Billy Crystal on When Harry Met Sally: ‘new generations, they love it too’


Billy Crystal is currently starring in a psychological thriller on AppleTV+ called Before, which co-stars Ava Lalezarzadeh, Judith Light, and Rosie Perez. Its first episode dropped on October 25, and new episodes air every Friday through December 20. The premise involves a child psychologist who recently lost his wife. One day, he sees a new patient, an eight-year-old boy, who has “inexplicable knowledge” of his life.

While talking with People to promote Before, Billy was asked about one of his most famous movies, When Harry Met Sally, which turns 35 this year. I freaking love that movie. During the interview, Billy talked about what it was like to film it, how they all knew that it would be something “special,” and his thoughts about how it’s one of those movies that still appeals to younger movie goers.

Production knew it was going to be a big hit: “You knew it was special,” the 76-year-old actor tells PEOPLE of working on the movie. “You don’t know that it’s 35 years special. You know that it was a terrific script. Meg and I had a fantastic chemistry together.” He also praises the late Carrie Fisher and Bruno Kirby, who played the movie’s secondary couple, Marie and Jess, as “great.”

Filming was a great experience: “All you can control is the experience. And it was a great script, phenomenal director, great director of photography, Barry Sonnenfeld, who later became a terrific director himself. It came at a perfect time for us in our lives, and it just felt good. But you don’t know what’s good until you see it all put together.”

The reaction to the deli scene during the first test screening: “I was sitting in the back with Rob and the movie’s playing amazingly well. And then the deli scene came on and the audience laughed like you can’t believe,” he recalls, referencing the now-iconic line “I’ll have what she’s having,” which was delivered by Reiner’s mom Estelle. “Rob had to add footage on the other side of [the line] because the laugh was so big.”

He still feels the love: The actor is thrilled that “all these years later” there’s still “so much affection” for the film and its title couple. Not only is the movie “so revered,” he says, but “new generations, they love it too.” He says, “It’s not like, ‘Oh, it’s my parents’ movie.’ This still is for everybody. That’s really good.”

He’s also recognized for Monsters Inc: He also says When Harry Met Sally is still the movie he’s recognized most for, though Monsters Inc., in which he played Mike Wazowski, also has vocal fans. “It’s fortunate, I’ve been in movies that there are some moments that stick with people,” he says. “I’m glad that the movies have meant something.”

He donated that famous sweater: Crystal’s Harry is a divorced lawyer with a cynical side that was based in part on Reiner, now 77, while Ryan’s Sally was based in part on Ephron. And both Crystal and Ryan, 62, became autumn style icons, with the You’ve Got Mail star inspiring Meg Ryan Fall, and Harry’s wardrobe beloved for one particularly iconic sweater. Crystal tells PEOPLE he doesn’t know where that cozy, white sweater is now. “I made a donation,” he says. “I believe it was to UCLA’s theater department with tons of clothes for costumes. I have a feeling it’s there.”

[From People]

Before sounds really interesting. Since I’m back on the AppleTV+ train thanks to Shrinking, I’m adding it to my list of shows to watch. I’m going to have some free time once Only Murders in the Building and Agatha All Along end. Billy Crystal really has had one of those all-star Hollywood careers. Much like Tom Hanks, he’s beloved by different generations for different roles, and really, you can’t get much better than that.

Earlier this year, I finally made it to Katz Deli and saw the table where Billy and Meg Ryan sat while filming the famous “I’ll have what she’s having” scene. It was neat to see a part of cinema history in the wild. I know we couldn’t have been the only people in that very packed restaurant to have been there because of the movie because I observed other patrons taking pictures under the sign that marked the table. It really is one of those films that transcends generations, like Casablanca, Mary Poppins, or The Wizard of Oz.

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  1. Boxy Lady says:

    I first watched it as a teenager in the 90s. As I’ve aged, I have rewatched it over and over and I’ve noticed little bits and pieces and layers that I missed before because of my youth and inexperience. It is extremely well written and well acted. I consider it the gold standard for romantic comedies.

    • Mightymolly says:

      Same. I was obsessed with it as a teenager. It is brilliantly written, but a few things haven’t aged well. The scene where Sally’s friends pressure her to get married just to be married. And the scene where it’s established that Harry sleeps around while Sally lives like a nun. I get the movie predates hookup culture, but some of the morality feels more Boomer than GenX.

      • Boxy Lady says:

        @Mightymolly Oh, it’s definitely a Boomer movie, no doubt about it. Somehow, that doesn’t taint my love for it LOL.

      • mightymolly says:

        I still love it too. Those points should be taken in the context of the era, but it was astonishing to me as an adult rewatching it how differently those scenes hit now. In high school and college, I must have watched it 100 times. (And that got me thinking that Seinfeld premiered around the same time, about characters around the same age and lifestyle, but Elaine was written to be just as prolific in her love life as Jerry, and I don’t recall that ever being controversial).

  2. Mtl.Ex.Pat says:

    I loved that movie when it came out and still do. So well written and acted. Watched it again recently and there are so many great lines that stand out – among my favourites – “nine extra floors…” “one day you’ll be singing ‘Surrey With a Fringe on Top’ in front of Ira!”

    • Louisa says:

      Baby fish mouth!

      • Mtl.ex.pat says:

        @Louisa – ah! I was going to include that! “Kiss the baby! Yes sir that’s my baby! Baby fish mouth! Mick Jagger’s baby!”
        And then when Meg Ryan says “baby talk!” & someone else says “what kind of expression is that?!”
        And Billy Crystal says “oh but baby fish mouth is sweeping the nation!”
        Hahaha – I can’t believe how much of this I can remember close to verbatim…

    • Mightymolly says:

      To Harry and Sally, if either of us had found either of you remotely attractive, we wouldn’t be here today. 🤣🤣🤣

    • BQM says:

      For whatever reason I’ll still say “blonde, big t*ts. your basic nightmare.” 😆 Maybe because Carrie just had perfect dry delivery.

  3. yipyip says:

    WHMS, such a cute, fun movie.

  4. Linds says:

    Still one of my favorite movies. I’ll watch it anytime I see it on. My husband and I use a lot of quotes from it – the wagon wheel coffee table, surrey with a fringe on top, on the side…
    I was in high school when it came out, when I watch it now I appreciate how handsome he was in it!

  5. Plums says:

    When Harry Met Sally is one of my go-to, favorite comfort movies, and I was a baby when it came out. It definitely feels more timeless than not. Yeah, there are some parts that feel more dated as time goes on, like Helen keeping her name being a huge hint or Sally and her friends being obsessed with getting married, but overall it’s still timeless and relatable.

  6. Dee says:

    “Mostly dead is slightly alive.” I always go straight to The Princess Bride. “Have fun storming the castle!” with the great Carol Kane.

  7. Monc says:

    One of those ..if I was on an island and could only take a few dvd’s.. this would be one… I use so many of the phrases in my daily life…. “If you don’t grab him someone else will and you can spend the rest of your life knowing someone else is married to your man..” something to that effect… I use it when I go shopping .. better buy it because someone will be walking around with your purse..” yup that’s my logic .. and other gems …
    Best
    Movie
    !!!

  8. MaisiesMom says:

    Looking at that picture of them together from the era the film was released makes we want to go back to my “big hair” lol. Maybe I’ll get bangs and embrace my curls again. Meg Ryan looks soooo pretty. And Billy is a treasure.

    The funniest line in that movie, to me, isn’t in the diner scene. It’s when Sally tells Harry that she had great sex with an ex BF named Sheldon Something, and Harry says it’s impossible to have great sex with a guy named Sheldon: “I want you now, Sheldon! Ride me, Sheldon!” Perfect comic delivery. I died laughing.

    • Kismet says:

      Yes! Curly hair is a gift to be celebrated!!

      And true story: my parents had a party for their 25th anniversary – and they catered it with food from Katz’s!! We all had what they were having, lol.😝

  9. Cali says:

    I saw that movie when it first came out and the different clothes and hair and makeup particularly on Meg Ryan was so funny. Because I was old enough to have lived through those trends.
    For people seeing it for the first time the film is still hysterical. But for the visuals to really hit, you kind of have to have lived through those different fashion eras. They were so precise and accurate with what they were depicting. And that made a funny movie even greater.

  10. Granger says:

    Love this movie. But I’ve never thought the diner scene rang true. Sally is this rather proper, kind of stuck-up, and slightly timid person who suddenly has the confidence to fake a loud orgasm in the middle of a hugely crowded restaurant? Ridiculous!

  11. Sue says:

    “I asked her where she was when Kennedy was shot. She said, “Ted Kennedy was shot?”
    “No.”
    I always watch When Harry Met Sally on flights. I’m terrified of flying and this is my go-to comfort movie.
    It’s also my favorite Carrie Fisher movie! “You’re right. You’re right. I know you’re right!”

    • Mightymolly says:

      It’s your, gulp, favorite Carrie Fisher film? She’s hilarious in this but like she saves the friggin galaxy from tyranny in that lesser known film. 👀

      TBH I’m only saying that because she was my childhood hero long before WHMS. (Well, not that long before because I was pretty young when I first WHMS, but long in childhood memory time).

    • Mtl.ex.pat says:

      @sue – I referenced that earlier too – “NO ONE thinks he’s ever going to leave her!”
      “You’re right you’re right I know you’re right” – hahahaha

  12. Merrie says:

    This is one of my go-to comfort movies. I love everything about it, from the female and male friendships (Sally and Marie, and Harry and Jess) to Harry and Sally being the friends they needed at the right time. My best friend throughout high school and college was a guy and we never became a couple, but I think the theory that men and women can never be friends holds because the people we dated during that time didn’t get our friendship. Distance and different paths meant we eventually grew apart, but I remember our conversations fondly.

    If WHMS happened today, they would text while watching Casablanca. 🙂

  13. yipyip says:

    Best line…
    Carrie says to Bruno, after they are engaged and she comments
    “Promise me, I will never need to go back out there. Promise me, I will never have to date again. Promise!”

    That line got a huge laugh in the theater, isn’t wasn’t so much that we felt a terrific need to be married. But a lot of us in the time were just so fed up with dating. Felt like a never ending waste of first and second dates who we usually had nothing in common with.

    As Charlotte said in SaTC, “I’ve been dating since I was 15. WHERE is he?”