Bill Maher, 68 years old, acknowledges: ‘My dating is not age-appropriate’

I gave up on Bill Maher decades ago. The thing that shocks me the most about Maher is that he still has multiple platforms, including a somewhat popular HBO talk show, Real Time, where he provides some selective political analysis and round-table discussions. Maher is also famously unmarried and he’s also famous for dating much-younger women. Back in the day, he was a regular at the Playboy Mansion and all of his dates and girlfriends were in their early 20s. He’s now 68 years old and… most of his dates and girlfriends are in their 20s, maybe early 30s. Maher talked about his love life and skeevy dating habits on the Him & Her podcast:

Bill Maher knows his suitors aren’t exactly age-appropriate — and he doesn’t care. On the Oct. 20 episode of The Skinny Confidential’s Him & Her podcast, the Real Time with Bill Maher host, 68, revealed that he wasn’t interested in dating, but admitted that he typically doesn’t pursue women who are around his age.

“I’m not looking. I’m good,” he told podcast hosts Michael Bosstick and Lauryn Evarts Bosstick, noting how his unavailability made him more “attractive” to women.

“Nothing that I could have predicted when I was your age came to pass. Like I would never have imagined that at this age, anyone — and again, like I’ll say this just generally — my dating is not age-appropriate,” he said.

When Michael asked if his love interests were “perceived in an unorthodox context, younger than what you should be dating,” Maher replied, “Not just perceived, they literally are.” The political commentator acknowledged that he could face backlash for the confession and told listeners, “The people who are pissed off at that, f— you. You do you, I do me. You do what works for you.”

Elsewhere in the podcast, Maher opened up about his staunch views on marriage and why he’s chosen to not to make that commitment.

“I don’t believe in it. It’s not hinduism, there’s no belief in it,” he said of marriage. “It would ruin everything. I mean, I’m not going to. I love to talk about this subject, but it’s tough because I also don’t really ever want to divulge the details of my own personal life.” While some may not “understand it,” the comedian said his choice to remain unmarried “sure works for me” and encouraged listeners to make their own decisions instead of following societal expectations of getting married and having children.

“It certainly was in my head for way too long, that you [have to] find the one, like it’s an Easter egg hunt and you find the egg, and then everything’s perfect,” he explained. “That’s certainly not the way I’ve ever seen life work, and didn’t work for me….It’s not that I don’t believe in marriage or acknowledge that some people do have good marriages. I know people who would be lost without this.”

[From People]

There is an aspect which I appreciate – I guess that’s the right word – where he’s not pretending to be something he’s not, nor is he playing the “no really, I’d love to get married” game. He’s not a romantic, he’s never wanted to be married, and for the past fifty years, he’s had one type: young. Incidentally, as you can tell from the photos in this post, Maher’s latest girlfriend appears to be Noor Alfallah, best known as the woman who had a relationship with old-ass Al Pacino and gave birth to his son last year. Noor, 30, is the opposite of Maher – she only dates much older men. She “loves old people.” If a man is under the age of 60, she’s not interested.

Photos courtesy of Backgrid.

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24 Responses to “Bill Maher, 68 years old, acknowledges: ‘My dating is not age-appropriate’”

  1. Megan says:

    I was right next to Bill Maher at the White House Correspondents Dinner years ago and his date was at least half his age and had a giant tattoo of Texas on her arm. People were wondering if she was his daughter.

  2. Libra says:

    Does he not understand that young women date him only because he is a wealthy celebrity? ( and possibly be snickering behind his back)

    • Nanny to the Rescue says:

      Of course he understands that. Most of these men do. They just don’t care because they get what they want out of the transaction.

    • Drea says:

      I mean, of course he knows. He’s not an idiot. And obviously these women want to date him as well. We don’t get to infantilize mid-late 20’s and 30’s women. They are full grown adults making their own decisions. And frankly, at least he’s honest about his intentions. It’s not something I would go for, but it’s also not my life.

      So, he gets a younger woman on his arm, and she gets to fly near the sun for a bit, if that’s what she’s looking for.

  3. Harla says:

    Quick question, why would any woman date him regardless of her age?

    • Nanny to the Rescue says:

      Money. And prestigious celebrity events.

      Take Noor Alfallah for example. She’s a nobody but reigns all over celebrity news for basicly fishing for an older man who will die sooner and leave her with a good inheritance. Pacino somehow didn’t work out, although she tied him down with a kid, now there’s Maher.

      • Libra says:

        A second child will cement her position with 18 more years of child support. Hope Bill is as smart as he thinks he is.

      • Brassy Rebel says:

        Kinda surprising he’s dating her after the Pacino revelations. I’m pretty sure no one is as smart as Maher thinks he is.

      • jill says:

        I bet Bill got ‘fixed’ years if not decades ago. He’s not going to have an oopsie baby with any of the young women he dates.

      • bisynaptic says:

        I’m going to go out on a limb and say there’s very little risk of that. Maher is, I suspect, some kind of closeted.

    • Supersoft says:

      He is definitely not my type.

  4. Lucía says:

    Here’s the thing: both parts are 100% aware that their relationship is a transactional one. He wants a hot piece of a**, she wants an old dude with money. Both of them know perfectly how the other person feels, and both of them are fine with it. Even if love isn’t a part of the equation, they might even get along well.

    • Eleanor says:

      Exactly! These women are perfectly capable of making their own choices. He’s not dating his employees or being manipulative. He has been very clear about his priorities and preferences. Would I want to date someone that much older than me? No, but I don’t care if other people do.

    • Drea says:

      This is exactly it. They both know the terms. I don’t want to say his candor is refreshing, but if everyone approached the world with simple honesty like this, there’d be a lot less hurt feelings.

    • Deedee says:

      Bingo. They’re using each other and they both know it and are perfected okay with it. But quite frankly, I think she can do better.

  5. Andrea says:

    Clearly he isn’t interested in a woman with common interests or scintillating conversations.

    • Kirsten says:

      This is so demeaning to the women he dates. Because they’re younger than him they must be dumb? While Bill Maher is absolutely a lot older than the women he dates, they’re all in their 30s or 40s – it’s not like he’s hanging out with 18 year olds.

      He’s also up front about not wanting marriage, kids, or anything serious, so it’s not as though he’s stringing anyone along.

      • Eleanor says:

        I agree! I guess we don’t gain any ability to have an intelligent conversation until we hit a certain age? That’s ridiculous.

  6. Another Anna says:

    I’ve always wondered about men who date inappropriately young and say stuff like “my unavailability makes me more attractive.” They know the woman is with them for their money, and the vast majority of women also know that’s the case. Even the men who are jealous are jealous because they know he can purchase a status symbol. So what am I to be jealous of? That you are basically 24/7 living with the delusion that your waitress is flirting with you? Does it not bother them to know that people laugh behind their back? It strikes me as pathetic, but I never know how other people feel.

    • sevenblue says:

      I laughed at that part. There are many unavailable old men out there. No women in her 20’s go after them if they don’t have any money or power that makes the old age irrelevant.

  7. Marc says:

    It’s because of his high profile and television fame (which usually equates with money). Other than that, the dude is an obnoxious liberal hack that really has NOTHING going for him in the looks or talent department.

  8. Dani says:

    No fool like an old fool! As long they are consenting adults and everyone is getting what they want out of these transactional relationships, then it is what it is. But ewwww.

  9. bisynaptic says:

    Wow, this woman does not waste time!

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