Emilia Clarke only realized recently that the world is still pretty sexist

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I like Emilia Clarke so much, but there isn’t a lot of interest in her these days, which kind of sucks! Honk if you like Emilia, peeps. She’s not controversial, she’s doesn’t go on and on about how awful it is that people think she’s beautiful, and she seems pretty well-adjusted overall. It probably helps that while she’s very pretty/adorable, most people can’t pick her out of a lineup because she wears that white-blonde wig on Game of Thrones. But Emilia, like so many of the GoT actors, is trying to break out. She’s got a new movie, Me Before You, and that’s why she’s been giving more interviews lately. She covers the new issue of Harper’s Bazaar UK, and while I liked her quotes, they aren’t that noteworthy.

On her feminism: “I’m normally surrounded by dudes. Doing ‘Me Before You’ meant I didn’t have to be continually proving myself in a man’s world, having to try and force people to listen to me. I’ve got a really strong mum. I was brought up thinking that men and women are equal. It’s only as I’ve got older that I’ve been like, ‘Mum! What the f–k? Why are they treating me differently because I’ve got a pair of t**s?’”

She’s not BFFs with coworkers: “Sometimes you get really close to someone but you know you won’t see each other after the movie is done — ‘red carpet buddies’. That can be a big thing to come up against, because you constantly have to check in with your friends at home. They’re all, ‘But you’re off living the dream,’ and I say, ‘No I’m not.’ Actually everyone else has got a life, and you have to put your life on hold to make a movie. If I sense that they’re starting to get a bit funny about [her success], I’ll be hugely honest. Call it First World Problems or Holly-problems. Or whatever. But I’ve fought them on it, and been like, ‘Oi. Nothing’s changed.’”

No one hits on her: “I don’t get hit on a lot. Last year I could have been wearing a sandwich board and ringing a bell and nobody would have noticed.”

[From The Evening Standard]

I think that might explain why she’s not buddy-buddy with the rest of the Game of Thrones cast, besides Jason Momoa. I mean, Jason and Emilia adore each other quite openly, but he’s not even on the show anymore. The rest of the cast seems to hang out a lot, especially Maisie Williams, Sophie Turner and Kit Harington. But Emilia’s like, “No, I’ve got my friends from home, I’m good.” As for Emilia only realizing as she gets older that she’s being treated differently because she’s a woman… it happens. I didn’t really understand ingrained sexism and the different ways men and women are treated until I got to my late teens and early 20s.

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Photos courtesy of Harper’s Bazaar UK.

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  1. Locke Lamora says:

    I didn’t either. I still don’t feel it in my day to day life to be honest.

  2. HH says:

    I can sympathize. I always acknowledged and understood the sexism, but internalized sexism was a HUGE eye opener for me only just a couple years ago. Slowly, but surely, you start becoming aware of how insidious it is.

  3. GoodNamesAllTaken says:

    I like her. Honk.

  4. kai says:

    I like her a lot! I also like what she says about friendships on set. I think that’s pretty smart of her to realize.

  5. bela says:

    Emilia and Rose Leslie are best friends.

  6. Lucy says:

    Honk for EC! Unpopular opinion, I actually enjoy her acting. As far as the friends-with-coworkers thing, she doesn’t really get to do many scenes with the rest of the leading cast, which might be why she’s not that close to them (which I don’t think it means she doesn’t get along with them, at all).

    • bela says:

      According to Sophie Kit is one of her best mates and (until this season) they had just one scene together in the pilot.

      • Locke Lamora says:

        See, I find that a bit weird. Sophie is 20 and Kit is 29, and when they started filming she was what, 14 and he was 23. It’s a bit weird to be best friends with someone that young.

      • bela says:

        I think it’s like working with an older brother.

      • Bridget says:

        They may not have had scenes together, but weren’t both Sophie and Kit both based out of Ireland for part of the filming? Whereas Emilia’s have been filmed in an entirely different country. Though I think Emilia is also friends with some of the other GOT-ers.

      • Locke Lamora says:

        She has been filming in the same country as some of the cast (Croatia), but in different cities. Everyone who is supposed to be in King’s Landing films in Dubrovnik, and Emilia filmed in Split ( Slaver’s Bay cities were filmed in and around Split). So she wasn’t in a completely different place.

    • Lilacflowers says:

      I like her. And I think her scenes aren’t even filmed in the same country as most of the other actors. Until Tyrion and Varys showed up late last season, she had no scenes with any of the Westeros ground.

      • Locke Lamora says:

        Scenes happening in King’s Landing are filmed in Dubrovnik, and she filmed a lot there too. Quarth was filmed in Lokrum which is right next to Dubrovnik, and Slaver’s Bay scenes were filmed in and around Split, which is somewhat close. So she has filmed most of her scenes in Croatia, and so have Peter, Lena, Gwen, Natalie, etc. She wasn’t that far away. Maybe she just doesn’t like them.

      • Bridget says:

        I took Emilia’s comments to be about the friendships you make on movie sets, which are much shorter periods of time, not about the GOT folks.

        And though the cities may be a reasonable distance, they’re probably on different shooting schedules. Those famous beach photos only had the Kings Landing actors in them, for example.

  7. Jenns says:

    After filming all day with Jorah, who is desperately trying to escape the friendzone, I get why she would want to get away from everyone.

  8. cyn says:

    Jason Momoa…excuse me. Let me catch my breath. That’s it! I’m useless for the rest of the day.

    • Locke Lamora says:

      I feel like I’m the only one who deosn’t find him the least bit attractive. But then again, I think alfie allen is the best looking guy on GoT, so I’m probably the one who’s weird.

  9. cd3 says:

    I like her, she seems no drama and normal. I can see why she says she didn’t really experience sexism before. Many don’t until they have their first job – I believe GOT was her first acting job. I can see the red carpet buddies thing too. Seems the show shoots on so many locations, the actors could be quite isolated from each other, maybe not too much opportunity to hang out.

  10. Ashley says:

    I looooove this one!! I saw an interview this morning she did at a british radio station and nick jonas popped in to fanboy (lol). He was asking whether they all film in the same spot and she was saying that most of the time, her scenes are all in a different country! So I guess she doesn’t see the others much.

  11. Miss M says:

    I saw the advanced screening of Me before you. I really liked the movie and I thought she was good in it.

  12. Alex says:

    Love her. I get what she says about being friends on set. You either click or you don’t and she has a core group at home. Doesn’t mean she can be tight with people she works with daily…she could have her friends at home and her be tight with her celeb friends. Plenty of celebs do the same thing

  13. Sasha says:

    Honk! I think Emilia is absolutely adorable – inside and out! She seems like such a sweetheart and I love how expressive her face is. Seems very down to earth. More EC please!

  14. Die Zicke says:

    Honk!

  15. SKF says:

    I think she’s so lovely and bubbly. Honk!

    Also, I think that a lot of sexism these days in places like the UK is more insidious and undercover. Yes there are still instances of blatant sexism, but a lot of it is more subtle. Sometimes it is so ingrained and we are so used to it that until someone asks you some pointed questions and points it out you don’t even realise the myriad of ways in which it is affecting your life. For instance, in her world, the fact that even group extra scenes are cast as 70% men to 30% women and how that affects our perception in real life.

  16. amilu says:

    I think she’s SO adorable, but I also think she’s one of the weakest actors on Game of Thrones. I wasn’t impressed with her in Terminator either, but that film was a suckfest. I did like her in Don Hemingway, and I do want to see Me Before You. In any event, I think she’s a cutie who seems like a cool person.

  17. Ella says:

    Honk! I even liked her in that terrible Terminator movie.

  18. ari says:

    Honk for her!

    Also I love the pink dress on the cover.

  19. Veronica says:

    Honestly, I kind of had the same experience growing up. My family is very matriarchal – lots of strong, powerful, shit-kicking women. It was a huge wake up call when I got out in the world and started working. Many modern forms of sexism are more insidious and nuanced than overt – the kind that takes maturity and education to really be able to digest and examine why it’s problematic.

  20. Sunnyside says:

    Honk!

  21. Goodnight says:

    No honk, she’s quite dull as a person (which is a good thing in Hollywood but makes for uninteresting articles!) and I’m not a fan of her acting.