Bruce Springsteen’s affair with a woman he met at the gym

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Last year, there was a story about how legendary rocker Bruce Springsteen, 60, was named as the other party in the divorce of a 45 year-old New Jersey housewife named Ann Kelly. Both Springsteen and Kelly, who works out at his gym, denied the affair. The National Enquirer had a follow-up story that claimed that Kelly was stalking Springsteen and that he wanted nothing to do with her. Springsteen has been married for almost 19 years to backup singer Patti Scialfa. They have three children together: Evan, 20, Jessica, 19, and Samuel, 16. (Note that those ages are just based on the year so any of those ages may technically be a few months premature.) Rumor had it that Springsteen hooked up with Scialfa when he was still married to Julianne Phillips. He was also thought to have had an affair with a 9/11 widow he met at a fundraiser. He denied that claim. Bruce’s wife Patti, the 9/11 widow, and this other woman Ann Kelly are all striking redheads.

Anyway there are new court papers in Kelly’s divorce that describe how the alleged romance with Springsteen developed. The two met at the gym, started going to lunch together, and Kelly was smitten with the rugged rock star. She was gifted tickets to sit in the front row while he performed and he supposedly sent her Valentine’s Day cards without signing them so her husband wouldn’t find out. From the details in The NY Post, there are no specific allegations of hotel hookups or sex, but he does claim it was a full affair and it sounds like there was plenty of romance there. Here are some highlights, with more at the source:

Arthur says Ann told him that Springsteen, 60, would stand at the end of her treadmill as she ran. It must have been a tempting vantage point for the “Thunder Road” singer because he once told Ann she had the “nicest ass” in the gym, Arthur says.

Workouts spilled into lunches at a nearby cafe, with Ann’s two daughters sometimes tagging along. The children got to know Springsteen so well that they called him “Bruce,” according to court records.

The wide-ranging chats Ann had with Springsteen got into politics. When the blue-collar hero and liberal icon learned that Ann was conservative, he gave her two books to read.

Being with Bruce brightened Ann’s day. She allegedly told Arthur’s mother several times that “it made her feel good that Bruce Springsteen was very interested in her,” the papers say.

The housewife allegedly conscripted her friends to be on Springsteen watch.

In 2006, one friend supposedly left a voice mail on Ann’s phone saying, “I got your message, and there were no Bruce sightings at the gym today…”

Springsteen seemed smitten — Arthur alleges in court papers that The Boss told Ann that he thought about her while he was on tour.

There were other signs, Arthur says. In 2007 and 2008, unsigned Valentine’s Day cards without stamps or postmarks showed up in the Kellys’ mailbox in West Long Branch.

Springsteen personally gave Ann front-row tickets to concert rehearsals on Sept. 24 and 25, 2007, for his “Magic Tour” shows at the Convention Hall in Asbury Park. Ann was so floored by The Boss’ crooning, she allegedly told Arthur’s mother, “It felt like Bruce Springsteen was singing to me.”

In 2008, Ann allegedly opted to be with Springsteen rather than her ailing husband. While Arthur had open-heart surgery in Cleveland, the singer joined her at a table at the Turning Point restaurant in Pier Village in Long Branch.

As part of the divorce settlement, Arthur took the adultery claim out of his petition and both parties agreed not to talk to the media. At her West Long Branch home last week, Ann declined to comment to The Post. In past divorce filings, she has denied a sexual relationship with Springsteen. However, during a deposition over the summer, she declined to answer any questions about the singer, court papers show.

The breaking point in the marriage allegedly came when Arthur told Ann a witness had spotted her kissing Springsteen in the parking lot of their gym. Arthur also claimed that the day before he filed for divorce, Ann admitted to him that her “relationship with Bruce Springsteen was inappropriate.”

[From The NY Post]

So did Springsteen cheat with this woman, was he just having an “emotional affair,” or was it an innocent friendship? It’s still possible that this woman became fixated on him and that he was just friendly with her, but I doubt it. Often in this type of case a man will deny everything and say the woman is crazy or that she was just a friend. Sometimes that’s true, but when married people are secretly meeting for lunch dates and and sending cards to each other it’s not like they’re just friends. That either leads to something more eventually or is pretty solid evidence that there’s already an affair.

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  1. Dorothy says:

    it would be more surprising if the blogs started finding husbands that DIDN’T cheat. Oh wait, then there would be nothing to talk about!

  2. SallyJay says:

    Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo tell me it’s not true, not Bruce ;-(

  3. crash2GO2 says:

    Once a cheater…

  4. Snarf says:

    Well, he’s a he so obviously he’s GUILTY.

  5. Whatever says:

    Yep, once a cheater, always a cheater. His wife was once his mistress. Marry a man who cheated and you can expect to get cheated on sooner or later. It just takes enough time and it will happen again. That’s why I just don’t get people who sleep with a married guy and then expect to make a faithful husband out of him. Delusional.

  6. Tess says:

    @Whatever:

    So true.

  7. Rosalee says:

    It may have been it may not have been, so what until a steady stream of busty has been porno stars come drifting out of the woodwork we have one kiss in a parking lot, at least she got more than a Chicken Wrap..lunch and tickets to a Springsteen show..and he is sexy as hell..

  8. Cinderella says:

    He probably hit it once or twice, but she wouldn’t go away.

  9. canadianchick says:

    Sighhh. Why can’t some men keep it in their pants? She sounds like such a groupie.

  10. Tuatara says:

    Probably true, but damn he is a hot 60 year old. Phoowwwrrr.

  11. Lynnie says:

    No. Please, no.

  12. Nicole says:

    Please don’t call Patti a backup singer, that makes her sound like a bimbo. She’s a member of the E Street Band just like the others and moreover she has recorded several solo albums and is a really good songwriter…!

  13. Marjalane says:

    Don’t see the attraction for him. It takes a pretty developed ego for a woman to think the man who was a cheat to woo her, isn’t going to do it again.

  14. meme says:

    he’s a goddamn rock and roll legend so who cares. that’s what rockers do.

  15. Tess says:

    @Meme

    He lost his status as a rocker when he began dabbling in politics.

    Then he became just another cheerleader for the nanny state, something no outlaw rocker would ever promote.

  16. meme says:

    @tess, yeah, i agree. i hate it when bruce starts with the preaching politics crap but he’s still a rock and roll legend and he’s still made some amazing music. i gotta give him a pass on the politics thing.

  17. Solveig says:

    I’m a fan of him since I was 6 (my big sister listened to him everyday of my childhood) and I’ve always thought that he is a honest man… if this story is true I won’t get into desperation – I’m not a looney and I’ll never will – I’ll be a fan anyhow but something probably is missed.

  18. Schnauzers!!!!! says:

    His venture into politico pushed a lot of his fanbase away. Sad.
    Whether or not he had an affiar is between him and his wife, and she seems like a woman who would do some ginsu brand chopping if he did that to her. 😉

  19. Leticia says:

    @Tess,

    Completely agree with you.

  20. gg says:

    Shame on him !! He’s just another serial cheater.

  21. Rosalee says:

    How can you lose status based on your political stand? Sure when it’s not going with your belief system then he lost crediblity – Stringsteen is a Rocker with a capital R..get over yourselves..don’t Americans have freedom of speech? Are you not allowed to voice your opinion? or is it only when they agree with you?

  22. ceenitall says:

    Soooooo because we like Bruce and he is a “Rock Star” it’s okay for him to cheat.

    Yea, I don’t think so!

  23. Tess says:

    Dear Rosalee,

    You miss the point. A rocker is an outlaw. His power is linked to his individualism and masculinity. A rocker credo would be: live and let live, or, as the NH state motto reads: “Live free or die.”

    Completely incompatible with the nanny state mentality that seeks to regulate everything in sight.

  24. Guest says:

    I love how outraged some of you are. There is not a man in Hollywood who has not or is not cheating. Don’t know why anyone would be surprised. But at least it gives us poor slobs something to talk about.

  25. Diva says:

    Wow… so, a rock star that has been around awhile gets a pass, even though, as I recall, it wasn’t “rumor and speculation” that his relationship with Scialfa started well before his marriage to Phillips ended, and he has basically done the same thing as Woods and James, only with MAYBE a higher quality, more discreet subsection of whore?

    Btw, “just an emotional affair”, huh? Ever been JUST the wife of a guy having JUST an emotional affair? I can tell you, the fact that emotions were involved sometimes hurts more than the whole screwing part.

  26. clare says:

    He’d better hire extra security to keep an eye out for this lady, so Patty doesn’t come home one day and find a rabbit cooking in the stewpot.

  27. Sincerity says:

    Who in their “right mind” wouldn’t want to have lunch with Bruce Springsteen?

    Why would Ann Kelly discuss him with her mother-in-law, if they were actually having an affair?

    Bruce had lunch with Ann Kelly and her daughters for Christ sake! I wouldn’t exactly call this an affair because there is no indication that a sexual rendezvous occurred. It’s not unusual for married people to make friends with people of the opposite sex. I know several married people who do have many friends of the opposite sex and they are very faithful to their spouses. Ann Kelly was obviously having problems with her marriage before she meet Bruce Springsteen. A caring, concerned wife would have tried to be at her ailing husband’s bedside as much as possible. I don’t blame her husband for divorcing her because her obsession with Bruce Springsteen only confirmed what he already knew in his heart.

  28. bb says:

    I’ve heard that Bruce and Patti have an open marriage.

  29. Alex says:

    Wasn’t he married to that actress on Sisters when he hooked up with Patti, just asking?

  30. jover says:

    By comparison try to imagine Jimi Hendrix sucking up to some Dem politico back in the day – it wouldn’t have happened. Springsteen is just a well fed member of the status quo sating his ego by sucking up to professional politicos like Obama. Nothing counter-culture with that.

  31. NunyaBiz says:

    Jover: Brilliantly put.
    And I would rather dig up Hendrix and ride him than this pansey ass douche’ drinker.

  32. snappyfish says:

    Bruce was married to Julianne Phillips when he started his affair with a member of his band. Patti was actually pregnant with their first child prior to their marriage and possibly while he was still married to Phillips albeit while their divorce was in progress.

    You can’t be surprised when a man with a cheating past goes back to those ways. I love vintage Springsteen. I actually think his two first albums are amazing. Literally Symphonic in some instances New York Street Serenade for an example.

    But this is OLD news. This came out last year when Ann Kelly’s husband tried to name Springsteen as culpable in their divorce. Alienation of affection or some such crap to open Springsteen up to a civil lawsuit by Mr. Kelly.

    Sad thing is…if you don’t want to be with your spouse anymore, just say so, then you are free to do what you wish. All this having the cake and eating it too, is just a bit sordid.

    and tiresome at this point.

  33. Scarlet Vixen says:

    His wife is a member of his band, and therefore up on stage with him when he performs. So, why would he give his alleged girlfriend front-row seats? I can buy that he gave a friend and work-out buddy tickets, but that seems just too stupid to have your g/f in the front row with your long-time wife literally singing into the microphone with you…

  34. oh hey says:

    I really find the comments that diss Bruce because of his political leanings a little suspect. I guess if he’s “sucking up” the a Repub politico, you be saying how impressed you are about how he follows politics and bandy the word “patriot” around.

    Rock and Roll is a stolen art form.

  35. mags says:

    haha “live free or die” as some rock ‘n roll credo? that’s just people who believe they are entitled to all the benefits of a secure government without footing the bill.
    most rockers are in the biz b/c they wanna get laid and/or rich. not b/c of some lofty “rugged individualism”. i do think it’s funny that you think he should be an individual just like everyone else…but none of this has anything to do with the actual article….aiesh. sometimes i don’t think i can move back to america. the stupidity makes me want to vomit.

  36. Persistent Cat says:

    Springsteen stands above everyone else. His lyrics and music are superb and I don’t care if he’s political. Obviously he’s not of the same political leaning as some of the quoters, hence the dislike.

    He cheated on his first wife years ago but I’m not going to judge that. That happens. If you’re not with the right person, so be it. He’s obviously with the right person in Patti and I’m sorry but it doesn’t sound like an affair. It sounds like she made more of it than there should’ve been and her husband flipped his shit.

    I love Bruce, more than anyone else (musically). And for 60, damn!

  37. jover says:

    To Hey: I should have added Repub politico too, and my criticism would have been the same had springsteen sucked up to repubs. What happened to talking truth to power – unless the power is a black lib/dem prez. It seems our artists have forgotten this.
    To Mags: Do your comments about rockers doing it for the chicks/money hold for springsteen or does he get a pass on this. If they hold then Springsteen is not only a cheat but a hypocrite since he’s slamming the right for the same thing he’s doing – running for the cash.
    To persistent cat: What have you been drinking springsteen doesn’t stand above it all. He signed an exclusive deal with Walmart because that’s where the money is. This is the same Walmart that libs (and some conservatives) rightly slam for a number of unsavory business practices. Not only did Bruce the Pure sign with Walmart he escaped any criticism for the deal. Why do you idolize this fraud; he’s in it for the money and uses phony lib views to deflect any criticism. Sorry, Jimi for the win; Jimi wouldn’t have been seen in the presence of ANY politico period – and Jimi’s music will long outlast the Fraud – I mean the boss.

  38. baj says:

    i hope it’s not true, but seeing him 3 times during the most recent 2 tours: no wedding ring (atypical for him) and no Patti at all of the shows. and he’s just toured his a$$ off for a 30 year old, let alone a 60 year old with 3 teens at home. i had as much of an uh-oh feeling as i did when i heard the lyrics of Tunnel of Love (the prequel to his break up with Julianne). i love him, but he’s human– although i have to admit i’d had a place for “saint bruce” on a shelf in my house for many years. say it ain’t so . . .

  39. Lisa says:

    Ok, regarding cheating men………..tell us something we don’t know!!!
    Thanks!