Gwyneth Paltrow’s Vanity Fair cover interview was massive. As I said in my coverage, it gave me such nostalgia for those old-school interviews where actual movie stars actually gossiped and talked about real stuff. All of which to say, Gwyneth talked about so many different topics, it was difficult to cull through the interview to get all of the good parts. I wanted to highlight what Gwyneth said about the Duchess of Sussex especially, and that was definitely one of the biggest headlines from the interview. But Gwyneth was also asked about that blind item which circulated last year about a guest at one of her homes – I wrongly thought this happened at Gwyneth’s Hamptons home, but apparently the original incident allegedly went down at Gwyneth’s Montecito home. The guest apparently had “Ozempic-induced diarrhea” and absolutely ruined Gwyneth’s guest room, then the guest left without saying anything and it was a big to-do in A-list gossip circles. Well, VF mentioned the story and this is how Gwyneth reacted:
As a host here, Paltrow is boundaried. A friend gifted her with a cheeky pillow embroidered with her well-known dinner party policy: “Please Leave By 9.” After a 6:00 or 6:30 p.m. start, she says guests will be “enthralled” in conversation before realizing, “Oh my God, hurry, it’s 8:49! We’ve got to get to the end of this.” I broach a piece of gossip that somehow became very public, when a socialite houseguest supposedly soiled a room in one of her properties, possibly the one in which we sit. “I understand,” a pained Paltrow says, “and I also, like, am just not going to…” she trails off with an existential cringe, saying nothing more but, I note, not leaping to denying it.
Given how openly she discussed everything from intimacy coordinators to exes, it feels notable that she just cringes and refuses to say anything about the story. So… a confirmation that it happened? A confirmation that something happened, surely. It’s also notable that no one has rushed in to defend Derek Blasberg in the past ten months – his name was “confirmed” by various outlets as the guest-room-sh-tter. Given Blasberg’s many A-list connections, it’s weird that this story was just allowed to sit out there for months and months, without anyone stepping in to dispute it or stand up for him in any way.
As I was looking into this to see if there was anything I missed, I saw this DeuxMoi story from last August, in which their sources confirmed that it was Blasberg but: “While some sources were quick to point fingers at trendy weight-loss meds, our sources say that wasn’t the culprit. The bigger issue seems to be Derek’s alleged attempt to either pay off the cleaning staff or just expect them to silently clean up the mess. Needless to say, Gwyneth was not amused.” Their sources also say that Gwyneth was willing to forgive and forget, but Blasberg did some other things she didn’t appreciate (like putting her daughter Apple all over his socials) and so the friendship is basically over.
Photos courtesy of Cover Images, cover courtesy of VF.
- Kering Foundation 2nd Annual Caring For Women Event Featuring: Derek Blasberg Where: New York, New York, United States When: 13 Sep 2023 Credit: Janet Mayer/startraksphoto.com
- Celebrities attend the Red Sea International Film Festival – Closing Ceremony Featuring: Gwyneth Paltrow Where: Jeddah, Saudi Arabia When: 07 Dec 2023 Credit: Abaca Press/INSTARimages **NORTH AMERICA RIGHTS ONLY**
- Celebrities arriving at Giorgio Armani Prive show during Paris Fashion Week Haute Couture in Paris, France Featuring: Gwyneth Paltrow Where: Paris, France When: 23 Jan 2024 Credit: Abaca Press/INSTARimages **NORTH AMERICA RIGHTS ONLY**
- Celebrities arriving at the Vanity Fair Oscar Party, Wallis Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts Featuring: Derek Blasberg Where: Beverly Hills, California, United States When: 10 Mar 2024 **NOT FOR PUBLICATION IN GERMANY**
- Arrivals at the inauguration of the Swarovski Masters of Light From Vienna to Milan exhibition at Palazzo Citterio. Featuring: Gwyneth Paltrow Where: Milan, Italy When: 16 Jun 2024 Credit: IPA/INSTARimages **UK, USA AND AUSTRALIA RIGHTS ONLY**
Eww.. what a shitty story. Just gross.
He’s always been a professional Hanger On, so it doesn’t surprise me that no one has defended him. Social media make him powerful enough that you can’t totally bury him, but in the real Hollywood circles, it’s enough to make him persona non grata in the ways that matter.
Trying to imagine Truman Capote doing this in Lee Radziwill’s bedroom.🤪🤪🤪
Wait. You make a mess, you clean it up. Or flipping try to the best of your ability. You also address it with your host. Yes it’s horribly embarrassing especially as your host doesn’t poop but what else can you do? Then you send flowers and an enormous tip for the cleaning team with a short note of apology and of gratitude. As well as replace anything that was ruined beyond repair. Like a decent human being.
But him putting Apple on his socials is way way more problematic. Our kids grandparents know not to post a single picture of our kids online. Friends ask if our child happens to be in a shot of their child before they text it out to family. Usually our group just puts heart emojis over any other faces of kiddos not their own. And this is based on what my kids are comfortable with. Before grandma got how serious we were about it, they used to turn their heads or close their eyes purposely when she tried to take a picture. They just don’t want their images out there and we respect that.
Yeah I think its the fact that he didn’t even address it with the host and tried to be sneaky about it from what I can tell. And if he didn’t ask for permission to have Apple on his socials, then yeah, that’s shitty.
I don’t really care about the poop story. I’m just over here rolling my eyes at Gwyneth saying her guests are so “enthralled” in conversation for hours before realizing that they will have to leave her presence by 9:00.
Never change, Goop!
lol! I actually took it to mean that her guests were enthralled in conversation with each other…I could see Gwyneth bringing interesting people together.
Stomach issues happen to everyone- hopefully not often. But if you can’t clean up after yourself, and you made a mess, you pull the hostess aside and apologize profusely. If you’re rich, you offer to pay for cleaning.
It is basic common courtesy.
Accidents happen. If you vomit or poop on the floor, you need to notify the host or staff. Hygiene and safety are important. If Blasberg had the dreaded norovirus, the entire staff of that house would have fallen ill.