with time.

    It is wild to me that she gets attacked so much for a sweet, little lifestyle show.

  31. Noor says:

    WLM is no 6 on netflix Top 10 shows, That’s the bottomline that counts.

    Hollywood media and other media repeated criticism that it is not authentic because it is not film in her house or her children and husband are not seen in the show is ridiculous and laughable.

  32. Chantale says:

    At the end of the day not doing promos before was a good thing. I really think some publications are mad that Netflix did not.give the access to review before the shownis dropped and they knew which publications to.give access. Thai looks like a win win situation to.me as the show is #1 in many countries.

  33. MikeB says:

    No surprise at the negative reviews from the UK tabloids and other media outlets. The writers and reviewers are incapable of making an objective analysis of the program. The Daily Express managed to churn out 30 separate stories using eleven different writers. These writers using their usual flair for words tells its readers that Meghan has been savaged, to rename the show, that its unbearable, its hit with brutal social media reaction, humiliated, she’s controlling, splashes out thousands on clothes (writer has no idea), makes a dig at RF, and sparks a furious backlash, all of which are in the minds of the writers.

  34. Sharon says:

    I think the show is delightful!! Where’s all the criticism for Ina Garten & other cooking & lifestyle shows, where they are cooking for friends also? Oh, they don’t get criticized, just Meghan when she does it too. Has everyone lost their minds?? It a very sweet show & she’s doing it on her terms. Keep calm & carry on!! The naysayers wanted her to share more personal stuff just so they could drag her even more. Also, since we don’t personally know her, how can they claim she’s “inauthentic”? What are you comparing her to since you don’t really know her at all.

  35. Aj says:

    TF? I’m enjoying this show!

  36. Caro says:

    The only time I ever read anything about Meghan is when I come here, and I’m only here for Hollywood and political stuff. The show popped up and I watched half an episode. It was… fine. Not my thing. Could be that a lot of reviewers don’t have the interest that people do here.

    • IdlesAtCranky says:

      @Caro:

      It’s fine that it’s not your thing.

      But contrary to all the press nonsense, I took a look at the response over on Bluesky. The vast majority of posts mentioning the show, and there were a lot, are positive.

      Also several positive press reviews, such as not just People Magazine but Ebony and others, which are not being mentioned here or in other press roundup.

      Lots of people love Meghan and enjoy the content she creates. It’s not just folks here.

    • Tessa says:

      The derangers are negative no matter what Meghan does.

    • alteya says:

      LOL, sure Jan.

      With Love, Meghan is Top 10 in 40+ countries, and you think the only people interested in Meghan are on this site?

  37. NoHope says:

    This happened to Katie Holmes when she did her directorial debut. I don’t think I’ve ever seen the NYT do a more dishonest review aimed to deliver a blow and not about the work.

    I think what happened is that her people are probably high-handed about interview parameters–Katie as a celebrity has A list cred. All her interviews give the vibe of the interviewer asking a list of questions prepared by her team or at least ones that are submitted in advance. And the NYT didn’t like having to agree to give this treatment to a debut artist. Who does she think she is, etc. The review was full of sneering derision.

    Some of the same dynamic is at play here. Oh a high and mighty and private royal person decides to do a show? How DARE they? I absolutely believe that outlets would inaccurately and unfairly shred Meghan’s show as a way to attack her.

  38. Jay says:

    This show was exactly as advertised and exactly what I needed after a long week (why yes, it IS only Wednesday, that’s how long it has felt).

    It’s the Nancy Meyers movie of cooking shows, with a gorgeous, unrealistically clean and white kitchen and a rich lady in beige knitwear with a soothing voice. I guess if you have never ever seen anything on HGTV, like ever, you might be confused, but in my opinion this series does exactly what it said on the box! It’s not supposed to be haute cuisine or personally revealing. It’s light, highly curated and slightly dorky, and that’s fine. It’s exactly what I expected and wanted!

    One thing that I like is Meghan’s interactions with her crew – you can see and hear the people who are making the show, and she’ll make them coffees or teas and share what she makes. I thought it was an interesting choice and the right one, it somehow makes it seem more comfortable, like you feel like you are getting a peek behind the curtain in a way. I remember Jamie Oliver did this in his first series, and Rick Stein always shows the crew eating what he makes and talking to them as well as the viewer.

  39. Kathryn says:

    Maybe it’s a little bland, but I find it a really nice respite from the oligarchy takeover of the US. Plus Meghan has a great voice for ASMR.
    PS – going to try making that skillet spaghetti

    • Lau says:

      I put it on in the background while working from home and honestly it’s fine. It’s utterly unproblematic so I’m really annoyed that people still find ways to make a fuss about it. If it’s not your thing, you can just decide to move along after one or two episodes and never think about it.
      So true about Meghan’s ASMR voice ! It’s very soothing … again I don’t see what is there to get mad about there.

  40. Fina says:

    If everyone who posts a positive comment here, leaves a five star review on rotten tomatoes, we could really improve her score.

  41. Gigi says:

    All I have to say about the article is please be careful abbreviating With love Meghan (WLM) because although innocent, it can have negative connotations related to the “Black Lives Matter” ie BLM movement. Maybe just stick with the full title.

  42. Melly Mel says:

    I’m baffled people are surprised even US outlets have joined in. The UK media has shown that there is money to be made, big money, if you peddle the idea Meghan is XYZ!!! You will get a crapton of engagement–both from fans and anti-fans.

    And here’s the thing, you can’t out PR a smear campaign against a woman. One that has been going on for years. That, unfortunately, is the insidious nature of misogyny. Let’s look at Kate. She was dubbed a Wisteria sister, Duchess Doolittle, and despite the sycophantic articles they run, many people still hate her. Women in the public eye are held to impossible standards. They can’t be too perfect or too imperfect.

    That’s before you get into whether she’s a WoC.

    Anyway, I loved the show. It was so delightful and as an American, MY GOD GIVE ME SOMETHING OTHER THAN DESPAIR!!! :sobs:

    • Kit says:

      Who owns these media and SM outlets? The same group of people who are taking orders from Trump and billionaires keen on becoming trillionaires. The ones who proclaim “woke” as causing civilization’s downfall.

      The Guardian always has a snobbish attitude toward Americans. It has taken in some American heavyweights like Robert Reich and Margaret Sullivan, but I find there’s a lot of Oxbridge petty bitchiness built in among its writers. Very classic upper class vibe despite pretending to be down with the working class. The wannabe to the mannor born tell.

      The Guardian lately has been pretty deferential toward the Crown, especially toward Will, Kate, and Charles. Somewhere, somehow, it’s been less republican and more status quo coverage. Lots of genuflecting going on.

    • Bliss says:

      Listen I had the choice of watching CNN and the constant whiplash of tarrifs but decided to watch Meghan’s show and then I read her newsletter. I genuinely feel more positive? lol
      I recognize that the world is crashing around us but I can’t take anymore despair. I need hope and joy and pretty things especially as right now there’s nothing I can do about Trump.

  43. GMH says:

    Bland and inauthentic are the latest catch words being “sincerely” used and spread by the derangers. Bland? All cooking shows are, so unless you want to trash the entire category, one should calm down and take the criticism for what it is worth…very little. The point of streaming platforms is so that onky interested audiences can choose to watch. Those who want something else have a plethora of choices. Again, the Netflix model is not based on traditional ratings. Otjerwise they would not carry Japanese dramas, true crime or any other niche programs.

  44. Tashiro says:

    I’ll check the show out this weekend. Those flower sprinkles 🙂

  45. sevenblue says:

    I consider taking the reviews seriously depending on the person. I don’t care about reviews on Meghan because of years-long traditional media and social media campaign against her. I had the same principle for Taylor Swift when she was the favorite piñata for the traditional media. Watch a few episodes and if it isn’t your thing, that is ok. I like looking at pretty things (but not making them myself 😂 ). I loved it so far. I don’t plan on reading snarky reviews.

  46. Colleen says:

    I finished the whole show yesterday. It’s just a nice, lovely show. She’s a dork just like the rest of us.

    It’s the soothing show I needed with everything going on *gestures widely*

  47. Amy says:

    People are allowed to not like the show even if they like Meghan. It doesn’t mean you’re part of some big conspiracy if her show isn’t your cup of tea.

    I like Meghan. I also find her really cringe in interviews and on this show. She’s just too earnest for a cynic like myself. I hope the show does well and she gets renewed, but honestly it’s just not for me.

  48. Over it says:

    Racist haters gone do racist hating . It would not matter if her show or anything she did was an A plus, these people would react the same way because they are soulless deeply insecure, unhappy, unhinged people. They have no joy in their lives and it kills them to see a black woman living so well and being loved and treated as a human being. It doesn’t matter if they write for the British media or the American media. Gutter rats exist in both countries we know this so we are not shocked by any of it . You can’t expect decent things from indecent people

  49. Dainty Daisy says:

    This was the same tactic used when the Harry& Meghan docu-series came out. Haters gonna hate, you’ve gotta shake it off.

  50. Mario says:

    I wondered the same thing, too. The reviews don’t match with what I saw. And I’ve gone back and rewatched parts that were specifically called out (nothing consistent, just various things people picked to show how “bad” the show is) and can’t figure it out and I’m pretty good and well known for being able to see other perspectives.

    I don’t know that it’s coordinated though, as Meghan-hate gets more clicks and engagement and everyone knows it. I’d also note that these types of shows aren’t normally reviewed by TV critics and, worse, non-TV critics and so things that are pretty normal for the lifestyle genre are seemingly perceived as huge, glaring flaws in this program, when they’re normal features, not bugs.

    But I think it was THE GUARDIAN (whom I generally like) that said the quiet part out loud, saying something like “Meghan needs to go back to spilling royal tea and featuring her husband” or the like. And I immediately thought: there it is, they can’t get over the fact that she’s denying them the oxygen they feel they deserve. She’s doing things on her own terms as her own person and not giving them endless gossip fodder or royal glam, and they absolutely can’t stand it. Grace of Monaco had to give up everything that she loved and made her her, to become a public commodity. The BRF (at least traditionally) trades away certain privacy and privileges and collaborates on a mutually beneficial narrative that embiggens them. Meghan and Harry don’t play that game and it makes folks so, so mad.

  51. Fastgran50 says:

    The most beautiful moment was the episode with her friend Vicky. She said that the Japanese believe that if something or someone is broken they can be fixed.Once they are healed they are more beautiful than before. It made MEeghan very teary also me, I felt it was so poignant because I think it applies to Meghan

    • Eurydice says:

      Yes, Kintsugi is the Japanese art of mending broken things. With pottery, they’ll accentuate the mended areas with gold paint. The object becomes beautiful again, but now in a different way that includes its experience.

  52. Slippers4life says:

    The Roy Choi episode was one of my favourites as well. I hope he gets his own show from that as well. I also loved the Delphi episode because she talked about her childhood playing with sticks and flowers because she didn’t grow up with toys or privilege. I would definitely say her biggest “strength” is her lifestyle ideas. Like when she leans into what the Tig was about. Your best girlfriend telling you the best places to go on a vacation; food and lifestyle ideas. Like easy lavender towels you can make. Would love to see more of that in season 2. It’s also already in Netflix’s top 10 so congratulations!

    • Chantale says:

      These are my two favorites among all delightful episodes. They need to release that soundtrack. It is soon good!

  53. Meredith says:

    2 things struck me about her explanation that it wasn’t filmed at her house (and to be clear, I think that’s fine and normal and I’d do the same)— 1) she said there were 80 people working during filming which seems wildly excessive?? I mean, Pioneer Woman did her show with her kids holding cameras during Covid (in a kitchen not in her real house); and 2) who is tending the garden at the not-her-house and does she have a similar garden she tends herself at home??

    • L4Frimaire says:

      The garden shots were her actual gardens I think. She said her home is her sanctuary and she is under no obligation to film in her private space, nor did she ever say she would. These critics wanted a reality show, so they could then self righteously say she’s exploiting her husband, kids, privacy ,etc. Also, they’re harping on her friends saying nice things to her. Whatever. It’s a fun pleasant wine spritzer of a show. There are some simple, very doable recipes and lifestyle tips in a gorgeous setting. Meanwhile it is in the top 10 Netflix programs globally. I honestly am curious what exactly they want from her. You can tell they want something with a harder edge but expecting it from this type of show doesn’t make any sense. I think these reviews are over invested considering the content. I hope it gets a second season because it is entertaining and light, and maybe she can expand it or mix it up if given that chance.

  54. 809Matriarch says:

    They did the same thing with the Harry and Meghan docuseries. Haters gonna hate.😐

    • Polo says:

      Omg I honestly forgot about that lol. They also did it with Spotify. Harry mentioned the trolling so I’m sure they were prepared.
      Anyone that’s been a longtime Meghan fan should not be surprised at this point. Anything she releases will be trashed as long as Kate is around to be sainted.
      The best fans and Meghan can do is just keep it moving for your own sanity. One day it will change just not today

  55. Maja says:

    Many in the ailing industry, not just those on the right, have now learnt that they can earn a lot of clicks and therefore a lot of money from their advertising sponsors with hateful and derogatory discussions about Prince Harry and Meghan. Some of the British newspapers now live almost exclusively from these disparaging articles about Meghan. Look how many clicks their other articles get. 25? 54? They get thousands of clicks with their hate articles about Meghan. The unscrupulous, cruel business of making money by stirring up hate and anger.

    • Maja says:

      And I particularly like the way she swirls the flower sprinkles over the plates – there’s so much playfulness and humour in it. Do you remember how she played with the little flap of the blue dress? I think the flower sprinkles are just as cheerful :)))❣️

  56. AR says:

    You must have come to the wrong place. Such slander will not pass here. Go back to the Daily Mail.,!

  57. blunt talker says:

    All I care about is seeing the joys in living everyday-Meghan’s show is her journey to the things that bring her joy for her kids, husband, friends, and her family-mother Doria-the UK media needs to find shows that reflect their racism, hatred, and downright disgusting behaviors-leave the Sussex family be-just move along to find the shows that reflect your morals and interests-this show is beautifully filmed and have a simple elegance to it-nothing over the top but enhancement of some common things in life-this time in the world is so stressful I need a getaway to something move calming and pretty to look at and gives me a chuckle or two-what JD Vance said about the UK whould have all the medias up in arms-he basically called them whiny asses who can’t fight-trying to take a commonwealth country from the Uk-Can’t help Ukraine with intelligence anymore-I think they have enough on their plates without worrying about an American cooking show-Mental those UK people.

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