While I think Russell Wilson is a cheeseball, I also know he adores his wife Ciara and their children and I love that for everyone involved. Ciara met Russell after she got out of an engagement to Future – Future cheated on her and treated her like sh-t throughout their relationship. She left that relationship with their son Future Zahir Wilburn Jr., who was born in 2014. Ciara met Russell in 2015, and Russell immediately embraced the stepfather role and, by all accounts, he treats Future Zahir as one his children too, much to the dismay of Future and Future’s fanboys. Well, those fanboys are now pissed that Russell Wilson claims that God spoke to him and told him to raise Future Zahir.
Russell Wilson has revealed God pushed him to raise Future and Ciara’s son as his own. During an interview with Brandon Marshall on the I Am Athlete podcast, Wilson reflected on how he knew Ciara would be his person, which he said happened after he wrote down the type of woman he wanted in his life during a dinner with a friend. He met Ciara three days after writing that note and eventually fell in love with her.
The Super Bowl champion revealed after he met the R&B singer and developed feelings for her, he was introduced to Future Zahir Wilburn, who was barely a year old then, and had a divine intervention that it was his responsibility to be a stepfather to the child.
“When I walked in the room and I saw, you know, little Future — he’s nine months at the time or whatever — he crawls in my lap and it was like, you know, this is going to be my responsibility,” said Wilson around the 57:19 mark. “I remember leaving that night and God said, saying to me, ‘Raising this child it’s going to be your responsibility.’ I prayed to God, asking ‘Are you sure this is what you want me to do?’ He said, ‘Son, this is for you.'”
When asked was it scary to take on the role, Wilson replied, “Yeah, I think scary in just the sense of, not scary but it was just more so an opportunity, like, ‘Ok God, this is what you want me to do?’ You know stepping in to raise a child with Ci and this and that and realizing ok God I know she’s the one for me but also I’m going to take this responsibility as well…I was ready for that.”
“Even Jesus himself, like Joseph, he was a stepdad,” Wilson continued. “I was like, ‘Ok.’ He wasn’t biologically his. So ok God, you’re going to give me this oppportunity to love the way that you were loved, the love that you want us to love.”
While I’m not a Christian, I always enjoy when men talk about how Joseph was a stepfather, or perhaps the father who stepped up for Jesus. I don’t know why I enjoy that so much, but I’m glad stepfathering has a biblical reference at least. Anyway, Russell adores Future Zahir and by all accounts, Future Zahir adores his stepdad too, and he’s even playing football and being coached by his stepfather. I love all of that for Ciara. Also: this whole stepfather conversation reminds me somewhat of Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani – Blake also fully embraced Gwen’s sons and he loves being a stepdad so much. Although I think Gavin Rossdale spends more time with his kids than Future!
Photos courtesy of Avalon Red.
Future Sr is somewhere screaming, crying and throwing up.
IMO Future doesn’t care. He has multiple children with different women so I don’t think he cares about being a hands on father. What he cares about is Ciara. He has not gotten over the fact that she dared to leave him and that she found someone who by all accounts loves and adores her. Unfortunately single moms are seen as damaged goods to men like him. That why his incel fan base is so triggered.
The refrain you hear from men like him is “No man is gonna want you with them kids”. Their kids usually. When their exes move on and are happy, that’s when they show up to cause them harm.
It is really lovely that Ciara and Russell found each other and how he stepped into the role of fatherhood. He clearly loves all of his kids so much but seems to have an extra special bond with little Future.
Given Future doesn’t seem like a good father at all, it is lovely that little Future has Russ.
Also when any stories like this come around, it is hilarious to see single moms on the internet with the “What was the prayer Ciara was praying? Asking for a friend.” or the “Lord I have seen what you’ve done for others and I want that for me,” meme.
I’m so glad for Ciara bc, baby, Future was toxic. Just an awful human being. When she sings “turned by lessons into blessings” in Level Up, I was like “yass, sis!” LOL
I love this for Future Zahir. He has a father who loves him, who is there for him. The fact Russell was divorced and could have continued on as single man. He didn’t have to take on the responsibility of fatherhood. He sought guidance from God and look where they are now. Happy for all of them.
Many men take on the responsibility of a child not biologically theirs without needing a word from God first or sending a question to God to make sure it’s what they are supposed to be doing. Hats off to him but just want to put out there that it isn’t necessarily a religious thing, it’s just a decent human being thing.
Yup, @Josephine. I’ve got to give a big up to my late father here, a man who stepped foot once in a church my entire life, for my little cousin’s christening of all things.
Side note: Russell Wilson’s continued press tour has me even more curious about what is going on with the Broncos. It seems pretty clear that head coach Sean Payton is done with him, but with his contract they are pretty screwed as to the pay cap. Wilson was recently asked about his Denver home being for sale, but all he did was deny it was “on the market.” Those negotiations have got to be tense, my goodness.
Russell has caught some flack in the football world for some stuff, but I’ll always respect him for this. I know several guys who raised children that aren’t theirs biologically as their own, and it says so much about their character. Funny enough, all the guys I know personally who did this did military service instead of college. All the college educated guys I know have step kids, not “our kids.”
using the term “step” instead of referring to your partner’s child(ren) with someone else doesn’t mean that you’re not stepping up or you’re not as good & supportive of a parental figure. Not all parents who split are lousy parents to the child(ren) they may no longer live with all the time. There are numerous examples of people who go the “our children” route that you tout who actually have very unhappy step children and family relationships ruined because the non-bio “parent” oversteps their bounds, refuses to respect the feelings of the child(ren) and/or of the other parent.
No one should ever get criticized for loving and raising a child the way a child needs. A child can never receive TOO MUCH love.
I love this family. I’m so happy Ciara is showing other woman to embrace what the future can hold in moving on from a toxic situation.
It’s so odd that Futura Sr stans are more “concerned” about Futura Zahir than Sr is. Not to mention that they only seem to care about one child and not Sr other kids.
These people really need to get a life and stop hating on a child because they are loved and have a good father in his life.