We’re finishing up the first week of January which means, statistically speaking, we are all still on track with our resolutions. I’ll leave the fitness resolutions to CB, who knows of what she speaks, but I can suggest ways to shape up other areas of our lives!
A budget planner with pockets to keep you on track and corral receipts
My biggest push is to get my finances back on track. I was lucky enough to move last year and although a lot of good came out of it, it devoured my savings. So I need to seriously tweak my budget in order to afford my new mortgage and rebuild savings. Years ago, I tracked every cent I spent in one month. It was eye opening as to how much money I spend on the small things. That’s why I like this planner. I can grab my receipt, make a note about what it was for and put it in the pockets until I can sit down and list everything properly. This one is also budget friendly at $11.99, comes in two colors and earned 4 out of 5 stars with 1,084 reviews and a B on Fakespot.
File folders that are useful and pretty
I saw these on Buzzfeed over the holidays and fell a little bit in love with them. I use file folders for everything. I use basic (boring) ones for my file drawers and lock boxes but for the shelves? Those are designer, baby! I like the four pastels this comes in (there are two patterns, too) and I love that they come in a flexible material. One folder with five different sections is about $7 or four for just under $14. 131 reviewers gave them 4.6 stars with a B from Fakespot
A notebook to log all the vital information for your home
This one doesn’t have a lot of the reviews but the few it does are good, amounting to 4.7 stars. So I’ll give this a personal recommendation. This log books gives you the prompts to know what information you should log. The information it asks for will be asked for the rest of your time in your home. And, from personal experience, it becomes twice as important when you sell. Renters need it as well. You can keep track of any work for which you need reimbursement and gives time and dates in case of any disputes with a landlord. I promise you, this is $12 that is very well spent.
Since it’s the start of the month, that means: Book recs! Since it’s my birthday month and my favorite books are the classics, that’s what I’m serving. First up, my favorite of all time: The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexander Dumas (père). This story has everything: beautiful writing, revenge, adventure, secret identities and unimaginable wealth. (Hit the ‘revenge’ part of it when you’re selling it to your teenager.) Frankenstein by Mary Shelley Many of us know classic stories (word of mouth, films) but haven’t read. Of all of them, Frankenstein is the one that surprised me the most when I read it. Shelley’s story is so much more complex than Hollywood’s. Rebecca by Daphne Du Maurier In this case, you are in very good hands with the 1940 film version, but the book is sublime. It’s a dark and mysterious story about beautiful and suspicious people – what’s not to love? The language alone will give you chills. And remember, reading is self-care and more self-care should be a resolution for all of us.
A versatile yoga blanket that gives back
I love the yin yoga where you get in a pose for a while and lie there with a blanket on. The yoga blankets are the best for this and I would love to have one for home. These pretty Mexican blankets by Benovolence LA are hand woven and come in 10 different colors and patterns, all under $20. They’re designed for both indoor and outdoor use and can be used for picnics, camping, and outdoor events. They have 4.6 stars, over 1,400 ratings and a B from Fakespot. Reviewers call them soft, comfortable and vibrant and some people take them everywhere. One guy even uses his as a cover for his truck seat. The company, Benevolence LA Mission, partners with Water Mission to help fight poverty and create sustainable water systems.
A book that will help you make small differences in your life
This book 52 Small Changes by Brett Blumenthal, is the #1 best seller in healthy living on Amazon. It has chapters divided by week with small changes you can make for health and wellness, including drinking more water, saying no more, finding a new hobby and strength training. Blumenthal encourages people to make incremental changes instead of biting off more than they can chew. This has 4.3 stars, 283 ratings and an A from Fakespot. Readers say the tips are good and practical, that it helps motivate them to make changes, and that it’s clear and easy to follow. I have Amazon Unlimited and this book is totally free so I’ve already ordered it and have skimmed a bit. I want to see what changes I can make!
A device that will tone you all over while burning calories
This looks like one of those typical as-seen-on-tv exercise gadgets, but people love it! The FitRyder X is a little rowing-type machine that will help you fit more exercise into your day. It has 4.2 stars, 91 ratings and a B from Fakespot. Older people say it’s helped them improve their strength and that they found it more motivating than they imagined. People also appreciate how little space it takes up and how easy it is to use. It’s said to be easy to put together and to offer a great workout that is low impact, cardiovascular and toning.
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I love Rebecca. Its one of my favorite books (and my name, lol) and it was one of my late grandmother’s favorites. So whenever I re-read it, I remember her. (same with Casablanca – a mutual favorite, so watching it always reminds me of her.)
That book about helpful tips looks interesting, I may snag that to see what changes I can make.
I love Rebecca too! I was happy to see that Hecate recommended it. That’s sweet that it reminds you of your grandma. I got the tips book because it’s on Amazon unlimited, which may be worth trying out. I read a lot of self help books through that.
If you can get your hands on the du Maurier short story “Happy Christmas,” do it. Also, “My Cousin Rachel” is amazing. She also wrote the story that was the basis for the movie “The Birds”! Her short stories are great. I’m such a du Maurier fan.
Can you believe I had never seen Casablanca? And I’m nearing retirement age! It was on a couple of days ago as the midday movie, and a welcome emotional respite from the self-inflicted and non-stop viewing of the coverage of our devastating bushfires. I’m not normally a purveyor of movies, but I really enjoyed this one.
Oh I love it. Its so beautiful. And Ingrid Bergman’s face is just….luminous. That, Notorious and Bringing Up Baby are three of my favorite movies ever.
I too love Rebecca and while the film is one of my favorites (Olivier and Fountaine were so awesome together), I still feel some kind of way about how they altered so many important things from the book.
Oh, I agree! Rebecca is one of my favourite books. I’ve always wondered if the filmmakers altered it because of the era (too shocking?).
To give the proper credit: I brainstormed book suggestions with my parents over Christmas for this post and Rebecca was the first thing out of my mom’s mouth. I adore tit as much as you guys and, obviously, agreed it needed to be on here but it is, in fact, my mother’s suggestion.
BTW, we came up with a list the length of my arm that afternoon and then took a trip tot he library.
Back in high school, I went on a reading kick of ‘classics’–not for any class, just for fun. I really liked the Count of Monte Cristo. I also read the House of Seven Gables & Moby Dick. And because I like movies, I also like reading the source material. So I’ve read Rebecca & Frankenstein & Dracula. I agree that Frankenstein (& Dracula) are far better in the original format, but I still love those early ’30s B&W ‘scary’ movies.
Later in life, I realize in some sense I wasn’t ready for a lot of ‘classics’ when I was younger (as in teen years). I had difficulty getting started with a Tale of Two Cities, for example. In my 20s, I attempted Dickens again with A Christmas Carol. I loved it! The story was so familiar, after having seen every movie ever made about that book, & this launched my lifelong love of Charles Dickens. I attempted a Tale of Two Cities again, and this time, that first sentence (which lasts a whole page, I swear), didn’t put me off. That’s one of my all-time favorites. I started crying about six pages from the end, because I could see where it was going. Hard Times also slayed me. Other Dickens books are more balanced with humor along with the pathos. I work for a federal agency, so his Circumlocution Office which excels in HOW NOT TO DO IT, frequently comes to mind throughout the work week. Well, I’d better leave it there. I can ‘talk’ about books all day & I actually do have to get to work.
I went through the same kick after college, trying to read classics that weren’t covered in my English major. A couple that really stuck with me were The Grapes of Wrath and Mrs Dalloway.
I am ashamed to say I haven’t read any of the books that Hecate listed! I need to get on those, her descriptions are motivating me to finally do it.
I have been thinking of trying to read Bleak House. I saw the BBC miniseries (I think it was BBC) and LOVED it so much. Lord and Lady Dedlock were so tragic. I have been put off because of the page-long sentences, but I haven’t tried to read a book like that (from that era of flowery writing and many clauses) in years, so I have been thinking that maybe I wasn’t ready for it when I tried. I shall give it a go!
I’ve recently read a bunch of the original sherlock holmes stories and loved them
Oh, Bleak House was terrific. Give it a go!
Bleak House remains the one Dickens book I never managed to finish haha (and I say that as a former professor of philosophy who regularly taught a philosophy and lit course and who loves all things classic lit and is currently happily re-reading Rousseau at the moment).
I’m not an enormous Dickens fan as it is, and my god, I tried Bleak House so many times and finally admitted defeat. I still feel vaguely guilty about it.
Reading the book threads always makes me wish we could have a CB book club. How much fun would that be? It might motivate me to finish that damn book!:-)
Love that homeowner’s record book–Hecate, we bought a house this fall finally after years of saving up and find ourselves in the same position. Totally thrilled and happy, but also completely depleted with savings.
Going back and reading or re-reading classics as an adult is great! You see it with very different eyes than in high school.
Indeed. Catcher in the Rye was one where I was astonished at how utterly, utterly differently I viewed it as an adult.
I’m going to get the FitRyder. I’ve been looking for a machine to watch TV or listen to an audiobook with in my guest room that isn’t totally intrusive and I just hit my lowest (from what I remember as an adult) weight that is a few pounds under the machine’s weight limit, so I’m taking it as a sign! Hopefully this will help with these brutal Wisconsin winters that make walking outside unpleasant.
I’ve tried budget books, but I always end up with piles of receipts laying around and receipts shoved in pockets, and I never have time to sit down and add it all up. After 2 failed attempts at budget books, I started using a budget app. My phone is always with me any way and it takes 5 seconds to take it out and the record the purchase in the app, and then I can recycle the receipt immediately if its nothing worth hanging on to. There are free budget apps out there and they don’t need to link to your bank account (my pet peeve).
The book is prettier though!
Which app have you tried? I am totally stumped as to how to create a budget. I’ve read articles on nerdwallet and try to do research but I don’t want to link to my bank either and I get so overwhelmed by all the information.
Nerdwallet is helpful and has debt payoff calculators!
I use one by DigitLeaf called Monthly Budget Planner and Daily Expense Tracker.
The free version is enough for typical house hold budgets. I don’t pay for budget apps!
I have friends who like Spendy, or YouNeedABudget, but I found the digitleaf one very easy to use.
You can create monthly budgets, and track spending to categories, or just use it as a spending tracker. I’ve been using it since June, and I think it’s been a huge part of getting myself financially on track.
Budget guru Dave Ramsey recommends EveryDollar app, but it’s not available in my country.
Thank you!!
What a great post, so many useful and intriguing recommendations.
As long as we’re on the topic of books, I want to share one title, the last book I read in 2019 — Gravity’s the Thing by Jaclyn Moriarty. I didn’t know til afterwards that she’s the sister of Liane Moriarty (Big Little Lies). What a talented family. Gravity’s the Thing is one of those magical, character-driven books that you don’t want to end. Emotional and sad at times but ultimately it gave me a spark of hope for the future.
If you’ve never read Rebecca you are in for a treat … set at the British seaside it is wonderfully moody and atmospheric and a perfect January distraction. Plus, there is a new film version on its way from Netflix this year. This story is due for a modern update as the original Hollywood version veered from du Maurier’s original ending.
I didn’t know a new Rebecca was coming! The movie was so good I saw it in a film class in college for the first time. I read the book afterwards and didn’t realize that Hitchcock changed the ending. (Or maybe I did and forgot that.)
Yes, Lily James and Armie Hammer as the leads and Kristin Scott Thomas as Mrs. Danvers. Can’t wait.
I clicked the link on the budget binder and its now in my amazon cart. Thank you!!
I totally needed that.
Can I tell you though, at 47, i am struggling to get through the Count of Monte Cristo. It’s over 1000 pages long! Dumas could have used an editor.
Count of Monte Cristo and Frankenstein are truly high on my list too. It’s been a while since I’ve read a book. Especially a classic. Except for maybe HGWells (those are super quick, not really books lol). And everything I do now is digital so you’ve prompted me to nab some classics!
Speaking of everything digital, I’ve bought so many cool file folders, bill and coupon organizers, large and small, etc. and nothing has topped, or been faster and more efficient, than scanning or taking pics of receipts, downloading and/or creating PDFs from paying online bills and sharing to a favorite note app. Everything’s automatically chronological. There’s no paper shuffling, and whether I, or my husband, need something, finding it is super fast and easy. Just my experience lol.
Yay, book recommendations ! Can we have those more often, pleeeeeease ?
Rebecca is one of my all-time favorites.
I also recommend “Manderley Forever” by Tatiana de Rosnay, a fantastic biography of Daphne du Maurier.
I love both Frankenstein and Rebecca, and the Count of Monte Cristo has been on my list for ages! I agree so hard with your statement that reading is self-care. I read so much last year and it helped with my anxiety. Over the holidays I got busy and stopped reading, starting playing around on my phone a lot and now feel sluggish and scatterbrained. Back to reading it is!
I just started The Testaments, I highly recommend it for anyone who likes The Handmaid’s Tale. It’s quite different in plot and tone from the original, but for me I love diving deeper into the world of Gilead. Margaret Atwood is just a master storyteller.
The FitRyder looks intriguing, I used to go hard at the gym but after a few injuries I’m looking for something I can do at home. The price seems reasonable, I might have to try it out. Thanks for the recommendations!
I’m reading the Count of Monte Cristo right now. The plot of the whole book is my worst nightmare, and I’m genuinely terrified of how everything’s going to fall apart for Edmond Dantes in like…30 seconds, lol.
I read Rebecca by Daphne du Maurier, and I had some thoughts. First, it was quite funny in certain parts and I don’t think it was meant to be, lol. I thought the main heroine (the unnamed young lady) was actually quite relatable. I really liked her for that reason alone. She hasn’t been raised with a great sense of self, which was why she struggled. The one thing that really struck me is that she is less isolated in the book than I first thought. I went into the reading thinking she had no one, no supporters at all, not even her husband. And then I was pleasantly surprised to find out that no, she had people who knew the truth and were on her side. I did not like Rebecca as much as other people who reviewed the book over at Goodreads seemed to, lol.