Here is Radar’s second exclusive audio tape of Mel Gibson ranting like a f-cking madman to Oksana. Believe it or not, this one is worse and very, very, VERY NSFW. Mel admits at one point that he hit her because she “deserved it” but honestly, I couldn’t listen to the whole thing, it upset me too much. Mel is screaming with blind rage, talking a mile a minute, out of breath because he’s huffing and puffing so much. I had to cut it out when Mel started ranting about the Jacuzzi. Here’s a print sample of some of the awful things he says to her:
“You should just f-cking smile and blow me, ‘cause I deserve it.”
“You have no f-cking soul.”
“You need a f*cking bat in the side of the head. Alright, how about that?”
“Threaten ya? I’ll put you in a f *ckin rose garden you c*nt! You understand that? Because I’m capable of it. You understand that?”
“I left my wife, because we have no spiritual common ground. You and I have none! You won’t even f-cking try.”
Oksana: “You need medication.”
Mel – “WHAT!? WHAT!? I NEEEED A WOMAN! Not a little girl with a f-cking dysfunctional c-nt!”Oksana: What kind of a man is that? Hitting a woman when she’s holding a child in her hands? Breaking her teeth twice in the face! What kind of man is that?
Mel: Oh, you’re all angry now! You know what, you f* cking deserved it!“You don’t have any f*ucking friends except me, and you treat me like shi*! So that’s why I’m so f’ing angry, because I don’t have any friends! And I try and make one from you and you treat me like sh-t and you f-cking used me!”
[From Radar]
Ugh. And Mel is just panting through the whole thing. Is it strange that I think he’s getting turned on the more he screams at her? Like it’s foreplay to verbally abuse her. Disgusting.
Ugh. He’s toast.
let me guess
rehab in 4 3 2 1…..
then post rehab interview with big name
ugh
Run Oksana Run!
He WILL kill you if you don’t get out!
Mel has totally gone off the rails. Good Lord. He needs help!
I’ve seen other people say this as well, but in listening to these tapes and reading the transcripts, I can’t help but wonder what he inflicted upon his wife. She was with him a long time. Chances are he’s been acting this way for years. You don’t just suddenly transform into an abusive brute overnight. Both Robyn and Oksana are very lucky to be rid of him!
He’s beyond the douchetastic pig I thought he was, he’s a downright nightmare.
He sounds like a crackhead. He is frightening and I am glad to know what kind of man he really is. I feel sorry for Oksana and I wish her well.
it’s like my X when he was drunk… i had to record it too, just in case something happened to me and i needed proof. no one else knew the drunk side of my X and no one believed me when I tried to get out of that situation. he would tell people i was paranoid or jealous and trying to make him “seem” like a bad guy. the more drunk and upset he got — the more turned on he got. after a night of violence he would either end it with sex or pass out and then wake up wanting to have sex. it’s so sick.
no one deserves that, gold digger or not.
I like when he said he left his wife because they had no spiritual common ground. How do u have a spiritual connection with a tyranical lunatic?
I wonder if he was this bad with his ex wife Robin?
“Is it strange that I think he’s getting turned on the more he screams at her? Like it’s foreplay to verbally abuse her. Disgusting.”
no, it’s not strange. it’s accurate. for people like that – controlling, abusive, etc. – it does excite them. hence, the “I’ll burn the house down but you’ll blow me first” comment.
HOLY CRAP. I just listened to the first couple minutes of the tape and Jeebus he’s unhinged. he sounds like a madman, with his (virtual) growling at her. I’d fear for my life, too.
EDIT: one more thing…to those who say that Oksana provoked him?…doesn’t sound like she’s doing much provoking on this tape…he works himself in that type of frenzy.
wow, i couldn’t listen to the whole thing either and actually found myself feeling bad for Oksana. This guy is obviously ill and with all his money and resources and available help out there, there is no excuse not to seek it. Scary and sad.
Why is he so out of breath? Is he on a treadmill?
there is nothing spiritual about this lunatic…nothing at all.
There is NO rehab anywhere that can help this guy. He is flat-out insane. I was in an abusive marriage and after listening to less than 2 minutes of this tape, I had a panic attack. It brings back my own nightmares and I can’t imagine what Robyn went through. Scary, scary stuff, this.
There is no excuse for him to speak this way, drunk or not, but Oksana surely does not help the situation at all by egging him on. Keep your mouth shut! He obviously cannot be reasoned with. Her little comments and defenses only make him angrier.
OMG I listened to the whole thing and it was just awful. However I have heard men talk like this in domestic situations but I feel confident that Oskana is truly a victim, not starting sh*t with Mel like other people claimed. Mel was mad at her because she left his sorry ass after he hit her. He is a complete jerk. I am glad this came out. He is totally done and I don’t see how anyone could defend him. He also doesn’t sound that drunk. He sounds enraged so he knew exactly what he was saying and alcohol was not to blame.
Am not taking sides here even when I reject violence against women but I must confess that I am not totally blaming Mel in this instance. This relationship is troubled and they are both culpable. See this quote from Mel-“And I try and make one from you and you treat me like shit and you fucking used me!”
This woman manipulated and got the worst from Mel and made it public. SAD! I am not a fan of Mel and will never be though. Wish them luck to sort themselves out. The lil kid deserves to grow in a peaceful atmosphere.
@jen: he’s exhausting himself by screaming and being angry.
he needs some rehab and therapy.
Yeah, he’s on a treadmill. The treadmill of a raging personality disorder.
If enough ever enough with this maniac?
I have chosen not to listen to any of his rants. Nor will I.
Gross-burn in hell, Mel. Hey it rhymes!
I’d like to urge you to NOT read the comments on Radar. They are disgusting.
I haven’t heard the audio, it says it’s unavailable, but I don’t think I want to. I’ve heard it all before. I just have no words. Damn you Mel for making me feel sorry for the Russian golddigger!
This man is in need of serious medication. Scary stuff on that audio.
Mel’s unintentionally funniest line:
“I left my wife because we had no common spiritual ground….you and I have none. You won’t even f*cking try.”
He sounds verrrry spiritual.
holy smokes, I don’t even have words. He is inhinged. I guarantee you that he’s drunk beyond belief with obvious emotional and mental problems. There’s not much worse you can get than a mean, miserable drunk – they live to try and bring everyone else into their misery. And I agree with Jazz, damn you Mel!
What happened to this man? Mel seems to have just gone over the edge the past few years. Something is seriously wrong with him and it goes beyond any substance abuse problem
i wonder if he treated his wife nice? you know, like on a pedestal? and then took it all out on a mistress?
i can’t bring myself to listen to it. reading it, is disturbing enough. barf.
I lost all my friends with my abusive ex. (His friends became my “friends”, so why would I need my old friends unless I was out being a whore?)
I feel anxious just reading that quote. Physically shaking.
The man ought to be in prison.
I am so embarrased for him. Such raw emotion on display. I don’t know if he is soul-less or yearning for something . . . more. He is definitely standing at the crossroads.
I don’t excuse his actions but these tapes are pure and simple REVENGE. She even tells him that he is going to PAY. Ah . . . a woman scorned. And he should pay.
Provoked or unprovoked. It’s good that she got away BUT because of the daughter this thing is going to rage on for 18+ years!!!!
“You should just f-cking smile and blow me, ‘cause I deserve it.”
Sounds like pillow talk to me 🙂
But seriously, Mel is insane in the membrane.
If you listen to the beginning of this recording and the other one, it sounds like Mel called Oksana and started to leave a message on her machine and then she picked up. So how could he not think that perhaps their conversation might be recorded by the answering machine that he was just talking to? He had to know that was a possibility. He must think that he’s too rich and famous for anything to happen to him even if the tapes were to be made public. He probably figured that after being forgiven for the whole Sugartits incident that his fans would forgive him for anything and he got even more careless.
What kind of person calls an ex just to mentally abuse them and threaten them for kicks?
I sorta know how Mel Feels. After getting married and having kids my friends have all drifted away. My wife pretty much just used me to get married and have children, she has no real feelings for me and basically treats me like crap. I would never hit her or go nuts like Mel though, I just found my own hobby and enjoy that and enjoy my children. But I do understand how he feels alone, because even if your children love you, you cant really lean on them when things dont go your way like you could lean on your wife if she actually cared for you.
I don’t think he’s getting turned on by losing it. He sounds desperate and emotionally unstable. And it shouldn’t be surprising that Oksana set him up but he fell for it hook, line and sinker.
Come on bitches i am just fooling `bout, just pillow talk that is all.!
I am Mad Max, officer Riggs ,Bravehart(sp) so i can do what ever i want.!
BTW you have sweat tits all of you bitches..!!lol
One word comes to my mind after listening to this: UNHINGED.
To all those who were trying to defend him when the last tape was released, there is simply no way anyone can defend, excuse or condone this man’s behavior anymore.
Say what you will about her motives, but Oksana (or no woman for that matter) does not deserve this.
Wow the audio is cuh-razy! His wife must have endured the worse violence from him. But she is keeping quiet.
What a douchebag
It doesn’t matter how many churches/cathedrals he builds. Nothing can redeem him now
This is just a tease. She must have a sex tape or tape of him in a rage. She will release them if he doesn’t pay up.
Isn’t this just a lawyer’s ploy?
Mel did not know he was being taped but she did. She is a monster.
Perhpas we should see the amount of money she cost Mel – plus his wife and kids.
She must be fantastic and great at the blow job.
He’s pissed because he realized he left his wife for a user who never loved him. But, regardless, control your emotions. It’s called adulthood.
AND…if he did in fact hit her, he should be punished as would anybody else.
*sidenote*- before the tape starts, we do not have access to hear what Oksana said, if anything, to set him off. I’d bet a silver dollar her “calmness” is just an act. Just my .02.
That was seriously disturbing. I feel physically sick after listening to that. If you haven’t listened to the recording, I would think twice about it. I am not accustomed to such abusive language. It is an assault just listening to this as a third party. He should be locked up. Robyn must have sighed a big sigh of relief when he left her because ‘the had no common spiritual ground’ – not of course, because he got his mistress pregnant.
Actually he sounds possessed. He is scarier than Linda Blair in the Exorcist.
I give her credit: she is incredibly sound and balanced during this horrific exchange. It’s almost too outrageous to be true. What a sick, sick man.
@a —
Been there. Done that. I really wish I could say that it was fun. Eleven years I’ll never get back. Why didn’t I leave? Well, I was told a restraining order meant death. Considering how I was treated, I’d no cause not to believe him. And it did almost come to that.
The sad thing was, no one else saw that side of him for almost a decade (some even later), so everyone thought I was the problem. I wasn’t perfect, but I wasn’t out of my mind when I went into that relationship.
I was when I came out of it, though.
I can totally see why Oksana taped him. No one believed me when I said I was abused.
She may be a gold-digger, or she might be the kind of girl who won’t settle for a man who isn’t successful. I really don’t know. Truthfully, I really don’t care.
I can honestly say that I’m glad that she & her child, and any other woman who got the courage to walk (including myself) are safe.
And anytime I start thinking life sucks, I count my blessings that I’m not in that “relationship” (that doesn’t seem proper, we didn’t relate at all), and I realize all I’ve to be grateful for now.
No one should take that, or be treated that way. No One.
Except Mel Gibson.
I just see a mean, mean drunk and drug addict. I kind of doubt he’d act like this if not under the influence of something for a looooong period of time (though it’s possible he has a mental disorder). I’m sure the relationship troubles are legit, and duh, of course she was using him all along (my opinion). But he could have simply left her at any time.
Mel, the big problem is you can’t perform any more
even virga doesn’t work for yo!
Seriously-reading the peoples comments on here that say “yes what he is saying is wrong, but she is ‘egging him on'”
COME ON! I don’t care if she spit in his face and is the biggest lowlife on the planet, no one deserves that kind of treatment. NO ONE.
Wow,i feel sorry for him..He is obviously ill..It seems it didnt happen overnight
Where was his wife Robin?Where were his sons?Why they didnt put efforts and convinced him to go to rehab? That is Why he ended up with this woman.It looks to me he was totally abandoned and lost.. She has no morals to public such an intimate stuff ..It was set up,people dont get manipulated..I m not giving up on Mel Gibson just yet..
@@@@ A and Mentok the Mind Taker-
Listening to these recordings reminded me of my boyfriend at the time. He is the greatest guy, but when he would drink, he became very angry and crazy. It almost felt like a sociopath had inhabited his body and brain.
He had a severe drinking problem,along with being bi-polar and coming from a broken family, his demons would come out as soon as the bottle did. We dated for two years and he was sober, when he started drinking again I told myself it would be fine, but the drinking and the tyrants escalated, until one night he lost it.
I don’t know too much about Oskana, but I do know that when someone is in a state such as Mel’s, anything you say enrages the person. They become sexually, mentally, and verbally abusive, and this leads to physical abuse. Mel clearly needs help and rehab, but at the end of the day, he can only get help for himself and if he really wants it. He can’t do it for his career, family, or whatever he has left, he can only get help on his own terms..that’s the thing I learned about addicts. They can only overcome this at their own discretion. Hearing Mel’s angry tapes only brings back hard and surreal memories.
I haven’t listened (no speakers where I’m at right now), so my question is…
Do we really know this is Mel on the tape? Could she have gotten a sound-alike to do this and counted on people believing her because of his drunken racist, stupid rant to the police 4 years ago?
Bright side: Mel’s ex wife has nothing in common with his form of spirituality.
Just curious if Oksana is *wondering* how this tape got released too?
Now that we know the real Mel we can dispose of him immediately. He’s lost his looks and his mind.
Hmm, what I THINK is that they should both get recorded without both of their knowledge, (hers included). I’d really like to hear what she has to REALLY say without knowing she’s being taped. Just sayin. Cause I know if any man talks to me like that, I’d be talking shit back too in my defense. I’m not saying she’s bad, but I’m sure she has a back bone and some good stuff to say back to him too, like if she doesn’t want to call him names and curse at him too. I know, I would, I’d be like…awgh hell no, don’t talk to me like that! lol All relationships aren’t perfect and when we get mad, I’m sure most of us GET MAD. Just sayin,lol…HOWEVER, the crap he told her is uncalled for. I know drunks say stupid things, most of the time is the TRUTH though and how they really feel. He shouldn’t act like his shit don’t stink and like she’s beneath him. Even IF she was a gold digger, I’m sure he knew wtf he was getting into, so it’s not all her fault. That’s what most guys in Hollywood do, leave their average jane wifeys for someone “hotter” or “more attractive” acting like the are “sooo in love” but really, there’s something in store and consequences in the end. I hope her and the baby is safe. He does sound like he seriously needs help though. Dude, I used to think he was soo nice! Well now, South Park is going to have some fun making fun of him again on their episodes,lol.
OK, here goes and crucify me if you want but I don’t think she was egging him on…once you deal with the abuse enough you tend to get numb when it is on the phone and yes you can sound really rational and calm…been there and done that so don’t tell me I don’t know what I am talking about. I don’t care what she did to him, he shouldn’t have treated her or talked to her like that!
Ok, for the ppl who’ve argued that she’s egging him on. The first thing he says is “stay on this phone,” and “listen to me or I will drive over there.” So, she must have hung up on him or tried to get away from him. It’s clear she’s not egging him on. He wants her to be a willing party to his abuse. So, that blows that theory out of the water.
After that, it’s just UGH–beyond sick. He sounds like he’s ready to physically attack her. I would be scared for my life if I was her. I think she recorded this to have evidence if something did happen to her. He had physically abused her already–who knows what else he is capable of? I bet this isn’t what she bargained for and it probably scared the living daylights out of her.
I wouldn’t wish this kind of thing on my worst enemy. NO ONE deserves that. And to the brave women here who got out, congratulations for leaving and surviving. Wish you the best in your lives.
Hepzibah, you should listen to the tape before you comment. It’s him – if it was in question his lawyers would have been all over it by now.
@ angelika – so it’s oksana’s fault? and robin’s fault, and mel’s children’s fault…everyone’s fault but his. he is responsible for his own actions. he is an adult who chose to drink, drive around drunk, cheat on his wife (which he had been doing for years, by the way), leave his family, and generally behave like an escapee from the mental hopsital.
JAIL THIS CRAZY ABUSIVE DRUNK, Please!! I am a little traumatized hearing any man go off like that. He sounds drunk, mentally ill, and possibly like he’s abusing methamphetamine or Adderall or something. It sounds like the mind of a crazed 12-year-old with a filthy vocabulary.
Please Oksana, get away from all contact with this man, and find a real relationship.
Mel – I have no words except get serious help now and stay away from other humans. You are in dire need of rehab.
Another shining example of how religion makes people ‘better people’. What a mouthpiece.
@Hepzibah —
No one on Gibson’s legal team has denied that this is him. They’ve been going after her for releasing the tapes and breaking confidentiality. They wouldn’t do that if it wasn’t him.
To OC — thanks for the good tidings! Right back at you!
If anyone hasn’t seen the South Park where Mel loses his mind — wow. It went from being disturbingly funny to just disturbing now.
I imagine Mel’s people could say this is snipped from a movie. It will be interesting to see how his reps respond.
he sounds very isolated and unhappy.. his comments about her using him…he has no friends and ‘tried to make her’ one.. sounds like he’s deeply depressed and this is not excusing these comments but.. yeah.
I think *she* is a psychopath. She is is methodical and has planned this taping stuff so well.. and i dunno. Not saying she deserves this, NO one does. But i do not side with her either.
Mel needs psychiatric help.
a, your personal story was so upsetting. I’m so glad for you that you got away from there.
Can combody upload it here I cant listen to it and after the first one I do not feel I should be ignorant about this one and share my opinion- though I doubt it would change much. But can you guys see if it’s possible to get it on here?
To #51: you cant script crazy sugar tits
The new Rihanna-Eminem song about an abusive relationship (“Love the Way you Lie”?) also has a line that threatens the woman being tied to the bed and the house burned down if she tries to leave again. It must be a common abuser’s threat.
@HotPockets
I had a stepfather very much like your former boyfriend. It had gotten so bad that the man even started waving a gun at everybody in the house when he really became “unhinged”. It stopped when, I, myself, as a teenager put my foot down, stormed out of our home and called the Sheriff. My mother was very “piss off” at me but she quickly got over it because the intervention by the sheriff, forced my stepfather to take a very hard look at himself and address his personal demons. When my stepfather was not drinking, he was one of the nicest people you would ever want to meet. He remarried several years ago and is getting along just fine. Furthermore, this was not the only experience I’ve had with troubled men. I was only a teenager and decided that “enough was enough” and handled my business by calling the law. Oksana is a “grown woman” who has a home that was given to her by another lover, if it became “so unbearable”, she had the option of leaving a household paid for by Mel Gibson and calling the law. She had options. Many of us who have no options, do what we have to do. Do I feel sorry for this woman? No, I do not because she placed a somewhat unstable person “between a rock and hard place” at a very crucial point in his life. She used her “conveniently” unplanned pregnancy to drive a wedge between him and his family in order to isolate him to further her “very selfish” agenda. She could have gotten off the Mel Gibson roller coaster anytime she got good and ready but she stayed because it was “convenient” for her to do so. No reasonably sane person would entertain a phone call from a drunk and/or abusive ex. She could of had his telephone number blocked and/or disconnected the telephone as well as installed a an “unlisted” telephone number in her name, if she really didn’t want to be so bothered. Give me a break! This woman is full of it!!!
Wow, he is so over. That was sickening. I can’t imagine him ever getting hired again.
I’m not going to listen to the tapes because the transcript is disturbing enough.
Obvious Gold-Digger or not, this shite is extreme.
OMG, taking the headline quote and it’s disturbingness out of context…… I can just see some guys mentally adding that to their quotable quotes file, I mean why wouldn’t you, it’s a bloody classic!
Mel Gibson’s so fucking clever, it’s such a shame he’s a emotional, mental and looks like a physical abuser too. Not to mention he’s managed to offend multiple groups of people on several levels and he’s probably mentally unhinged.
Abusive men will use ANY THREAT they think (or know) will work. What finally got me out of my situation was nearly losing my life next to my infant son’s crib. That, and the threat he’d take my son after he’d killed me (or had me killed – he liked to keep me guessing). And he didn’t even drink!
IT IS NEVER OK FOR SOMEONE WHO IS SUPPOSED TO LOVE YOU TO SPEAK TO YOU THAT WAY!!!
Egging him on? Are you serious?
She was trying to calm him down so he didn’t come over there and bash her face in.
Obviously, these remarks come from people who have never experienced abuse firsthand.
He needs more than rehab, although he also needs rehab. He needs intensive therapy, like inpatient therapy. He’s had some kind of mental breakdown and is definitely in need of an intervention.
To the girl above who said people say crazy things when they’re mad and you wouldn’t take it, you obviously have never been afraid for your life. I have, as have others on this site and believe me, your goal is to calm him down. Going off on him is only going to get you hit.
I can’t believe some of the people who are almost condoning this. He’ll kill her. If she’s alone with him and he’s mad enough, he’ll kill her. I kind of hope his wife comes forward about the abuse I’m sure she’s suffered.
the douchiest douche to ever have douched.
No one deserves that kind of abuse and threatening behavior.
Put him in jail already and let those other viril prisonners play along with him the same virile game he used to the mother of his child. Let him enjoy it when it is done to him.
He made me throw up ! He sounds like a wild animal on the loose, like those coward people who only act this way with weaker that them, those arrogant pricks who are about to kill you because they can’t even stand your mere presence on the surface of the world.
He needs to be neutralized ASAP and she needs to stay away from him by any means necessary.
But she seemed to have no problem leaving her baby with him for the few weeks she was famewhoring in Russia? They’re both dumb.
And I wouldn’t have let myself somehow get knocked up by a flaming a-hole. This trick does herself no favors. She never called her son’s father to let him know that the new man she’s screwing was threatening to kill her? Wasn’t she concerned for her son?
God, they’re both scum.
‘Is it strange that I think he’s getting turned on the more he screams at her? Like it’s foreplay to verbally abuse her. Disgusting.’
I so agree- I totally had that thought when I listened to the first tape. Hard to believe, but I found him almost pathetic in this one. To me he sounds like a wounded narcissist lashing out, rather than a sadist- which is where I was inclining before, with his control issues and all. Although I found it interesting how clear-headed he became when discussing the possibility of a restraining order… Thoughts anyone? Sadist or narcissist- anyone want to debate the Axis IIs?
And I’m sorry, but I still can’t feel sympathy for her. Maybe that’ll change as more info comes out but I doubt it; I really dislike gold diggers, female or male. (To all you brave, wonderful, empathetic survivors: she’s not like you, she’s a gold digger, a predator of sorts. It’s not like she was following her heart or even taking any sort of emotional risk in this relationship. She went into it thinking his well documented psychological vulnerabilities would make him an easy vic and it blew up in her face, big time. My take.)
angelika… there are no words….
“Do we really know this is Mel on the tape? Could she have gotten a sound-alike to do this and counted on people believing her because of his drunken racist, stupid rant to the police 4 years ago?”
You cannot be serious…..
@MissyA: I’m so sorry you were treated like that. 🙁 Hug.
Frightening.. I really wonder where he will go from here. Is it even remotely possible that he will acknowledge there is something seriously wrong with him and seek help? Or will alcohol be the scapegoat, I hope not because this is all him or mental illness.
It’s really shocking just how many of the commenters have experienced domestic violence.
@Sincerity My best friends ex-bofriend had a similar thing with alcohol. He was fine when he was sober, (maybe a little off but he kept it to himself), but one night we were drinking and he hit my friend so I stood up to him – he turned around, his eyes glazed over and I remember looking at him & thinking -What The Fuck- next thing he was strangling me on the floor. It took several blows to the head with a fire-extinguisher to get him off of me and it was a bloody mess afterwards,
(neighbours called the police thankfully). She’s still with him by the way. Some people just should NEVER touch alcohol, it’s hard for a reasonable person to ever imagine unless you’ve seen it for yourself!
@angelika
The absence of his kids or Robyn wasn’t what caused him to become this way. They’ve been there for him, travel with him, etc. Yes, Mel is clearly ill (Alcoholism, Bipolar, and who knows what else), but he’s dealing with the repercussions of his own choices and actions. I don’t believe Oksana is an angel, but no one deserves this kind of treatment.
He and Chris Brown should become good friends. And then they can take a small private plane on a trip together, which tragically goes down over the Pacific Ocean.
*Sigh* A girl can dream.
I am so disgusted by him; I almost want to throw out my copy of Disney’s Pocahontas. I don’t own any other films starring this douche, since he’s been on my a-hole list for years. But, man, this latest rant is just beyond intolerable… Even though I don’t have to see his face in that movie hearing the voice (trying to sing no less!) is bad enough. Damn you Mel for tainting my childhood memories!
Wow – I knew he was a little kooky but this has exposed a whole new scary side that is unbelievably evil. Here is a man who preaches Christianity and makes movies about it, then turns out the be a living demon! Funny how its usually the ones who preach and bible bash to others about religion, and it turns out that they are the most F#@ked up out of the lot!!
Mel’s fkn insane.
case closed.
he should get a criminal offense,
and she should recieve full custody.
death.
burning bed style.
basta.
fin.
🙁
I think *she* is a psychopath. She is is methodical and has planned this taping stuff so well.. and i dunno. Not saying she deserves this, NO one does. But i do not side with her either.
I agree with you anonymee, ANd she sounds very calculating and cold… when he said “you don’t care about me” he was crying out for her to tell him that she cared…didn’t happen, no warmth from her, a very cold and calculating b!t@h!!
The whole incident reminds me of O.J. Simpson and Nicole, remember the tape of her on the phone with 911, while he banging on the door calling her names and accusing her of dating, other men, after they had separated because he cheated on her yet again.
The anger and rage in his voice and the vile disgusting things said on this tape shows that Mel doesn’t even consider her as human but an object, and when your relationship gets to this point, yeah you better tape your conversations and leave word that if something happens to you, look at this person.
Did she involve herself in his marriage and help him break it up Yep she is a gold digging witch, but I bet Robin his ex did not cry over the OUT she was given by Mel when he got his gold digging girlfriend pregnant.
All that said no one deserves to put in a place of fear, by some one slinging death threats at you and ranting and raving like a looney on the phone, we all know that two rich men in Hollywood murdered their wives and got away with it.
Repulsive. That man is just vile.
Sincerity agree with you totally, Mel does need help I agree Many people out there have never dealt with a person being depressed.
I’m sure Mel will get help medication of course. Like sincerity I do believe she has had a part to play in this, How do we not now that the tapes have been altered. It seems to strange to me that she is so calm during this.
IF this case does go to the DA I can bet you anything he won’t do time.
Why?
They will if it goes further bring in evidence of his behavior and him getting help
Because Mel has a good legal team and $$$$$ and I can bet you guys anything they have dirt on Oksana. Secondly these are only words grant you disgusting, But I still have the gut feeling she has said/done something to wind him up. I can remember when he first appeared with her and saying in one of my first ever posts she would end up destroying Mel.
Another thing She was never terrified of him WHY? I again go to the fact where she sat for a 6 month period and along with Mel and his lawyers agreed on a 50/50 custody agreement.
If she did nothing about this alleged abuse then It goes to show her true colours. Does not give a damn about Lucia and only in it for the money
Debbie
Thoughts anyone? Sadist or narcissist
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder. It’s all about him. All of his statements somehow end up going back to him… how she makes him look, how he “deserves” certain things. He attempts to exert his dominance and ambition with no care for others around him. The feeling of entitlement and ego is so obvious in his statements. And NPD often goes hand in hand with substance abuse.
I believe this is the definition of insane.
Everyone who is defending him obviously has never been in an abusive relationship- lucky you. He sounds just like my step-father who was abusive to my mother and me. These people need little provocation to go apeshit. And even if she was gold-digging him, and that’s what he was pissed about, it doesn’t change the fact that he HIT HER WITH THEIR DAUGHTER IN HER ARMS. He admitted it in the tape. He is a piece of crap.
Mel needs serious intervention. It’s up to him to make the decision to seek help. Do it Mel for the sake of your baby daughter and the rest of your family. Your problems run much deeper than just alcoholism.
I do not blame Oksana for making these recordings, but I hope she will do the right thing by Lucia and cease the public humiliation of her father. Meanwhile, Radar Online continues to profit from the private miseries of celebrities.
To be perfectly frank, no one really knows just how much Oksana initially catered to his “wicked little control fantasies” in order to become his mistress. Honesty, everyone has their particular “kink” and many people seek out individuals willing enough to cater to their wildest sexual fantasies because they are entirely too ashamed to act out their fantasies with their spouses. It wouldn’t surprise me if she didn’t have a particular inclination for control/submission fantasies, herself. As far as we know, they may have taken turns and she was more than willing to comply for her own pleasure.
And if he was drugged? Which he sounds to be really drugged . Oksana has stategically placed comments. At the end she speaks about Mel getting his. That was her intention of taping him very clear.
The heavy breathing and what not.
That is not even bipolar. So if he was drugged?
Why so much hate for a gold digger? Seriously, I don’t get it. It doesn’t affect anyone, it’s not really immoral. No one hates on a man for going after an attractive blonde with huge breasts but let a woman go after a guy with money and suddenly she’s the devil’s scum who deserves no sympathy.
I really don’t understand it. And why is everyone an expert on her? How do you know she never contacted her other child’s father, etc?
And if she gets some of his money, what of it? It’s not your money, it’s not taxpayers money. So she’s a gold digger, it was his choice to have sex with her not cover up. What of it?
Yikes. I feel bad for his children. They are, I’m sure, hearing bits and pieces of this. Well, and of course it’s terrible if he acts/acted this way around them. Robyn must have put up with a lot over the years….
MISSYA I HAD THE SAME EXPERIENCE AND REACTION. THANK U FOR REMINDING ME IM NOT ALONE
i love you mel gibson
We were actually concerned for your safety, and it turns out you’re just trolling. Pathetic waste of space.
no i am not trolling mel need support i am worried he may read all yalls mean coment and comit suicide it will all of yall fault
Jesus, she has a lot of ammunition on him. She had better be careful and hire personal security. Mel is absolutely insanely mad. The first recording, I thought was just a man ranting. But this longer recording is just horrible.
It’s too late for him to have an intervention. He has been in rehab so many times and he obviously has a sense of entitlement. His ex, Robyn, should count her lucky stars. I can only imagine the rants she has had to put up with by not being ‘spiritually compatible’ with Mel, which translates to being his doormat. I’m betting that his view of women, based on his religious views, is medieval. Still, his choice of words is unacceptable. Based on his verbal abuse, he shouldn’t have custody of any of his children. If I were Robyn or Oksana, I’d tell him to shove it.
He actually sounds like a dangerous man. What the hell is it with his being ‘capable’ of getting rid of Oksana? She can easily get a restraining order and apply for full custody based on his rants.
To all the survivors of abuse on this site: I am so glad you got out. All the best to you.
I still have no sympathy for that conniving, manipulative, gold digger, she chose to have a child with a man she knew was a raving lunatic because he was rich. On that latest tape Mel sounds like a man having a mental breakdown I hope he gets help.
Some people act like once you are a golddigger you deserve this level of abusive behaviour from your man as a retaliation and payback….tell that to Nicole Simpson’s family, including her cildren.
It also began EXACTLY this way and went crescendo until it went to the worst final act because somewhre they were people who thought that well, she is a golddiger and probably exagerated her constant claims because she is after his money and she provoked him so whatever..
I like how some people accuse her for being too calm. And if she would scream back at him – same people would say: “Oh, she provoked him because she was screaming” 🙂
I can’t even imagine how scary it was for her to stand in front of him. It scares me to even listen to it. And imagine that this is how he threatened her all the time. And since most of the abusers are cowards who can hit only a woman – did you notice how he put his tail when she sad she will call police if he will come?
@lady who is married
I don’t think you’re a married woman. I don’t think you have much of a brain either or you do and assume we don’t. In any cas eyou are a discusting humanbeing for even attempting to defent such a vile and clearly revolting man. The fact that you say you love him is insane to me. You ‘love’ this man but youre a married woman pleeeeease, your definition of love is obtuse. I’m so sick of seeing you on here – this is an attack; mainly because I just managed to hear the audio and your proclaimation then explaination has enraged me. So many woman are left barren from these mens blows, physchologically scarred, some even kill themselves because they genuinely feel there is no way out for them – cases outside the west. So to hear someone constantly defend such a man is INFURIATING TO ME.
ALSO Mel is very much a tech-tard, so the chance of him being able to stumble upon celebitchy out of literally hundreds of other sites is remote. He’d have more chances of finding TMZ and those guys would slaughter him.
Sincerity: “It wouldn’t surprise me if she didn’t have a particular inclination for control/submission fantasies, herself. As far as we know, they may have taken turns and she was more than willing to comply for her own pleasure.”
If you are confusing BDSM with abuse you REALLY don’t know what you are talking about. They are completely different things. Even if she did let him tie her up and spank her that has *nothing* to do with the abuse he’s dishing out. Safe, Sane, Consensual is a BDSM mantra. These tapes have nothing to do with that.
And I’m stunned and shocked by how many people here take the route of ‘Poor widdle Mel, she used him, she’s a predator, she egged him on, blah blah’
He is responsible for his actions. He chose to step out on his wife, he was boning the hot chick and probably felt that Robyn deserved it for not being the person he wanted her to be. He appeared smugly at events with his new trophy. He probably didn’t want to use birth control – wouldn’t surprise me in the least. Fits his MO. And then when it turned out that actually, Oksana is a person, not a clay doll he could make into exactly what he wanted, he got angry because he ‘deserves’ someone who caters to his every whim and shores up his delusions.
Did she get with him because of the fame & money? Probably at least partially. Is she a predator? Like hell. I’ll bet he thought it was a pretty sweet deal until reality kicked in and it turned out he couldn’t make her into who he wanted her to be.
For the people going on about how she set up him taping him – if she hadn’t, would ANYONE believe the extend of the abuse? No. She needed proof to come out of this alive.
anon: “when he said “you don’t care about me” he was crying out for her to tell him that she cared…didn’t happen, no warmth from her”
Do you REALLY expect someone who has been physically abused and is at that very moment being verbally abused and threatened, to *comfort* their abuser? How messed up is that? Aww poor Mel, after he subjected her to another abusive threatening rant in which he said he’d come over to hurt her, he suddenly expects her to tell him that she cares about him?
Do her feelings even exist to him? I have to agree with the Narcisstic Personality Disorder idea. Is he bat-shit-nuts and does he deserve every ton of reality bricks that’s falling on his head now? Absobloodylutely.
@Anne De Vries: Awesome post.
All abuse isn’t verbal or physical. Emotional abuse can be worse because it can drive you crazy. GASLIGHTING
If a man does this, he is using a manipulative, cruel technique known as Gaslighting. Emotional abusers who partake in the horrific methods of Gaslighting have an agenda of which society may presently be unaware. (women can also gaslight)
The term “Gaslighting” was introduced to the public in an old movie entitled “The Gas Light” (1940) and its remake of the same title (1944). In these movies, a woman who receives a large inheritance is courted by and marries a man who has a secret agenda. He intends to drive her crazy in order to obtain the hefty estate she has. “Gaslighting” is so called due to the story unfolding with the husband routinely igniting the gas lamps in the loft of the house, which causes the other lamps in the house to dim. Upon question from the wife as to why the lamps were dimming, the good husband would tell her she was imagining things. In the movie, it is obvious the man knew he was driving his wife insane.
@Anne de Vries: Thank you, is all I can say.
@Sincerity: It really and sincerely deeply offends me that you say that “she had options” when it comes to leaving, etc. My mom, a survivor of domestic violence, never left. I have worked with other survivors who could never find a way to leave. And my mom wasn’t attached to her abuser’s money – because they had none, together or apart. So to insinuate that an abused woman could just pick up and walk away, as if it’s the easiest option in the world, is both insensitive and degrading, and indicates a sincere lack of knowledge concerning Intimate Partner Violence. Many DV survivors cannot leave – because they feel trapped, because they don’t have the self-esteem to think themselves worth of other options, and a myriad other reasons.
@Anne de Vries, great post.
@Anon, gaslighting? Really? That couldn’t be more ridiculous.
oh really? well i don’t think so. there are very cold calculating people out there with no heart…or soul…as mel put it, who have NO feelings for anyone but themselves and are very manipulative….did you hear her? so calm…that is not normal….she is totally disassociated from their phone conversation, especially the first one, he wasn’t reacting enough for her, so she said ‘fu@king’ to get him to start reacting….she is the phychopath!
“did you hear her? so calm…that is not normal….”
@ anon: do you think threatening to kill someone and bury them in the garden is normal? he could have just hung up the phone, but he didn’t, and he also screamed at her not to hang up. so who is the psychopath? and would you be “warm” to a man who punched you and threatened to kill you? if so you may want to seek help.
@ everyone: can we all please just ignore “a lady who is married?” it is obviously a troll and ignoring it is the only way to make it go away.
well if you really listened to the conversation instead of focusing on the screaming you would hear a man who was asking for love, but when dealing with a cold hearted bit@h who gives no emotional responses only broken record replys you would realize who the instigator of these outbursts would be
original kate, I’ll give you the same advice regarding “anon” that you gave regarding “a lady who is married”…
😉
it’s probably the same person, actually.
(silly me, how did I not know that “I’ll bury you in the rose garden…I’m capable of it” and “I’ll burn the f*cking house down, but you’ll blow me first” actually mean “I want you to love me.”)
@ angie: oooooh! it never occured to me they may be the same person! but you’re right, they probably are.
oh, and you forgot “you deserve a bat upside your head!” which actually means “you complete me.”
Mel is just insecure because he’s getting old and can’t deal with the fact she is/was only with him for his money. Mel once had it all; looks, wealth, control. He still has money but he just wants to be young and good looking again.
I can hear that through all his crazy rants
The whole thing sucks. I do think he actually wants her back, and is a very sick man. Suicidal? Maybe. The guy needs help. But my Mom always told me “Suicidal/Homicidal. very similar”
She being a golddigger has no relevance here. He needs help and she needs never to be near him again.
My Mom didn’t leave my Dad, out of fear, but was forever relieved when he finally left her before my birth. He abused her, my brother and sister. People knew. In the 50’s women really had no where to go.
Her lawyer even told her to let him file, he might’ve come back if she did.
I met him at 14 and heard one of his rants. I read his rants. They sounded like this. He never got help and was the same to other wives, children.
Robin is probably very relieved to be not his target anymore.
I hope he gets help. But more likely this will end bad. My Dad had a heart attack at 49.
A terrible relief to all but his youngest children, who somehow (like me) he didn’t abuse, or they were too young to remember.
I am glad Oksana hasn’t hidden, but she needs to protect herself now. And never accept another call. Get security, whatever she has to do.
The Mel from Braveheart is long gone. I hope he gets help and it works, but else he belongs in a cage.
While I agree he has an abuse problem, that gold-digging b***h set him up. She provoked him then turned on her recorder. He’s a human being just like the rest of us! What did she say or do before the recorder turned on? Quite a bit I’m sure. Ain’t no fury like a woman scorned! She’s just getting revenge and making a name for herself!
“you should just smile and BLOW ME”
greatest line in history, keep it up Mel !!
What’s not to love, Mel is successful, engaging and worth over a billion dollars!!! he’s a hard working fellow that just wants to be blown and this selfish piglet of a girl couldnt even be bothered to roust herself from her beauty sleep and blow her man the way he deserves. i support Mel here in his fight against snotty golddigging socialites