You know how Lindsay Lohan made a heartfelt plea for privacy on Monday? It lasted a matter of hours before she started leaking information to media outlets. It lasted a day before she deleted her privacy-plea Instagram and replaced it with the photo above, and this message:
Dear friends. I’m good and well. #ATM I am taking time for myself with good friends. I am sorry that I’ve exposed certain private matters recently. I was acting out of fear and sadness… We all make mistakes. Sadly mine have always been so public. I have done a lot of soul searching in the past years, and I should have been more clear minded rather than distract from the good heart that I have. Social media comes with the territory of the business and the world we now live in. My intentions were not meant to send mixed messages. Maybe things can be fixed… Maybe not.. I hope they can. But I am 30 years old and I do deserve a #GENTLEgiant Life is about love and light. Not anger… Thank you to those who stand by my side
The part that made me shake my head was “I should have been more clear minded rather than distract from the good heart that I have.” If you have to tell people that you have a good heart, you’re probably the biggest a—hole in the world. Lindsay seems to be explaining why she went crazy on social media, accusing Egor Tarabasov of cheating on her with a “Russian hooker” and begging Egor to come home to her. And when he did come home, she accused him of abusing her, but when the cops kicked in the door to her apartment, no one was there and Lindsay was in the wind.
Speaking of, Lindsay did leave London shortly after everything went down with Egor. Egor however stayed in London, and he seems to be completely over everything. As far as Egor is concerned, he’s done and they’ve broken up. He even moved his stuff out of her apartment. Now Team Lohan says that Egor tried to take some of HER stuff.
Lindsay Lohan’s fiance, Egor Tarabasov, moved out of their apartment Tuesday and she claims he tried to make off with some of her stuff. As we previously reported … LiLo skipped town Monday after their blowout, but we’re told she had staff at the London pad when Egor and his mother returned for his things. The staffers told Lindsay, Egor and Elena were trying to take her prized Marilyn Monroe pop art. The custom painting was done by street artist Pegasus and is based on Lindsay’s 2012 Playboy shoot.
Lindsay’s dad, Michael, fired off a series of scathing texts to Egor over the weekend … and we’re told he sent another today to Egor and his mother, accusing them of jacking the painting. We’ve reached out to Egor multiple times, but still no reply.
It’s not clear from this report whether Egor actually took the painting or just tried to take the painting and he was stopped. Which is it? I don’t find it hard to believe that Lindsay has some items of value in her apartment, but I do find it hard to believe that she purchased those items and that they are legally hers. Still, I have to think that Egor should just walk away. I have no idea what happened between them, whether he abused her or whether she’s trying to pull a new Russian-version of “the black kid did it.” If Egor did abuse her, that’s despicable and no one deserves that, but whatever happened, Egor just needs to walk away. In fact, if Egor refuses to engage the Lohan family completely, then we’ll see how quickly the stories change.
PS… Lindsay is now saying she broke off the engagement. Um, is it wrong to think that Egor broke off the engagement first?
Photos courtesy of WENN.
#ATM, a subtle way to say “send money.”
What 23 year old man needs mommy along to help handle his business?
What a mess.
Probably the same kind who’s now dealing with an almost-father-in-law who is sending ridiculous texts on his 30 year old daughter’s behalf?
I mean – if his mom is there to help shift his stuff out of the place, and act as a witness, I’m not going to judge that. I sure as hell am going to judge the morons that are the Lohan’s. Lindsay seems to take after her father when it comes to sharing to whoever will listen.
What’s so wrong with that? My parents helped me move when I graduated college and went to grad school in a different state. I’ve also helped them move too. He may be close to his mother and there’s nothing wrong with that. He probably wanted a witness and moral support. I’m more concerned with his his desire to date and remain in a relationship with Lindsay for a year (?) than his mom helping him move.
In my family the parents do not stop caring about their kids when they turn 18 and I’m sure it’s that way in many other families, too. I see nothing weird in helping your grown child in situations like that. It’s not like she’s cooking his lunch or doing his laundry. THAT would be ridicoulus.
Remember the context? His mom was there recently at his birthday party too where he threw the drink in Lindsay’s face and she tossed his phone in the ocean. And supposedly his mom was telling him to break up with her then. If he needed a witness to the move a more neutral party would have been good. And yes Lindsay’s dad being a parent now is a case of too little too late.
The whole thing feels very juvenile in my opinion for two people who were engaged and are adults.
@ size does matter
I don’t see Michael trying to parent I see him trying to bring the attention on himself and make money from it like he always does.
Good grief, I could count on my family to help me get out of an abusive relationship in a hurry, and I’m in my 40s.
It’s not a matter of a 23-year-old needing mommy to help handle his business — it’s a matter of having a family who cares and will support you when you need it.
Perez Hilton is reporting that Michael Lohan confirmed yesterday that Lindsey is pregnant…
Yeah, right.
Well TMZ has pictures of her smoking up a storm on a yacht off Italy. Yep that’s right folks, she went to the airport and flew not to her family in NYC to recover from her trauma….but to a yacht to chill and party with friends. Oh and the photos show no signs of a bump..but she’s trying (loose fitting bathing suit cover) 🙄
I sincerely hope he’s full of BS because there is no way a baby would be born healthy.
I don’t believe Michael for a minute, he wants attention and knows Egor was the perfect meal ticket for the family to live off of.
Micheal is probably just crushed that they’ve split. I’m sure he had many plans for Egor’s money after their marriage.
That would be tragic. Let’s hope it’s just crack drama to weasel money out of Egor.
She will say possibly….in that case…she had a miscarriage from stress
Michael needs to worry about his two children that he lost custody of… Lowlife.
Those two kids are better off having as little contact with Michael Lohan as possible.
“I should have been more clear minded rather than distract from the good heart that I have.”
Translation: I shouldn’t have been so drunk and/or high as to have a public melt down.
“……. that totally backfired on me and didn’t work out like I planned.”
Translation: “Someone else wrote this for me and I asked them to say something nice”
Just an observation. She tries so hard in all her photos to look sexy but often ending up looking trashy, in the ways that some people make designer clothes look cheap.
She looks so worn for someone that young.
She’s a mess. Linds…take some time away from social media to reflect on your life choices. Like 30 years or so.
Why would anyone want a picture of Marilyn Monroe based on Lindsay based on Marilyn?
If he really did try to take it, I assume his motives were either revenge or leverage, or possibly both.
Well the instragram post still reeked of Lindsayism, it was the most grown up or normal she had sounded after this whole debacle.
There’s also no way she wrote it herself. She can barely put together a coherent thought (which is in line with the fact that she doesn’t have even a high school education).
I haven’t commented on this site for years now, probably since most of the articles were about the Cracken during her heyday but this site is fab and I love reading it and everyone’s comments.
I feel I have to just add that I find it hard to believe anything that comes out of Lindsay’s mouth (or her ‘team’) I don’t think we’ll ever know the truth but I think Egor & her were toxic and thats the pattern of Lilo’s life, everything goes toxic. Some people just thrive on drama and chaos and Lilo seems to be one of them. I dont think there is much hope for her even though she keeps trying to convince us otherwise
Welcome back to commenting 😊. I don’t think there is much hope for her either. She is stuck in that regard never ending cycle of self destruction and toxic behaviour.
I think she is stuck a time where she was famous and she refuses give that toxic lifestyle she had then up.
Btw that pic of her when you click on the post,shows how terrible she looks. For thirty she has so muchsun damage and topped off with her vices, heavy drinking,smoking and drugs. I abt imagine how bad she will look at 35-40
You’re making the huge assumption that she doesn’t die of an overdose or wipe out and kill herself while she’s drunk driving. But if she does manage to make it to 40, yeah, that’s going to be some rough looking leather on that face.
I get that she has a shitty shady past, but it hurts my heart that she might be a domestic violence victim and people are shrugging it off and saying she’s the bad one just because of her past. She didn’t kill anyone. She didn’t ruin someone’s marriage/life. She became friends with the wrong crowd and lost control of her life and no one cares enough about her to dig her out. I hope that she gets the help she needs and I hope that Egor is held accountable to anything that may have happened.
i think the fundamental problem is that we all know her to be a liar and an attention seeking person so knowing that is sort of hard to take her word over the word of someone else, and seeing how she is handling this people simply have a hard time benefit-of-the-doubting her and just taking her at her word I think people are parsing as well as they can on this, no one is wishing this situation upon her but the majority of us have heard some version of this situation play out with her time and time again? I think that’s what I get from the comments?
Right, I understand that. It’s just troubling to me. She’s been seen with various bruises in places that one does not ‘fall’ and gets hurt since she’s been with him. He seems even sketchier.
@ Dani
Sadly Lindsay has had bruises in odd places before she got with Egor that don’t come from falling. It has been talked about in the media and gossip sites for years.
They could come from abuse or they could be self-inflicted many drug users get very aggressive uses on their bodies for a number of reasons.
Well said QQ! You took the words out of my mouth.
Me too. I am just glad he is out of her life so I dont have to wonder if she is an abused woman being dismissed because she has a sketchy past and people dont like her. Or if she is remaining with a man who choked her because she believes thats what she deserves. Or if her support system urge her to stay because he is their pay check. The breakup can only be a good thing.
She is the wrong crowd. She cause multablele car accidents and sent one person was sent to the hospital because of it thankfully he was ok . She hijacked a SUV and took it on a 100-mph chase and almost caused accident told the cop that some black kid did. That guy could have went to jail for her crime. Let’s not forget her drinking and driving, she had been very lucky that no one has been killed because of her actions.
Lindsay has slept with married men, she also physically assaulted more then one person and has stolen from countless people. Let’s not down play Lindsay past actions.
Oh, okay, so it’s totally acceptable for her to be strangled and possibly abused further behind closed doors. Got it. I don’t care if she burned down someone’s house, she shouldn’t be dismissed.
@ Dani
Don’t put words in my mouth because I never said that. Amber Heard was arrested for DV. What she did was wrong and her actions like Lindsay should not be down played, but that does not make her any less of a victim in her situation with Johnny. Same thing applies here if that is the case.
She might not have killed anyone, but multiple DUI charges and the amount of times she drove high, she sure as hell tried.
dani, this does not mean I think she deserves to be abused. Nobody deserves abuse, not even this menace to society.
I think she was less than sober when all that went down, and the fact that she’s a pathological liar doesnt help.
It’s a tough situation with Lindsay. The tone I’ve gotten is that nobody wishes that kind of situation on her, but because she’s lived a life FILLED with lies that are meant to throw other people under the bus when she’s done wrong, it’s hard to imagine this being something completely different.
On top of that, we have articles that have come out prior to this where she’s taken his phone and thrown it into the ocean in a fit of rage. Even with the balcony thing – everything prior to the balcony was Lindsay bashing him publicly on Insta, calling people names, and being emotionally manipulative, and kind of abusive towards him. When people haven’t seen him doing the same, and see Lindsay behaving that way with a past like she has – it becomes hard to take her word for it. She’s the one who’s presented herself as the aggressor in public – and that’s what we’ve received reports on. I don’t think this kid is influential enough to be skewing the media – if anything, it’s her past of lying and gifting that would have skewed it.
And that really sucks. I mean – assuming she’s being abused, it’s horrible that we still doubt her. It’s a harsh reality though -and I think if the police had gone in and found her, or found evidence of a struggle and violence, we’d be seeing a different kind of comment section. She bailed though – which is in no way proof that she wasn’t abused, but it’s also not giving proof that she was. I get that a lot of women believe that they deserve what they’re getting, or that they don’t have any hope of getting out – and hell, that could be the case. Anyone who is willing to marry Lindsay probably isn’t that good of a person based on the kind of crowd she runs in, and her history. It’s not like she’s picking from a pool of super eligible bachelors. That also doesn’t mean that he’s more than a hanger-on though.
It’s tricky. And I personally still have a little hope that she’s going to get herself the help she needs. There’s a certain portion of her life that was ruined by awful parenting. But she’s also a 30 year old woman. She needs to take responsibility of her actions now – and it sounded -to me – that she had been drinking heavily, if not on something else. Her self-destruction is terrifying, and to a degree you wonder if she can ever come out of any of this.
Ultimately – she needs to get help. Regardless of whether or not she’s been abused, or if she’s been an abuser. If she has been abused – I hope she goes after him with all she’s got in her – make statements, get things on record, pursue the matter with the police. Make it clear to anyone else who might consider dating this guy that he’s a PoS.
Lohan has gotten plenty of chances, and many have tried to help her out – remember the Operah show? As far as the coverage here on CB and the comments, I get the feeling that people are taking her accusations seriously, but Lindsay doesn’t have the best track record of being honest. Basically there’s very little evidence other than she said, he said. If she’s a victim of abuse that’s horrible and no one deserves that. But being wrongfully accused is also awful, and regrettably it does happen. I choose to withhold my judgement til I know more.
I was reminded of a talk I listened once, I think it was by Pema Chödrön. She talked about a young woman who was rescued from an abusive relationship and moved to a different city and surrounded by people who were loving and supportive to her. Within a year, she was in an abusive relationship again.
You can only do so much to try to rescue people, but it’s not going to work unless they are willing to work on themselves. I watched parts of that Oprah show and nothing indicated that Lindsay would want to change the way she navigates her life. I’m sure she wants a loving and safe relationship, but that’s not going to happen until she stops being toxic. You can change the external circumstances, but she’s still going to be part of the equation and as long as she has a toxic relationship with herself, she’s going to have toxic relationships with others.
I do feel bad for her, especially when looking at her parents, but the past can’t be changed and nobody else can change her future but herself.
I agree. I do feel bad for her. I was a big fan of her after mean girls came out, and I remember wishing for her to get back on track. Now I’m not sure she’ll ever have a comeback. I watched parts of the Operah show as well and was left with the same impression as you.
Lindsay is so unbearably insecure. She’s never going to have a healthy relationship with trust until she feels better about herself which means doing something with her life. Until then, every woman with a job is a threat to her. I’m not holding my breath b/c I know she’s not going to do anything meaningful with her life. She’s still trying to be a movie star and she always will. She absolutely refuses to accept that that part of her life is over. So, she’s not going to venture into any reputable field of business. She’s not going to go to college. What’s left but to keep trying for roles that won’t be given to her and to keep trying to live like a movie star but she has no money of her own, so she will forever be a kept woman in one way or another. It’s the only way to continue her delusion of being famous and wealthy.
There was a time when she was younger that I did feel sorry for her. I no longer have sympathy for her as she is grown and has become a predator. Most people don’t think of her as a predator b/c she’s pathetic and that translates to weak and vulnerable to a lot of people. It’s not though. She is a master manipulator. She lies, creates drama, is combative, physically assaults people, stalks, black mails, and anything else she can do to get what she wants. I don’t believe she has a conscience. I don’t believe she cares about other people any further than what they can offer her. She is emotionally unbalanced and unstable. She continues to drink and I suspect still does drugs. If it were just pot, who cares? But her vice was cocaine and I believe it still is. So, we can add paranoia and mania to the mix ’cause that’s what excessive coke use does to a person.
When people are young and we see they had awful parents and no role models, sure we feel sorry for them. They didn’t stand a chance. But once they’re grown and they’re still behaving badly, it’s all on them. Lindsay has become just like her parents – a narcissistic opportunist. Feel sorry for the people she tries to control for her own benefit because now it all comes down to her unwillingness to take care of herself financially. It’s going to be one dumb man after another and even though they’re stupid and thinking with their dongs, they’re still being manipulated.
It’s only a matter of time before innocent kids are dragged into her mess, because, believe me, that is her modus operandi – to get pregnant by a rich man just to end up as the same exact kind of (lack of) mother Dinah was/is to her – trying to live vicariously through a much too young child – partying too young, around people she shouldn’t be around, being exposed to things a child has no business being exposed to. Think Drew Barrymore.
I agree; If domestic violence was involved as she stated, she absolutely should be heard and it should be dealt with accordingly. Zero question. Zero. That not included, Lindsay is, in my arm chair on line diagnosis, a classic borderline to the T. IMO. She goes back and forth emotionally so much that she can’t decipher real from hyperbole. That isn’t to say she wasn’t abused, however, but she may hate the abuse she encountered one day and explain it away the next from fear of being alone. Pregnancies can often be an attention seeking announcement and manipulation is always happening with with BPD. Her father is, to me, is clearly a narcissist enabler who is not helping and genetically contributed as well as with nurture. Not to mention the enabling in denial mother with her own agenda. I see no one here with an ounce of self awareness. What I personally see is a melting pot of abuse, denial, privilege, blame, self pity, rage, attention seeking horror. If this 23 year old doesn’t run and if both of them don’t seek therapy, prepare for more horror. Especially
if a child is potentially involved. Let the court cases come. Terrible. Smh.
@dani, Linds at has been given ample chances to turn her life around. The latest person to try and help her was Oprah. She has thrown all those opportunites away. If she is a victim of abuse, she does not deserve it. But she has chosen her path and one of those paths include lying about everything. She has cried “wolf” too many times and people no longer believe her.
LL has lied about having a miscarriage and a million other awful things- I don’t think her lying about being abused is hard to imagine. She knows what stings to pull to try for sympathy.
Anyway- this chick can leave and be safe. She’s clearly not in any peril she can’t escape from. Save your worry for the abused women of the world with kids and no money.
so wait she e-fights with her dude who is not engaging and then asks for privacy and then now retracts the privacy right quick to say she made a mistake?? Girl.. stop JUST STOP you are an *sshole through and through irrespective of whether of not you actually ended up with an abusive guy which is horrible and undesirable and no one is wishing upon ya, but is also not surprising just given your upbringing etc whatever but that Need for attention and to generate press for nothing and issuing declarations about things no one asked you and coming like we sent for you? THAT? That’s Chronic and that is all Lindsay Lohan, like why handle something so serious this way ??
Girl who cried wolf.
Not brushing off the accusations of domestic violence, but if true, she should have him charged and I assume there would be bruises around her neck. Knowing Lindsay, she’d have pics of those if it happened. So..? Who knows. She’s such a drama queen that she could have simply orchestrated the whole thing as well. If that’s the case then it makes me angry on behalf of all the women who really are victims of domestic violence. I really hope she is not pregnant, although I would not be surprised if she hasn’t been trying the entire time…no better way to guarantee money in the future these days it seems and her future looks pretty dismal unless she gets into a serious rehab program with heavy duty counselling and moves/stays far far away from her family, but that isn’t likely to happen. I honestly think if he went away and really tried to work on herself and get healthy and stayed out of the public eye and stopped calling the Paps and making statements (just got off social media completely for a while), she might have a chance to resurrect her career in the future. But not if she continues with her current antics and keeps trying to tell everyone how mature and grown up she now is (while she continues her cracken ways).
I think her career as a leading lady in mainstream movies is over. She’s lost her looks. A man can be unattractive and still be a movie star. That’s just not true for women.
everytime i see her face i think of that girl from The Exorcist.
This sounds strangely similar to Depp sending his people to get his stuff from his place with Heard and trying to take paintings.
I don’t think so the story seems like BS coming from Michael Lohan, he trying really hard to in certain stuff into this situation.
I’m surprised Dana being so quiet.
Deep people wasn’t trying to take painting they were trying to take all the future and more which was still part of their marital property and hadn’t been divided up yet by the courts.
My point was that I think it’s nonsense made up by Lindsay (or Michael), based on what happened with Depp/Heard.
Now that you say that I see the similarities about a lot of things now that you pointed it out. It would be truly sad if that’s what she truly doing.
I think there is DV, but I think she is the abuser. If we make her the man, what she has done would be horrifying.
My take is that she’s abusive when she is under the influence. She hurled a glass at her ex girlfriends head in a club. She’s fought physically with other people in clubs. Her stalking and Twitter rants towards her ex and egor would be considered to be emotional abuse.
She blew it.
There are rumors that Lindsay hooks for cash and I sorta believe it. Her being on a yacht already is indicative of that
Yeah, I’m right there with you. Lindsay hasn’t legitimately worked in years, and there’s *no way* that her past credits fund her current lifestyle, particularly if her drug abuse was/is half as rampant as is rumored. There’s pretty much nothing that will make you go broke faster than a drug addiction. She’s on a yacht, after – ahem – fleeing her apartment in London. Living in London isn’t exactly cheap, either. She’s either hooking or she’s the most financially savvy person ever.
There’s more to this story then what is coming from the stories that are reported from Lindsay’s sources.
The girl she called a hooker is a fashion designer. She has been talking to British tabloids. The story that she tells is complexity different. She says Lindsay was so jealous She couldn’t have any girls around him. This girl was an old friend of egor. She had introduced Lindsay to egor. Eventually Lindsay got jealous of her too. She even barred the girls number from egors phone while he was asleep. They had broken up and got back together many times before. She tells the story that the night Lindsay was having a breakdown on Insta Lindsay was at the same club as egor But with a different set of friends at different table. It sounds like they had already broken up. Lindsay also stalked this girl and hurled abuse at her outside a club after she had posted all that defaming stuff on Twitter about this girl.
Radar has a new story that claims Lindsay had hired a private detective to follow egot around because she thought he was cheating,
This is the exact same behaviour she had when stalking Mark Ronsons sister after their break up so I could actually believe it.
This seem very believable and I see this lady lying after filling changes against Lindsay. This is most likely what she stared in her police report.
I don’t see Egor getting back together with Lindsay this time and hopefully they won’t it seems like a toxic relationship wether or not the abuse claim are true.
It wouldn’t be the first time she and her family tries to manipulate the media so she looks the victim when all the while she’s the perpetrator. If you look at what she said at least 2 of the things appears to be untrue. She’s smoking like a chimney on photographs from Italy, very unlikely she’s pregnant. The woman she called a prostitute isn’t one. So that’s 2 lies out of 3. . I don’t want to say she lied about abuse but there is lots of evidence she’s a compulsive liar. She has totally lied about stuff like this before,
My God! I go on vacation for one week and Lilo has the ultimate meltdown proclaiming abuse, hookers, instagramming the sh!t and now claiming invasion of privacy!!! What a freak!!!
I’d have to actually see (with my own eyes) this guy physically harm her before I’d believe one word about abuse. This wreaks of detracting attention and possible exploiting dirt for a pay-off = blackmail.
Get out Egor! Get out now before it’s too late. Listen to your mother. There are plenty of hustlers in the world willing to be your kept woman for a fair price who can keep it professional and classy. Why in the world would some rich kid with his whole life in front of him stoop to the level of the Cracken?
Dude, please be wearing a sleeve or better yet, use that new vasalgel. You have the money and the connections. Do NOT let her get pregnant.
Yes you can still be this much of a train wreck at 30. Close to 20s. One can be nuts at any age. Most of us don’t have yachts where we can “recover” though. Usually, a six pack and a dive bar.
I’m still not ready to dismiss her claims of abuse but I understand why everyone is side-eying her. The fact that they’re broken up can only be a good thing for her and Egor both.
How many times is Lindsay going to use the excuse, “we all make mistakes”? Most people learn from their mistakes and try not to repeat them. This chick does the same ridiculous / dangerous things over and over again and then shrugs it off with “we all make mistakes.” Take some responsibility for once and grow up, you immature tw@t. It’s no wonder that people are throwing side-eyes at her claims of abuse.
She broke off the engagement? Is that sort of like “you can’t fire me, I quit”?
Good rule of thumb: If a Lohan said it, it’s a lie.
I am so sad for Lindsay. She wasn’t even a bad actress so I think she could have had a decent career. Honestly though, if Oprah can’t stage her comeback, no one can.
Is it wrong that when the yacht pictures were published this morning the first thing I looked at was her neck to see any signs of abuse or “strangling”? Hmm.
This waste of oxygen…she is a compulsive liar. She has proven herself to be abusive in the past- she has gotten physical with strangers in bars, to assistants and also to Samantha Ronson, to name a few. She sets Egor up to be the bad guy by conveniently being recorded talking about his supposed abuse.
To be frank, Lindsay was FAR more bruised up before she got with Egor. I fully believe that she hooks and likely gets bruised during her sessions. I think she was able to take time off from that life when he was paying her way. (And yes- Alcoholics/addicts are often bruised up- but over the last couple of years, her bruises have been reallllyyy bad.)
And NO: abuse is not okay and generally I would give the full benefit of the doubt. Lindsay is a total grifter.