Before Sandra Bullock made her adorable surprising reveal on the cover of People last week, the big buzz was over this week’s upcoming issue in which a “celebrity” was going to come out on the cover. Past celebrities who have come out in People include Neil Patrick Harris, Lance Bass, and Clay Aiken. A lot of us assumed that the big reveal would be someone that we’ve suspected is gay, but who has been tight lipped about it up until now – like Queen Latifah. She has a new movie coming out, Just Wright, next week, so the timing would be good for her publicity-wise.
Only it turns out that the “celebrity” is someone most of us have never heard of, and it sounds like she’s doing this purely for publicity and not to clear the air. It’s a country singer named Chely Wright. While this is surely a big deal to Wright, and is supposedly some kind of first in country music, it doesn’t really seem to warrant the cover of People. Maybe they should have held over their “Most Beautiful” issue until this week and let Wright give her news inside the magazine, not on the front. We’ll see if it sells for them. Queerty has this news, and while they’re not 100% certain that Wright will grace the cover of People, they sound pretty sure:
It’s definitely not Oprah or Kevin Spacey. It’s almost certainly not Queen Latifah or Tyler Perry. And it’s likely not even Matt Bomer or Kelly Clarkson. And while the current favorite for May 5’s big celebrity coming out points to country singer Shelby Lynne, we’ve got a more informed entry: Chely Wright, the 39-year-old American County Music Award winner.
Why Wright? Our curiosity piqued when a source at People magazine — which has secured an interview and spread with the person — wrote us a one-line email: “Have you considered it might be Chely Wright?” We hadn’t! So we started doing some digging. (A Queerty commenter, while we were working on this item, even floated Wright’s name in our earlier post.)
As it turns out, Wright, who’s been absent from the industry for a half decade, has a new album and memoir coming out (hah!) May 4. The day before her planned big reveal. The book is titled Like Me: Confessions of a Heartland Country Singer. The album is titled Lifted Off The Ground. And both should see a huge spike in sales with the buzz of a coming out.Wright, who was named in 2001 to People’s “Most Beautiful” list, has much to gain from coming out. Namely, financial gains. Her first major studio record debuted in 1994. She’s released six records since. Only one album, Single White Female in 1999, went gold; its self-titled single, hit No. 1 on the country charts. She’s never repeated that success. So here comes her seventh effort at hitting it big: Vanguard Records releases Lifted Off The Ground on Tuesday, and the publisher Pantheon releases Like Me the same day. Amazon.com describes the book as “a book of revelation: honest, inspiring and true.” Indeed!
(NB: What about Shelby Lynne’s publicist’s remarks? Lynne’s publicist issued standard neither-confirm-nor-deny statements to Gawker about whether that country singer was going to be in (or on) People in the next issue. Such non-committal remarks can often be interpreted as confirmations. But if Wright is May 5’s coming out, that doesn’t mean Lynne isn’t gay, nor does it mean Lynne’s rep lied.)
So on the one hand, it’s not some A-list celebrity that’s coming out and changing the world. On the other hand, at least it’s not an “obvious” celeb like Johnny Weir, who is out in all but name only.
Meanwhile, a search to find anyone who Wright has dated publicly turns up empty. Even the website WhosDatedWho.com, which often marks two people as having dated if they were merely once spotted together in public, turns up empty on Wright. The closest she’s gotten to, ahem, marriage? A duet she co-wrote with Brad Paisley called “Hard to Be a Husband, Hard to Be a Wife.” And interestingly, there is no “Personal Life” section on her Wikipedia entry, suggesting it may be constantly scrubbed.
[From Queerty]
Maybe there’s no “personal” section for Wright in Wikipedia because no one cares! I don’t mean to be so rude, but let’s be honest – how many of you have ever heard of this person? A commenter on Queerty notes that they love country music and have two of Wright’s CDs, but says that it’s kind of suspicious that she’s getting the cover of People. “I can say that even at the height of her success – with back to back hits ‘Single White Female’ and ‘It Was’ (one of my all-time favorite country songs) – Chely was never a major celebrity. More than ten years after the fact, I seriously doubt she would warrant the cover of People magazine just because she was coming out.” Let’s judge this against People’s other covers, though. If Heidi Montag can be on the cover for 10 plastic surgery procedures in one day and Kate Gosselin can earn a cover with her cheap-looking weave, then this woman we’ve never heard of can bolster her career with a more compelling personal story.
While I was researching this story, I came across this editorial in Entertainment Weekly from 2006 with guidelines for celebrities coming out. Writer Mark Harris examines the strategies that celebrities have used to reveal their orientation and concludes that it “may be a model for maintaining one’s career and credibility while revealing homophobia for what it is.” It shouldn’t be “the most interesting thing about you” though, Harris explains, and uses the examples of T.R. Knight and Neil Patrick Harris already having well established careers before revealing the news. Have we reached the point where coming out is being used as a publicity ploy and not as a means to help spread awareness and acceptance? Does it matter when plastic surgery, multiple births, and personal tragedy have already been exploited by countless people to the point that nothing really shocks or interests us anymore? Can you tell it’s Monday?
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I read this last night on TMZ, and thought the exact same thing: who is this woman?
I have one of her albums. She’s an awesome singer but she’s more traditional and not the pop country that gets all the radio air play. It’s been the big issue in country music that they only play the pop country except for a few singers like George Strait, Alan Jackson and Brad Paisley. So if Country Music wasn’t so one sided she would have become a much bigger name in Country Music. But anyone that doesn’t do the pop country route is abandoned by the industry.
Before being rude, you should listen to some of her songs. Despite the fact you probably hate traditional country you will realize she has an awesome voice that’s 100 times stronger than Madonna, Britney, and most definitely Taylor Swift….that get all the attention in the pop community.
huh. I thought for sure it was Quinto. Uh, really? As a country music fan, this (like Kenny Chesney supposedly being gay) has been around for a while. I hope this blows over. Its hard to say good for her when she’s just using it as publicity, not so she can live her life freely.
but what is interesting, is that supposedly there is another, bigger star that wanted her to wait so that they could come out this week. anyone know who that is?
Zzzzzzzzzz.Yawn. It was more interesting when Clay Aiken, who everyone except my grandmother knew was gay, came out. Next please.
Apparently she’s been working on her book, “Like Me” fo several years. Given the fact who her target audience is, this is actually a gutsy move.
Don’t forget NPH didn’t come out until Perez Hilton forced his hand. The others mentioned really didn’thave “careers” left to jeprodize.
I have loved her music for about 10-15 years, but I had no idea she was gay. There’s not been an indication or rumor. However, while she’s not a Taylor Swift/Shania Twain/ Faith Hill caliber, she does have name recognition within her industry.
And before anyone criticized me, I place Taylor Swift in the Shania/Faith/Reba based on current name recognition only, not body of work or long-time status.
Yeah. This is pretty well know fact around Nashville.
I live in the country and I listen to country music, I am not anti-gay, but I really don’t care for the controversy that will ensue from this. I know for sure that “country” people are not bigoted about gays as they are portrayed. She’ll be a hero and a martyr in the press, but I don’t think real people will really care that much. Can we all move on now?
This has nothing to do with the person I’ve never heard of, but since Taylor has come up –
Can any of the country music fans explain why Taylor Swift is considered country? I’ve been curious about that for a long time. I can’t tell what makes her songs different from the usual stuff on the pop stations. Actually, our pop stations play her, too. What puts her in the country category? Thanks for any answers on this one.
Susette, that is the nature of country music and has been for years. They want the cookie-cutter bubblegum pop music that pretends to be considered country on their radio play and in the industry. The big thing is like Faith Hill and the Dixie Chicks they start out with the traditional country until they get their trust and then they do a complete about-face and knock down and criticize country music by saying they are going to do “what they really want to do” which is the bubblegum pop. Then those that are upset are are criticized for being unfair. Taylor at least never pretended to be anything other than bubblegum pop, but she still fits that mold the country industry wants to push.
Chely never compromised herself and her traditional country style and that is why she is nowhere near the recognition she deserves.
CW looks so much like Kate Jackson! and she has a really nice voice.
Why does anyones sexual preference have to be an announcement? TMI
I believe a person’s personal life should be just that – personal!
Bonnie, thanks! I had been wondering about that since I first heard her. It’s nice to know it’s not my imagination…or my hearing. 🙂
I never heard of her before, either, CB. I agree this story does not appear to warrant the cover of People, but then they have a lot of cover stories (like the ones you mentioned) that in my opinion, are not cover-worthy.
Now more people will definitely know who Wright is. No doubt that’s the whole idea.
I have no idea who this woman is.
I applaud people for living their truth, but why the need to announce it on a People Magazine cover?
The fact that she has a book and a CD coming out tells me that she’s just doing it for the publicity as apposed to an altruistic reason (e.g. being a role model/inspiration to others).
I know the speculation was that it was going to be Queen Latifah, but I didn’t think it would be her.
She has a new romcom out in a few weeks (Just Wright) where she is playing the love interest of Common. There is no way that she would come out and potentially risk the box office of the movie by killing the audience’s belief in them as a couple, IMHO.
I happen to know who she is and she has a wonderful voice–her music is good too. My personal favorites of hers are “I Already Do”, and “Shut Up and Drive”. Maybe YOU don’t know who she is, but don’t make that assumption for the rest of us!
Well, I don’t know who she is, I’m not a country fan, but if she’s confident in herself and wants to make this aspect of her personal life public, good for her for having the courage to do so.
If it’s done for PR for a book or something, that’s a little odd, but nothing new for celebs.
I have no idea who she was either. I’m wondering – since posters above say that she is more of a “traditional country artist” how her core base of fans will handle the news? I’m thinking there will be more than a few who won’t like the news….basing this on the values and image that most of these artists are trying to project through their music. I could be totally off base here but just my opinion.
whoever she is, I’m over it baby!
So basically Howard Bragman ensured that a lot more people will cover this announcement by leaking about a celeb coming out. Would a lot of people have cared if it had just been the People cover, if it’s even the cover? I don’t think so. Instead he stirred the internet into a blind item frenzy, there was tons of heated speculation, and now all the blogs have to cover who it is to close the loop. Sure, most people don’t know who Chely Wright is and don’t care. But she’s definitely getting more coverage this way.
@Bonnie The Dixie Chicks actually did a great roots country album with Home and that was the last album they did before country radio torched them over Natalie Maines’ comment about being ashamed GHW Bush was from Texas. Their next album was FAR from bubblegum pop. I agree it wasn’t country, it was more Eagles. But then again the songs would fit country radio just fine these days.
@Susette Taylor Swift is just “country” for marketing purposes. There is such a thing as country pop that some acts that aren’t traditional but are still country do but Taylor’s pure pop.
I have to respectfully disagree with this article, because this is a pretty big deal. In the country music industry, how many country music artists can you count who are openly gay? I don’t know of any. Although I want to be PC and assume country music fans are enlightened and open-minded, because of my geographical location (which shall remain unnamed, lest I step on the land mine of making regional assumptions too) I can say first-hand that not all of them are, and generally speaking, they do tend to be more traditional than most (note that I said “tend to” – before you hate on me). Women are expected to fit the mold of pretty, polite beauty queens and woe be to those who don’t follow along. In my opinion the choice of Ms. Wright in announcing her sexual orientation is admirable and takes guts in her industry. It is probably not going to sit well with her country-roots fans – but will probably buy her a whole bunch of new ones. I applaud her and wish her well – but it won’t make me buy her book; instead I’ll be watching the news to see how bad the fan backlash is. Maybe the fans will prove me wrong.
@flutters – completely agree on the last Dixie Chicks album – it was far from bubblegum. I’m glad you said it, before I could – well spoken.
She’s hot. Waste of talent now, though. Next.
I actually have Taylor’s CDs-the versions that hit radio play are often modified from the original record, given a pop-facelift, per se. Some of her songs (Another picture to burn) are decidedly country. Love Story sounded more country on country stations, more pop on popular stations. Same with many of her other songs.
But she’s still definitely a crossover, not just country.
everyone in hollywood exploits everything personal about themselves and others in their lives; on the covers of magazines, in reality t.v., etc. this is a surprise? why so critical of this?
p.s. i don’t find it shocking when someone reveals themself as homosexual…maybe surprised if my perception of them had been that they were heterosexual. but i certainly would not say that news of multiple births and plastic surgeries has “desensitized” me to the news of someone coming out as homosexual…the idea is so ridiculous to me.
This is annoying. All this hype and speculation and excitement over who this mystery person could be, and it’s nobody. They might as well have run off to San Francisco, picked some random person off the street, and given them the very same cover. Just about as many people would know who it was.
If this is a big deal to country fans, then they need to pull their ideals out of the 50s when homosexuality was a mental illness. It shouldn’t be a shock that ANYONE can be gay, even a country singer.
“Shut Up and Drive” is a fantastic song and one of my circle of friend’s favorite “just DUMP him already” tunes.
She’s got a gorgeous voice. Watch Shut up and Drive. Can’t help but love her.
”First”contry singer to come out??
K.D. Lang anyone…anyone??
She was out before it was ”cool” or the ”in” thing to do.I frankly dont give a rats a** about anyone who comes out these days.It’s not gutsy or great courage to come out anymore.You have Ru Paul with a tv show called Drag Race and you have Johnny Weir….well…being Johnny Weir.So it’s all out there!!!I would be more shocked if a ”celebrity” came out to say they were fans of Kei$ha then being gay.
flutters: Long before the 9/11 attacks and the GWB comments, the Dixie Chicks made it quite clear that the industry that made them famous and won them awards and platinum albums was not the industry or the type of music they were interested in being in or making and that their “new” album was the kind of music they wanted to do all along. Then after the 9/11 attacks they complained that country radio wouldn’t play them? Excuse me but if you are going to bash the industry that made you famous because suits made you play music you didn’t want to play and now you want to be controversial and play the music you wanted to play along and say so to your fans and the radio stations that had played you….then complain that now they won’t? This goes with Faith Hill and the others who have done this exact same thing. There’s a bigger history with the Dixie Chicks then radio just dumping them after the GWB attack. They had attacked country radio and country music long before that ever happened. They just never mention that part because it doesn’t serve their “woe is me” pity parties.
I’ve heard their music afterwards and personally I don’t think it belong in country. But that’s just me.
I really hope Chely isn’t on the cover. It would really suck to go from Sandra with baby to a story that nobody cares about. Country music fans don’t care. When this topic came up on my local country stations most were more shocked that she may have a cover not about being gay. A lot of people didn’t know who she is. Those who did didn’t care because she wasn’t relevent today. She wasn’t even big at her peak about ten years ago so I’m baffled why People thought it was cover-worthy.
I have to agree about K.D. Lange. Plus she did it in the late ’80’s or early ’90’s when coming out ended careers. Now it’s done as a publicity stunt.
I guess it is the ‘in’ thing to be gay. Everyone wants to be gay, know someone who is gay or the ultimate know a gay family (ohhhhssss and ahhhhssss). This is 2010, who cares!! Yes, gay people are cool.. but why is this news??
She’s pretty, but I have no idea who she is. I don’t care either :-\.
@Bonnie Your timeline’s screwed up. The Dixie Chicks were indeed very critical of country radio and they did classify Home as the kind of album they wished to make. That’s why they led the release of their album Home, which came out August 27 2002 (AFTER 9/11) with a song called Long Time Gone written by Darrell Scott, a seething critique of the lack of country on country radio. Straight up roots country and it peaked at #2 on the country charts. Eventually, they would release the terrific and heartbreaking Travelin Soldier, written by Bruce Robison, which they turned into a gorgeous and moving banjo and fiddle driven country weeper and one of the best songs of all time in any genre. It was #1 on country radio when Natalie Maines made her comments about GWB. Then the boycotts, the death threats, and the CD burning parties started, and the bottom fell out from under that song.
Some of Home may be classified country pop but songs like Long Time Gone, Travelin Soldier, Truth No. 2, White Trash Wedding, and Lil Jack Slade are straight up country by any definition.
Subsequent to “The Incident,” the Dixie Chicks recorded Taking The Long Way, and that’s the album where they moved away from the roots country sound into something more Eagles-like and more polished and produced. Even still calling an album that deals with, yes, “The Incident” but also topics like coping with infertility, having a beloved relative with Alzheimer’s disease, giving up a baby for adoption because one was too young to have a baby, is anything but bubblegum.
I do know who she is b/c I have 2 of her cds. She’s had some pretty good songs but unless you are a big country music fan, you have probably never heard of her. Also she hasn’t put out anything in years. That being said, I don’t think there will be a as big to do about this as it would’ve been had the person coming out been a male in country music. I mean K D Lang was country and she’s out isn’t she or that’s what I’ve always heard anyways.
There has never been a male country music singer come out that I know about.
Anyways it was kinda a suprise b/c she is a more traditional singer and frankly b/c I haven’t heard anything about her in so long, but that is the industry of country music. For the most part the same artists and the same songs get more air play then certain other traditional artists to me. I am more of a traditional country music fan. I guess it’s the time I grew up in and the parents I grew up with. I spent many years at my grandparents home and today’s country music would not be considered country to them by no means. Some country music fans will be more opened minded about it than you think but some won’t. She will probably get support from fellow country music artists. Then again, you never know, look at how the Dixie Chicks were treated by some fellow country music singers for practicing free speech.
There are people on the cover of People Magazine ALL the time who I don’t know, but I don’t get judgemental because I don’t know them. ALOT of people DO know who Chely Wright is, ALOT of people have been fans of hers for a very long time. But yeah, since YOU don’t know who she is then she shouldn’t be on the cover of a magazine. OK.
I also don’t know how anyone could say it’s not gutsy or courageous to come out anymore. Gay men and women are still being killed, beaten, raped and ostracized for their orientation, and there’s a very real possibility of being ruined professionally, especially in a traditionally conservative genre. Pat yourselves on the back that YOU are open minded enough to not care if Wright is gay, but there are a hell of alot of people who WILL. I talked to four of them today, all huge country music fans.
I agree with L. Most, if not all of celebs exploit their personal lives and frankly I don’t really care what they do in their bedroom. How is that affecting my life?
When I heard it was Chely Wright – I knew who it was but I’m in Oklahoma. Chely’s music has always been more traditional as others have said. She’s well known on Music Row and in country music.
As for the publicity – um she IS a celebrity. And she took her time to come out in a way that she could be an advocate. That’s why she worked with GLSEN. The book answers a lot of the questions many of her fans will have and if you haven’t read it – do so. You won’t regret it.